What in the fuck are you talking about?

[QUOTE=NCTransplant;5251468]We all make mistakes. I have made more than my share. Try to learn and move on.[/QUOTE]Amen to that. I am just Thankful that I am the only one who knows about some of my bigger mistakes. . . But for the grace of God. . .

I think this topic was beaten to death quite a few day ago, let's move on. However, I must say that there have been some very interesting posts that make me realize how lucky I have been in this hobby. I do genuinely feel for some of the members that have shared what must have been some very painful experiences. But, I guess that is what the board is for. . . To learn from each other and not repeat someone else's mistakes. Keep that in mind.

Gator.

[QUOTE=Titlicka;5262260]Macho why don't you ever post anything about experiences with providers? You always show up to attack, disparage and give negativity. Then you send these nosey pms wanting deep details on reports on service providers??[/QUOTE]Careful he may call for back up.

So. I'm definitely on the side of criticizing this dude for his actions and what not, but he hasn't posted in like a week. For a guy that I don't think went more than 8 hours without adding some sort of comment in the last year that's a bit strange. I hope nothing serious happened and he's just taking some time off to collect himself or get help.

[QUOTE=AugustaRolla;5262596]Careful he may call for back up.[/QUOTE]I sent the details about how Bookwood guy found out. He was interpreter in Iraq with brother's unit and that's how I found out.

[QUOTE=CuriousGeor;5262764]So. I'm definitely on the side of criticizing this dude for his actions and what not, but he hasn't posted in like a week. For a guy that I don't think went more than 8 hours without adding some sort of comment in the last year that's a bit strange. I hope nothing serious happened and he's just taking some time off to collect himself or get help.[/QUOTE]Right now I am feeling down and defeated knowing that I will never see the most beautiful lady in Charlotte again. A lot of my comments are made tongue in cheek but I am 100% serious about this. Right now, I'm waiting for her 2 protectors or home boys to try to take me out. If they succeed, I know that I will never be found. I still appreciate you being concerned for my well being.

As long as the admin and mods allow it, the members need to continue bashing me for my ignorance and stupidity. However, there are 2 certain senior members that I strongly suggest keep their comments to their selves.

[QUOTE=FunderJ;5263115]Right now, I'm waiting for her 2 protectors or home boys to try to take me out. If they succeed, I know that I will never be found.[/QUOTE]Leave her alone and the will not have a reason to mess with you.

[QUOTE=FunderJ;5263115]Right now, I'm waiting for her 2 protectors or home boys to try to take me out. If they succeed, I know that I will never be found. I still appreciate you being concerned for my well being.[/QUOTE]Dude, you said they were chumps. And if that wasn't true and you really are concerned, call the cops / get a protection order.

#circleoflife.

[QUOTE=FunderJ;5263115]Right now I am feeling down and defeated knowing that I will never see the most beautiful lady in Charlotte again. A lot of my comments are made tongue in cheek but I am 100% serious about this. Right now, I'm waiting for her 2 protectors or home boys to try to take me out. If they succeed, I know that I will never be found. I still appreciate you being concerned for my well being.

As long as the admin and mods allow it, the members need to continue bashing me for my ignorance and stupidity. However, there are 2 certain senior members that I strongly suggest keep their comments to their selves.[/QUOTE]Dude, the upside is that you didn't make any mistakes serious enough to cost you your freedom or anything. Right now you're in your feelings right, which I understand, but you can recover. Find a good psych person to talk to, I'd recommend a male one just given the subject and hobby, and they'll help you build a toolkit and systems to get past those feelings and help you get focused. Remember they are bound by Dr. Patient confidentiality so it's not like they going to call Uncle on ya or some shit.

[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5250832]My point as well that a temporary injunction can be issued by a judge on hearsay / petitioner's story alone. If granted, then you go to court. Not sure how these White Knights are conflating that anyone is defending the poster's actions that kicked this entire thing off.

