Researching Info On Your Own And Doing The Right Thing.
All I'm saying is just do some Detective Work on your own. I never asked for help or for a review of a Girl I'm interested in seeing. I'm so used to doing the Research and Detective Work all on my own If someone has seen a Provider you're interested in seeing and she's OK with posting her Reviews, then all well and good. But to ask for info outright without doing anything on your own is just being Lazy. I know this Guide wasn't around in the mid 1980's. I had no choice but to take my chances with a Provider and hoped everything went well. Most of the time it did. So I was Lucky in that regard. But I've had my share of Bad Providers.
As far as posting info about a Provider without asking her permission first is just wrong with me. I have Respect for the Ladies in this Business and would never put them in Harm's way by posting all of her info on this Board. If you guys could care less on what happens to a favorite Girl you're seeing, then post her info and hope nothing Bad happens to her. I can never do that to my Provider. She's way too Nice to me and I plan on seeing her for as long as possible.
Why I'm Not Sharing My Provider Info.
[QUOTE=Member202;1853811]I agree with Iced. There may not have been an internet or a place to get advice when you started in the '80's but there is now. You did it all on your own back then because you didn't have resources like USASG. Now there are resources like this and presumably that's exactly why you signed up here. Why are you here if not to get some good info. Too? Lighten up Ron.[/QUOTE]That was my Original Intent, to get and share info. But as I read the postings, seems like there are some that just want info without in turn posting info they have. I've also read about Board Members who have been dropped by a favorite Provider for posting her info on this Board without her permission. Some have even recommended other Board Members to their favorite Providers. These recommendations from other Board Members turned into a Nightmare for some Providers. So I'm hesitant on giving my Provider Info I have because I don't want any recommendation I give of other Board Members to Negatively Impact my Sessions with her. I'm not going to mess up future Sessions with my Provider by posting her info for Board Members I personally don't know. You do understand this, don't you? As far as getting info for myself, I can do that all on my own. I don't need or have ever requested help from anyone on this Board. I've been getting my own info about Providers all on my own since the mid 1980's. Even with USASG, if you can't or won't at least do some of your own info searching of a particular Provider, then why be involved in this Hobby?
Lesson Learned From Past Mistake.
[QUOTE=Boo1969;1854076]Wow it sounds like this dude fell in love with HIS provider and don't want to share her. For me none of the girls I post about are aware that its me doing the posting, that's why I use a fake name. Maybe Ron should change his handle. Usually the only time a girl has a problem with someone posting about her if the post is negative. The biggest reason why I check this board or any other board is to make sure I don't get caught in a sting.[/QUOTE]Me in Love? Naw. She told me directly not to post her info in here and I'm Honoring her Request. I do like her alot, but I'm not in Love with her. I've learned my lesson from a past Provider.
Finding A Reliable Provider.
[QUOTE=Casper27;1857436]I think finding a reliable provider is easier said than done. Lately BP is slim pickings for my tastes and I honestly don't have the patience for craigslist. I may try and see if I can contact one of the cougars I was banging a while back. If not ill be rubbing one out myself to some porn.[/QUOTE]You're right, it's not easy finding a Reliable and Trusted Provider. If you do your Diligence, Detective Work, and Info Gathering, you will be Greatly Rewarded with a Pot of Gold at the end of the Proverbial Rainbow. I found my Provider on the B. P. Sorry, I'm not giving her contact info out. I agree about C. L. Nothing to be found over there since the Erotic Section was removed.
You Don't Have To Go Broke.
[QUOTE=Casper27;1857460]While I'm sure if I do as you recommend I'll find someone but then I'll go broke. I'm searching for one that is not so much $$$ so I can see her a couple times. I actually found one she's AA, which seemed promising especially the rate I would go see her for quickies for. 60 she's a supposedly college student looked young, nice tight body but I got bored. I may go back to see her if I don't find anything else, I just don't like where she is located which is in hyde park.[/QUOTE]Casper, now the next Hurdle is finding a Provider within your Budget. I know everyone's Budget is different. If this Hyde Park Provider works out for you, you best keep her Under The Radar and to yourself. No need for others to mess up a Good Thing you got going. Hyde Park is Dicey at Night. So you should be careful going to her location. How about her going to your location instead?
