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Anybody dream with her? I get paid every two weeks. I plan on seeing her.[/QUOTE]please let me know how this one goes she caught my eye saving up funds I get paid this week as well LOL ballin on a budget
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[QUOTE=SC1975;1502144]Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]First come, first serve. New guy better start droppin some coin before getting any feelings of 'monogamy'. He'll put two and two together. Eventually.
[QUOTE=Gruglok;1502303]First come, first serve. New guy better start droppin some coin before getting any feelings of 'monogamy'. He'll put two and two together. Eventually.[/QUOTE]Yeah, he has a house of his own, and her new apartment (pending) is not even 5 minutes away from him.
[QUOTE=SC1975;1502441]Yeah, he has a house of his own, and her new apartment (pending) is not even 5 minutes away from him.[/QUOTE]One, I' jealous / envious you have that kind of money and you're living my dream. Two, discretion can extend this arrangement through your friend's transition to boring conformity. Would start looking for a contingency immediately.
Just my Dr. Phil.
INN
Time to trade her in for a newer model.
JC.
[QUOTE=SC1975;1502441]Yeah, he has a house of his own, and her new apartment (pending) is not even 5 minutes away from him.[/QUOTE]
Is be careful. Dude's "in a relationship" with a provider which means he's probably getting led around by his dick. These girls are expert liars so when the shit does hit the fan, and it will, she'll run some game on him about how you controlled her and her do all these horrible things blah blah blah and she had no choice. Next thing you know you got a pumped up Captain-Save-A-Ho up in your face. Voice of experience.
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1502144]So, kinda caught on a tiny issue and I'm wonerding if I'm making the right move. A long time BP provider who I have been seeing for over 7 years has left the business and is starting a new life. She also has started a relationship with someone although its in the early stages and I have met him. Our old arrangement has always been me paying the rent in exchange for a dream once per week, no restrictions. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Currently, she has no job, she just was released from jail serving 30 days on minor charges unrelated to this business and she dropped all of her clients but me. My thing is, her new bf most likely is going to wonder who is paying the rent and eventually he will wonder who coughed up the deposit on her new apartment. She already told him that I have been there for her for many years. He knows I payed for the storage fees, he knows I'm the one who gave the jail money for her, etc. I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him.
Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]
7 years! You might as well get a wife! The glorious thing about this hobby is the variety. Move on my friend, there are plenty of fish in the sea!
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1502144]So, kinda caught on a tiny issue and I'm wonerding if I'm making the right move. A long time BP provider who I have been seeing for over 7 years has left the business and is starting a new life. She also has started a relationship with someone although its in the early stages and I have met him. Our old arrangement has always been me paying the rent in exchange for a dream once per week, no restrictions. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Currently, she has no job, she just was released from jail serving 30 days on minor charges unrelated to this business and she dropped all of her clients but me. My thing is, her new bf most likely is going to wonder who is paying the rent and eventually he will wonder who coughed up the deposit on her new apartment. She already told him that I have been there for her for many years. He knows I payed for the storage fees, he knows I'm the one who gave the jail money for her, etc. I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him.
Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1502144]So, kinda caught on a tiny issue and I'm wonerding if I'm making the right move. A long time BP provider who I have been seeing for over 7 years has left the business and is starting a new life. She also has started a relationship with someone although its in the early stages and I have met him. Our old arrangement has always been me paying the rent in exchange for a dream once per week, no restrictions. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Currently, she has no job, she just was released from jail serving 30 days on minor charges unrelated to this business and she dropped all of her clients but me. My thing is, her new bf most likely is going to wonder who is paying the rent and eventually he will wonder who coughed up the deposit on her new apartment. She already told him that I have been there for her for many years. He knows I payed for the storage fees, he knows I'm the one who gave the jail money for her, etc. I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him.
Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]Time to start planning your exit strategy.
This story usually ends badly so I would bail and fast.
