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[QUOTE=CooperTown;7242508]Thanks. I had an appointment with her later today and will now cancel. I appreciate the report and ability to find her profile.[/QUOTE]She, and the experience she provides. Have aged like boxed wine. 3-4 years ago, complete smoke show and a great appointment. Now. She's a biscuit away from something bad. Looks fading, substance problems, shit appointments.
[QUOTE=Bob0324;7241686]The problem is the chicks. They don't want their number given out to somebody they don't know anything about. That's why I usually direct them towards secret benefits because it's a place where they can see a little something and communicate with potential suitors without giving their information.[/QUOTE]So let me throw this out there. If you are steering g some women to SB and you know them and that they are real and want to meet. When they get on there, just post their link and say they were / are one of yours? I haven't farmed on there for a little while, but have had some pretty good luck. The ones I usually go for, don't know much about the game, don't have a habit, and aren't there just to be ppms. The reason no one likes the site is because of so mamy profiles that are bots and don't respond. Throw out a few that aren't bots and tell them to respond to ones that are interested. That would lessen the likelihood that people are wasting their credits.
[QUOTE=StillNotMe;7242769]So let me throw this out there. If you are steering g some women to SB and you know them and that they are real and want to meet. When they get on there, just post their link and say they were / are one of yours? I haven't farmed on there for a little while, but have had some pretty good luck. The ones I usually go for, don't know much about the game, don't have a habit, and aren't there just to be ppms. The reason no one likes the site is because of so mamy profiles that are bots and don't respond. Throw out a few that aren't bots and tell them to respond to ones that are interested. That would lessen the likelihood that people are wasting their credits.[/QUOTE]Then I just get a bunch of private messages of guys telling me to have the girls answer their messages, etc.
[QUOTE=Bob0324;7242771]Then I just get a bunch of private messages of guys telling me to have the girls answer their messages, etc.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the discussion. I get it's annoying for guys to ask for contacts. Just seems like there's a better way for us to avoid bots and give real women the money instead.
Also would help with quality control since crappy service wouldn't be passed along.
If anyone has a good option they'd be willing to share, I'd be happy to pay a finders fee.
[QUOTE=JimmyDee692;7242805]Thanks for the discussion. I get it's annoying for guys to ask for contacts. Just seems like there's a better way for us to avoid bots and give real women the money instead.
Also would help with quality control since crappy service wouldn't be passed along.
If anyone has a good option they'd be willing to share, I'd be happy to pay a finders fee.[/QUOTE]I totally avoid bots just meeting chicks in the real world. And I use cash to do this and it's a Numbers game yesterday. A good day gave my number to three chicks with the $50 bill attached. One of the three has messaged me and is planning on meeting tomorrow as she has her kid this weekend. Kid was with her when I met her at Dollar tree Saturday.
I love hearing these stories. You're having a lot more success and getting younger, higher quality girls than most. So you must have developed a skillful approach. I have attempted things like this and gotten no response, or in one case threatening texts from the boyfriend. I would enjoy hearing more about how you approach them so as not to put them off right off the bat. I wouldn't ask you to share numbers or waste your time being a intermediary, but we can probably all learn from your methods.
One thing that probably holds many of us back from developing the relationships you do is being married. It sounds like these girls stay over at your place and develop a relatively close relationship in hobby terms. That opportunity just doesn't exist for many hobbyists.
In any case, whether you're sharing or not I enjoy reading about your experiences. Thanks for posting.
[QUOTE=Bob0324;7242828]I totally avoid bots just meeting chicks in the real world. And I use cash to do it's a Numbers game yesterday. A good day gave my number to three chicks with the $50 bill attached. One of the three has messaged me and is planning on meeting tomorrow as she has her kid this weekend. Kid was with her when I met her at Dollar tree Saturday.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JimmyDee692;7241660]I have always avoided this side of the activity since I didn't want to give money to a website full of bots and fake accounts. Maybe I'm just cheap, but I'd be far more willing to pay a fellow hobbyist for the numbers of real girls who are looking for one of us. Thoughts on sharing intel and fighting the man?[/QUOTE]I've met some wonderful sugar babies that I wanted to help them get a bit more active with me and other men. Every one said no.
[QUOTE=Playwithme483;7244653]I love hearing these stories. You're having a lot more success and getting younger, higher quality girls than most. So you must have developed a skillful approach. I have attempted things like this and gotten no response, or in one case threatening texts from the boyfriend. I would enjoy hearing more about how you approach them so as not to put them off right off the bat. I wouldn't ask you to share numbers or waste your time being a intermediary, but we can probably all learn from your methods.
