[QUOTE=MorganCreamin;7105464]ROFL. This is why I don't ever go down on providers. Always assume someone has poisoned the well.[/QUOTE]Very much agree with this. I never go down on a provider LOL. Always someone been there first.
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[QUOTE=MorganCreamin;7105464]ROFL. This is why I don't ever go down on providers. Always assume someone has poisoned the well.[/QUOTE]Very much agree with this. I never go down on a provider LOL. Always someone been there first.
As Always, be mindful when approaching and don't ask any of these!
[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/community/threads/bare-%F0%9F%A4%AE%F0%9F%A4%A2.2936040/[/URL]
[QUOTE=Drx509;7085407]I ran across this ad and the pics looked familiar; I had found her on Fet earlier this summer. I would try but she is out of my area, thought I would share since Fet lists bare with test.
ThickSlutWife on Fet, I contacted and she confirmed it was her.
[URL]https://milfy.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/washington/tacoma/178248047[/URL][/QUOTE]Can confirm. A friend and I set up a mfm with her through Fetlife and it was raw. She never asked for tests. Just got to be friendly and don't stink. Hygiene was important to her. She's a bit thicker in person but has some pretty good snatch.
Doogy.
[QUOTE=RocketMan3;7105745]As Always, be mindful when approaching and don't ask any of these!
[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/community/threads/bare-%F0%9F%A4%AE%F0%9F%A4%A2.2936040/[/URL][/QUOTE]Who is trying to BB that fat slob?
[QUOTE=RocketMan3;7105745]As Always, be mindful when approaching and don't ask any of these!
[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/community/threads/bare-%F0%9F%A4%AE%F0%9F%A4%A2.2936040/[/URL][/QUOTE]My god the fucking virtue signaling. Christ on a bike. That shit is painful to read.
Full disclosure: I don't play with indy escorts anymore and probably won't go back. Mainly because they are all unreliable flakes with substance abuse problems. And I have zero tolerance for either of those things.
In my time, I've had it raw with quite a few girls from TNA. I never asked or negotiated for it. They all offered it to me. If you have repeat sessions with them and they get to know you they will likely eventually offer it to you. Or sometimes they might just "forget" the condom and hop on top of you. It happens often enough that it can't just be a fluke. Truth be told, women are wired that way and if you get them in that space it will happen 99 percent of the time.
You also need to understand that it can be kind of off-putting if somebody you've never met or met just minutes ago is asking for it raw. And discussing any kind of intimate services over the phone or text when you don't know who is on the other end of the call is pretty stupid. Yet a lot of mongers keep trying to do that.
I always found it humorous when girls on that other board or TRB back in the day would always go on about how gross bbfs was. But they had left my condo with little marko swimmers leaking into their panties.
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You also need to understand that it can be kind of off-putting if somebody you've never met or met just minutes ago is asking for it raw. [/QUOTE]This is very true and it's a problem for some of us. I'm not one that's willing to pay for a couple visits of non-raw and gamble that it might be on the table one day. Mostly because I can't perform covered. I've tried, it just doesn't work and it literally takes all the fun out of it for me. The second I start to put the cover on it's wet noodle time. I get there's a lot of psychology involved in that and at this time it's as much of a self-fulfilling prophecy as it is a real issue but that doesn't change the reality that I'd rather not fuck than fuck into a bag.
[QUOTE=MorganCreamin;7106756]This is very true and it's a problem for some of us. I'm not one that's willing to pay for a couple visits of non-raw and gamble that it might be on the table one day. Mostly because I can't perform covered. I've tried, it just doesn't work and it literally takes all the fun out of it for me. The second I start to put the cover on it's wet noodle time. I get there's a lot of psychology involved in that and at this time it's as much of a self-fulfilling prophecy as it is a real issue but that doesn't change the reality that I'd rather not fuck than fuck into a bag.[/QUOTE]I get what Marko stated 100% and I'm sure that it happens enough that it's possibly with 95% of the providers but I just don't have the time or find value in spending my discretionary income that way in the hopes to finally breakthrough one day. I'd rather go for a sure thing. Now I know this comes with risks but my allocated discretionary income makes it so that it self regulates; I want bb 100% of the time, I can only afford to see 1 or 2 ladies in a given week to 2 week period, risk is less than if I had unlimited fun to sleep with a lady a night doing bare. — BTW, this is terrible statistics, this is just how I rationalize it LOL.