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1502144]So, kinda caught on a tiny issue and I'm wonerding if I'm making the right move. A long time BP provider who I have been seeing for over 7 years has left the business and is starting a new life. She also has started a relationship with someone although its in the early stages and I have met him. Our old arrangement has always been me paying the rent in exchange for a dream once per week, no restrictions. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Currently, she has no job, she just was released from jail serving 30 days on minor charges unrelated to this business and she dropped all of her clients but me. My thing is, her new bf most likely is going to wonder who is paying the rent and eventually he will wonder who coughed up the deposit on her new apartment. She already told him that I have been there for her for many years. He knows I payed for the storage fees, he knows I'm the one who gave the jail money for her, etc. I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him.
Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]
You seemed to have invested more than money into this girl but as hard as it may be limit your risk with her and her BF but fading slowly into the background. As for her money situation she is responsibe for that not you and remember you helped her get to the starting line. It seems you are a good guy but there is a point where you either cut it off or maybe go for it and tell her how you feel about her and start a relationship.
Just my 2 cents good luck.
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1502144]So, kinda caught on a tiny issue and I'm wonerding if I'm making the right move. A long time BP provider who I have been seeing for over 7 years has left the business and is starting a new life. She also has started a relationship with someone although its in the early stages and I have met him. Our old arrangement has always been me paying the rent in exchange for a dream once per week, no restrictions. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Currently, she has no job, she just was released from jail serving 30 days on minor charges unrelated to this business and she dropped all of her clients but me. My thing is, her new bf most likely is going to wonder who is paying the rent and eventually he will wonder who coughed up the deposit on her new apartment. She already told him that I have been there for her for many years. He knows I payed for the storage fees, he knows I'm the one who gave the jail money for her, etc. I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him.
Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]
I've been in a situation similar to this and it ended badly with an angry boyfriend showing up at my work where he got beat up by me and taken to jail for trespassing while in jail he claimed I was her pimp and I was nearly arrested myself but managed to get out of it thanks to my lawyer. Stay away from this it will be bad for you it almost always is. My situation was only being with the girl and paying her rent for 3 years is about the only difference.
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1502144]So, kinda caught on a tiny issue and I'm wonerding if I'm making the right move. A long time BP provider who I have been seeing for over 7 years has left the business and is starting a new life. She also has started a relationship with someone although its in the early stages and I have met him. Our old arrangement has always been me paying the rent in exchange for a dream once per week, no restrictions. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Currently, she has no job, she just was released from jail serving 30 days on minor charges unrelated to this business and she dropped all of her clients but me. My thing is, her new bf most likely is going to wonder who is paying the rent and eventually he will wonder who coughed up the deposit on her new apartment. She already told him that I have been there for her for many years. He knows I payed for the storage fees, he knows I'm the one who gave the jail money for her, etc. I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him.
Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1502144]So, kinda caught on a tiny issue and I'm wonerding if I'm making the right move. A long time BP provider who I have been seeing for over 7 years has left the business and is starting a new life. She also has started a relationship with someone although its in the early stages and I have met him. Our old arrangement has always been me paying the rent in exchange for a dream once per week, no restrictions. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Currently, she has no job, she just was released from jail serving 30 days on minor charges unrelated to this business and she dropped all of her clients but me. My thing is, her new bf most likely is going to wonder who is paying the rent and eventually he will wonder who coughed up the deposit on her new apartment. She already told him that I have been there for her for many years. He knows I payed for the storage fees, he knows I'm the one who gave the jail money for her, etc. I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him.
Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]The fact that she picked him to be her bf instead of you speaks volumes about her feelings towards you. These girls are easily able to detach themselves emotionally from their clients, unlike some of us mongers when it comes to our ATF's. (Yes, I speak from experience.)
There's a simple question to ask yourself when it comes to relationships with people: Is your life better with or without this person in it? When you understand the answer to that question, you'll be better able to make the correct choice with this woman.
It may be as easy as just staying back out of the limelight. Her relationship with this guy could be over in a week or so. Then, you could go back to having your boink-buddy again.
7 years I wasnt married to my first wife that long. Walk away and find somebody new so its your choice and your decision. Never forget at the end of the day you are only money to these girls. This is a great time to be a sugar daddy lots of choices if you got the cash. Lots of sweet hot girls who need what you have to offer.