One thing that probably holds many of us back from developing the relationships you do is being married. It sounds like these girls stay over at your place and develop a relatively close relationship in hobby terms. That opportunity just doesn't exist for many hobbyists.
In any case, whether you're sharing or not I enjoy reading about your experiences. Thanks for posting.[/QUOTE]I think you hit on some important things here. Some of us are in relationships, lack time, money or the social skills. There are still avenues for all of us but not always as exciting. We try to help each other out here but there are limits. It sounds like Bob is in a great spot and has great success that I'm sure he's developed over the years.
I'm fairly new, novice, stupid in this game. Followed Bob's tips on few occasions, for the last 45 days had almost 10 girls age ranging between 22-27. Did not really have to spend a lot of mone too. Just usual dinner, some gifts, flowers etc. Feel like I am rushing so pressed the brake. Now of those girls 2 of then call me almost every day, texts after texts, I am scared if they grew feelings or they're really that horny. Can't really say hence getting even more scared and feeling like shouldn't have got into this. Need to clear both the big and small head and cool down a bit. Didn't use any app, found them not the worth. Met them through different school / social events.
You approached them by passing cash with your number attached? Can you tell us more about how you select targets and how you approach?
[QUOTE=RedReindeer;7245222]I'm fairly new, novice, stupid in this game. Followed Bob's tips on few occasions, for the last 45 days had almost 10 girls age ranging between 22-27. Did not really have to spend a lot of mone too. Just usual dinner, some gifts, flowers etc. Feel like I am rushing so pressed the brake. Now of those girls 2 of then call me almost every day, texts after texts, I am scared if they grew feelings or they're really that horny. Can't really say hence getting even more scared and feeling like shouldn't have got into this. Need to clear both the big and small head and cool down a bit. Didn't use any app, found them not the worth. Met them through different school / social events.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Playwithme483;7245356]You approached them by passing cash with your number attached? Can you tell us more about how you select targets and how you approach?[/QUOTE]I know you asked red reindeer, but for me any attractive lady that's not with a man is fair game. And I hand them a note with the cash with a small sentence and my number. Same sentence every time works pretty well. I don't want to give out what the sentence says though. I've done this just to people I encounter anywhere. People that are working places I even did this at a drive-through a couple years ago and ended up seeing the girl a couple times but we just didn't click in bed. Yeah, and I find the real young ladies are starved for attention. And I do have some I'm saying I just want to come hang out. You don't have to give me anything and I tell them that ain't happening. That would be weird. They always get something in return keeps boundaries. But on the other hand, I have offered hot young chicks up to $2000 to come make me happy and been turned down. I had one really hot chick at my place and laid $2000 out in front of her and she wouldn't do it.
Information straight from the master is always welcome! Do you strike up a conversation with them first? Compliment them or talk about whst they're doing? Or say nothing and pass the note?
I feel like I'd get instantly rejected trying to pass the note. You're definitely more bold than I am. Like I mentioned, I tried something like this a few times and never with favorable results.
[QUOTE=Bob0324;7245395]I know you asked red reindeer, but for me any attractive lady that's not with a man is fair game. And I hand them a note with the cash with a small sentence and my number. Same sentence every time works pretty well. I don't want to give out what the sentence says though. I've done this just to people I encounter anywhere. People that are working places I even did this at a drive-through a couple years ago and ended up seeing the girl a couple times but we just didn't click in bed. Yeah, and I find the real young ladies are starved for attention. And I do have some I'm saying I just want to come hang out. You don't have to give me anything and I tell them that ain't happening. That would be weird. They always get something in return keeps boundaries. But on the other hand, I have offered hot young chicks up to $2000 to come make me happy and been turned down. I had one really hot chick at my place and laid $2000 out in front of her and she wouldn't do it.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Playwithme483;7246060]Information straight from the master is always welcome! Do you strike up a conversation with them first? Compliment them or talk about whst they're doing? Or say nothing and pass the note?
I feel like I'd get instantly rejected trying to pass the note. You're definitely more bold than I am. Like I mentioned, I tried something like this a few times and never with favorable results.[/QUOTE]The note is always folded inside of $50 bill. I've had very few refused to even take it numerous that I never heard from but I generally don't say anything just handover the cash with the note. Like I said the note has a brief sentence in my phone number. I've never had anybody freak out really. And like I said, it's a numbers game but worth it to me.