I, do, however try to be mindful how I approach new contacts with a request. Either I rely on confirmed reports and let it guide the initial contact, I don't mention it at all explicitly and ask in a way that shows they are full safety or not, or in rare cases (depending on their look and background) I'll just be candid and ask explicitly. Depends on my mood really.
BTW, are there any posters in that thread that are in fact hypocrites? I feel like I saw a report on one or two of them that are co-signing that have done bb.
[QUOTE=MarkoRamius;7106711]I always found it humorous when girls on that other board or TRB back in the day would always go on about how gross bbfs was. But they had left my condo with little marko swimmers leaking into their panties.[/QUOTE]Yup! I completely ignore their likes & dislikes lists because it's merely a feint to keep the other ladies & management off their back. If I'm interested in someone, I'll review their posts & reviews, come here and do some more research, then make a decision. One thing I never do is outright ask them about it at all. Many of them will hop on bare, then either politely ask or plead with you to not mention anything about it. The thing is that it can be entirely random for a variety of reasons. Obviously the first thing is maybe she just doesn't care. But also, maybe she really needs the return business. Maybe you seem like a safe vanilla married dude and you have no record of visiting skanks on the board that she doesn't like. Maybe she has a little buzz and she likes the angle of your dangle. Maybe you resemble her high school boyfriend, her dad's buddy, her cousin that she crushed on, or that actor from a tv show / movie that she likes. You'll never really know her reasons and it really doesn't matter. If she gives me what I want at the first appointment with very limited conversation (like "I get tested monthly / quarterly, how about you? I'll probably be back for more. If she doesn't, my curiosity is sated and I won't see her again.
[QUOTE=MorganCreamin;7106756]This is very true and it's a problem for some of us. I'm not one that's willing to pay for a couple visits of non-raw and gamble that it might be on the table one day. Mostly because I can't perform covered. I've tried, it just doesn't work and it literally takes all the fun out of it for me. The second I start to put the cover on it's wet noodle time. I get there's a lot of psychology involved in that and at this time it's as much of a self-fulfilling prophecy as it is a real issue but that doesn't change the reality that I'd rather not fuck than fuck into a bag.[/QUOTE]This isn't meant to be confrontational or question your preference but do you use any boner pills? I say this as someone who does and loves them! It could at least help you out if you need to go covered. They are super easy to get legally and make this hobby way more fun.
Does Diamond from Spanaway belongs here? She's 50 years old and posts on Escort Babylon in the 40+ section.
[QUOTE=DamianDono;7106878]This isn't meant to be confrontational or question your preference but do you use any boner pills? I say this as someone who does and loves them! It could at least help you out if you need to go covered. They are super easy to get legally and make this hobby way more fun.[/QUOTE]No worries. I've done that and it still feels like sticking my dick into a piece of plastic. I prefer my hand, tbh. Given that, what's the point of paying for something I can get better at home for free?
[QUOTE=HomerPimpson;7107076]Does Diamond from Spanaway belongs here? She's 50 years old and posts on Escort Babylon in the 40+ section.[/QUOTE]My experience was no. I wanted BBBJ, but she was prepped for cfs but that rarely works for me anymore so I declined it and kept with the BJ. So so performance. She's a cat hoarder so her house smells like a cat box and she lives in an area of duplexes where there's junk everywhere. The smell however is not noticeable in her room where activities happen. That room is actually fairly tidy compared to the rest of the house. She was a nice enough lady but I didn't care enough for the encounter to try and repeat. She may very well be open to it but I never found out and probably won't.
[URL]https://escortbabylon.net/posts_list/2533458137/1[/URL]
Also in the other board as rarediamond
https://www.tnaboard.com/community/members/rarediamond.610298/
[QUOTE=ScotchYoke;7106686]My god the fucking virtue signaling. Christ on a bike. That shit is painful to read.[/QUOTE]I've been out of the game for a while and forgot how pathetic the cucks and simps are on that board. Even if they are play-acting because it's TNA it's gross.
Can't recommend get enough. Was the best experience right from setting up, location and the actual event. Will surely be back for more. Next time lmk if any of you mongers are going so that I can do the clean up work.