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1502144]So, kinda caught on a tiny issue and I'm wonerding if I'm making the right move. A long time BP provider who I have been seeing for over 7 years has left the business and is starting a new life. She also has started a relationship with someone although its in the early stages and I have met him. Our old arrangement has always been me paying the rent in exchange for a dream once per week, no restrictions. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Currently, she has no job, she just was released from jail serving 30 days on minor charges unrelated to this business and she dropped all of her clients but me. My thing is, her new bf most likely is going to wonder who is paying the rent and eventually he will wonder who coughed up the deposit on her new apartment. She already told him that I have been there for her for many years. He knows I payed for the storage fees, he knows I'm the one who gave the jail money for her, etc. I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him.
Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Vino 7373; 1502712]The fact that she picked him to be her bf instead of you speaks volumes about her feelings towards you. These girls are easily able to detach themselves emotionally from their clients, unlike some of us mongers when it comes to our ATF's. (Yes, I speak from experience.)
There's a simple question to ask yourself when it comes to relationships with people: Is your life better with or without this person in it? When you understand the answer to that question, you'll be better able to make the correct choice with this woman.
It may be as easy as just staying back out of the limelight. Her relationship with this guy could be over in a week or so. Then, you could go back to having your boink-buddy again.[/QUOTE]Words of wisdom, sir.
Saw this ad last night and after doing my research and watching her video blog, I decided to give her a ring since I'm into busty women and what a find, a busty, British lady. But when she answered the phone, a red flag went up. Whoever this person was, did not speak with a British accent. She sounded very young, kinda too young. It's either that or she has someone taking calls for her. Now I know that some of you are going to say that most British people can disguise their voices to sound like ours and it's true. But my monger-sense was going off so I decided to follow my instinct and ended the call. To me, it's better to be safe than sorry. Stay safe guys.
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Go take a mongering trip in Costa Rica / Colombia and when you get back, you'll be like "who is she again?"
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1502144]So, kinda caught on a tiny issue and I'm wonerding if I'm making the right move. A long time BP provider who I have been seeing for over 7 years has left the business and is starting a new life. She also has started a relationship with someone although its in the early stages and I have met him. Our old arrangement has always been me paying the rent in exchange for a dream once per week, no restrictions. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Currently, she has no job, she just was released from jail serving 30 days on minor charges unrelated to this business and she dropped all of her clients but me. My thing is, her new bf most likely is going to wonder who is paying the rent and eventually he will wonder who coughed up the deposit on her new apartment. She already told him that I have been there for her for many years. He knows I payed for the storage fees, he knows I'm the one who gave the jail money for her, etc. I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him.
Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1502144]I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him.
Any thoughts guys?[/QUOTE]I agree with your prediction of him figuring it out sooner or later that you are her sugardaddy. When she is confronted by him the question is "What will she do or say to him concerning your arrangement?" Will she lie to him to save your ass? (NO). Will she throw you under the bus to save her skin? (YES) Will you feel the fallout from the drama? (YES).
Maybe it's time to consider stepping back a little (for your safety) and shop around for a safer and more stable replacement. Plenty more out there to pick from.
NEXT!
Or you can stick with her. If you do make sure you do obtain a CCW permit and a nice 20 round Glock (just in case)
SP
[QUOTE=Steve Pope; 1502983]I agree with your prediction of him figuring it out sooner or later that you are her sugardaddy. When she is confronted by him the question is "What will she do or say to him concerning your arrangement?" Will she lie to him to save your ass? (NO). Will she throw you under the bus to save her skin? (YES) Will you feel the fallout from the drama? (YES).
Maybe it's time to consider stepping back a little (for your safety) and shop around for a safer and more stable replacement. Plenty more out there to pick from.
NEXT!