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I got that, PM for details? Since I can't post #s
I got that, PM for details? Since I can't post #s.
Max, I Know What You Mean.
[QUOTE=Max01;1857483]I too have found a reliable massage provider on BP but I did have to give it a couple of visits to build her confidence and the service improved with each visit. The more I visit and make her a priority over others to her the better the service gets. It is like a relationship you do have to buidl it and cannot expect everything on the first visit.[/QUOTE]Max, I got ya. My Provider was the same way on the first visit. Hell I was more scared than she was. After a few Sessions, Trust and Confidence builds slowly between you. Max always remember these are "Working Girls." Don't get Emotionally Attached to them. They have other Clients they are seeing. Never get in the way of their Business. Just enjoy your Time with her. It's fine to be Friends and maybe take her out to Dinner after a Session every now and then. But don't get close to them. My Provider is Super Adorable, but I listen to the "Big Head" to keep myself in check from getting Close to her. If she wasn't a "Working Girl", would I like her to be my G. F, without a Doubt,"Hell Yeah!" When she leaves the Business, maybe. That's if I'm still in contact with her. Time will tell.
Something More With A Working Girl.
[QUOTE=DMichaels69;1857944]This is the hard part. When they are super nice and adorable, sometimes you think there could be more. But that's not the case.[/QUOTE]Mike, my Provider acts just like any other Non-Working Girl. She pays her Bills, Goes to the Grocery Store, Likes to go out to the Movies and Dinner. By looking at her, you'd never think she was in this Line of Work. That's what's killing me. She's totally Normal in terms of most other Girls, except for her Line of Work. If I met her as a Non-Working Girl, I'd probably try to get her as a Girlfriend.
Something More With A Working Girl.
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Asian provider education 101
When I look on BP, I laugh at all the fake asian provider pictures. The ones that look all professionally done, etc, they are all fake. With the exception of Korean Palace, and Spicy Thai, all the asian pics you see, ESP on backpage are fake. Sometimes they will at least try to match the real provider with the description of the glossy done up
Photos, (example, if they list her as being a the cub then the real girl will be a see, etc) but it's pretty much a crapshoot when you go to these asian incalls near ohare or worse, call an
Outcall on some of these ads that have ridiculously hot asian girls as the bait. Like this one here.
[url]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sexy-asian-escorts-available-now-22/16925313[/url]
Don't be fooled by them blurring out there eyes, I can assure you all these pictures are fake. I've seen many of these pictures on other sites etc, they've been recycled. As an asian myself, who has actually mongered out in s korea, japan, Hong kong, etc, it's extremely hard to find girls of this caliber even there. Here in the states often times non asians can't even tell if the girl is the girl from these glamour pics, haha, but anyhow here is one lone example I found on BP of a legitimate (not sure bc I didn't try nor would I want to) asian provider that is using real pics.
[url]http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/100-real-picture-or-free-25/18544809[/url]
I applaud this provider (or service) for actually being realistic and showing what look to be real pics, as well as the saying that it's 100 percent real pics or FREE. This is the typical asian incall / outcall provider here in Chicago, a bit older (40 or so) and somewhat attractive, but nowhere near as young and hot as the various ads that litter BP.
Remember as always, be prepared to WALK OUT during an incall or SEND THEM AWAY during an outcall if you're not happy with how they look, it's your money. If they're
Going to deceive me after I ask them specifically about their appearance and its not what they claimed, I'll be polite but not be a sucker. Every asian outcall place I've tried thus far has sent me nothing younger than a mid 40 year old, it's ridiculous. I'm done with Chinese providers period.
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Something More With A Working Girl
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