But a quick post search history of some of these guys will show words like "****", "skanks", etc. Such gentlemen would never disparage these fine ladies. The hypocrisy is strong with some.[/QUOTE]I take it you can represent FunderJ? I know you are flooding the board with legal insight. This exhibition of legal experience cannot be wasted. I call upon you to help this monger in his hour of need. I believe you when you say this lady trumped this case up. Now go and deploy your vast skills to right this wrong.

[QUOTE=FunderJ;5263115]Right now I am feeling down and defeated knowing that I will never see the most beautiful lady in Charlotte again. A lot of my comments are made tongue in cheek but I am 100% serious about this. Right now, I'm waiting for her 2 protectors or home boys to try to take me out. If they succeed, I know that I will never be found. I still appreciate you being concerned for my well being.

As long as the admin and mods allow it, the members need to continue bashing me for my ignorance and stupidity. However, there are 2 certain senior members that I strongly suggest keep their comments to their selves.[/QUOTE]I'm going to echo Jack on this one; falling in love happens. Falling in love with a hooker even happens once in a while. Stalking and obsessing after she tells you to stay away is a problem though. I would really suggest you go find a qualified therapist to talk to a bit. There's nothing wrong with getting some help with setting your brain straight.

I'm getting free and good advice on this board. There is no use for me to pay a therapist to tell me what all of you have been telling me to do. Basically I just need to suck it up and man up. I'm not the only man that's acted foolish because of a woman and I certainly won't be the last.

[QUOTE=CuriousGeor;5264504]I'm going to echo Jack on this one; falling in love happens. Falling in love with a hooker even happens once in a while. Stalking and obsessing after she tells you to stay away is a problem though. I would really suggest you go find a qualified therapist to talk to a bit. There's nothing wrong with getting some help with setting your brain straight.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JackStamina;5264246]Dude, the upside is that you didn't make any mistakes serious enough to cost you your freedom or anything. Right now you're in your feelings right, which I understand, but you can recover. Find a good psych person to talk to, I'd recommend a male one just given the subject and hobby, and they'll help you build a toolkit and systems to get past those feelings and help you get focused. Remember they are bound by Dr. Patient confidentiality so it's not like they going to call Uncle on ya or some shit.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5263727]Dude, you said they were chumps. And if that wasn't true and you really are concerned, call the cops / get a protection order.

#circleoflife.[/QUOTE]That's true, 2 of them are weak chumps. As I said last week, I'm more terrified of the Chihuahuas. But enough of them together could snatch me up and throw me off the South 485 overpass.

Lets be honest. Funder's posts alone are enough for any sane person to seek out a restraining order. The mentality he openly shares on here is dangerous and honestly he should stop seeing providers if he can't respect boundaries. This isn't bashing or anything else, its just being honest. When you're openly saying that you ignore boundaries, ignored "no's", and are attempting to ignore orders to stay away from someone you've entered into the category of being a predator. Absolutely nothing about this is "normal" lol

Lines have been crossed and nobody should be defending anything that he's talking about. 1 incident from a situation like that is enough to cause a big crackdown and headlines.

Looks like there's a pound of therapeutic and legal advice here. I'm not sure what topics are supposed to be covered? I feel bad for Fundercat but I'd like to move onto a mongering related talk. I know if I get in a bind I'm going to pm all the therapists and lawyers here! (Not!

That said, I've noticed a lot more LEO activity at the hotels lately. I suppose it has to do with the Atl massacre unless you know about it more. I went to a hotel near the airport last night and saw at least 5 units circling. I left. Would like to know if something is going on.

[QUOTE=Titlicka;5262260]Macho why don't you ever post anything about experiences with providers? You always show up to attack, disparage and give negativity. Then you send these nosey pms wanting deep details on reports on service providers??[/QUOTE]Macho is Manny enough to defend hisself but he has posted about his good experience with Ginger. He has recommended her several times.