Or you can stick with her. If you do make sure you do obtain a CCW permit and a nice 20 round Glock (just in case)
SP[/QUOTE]Yeah, I know what you're saying. Hard to let her go. Beautifull latina with huge tits, nice ass and a tight pussy. Flawless body and a total freak in bed. All of this has been on my mind for a few days. I was pondering the idea to tell her to slow down and if this arrangement is going to work, we need to plan this out to where he won't get suspicious. She's not working and has very little help financially, its only me helping her and he's not doing too good financially either. Like I said, how is she going to explain to him that she magically came up with $1400 to move into a new condo by herself in kissimmee. I'm not aware if he knows she was an escort. The only way I see this working is for her to get a job and somehow make it look like she saved up the money. She can't say her parents helped for 2 reasons; 1. He knows them and I'm sure he will start asking questions from the wrong people. 2. They arnt doing so good financially either. For the last 3 years out of the 7 I've known her, I've paid her rent, phone bill, power, water and sometimes the car insurance. In return, I get a damn good time whenever I want it! I'm meeting up with her Friday to discuss this further with her. Like I said, its going to be hard to let her go.
Anybody know anything about this girl? I want to try her out.
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[QUOTE=SC1975;1503071]Yeah, I know what you're saying. Hard to let her go. Beautifull latina with huge tits, nice ass and a tight pussy. Flawless body and a total freak in bed. All of this has been on my mind for a few days. I was pondering the idea to tell her to slow down and if this arrangement is going to work, we need to plan this out to where he won't get suspicious. She's not working and has very little help financially, its only me helping her and he's not doing too good financially either. Like I said, how is she going to explain to him that she magically came up with $1400 to move into a new condo by herself in kissimmee. I'm not aware if he knows she was an escort. The only way I see this working is for her to get a job and somehow make it look like she saved up the money. She can't say her parents helped for 2 reasons; 1. He knows them and I'm sure he will start asking questions from the wrong people. 2. They arnt doing so good financially either. For the last 3 years out of the 7 I've known her, I've paid her rent, phone bill, power, water and sometimes the car insurance. In return, I get a damn good time whenever I want it! I'm meeting up with her Friday to discuss this further with her. Like I said, its going to be hard to let her go.[/QUOTE]Sounds like your mind is made up, we have told you this fire is hot, you will be burned, maybe not now but eventually, sometimes getting yours and moving on is the best to do sadly.
[QUOTE=FlirtSter47; 1502871]Any one have any contact with this girl?
[url]http://orlando.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dangerously-addicting-incalls-150-special-24/6673634[/url][/QUOTE]I personally haven't, but I'm sure there's plenty who have. She's been around for quite a while off and on. I think she first went by the name "Lanni".
Man.
What's happen people. I just read something that I had to comment on.
"So, kinda caught on a tiny issue and I'm wonerding if I'm making the right move. A long time BP provider who I have been seeing for over 7 years has left the business and is starting a new life. She also has started a relationship with someone although its in the early stages and I have met him. Our old arrangement has always been me paying the rent in exchange for a dream once per week, no restrictions. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Currently, she has no job, she just was released from jail serving 30 days on minor charges unrelated to this business and she dropped all of her clients but me. My thing is, her new bf most likely is going to wonder who is paying the rent and eventually he will wonder who coughed up the deposit on her new apartment. She already told him that I have been there for her for many years. He knows I payed for the storage fees, he knows I'm the one who gave the jail money for her, etc. I can imagine he's going to get suspicious because what guy would dump SO MUCH $ on a girl and supposedly not getting something special in return. Understand what I'm getting at guys? She already told me to watch what I text to her and be carefull what I say around him."
Any thoughts guys?
See I was going to give you a pass until you said she was a "Jail bird". I mean you can get you a respectable non pro ho for less.
You said the rent is like 1400 or something like for once a week.
Ho lucky she would get Krystal's or Checkers from me. ON top of that she got a boyfriend or man with her. Na brother, I cannot go along with that at all.
I don't care if she is Jennifer Lopez.
You said "new boyfriends' might be wondering what's going on. The New boyfriend ain't paying for crap, you are getting simped out of you're shoes.
Let me tell you something man, these hos let their boyfriends run over them and take their money.
That is what you don't know that goes on.
I ain't in the business of revealing "game". The ho is laughing at you man.
Do not feel bad every hobbyists been gamed before. It happens, but the main objective of the game is get to a bad chick for a low price.
Once you understand that, you will be a better hobbyist.
I wish a ho would ask me to pay her rent. I am blunt person, I tell them get back on crack cocaine or Heroin, you know I ain't doing that.
She said you better be careful what you text her.