[QUOTE=Playwithme483;7245356]You approached them by passing cash with your number attached? Can you tell us more about how you select targets and how you approach?[/QUOTE]I tried with cash few times, worked few times and did not work most of the times. Cash w a small card w my message in it. Other times, I tried cards / gift cards / notes with some sort of pickup lines / flowers. I feel most of the girls just like to be loved and it depends what love is to them.
I feel like this hobby is not worth for me / not my cup of tea. Just few months feel like drained me / made a hollow in me.
Interesting. What was it about the hobby made you feel hollow?
[QUOTE=RedReindeer;7246779]I tried with cash few times, worked few times and did not work most of the times. Cash w a small card w my message in it. Other times, I tried cards / gift cards / notes with some sort of pickup lines / flowers. I feel most of the girls just like to be loved and it depends what love is to them.
I feel like this hobby is not worth for me / not my cup of tea. Just few months feel like drained me / made a hollow in me.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Playwithme483;7247097]Interesting. What was it about the hobby made you feel hollow?[/QUOTE]Not really sure what made me feel like that, could be some of those girls grew feeling and that made me feel bad. I felt like I crushed their hopes or sth.
Anyone successfully had a good time with this one? [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/7c57f4329a548433[/URL].
I met her a while back from seeking for a quick meet and greet, but it looks like she isn't on there anymore. Now on SB. She was dressed nice and very cute and a little shy during our meet. Easygoing too. Seems to be wanting to pay off her student loans and has a legit job.
I've been wanting to meet her again for a while but she seems nearly always active on SB and responds very quickly asking to meet up (although not in an aggressive way), so I want to make sure she's not the village bicycle before I proceed again with her 🤣
Feel free to DM me if you've met with her and want to keep it UTR. Thanks
[QUOTE=RubGuy80;7259407]Anyone successfully had a good time with this one? [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/7c57f4329a548433[/URL].
I met her a while back from seeking for a quick meet and greet, but it looks like she isn't on there anymore. Now on SB. She was dressed nice and very cute and a little shy during our meet. Easygoing too. Seems to be wanting to pay off her student loans and has a legit job.
I've been wanting to meet her again for a while but she seems nearly always active on SB and responds very quickly asking to meet up (although not in an aggressive way), so I want to make sure she's not the village bicycle before I proceed again with her 🤣
Feel free to DM me if you've met with her and want to keep it UTR. Thanks[/QUOTE]Kind of conservative and although I do enjoy making a good girl, be bad, her tits are just too damn big for my liking.
[QUOTE=Bob0324;7262447]Kind of conservative and although I do enjoy making a good girl, be bad, her tits are just too damn big for my liking.[/QUOTE]I've had great results with young SB and SA ladies wanting money for school expenses. I'm skeptical of where the funds go, but WTF? I'm almost 70. YOLO!
Saw a girl recently, who made a comment about how she's not had much success meeting guys recently, because she had someone give her a bad review / rating.
I didn't ask where, and can't think of a not-too-obvious way to ask her now. She's not mentioned ANYWHERE on here. Anyone have any ideas of where these reviews / ratings might be found?
[QUOTE=NiceGuysLast66;7265050]Saw a girl recently, who made a comment about how she's not had much success meeting guys recently, because she had someone give her a bad review / rating.
I didn't ask where, and can't think of a not-too-obvious way to ask her now. She's not mentioned ANYWHERE on here. Anyone have any ideas of where these reviews / ratings might be found?[/QUOTE]Are you sure it's not a different profile she used before? Or name or something?
Has anyone had experience this girl?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/43e45f24-28cc-45c8-b2b5-7c6f24cebfe8[/URL]
Quoted me 500+ for meet up. Tried to do a search but the name was too short.
Total f-ing whack job. She's on her 3rd. Or 30th profile. Been kicked off a number of times.
[QUOTE=Jay2000;7266861]Has anyone had experience this girl?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/43e45f24-28cc-45c8-b2b5-7c6f24cebfe8[/URL]
Quoted me 500+ for meet up. Tried to do a search but the name was too short.[/QUOTE]
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/6770425604999a8f[/URL]
Six years ago, she was really hot and really a mess so I guess she could you she was a hot mess. Very good skills down for everything and anything, but that was six years ago. Don't send me messages. There's her info talk to her.