She is defending her boyfriend over you.
Sorry bro you are soft, I think you need to retire from the board immediately.
[QUOTE=SC1975;1503071]For the last 3 years out of the 7 I've known her, I've paid her rent, phone bill, power, water and sometimes the car insurance. In return, I get a damn good time whenever I want it! I'm meeting up with her Friday to discuss this further with her.[/QUOTE]
Sounds like you are married to her. Oh, except you still get sex.
I think the other guys have expressed a generally agreed sentiment. I am not sure what your interest in the hobby is. Mine is a relatively consistent sort of a certain amusement. I do have a relationship with some lady friends, but it is very much like the relationship I have with other client-provider relationships. Admittedly, this is a very personal one, but I do appreciate the repeat visits. OTOH, I have never compromised the barrier, although there are definitely some great sensual relationships that I have enjoyed.
Have you asked yourself whether for you this is just a hobby type relationship?
it's sort of like in the movie vanilla sky. Do you remember the scene when cameron diaz is driving down the street with tom cruise? she starts talking about how she does not want to be his fuck buddy. She also says that he came in her 4 times* and she swallowed his cum. she starts screaming "that has to mean something!" well obviously it meant something to her but not to him. then she crashes the car. Think about it. I'm sorry you find yourself in this position. I am sure you will do the right thing
[QUOTE=SC1975;1503071]Yeah, I know what you're saying. Hard to let her go. Beautifull latina with huge tits, nice ass and a tight pussy. Flawless body and a total freak in bed. All of this has been on my mind for a few days. I was pondering the idea to tell her to slow down and if this arrangement is going to work, we need to plan this out to where he won't get suspicious. She's not working and has very little help financially, its only me helping her and he's not doing too good financially either. Like I said, how is she going to explain to him that she magically came up with $1400 to move into a new condo by herself in kissimmee. I'm not aware if he knows she was an escort. The only way I see this working is for her to get a job and somehow make it look like she saved up the money. She can't say her parents helped for 2 reasons; 1. He knows them and I'm sure he will start asking questions from the wrong people. 2. They arnt doing so good financially either. For the last 3 years out of the 7 I've known her, I've paid her rent, phone bill, power, water and sometimes the car insurance. In return, I get a damn good time whenever I want it! I'm meeting up with her Friday to discuss this further with her. Like I said, its going to be hard to let her go.[/QUOTE]You've received a lot of constant advice here but it sounds like you're still on the fence. I'm in the move on camp.
Someplace inside you realize that too or you would not be asking. This is one of those times where I suggest you and recognize it's time to take the advice of others. I think you've blurred the line as to what is happening her, she's a service provider period. Not saying she's not a nice person also but its important to keep the line clear
From another perspective is she is really just trying to get out you're not helping her do that, you are now a enabled.
Have a similar situation with one of my children. Wonderful person just can't seem to get their footing under them and goes from job to job then innate to jump in and help. Since I'm dad I always will to a certain extent but have had to pull back and realize what they need most is my advice not my money. That they need to come up with a plan that does include me as a ATM and work that plan.
I feel bad for you as you must be a very nice person but for your own sake realize it's time) sounds like it's well past it in fact) to walk away.
You know you need to do it, now just do it. You are being taken advantage of.
Good luck
[QUOTE=SC1975;1503071]Yeah, I know what you're saying. Hard to let her go. Beautifull latina with huge tits, nice ass and a tight pussy. Flawless body and a total freak in bed. All of this has been on my mind for a few days. I was pondering the idea to tell her to slow down and if this arrangement is going to work, we need to plan this out to where he won't get suspicious. She's not working and has very little help financially, its only me helping her and he's not doing too good financially either. Like I said, how is she going to explain to him that she magically came up with $1400 to move into a new condo by herself in kissimmee. I'm not aware if he knows she was an escort. The only way I see this working is for her to get a job and somehow make it look like she saved up the money. She can't say her parents helped for 2 reasons; 1. He knows them and I'm sure he will start asking questions from the wrong people. 2. They arnt doing so good financially either. For the last 3 years out of the 7 I've known her, I've paid her rent, phone bill, power, water and sometimes the car insurance. In return, I get a damn good time whenever I want it! I'm meeting up with her Friday to discuss this further with her. Like I said, its going to be hard to let her go.[/QUOTE]You've gotten excellent advice from some very experienced guys with no emotional connections. Now the question is, what do you do with the advice? She may well drop the BF as that happens quite often too but I don't see this ending well for either of you unless you present that to her or she comes to that conclusion quickly on her own. Backing out gracefully, if that's possible, may be your only choice here. Good luck.
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[QUOTE=Vino 7373; 1502712]The fact that she picked him to be her bf instead of you speaks volumes about her feelings towards you. These girls are easily able to detach themselves emotionally from their clients, unlike some of us mongers when it comes to our ATF's. (Yes, I speak from experience.)
There's a simple question to ask yourself when it comes to relationships with people: Is your life better with or without this person in it? When you understand the answer to that question, you'll be better able to make the correct choice with this woman.
It may be as easy as just staying back out of the limelight. Her relationship with this guy could be over in a week or so. Then, you could go back to having your boink-buddy again.[/QUOTE]Throwing my 2 cents into the mix as I have a similar experience. Yeah, Vino we both should know, eh? Your question to ask onesselve is correct. My issue and the question for SC is can he tear himself away? All the advice on here is correct and I have told myself the same things many many times. Move away, slowly. Quickly. Get over her. RUN. Sometimes a 3 month hiatus is best. I am always stuck with the dilemma and the question is. Do I want to continue? Since I have obviously answered that question (and the answer to Vino's question) yes. So it continues and you carry a heavy burden and disaster for someone lurks around the corner.
Sc, my opinion is that you got to know what you want from her and what she wants from you. Ask her. Then proceed as you wish. Not that there is a right answer.
[QUOTE=DMcFly; 1503111]Anybody know anything about this girl? I want to try her out.
[url]http://orlando.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/the-sweetest-thing-new-22/6697739[/url][/QUOTE]
Yes, she is sweet, attractive, and fun. She is 22yo and stands 5'1" and 135 pounds.
She is available for incalls and select outcalls in Orlando.
Try her and report your findings.
[QUOTE=SC1975;1503071]Yeah, I know what you're saying. Hard to let her go. Beautifull latina with huge tits, nice ass and a tight pussy. Flawless body and a total freak in bed. All of this has been on my mind for a few days. I was pondering the idea to tell her to slow down and if this arrangement is going to work, we need to plan this out to where he won't get suspicious. She's not working and has very little help financially, its only me helping her and he's not doing too good financially either. Like I said, how is she going to explain to him that she magically came up with $1400 to move into a new condo by herself in kissimmee. I'm not aware if he knows she was an escort. The only way I see this working is for her to get a job and somehow make it look like she saved up the money. She can't say her parents helped for 2 reasons; 1. He knows them and I'm sure he will start asking questions from the wrong people. 2. They arnt doing so good financially either. For the last 3 years out of the 7 I've known her, I've paid her rent, phone bill, power, water and sometimes the car insurance. In return, I get a damn good time whenever I want it! I'm meeting up with her Friday to discuss this further with her. Like I said, its going to be hard to let her go.[/QUOTE]Meet with her Friday, wish her well in her new life, and move on yourself. No more paying bills for her. Keeping the relationship could be dangerous to you both. Would you want to take the risk of her getting hurt? It happens. I'll just leave it at that.
I meant has anybody seen her.
[QUOTE=Snake12; 1503491]Yes, she is sweet, attractive, and fun. She is 22yo and stands 5'1" and 135 pounds.
She is available for incalls and select outcalls in Orlando.
Try her and report your findings.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ron628;1503492]Meet with her Friday, wish her well in her new life, and move on yourself. No more paying bills for her. Keeping the relationship could be dangerous to you both. Would you want to take the risk of her getting hurt? It happens. I'll just leave it at that.[/QUOTE]See if I can reply to all of the advice into one post.