Does anyone have info on this Heather? I saw threads for a Heather on the north side of town, but not sure if this is the same one. Going to pull the trigger if no one has any info.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5d3fb79a-3bef-443c-a1b8-9229a8146cfb[/URL]
[QUOTE=TVDinner;7273021]Does anyone have info on this Heather? I saw threads for a Heather on the north side of town, but not sure if this is the same one. Going to pull the trigger if no one has any info.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5d3fb79a-3bef-443c-a1b8-9229a8146cfb[/URL][/QUOTE]Is this the Heather you're talking about?
[QUOTE=Bob0324;7273098]Is this the Heather you're talking about?[/QUOTE]Yes, that's her.
[QUOTE=TVDinner;7273297]Yes, that's her.[/QUOTE]But I have a problem I'll do about any chick one time.
One other ask of you all. Tried looking for Issa but couldn't find anything. She seems familiar, but can't find anything. Any info?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11e1f94f-0046-47dd-9dcd-99e72b635dd1[/URL]
[QUOTE=TVDinner;7273303]One other ask of you all. Tried looking for Issa but couldn't find anything. She seems familiar, but can't find anything. Any info?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11e1f94f-0046-47dd-9dcd-99e72b635dd1[/URL][/QUOTE]Haven't met her but based on the pic. If you're ok with that body type you'll be okay with Heather.
[QUOTE=TVDinner;7273303]One other ask of you all. Tried looking for Issa but couldn't find anything. She seems familiar, but can't find anything. Any info?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11e1f94f-0046-47dd-9dcd-99e72b635dd1[/URL][/QUOTE]This one has added weight since the pictures unless she's slimmed back down.
[QUOTE=McjIndy2017;6866033]Used to see her couple times a year but lost info. Anyone wiling to share info I have one to trade for it. Thanks.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/78275db0-b9e1-450a-9d60-3dfe674ea960[/URL][/QUOTE]Met up with her again but then nothing. Wondering if someone took her out of the game. Thanks.
[QUOTE=TVDinner;7273021]Does anyone have info on this Heather? I saw threads for a Heather on the north side of town, but not sure if this is the same one. Going to pull the trigger if no one has any info.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5d3fb79a-3bef-443c-a1b8-9229a8146cfb[/URL][/QUOTE]Also on SB. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/680d1d7d4fac5e95[/URL].
[QUOTE=HasselFree;7275720]Also on SB. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/680d1d7d4fac5e95[/URL].[/QUOTE]Dang. The photos are either really old or heavily filtered. The verification video makes her look 60 years old.
[QUOTE=HDavis79;7280065]Dang. The photos are either really old or heavily filtered. The verification video makes her look 60 years old.[/QUOTE]Well it's heavily filtered, I was a little shocked when when we actually meet. Nice girl but needed glasses with same filters but not 60 either.
[QUOTE=Davang7;7286351]Well it's heavily filtered, I was a little shocked when when we actually meet. Nice girl but needed glasses with same filters but not 60 either.[/QUOTE]Dang, I wish I would've noticed that before I seen her that's more accurate. She looks older than shit and heavy. She really couldn't do me any good. When I saw her, I thought damn did I wash my balls for this?
Anyone know anything about this girl?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5d8a77c-73b8-4523-bd77-430359605336[/URL]
Claims to be from Cincy, but says she comes to Indy frequently. I think I've seen her face before.
[QUOTE=NiceGuysLast66;7287879]Anyone know anything about this girl?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5d8a77c-73b8-4523-bd77-430359605336[/URL]
Claims to be from Cincy, but says she comes to Indy frequently. I think I've seen her face before.[/QUOTE]Nevermind. She's a scammy b*tch who changes her city every day.
If she tries to sell you pics...PM me, I'll send them to you for free.
Stay away from this one. We chatted occasionally while she was out of the game. So when she came back, I agreed to help her a little and we made some plans. Big shock. Day of. Ghosts, NC / NS and no response since. Gave her a week to come correct. Now I have to trash her business.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9bfa4c9c-8a9d-4421-8072-1c31d84a9452[/URL]
Real name is Shelby. Goes by Sophie / Danielle / Shelby. And if she tries to sell you pics / vids. PM me. I'll give them away.
After fifteen terrific months, I thought it best for both of us to move on. We were together longer than I was married to my first wife! Tall, Asian, great lady! I had her permission to post this discreetly.
John Guest.