I've been in this hobby for many years prior to meeting her, so about 12 years all together. I've bounced around a great deal with different girls, but this one just blew my mind. I had the same mentallity as most hobbyists. Bang every girl in sight, I have the money. There was always one thing that I've always tryed to find, and she had it all. Very attractive latina, great body, huge breasts and all the curves were setup perfectly. I knew walking in that this will be my ATF even before I banged her. Now look at me nearly 8 years later. Since meeting her, my old ways had slowly come down to just seeing 1 or 2 other providers here and there, but I've always come running back to her in the end. What can I say, guaranteed satisfaction. Have I become attached to her? YES. Do I care about her? YES, very. Was I her very first client? YES. Would you drop everything and come to her aid? YES, in a heartbeat. Has she let me see inside her personal life? Yes, I've meant her sister, brother, cousin, close friends. I also know all about her "behind the scenes" activities. So yes, I'm involved in her deep personal life and thats something many providers will NEVER do. We have had our share of fights and fallouts. We argue like we're together. LOL In reallity, she never did enjoy the business, many times she was so set on leaving but her financial situation wouldn't allow. I didn't mind helping but there had come times where I put a limit up. We have discussed being together many times over the years, but timing was a little off for both of us. I was in the middle of a divorce, she had just dumped her baby-daddy and needed some space. Frankly, I wasnt in a position mentally to re-enter a relationship, I needed to audit my feelings and take it slow so this wasnt going to turn into a rebound thing. I told her months ago that if she felt ready, can we try? But then waiting this long put us into a "best-friend status". She's afraid that if we did try and something went wrong, there is a chance she would lose not only her boyfriend (me) , she would also lose her bestfriend (me). I can understand that. I'm really all she has minus her family and she had lost many friends that she thought were close to her. So yes, she scared about her future which I can also understand. This has become a delicate situation to say the least.
[QUOTE=Ron628;1503492]Meet with her Friday, wish her well in her new life, and move on yourself. No more paying bills for her. Keeping the relationship could be dangerous to you both. Would you want to take the risk of her getting hurt? It happens. I'll just leave it at that.[/QUOTE]My two cents. I've done my best to help people that have less but when you do that, people will take advantage. If you still gain from the relationship and its an equal trade of some sort, then you just have to assess the danger involved. But don't start giving when you're not getting anything, its a setup for failure. While that sounds harsh, I negotiate deals for a living and no relationship survives where one benefits more than the other so keep your eye out for that. Good luck, I can say that of the two girls I've developed bonds with in 10 years of playing in this hobby, neither turned out great. I still respect and care for them, but we call it a "hobby" for a reason.
[QUOTE=Funboy22;1503875]My two cents. I've done my best to help people that have less but when you do that, people will take advantage. If you still gain from the relationship and its an equal trade of some sort, then you just have to assess the danger involved. But don't start giving when you're not getting anything, its a setup for failure. While that sounds harsh, I negotiate deals for a living and no relationship survives where one benefits more than the other so keep your eye out for that. Good luck, I can say that of the two girls I've developed bonds with in 10 years of playing in this hobby, neither turned out great. I still respect and care for them, but we call it a "hobby" for a reason.[/QUOTE]Well put. Adding in a couple of more cents:Being that it's a "hobby" and even hobbies have rules. If it is potentially dangerous, get the hell out. We all "hobby" for our own reasons, but drama and being in harms way are not them. If you ever have a run in with the new bf, that can be an ugly scene fast. Been there done that. Never again. Too many other Hotties out there that don't provide that type of additional stress. Be careful.
Saw this ad love nuru, is she legit?
[url]http://orlando.backpage.com/BodyRubs/lexi-best-rubs-in-town-by-a-ottie-lexi-23/6800646[/url]
[QUOTE=Carlosa; 1503992]Saw this ad love nuru, is she legit?
[url]http://orlando.backpage.com/BodyRubs/lexi-best-rubs-in-town-by-a-ottie-lexi-23/6800646[/url][/QUOTE]Did you notice that she uses the word picture in a singular sense. The very last picture is more than likely her, but highly UNLIKELY that the other ones are. The young lady in the first set of pictures has a different body type all together. But do as you must.
Play Safe,
XO Ashley
[QUOTE=SC1975; 1503822]See if I can reply to all of the advice into one post.
I've been in this hobby for many years prior to meeting her, so about 12 years all together. I've bounced around a great deal with different girls, but this one just blew my mind. I had the same mentallity as most hobbyists. Bang every girl in sight, I have the money. There was always one thing that I've always tryed to find, and she had it all. Very attractive latina, great body, huge breasts and all the curves were setup perfectly. I knew walking in that this will be my ATF even before I banged her. Now look at me nearly 8 years later. Since meeting her, my old ways had slowly come down to just seeing 1 or 2 other providers here and there, but I've always come running back to her in the end. What can I say, guaranteed satisfaction. Have I become attached to her? YES. Do I care about her? YES, very. Was I her very first client? YES. Would you drop everything and come to her aid? YES, in a heartbeat. Has she let me see inside her personal life? Yes, I've meant her sister, brother, cousin, close friends. I also know all about her "behind the scenes" activities. So yes, I'm involved in her deep personal life and thats something many providers will NEVER do. We have had our share of fights and fallouts. We argue like we're together. LOL In reallity, she never did enjoy the business, many times she was so set on leaving but her financial situation wouldn't allow. I didn't mind helping but there had come times where I put a limit up. We have discussed being together many times over the years, but timing was a little off for both of us. I was in the middle of a divorce, she had just dumped her baby-daddy and needed some space. Frankly, I wasnt in a position mentally to re-enter a relationship, I needed to audit my feelings and take it slow so this wasnt going to turn into a rebound thing. I told her months ago that if she felt ready, can we try? But then waiting this long put us into a "best-friend status". She's afraid that if we did try and something went wrong, there is a chance she would lose not only her boyfriend (me) , she would also lose her bestfriend (me). I can understand that. I'm really all she has minus her family and she had lost many friends that she thought were close to her. So yes, she scared about her future which I can also understand. This has become a delicate situation to say the least.[/QUOTE]Don't want to get too involved here, but. I am dealing with a similar situation now, although the length of involvement is only about 6 months. My interest is peaked on what all you long time mongers have said. It doesn't seem to me to be impossible for a Client to become involved in a real relationship with a provider. All you guys have spoken to the contrary. Is it because the two parties come from such different backgrounds? Age difference? Do they think we are all just chumps because we have paid for it? Are they all just so jaded? Lowers my opinion of humanity even farther! LOL
This is not always the case I know of two escorts dating men who usto be there clients right know. One retired and one is still in the business and the two of them are very much in love with each other. I will put it this way a more mature provider is more likely to look for a client to move in with her and be BF and GF if the girl you are after is 19 and your 55 well most likely you won't be dating and she is taking advantage of you. It has nothing to do with the age difference but the maturity level of a 19 year old provider. They are in it because it can be good money and the hours can be whatever she really wants them to be.
The ladies will almost always say they like you but if you can never get her to go to dinner with you or just text you out of the blue to say hello she is not into you and is into your money. Like someone said earlier it is a lot easier for us men to fall for these ladies than it is for them to fall for you. You are the client they usually don't look at you for anything more than this. Plus many of them have management pulling the strings, already have BF's or even are married. 95% of the time these ladies have no feelings for you. Some ladies in town are the exception and if you read you will see who they are. A good example to me of a good provider is one who will just chat with you for a few minutes in a text banter about anything. Other will simply ignore your text and you will only hear from them when they need your money.
A side note for the ladies if you do send a text to say hi to a client keep it business professional someone one else is reading our texts many times. Don't text I miss you when are you comming to see me again. Start it out like hello how are you doing I have an issue I need to text you about much more discreet LOL. I don't worry about texts because I live alone but I've had many friends complain about the S. O. Reading a very graphic text a provider sent them LOL.
[QUOTE=Scohen1025;1504132]Don't want to get too involved here, but. I am dealing with a similar situation now, although the length of involvement is only about 6 months. My interest is peaked on what all you long time mongers have said. It doesn't seem to me to be impossible for a Client to become involved in a real relationship with a provider. All you guys have spoken to the contrary. Is it because the two parties come from such different backgrounds? Age difference? Do they think we are all just chumps because we have paid for it? Are they all just so jaded? Lowers my opinion of humanity even farther! LOL[/QUOTE]