Is my point not plainly obvious to you all?
Ask whatever dumb questions you want of these girls. They are under no obligation to answer. They are not selling used cars, they're selling their bodies. If you're ghosted, it's because you give off a creepy troll vibe. If you still can't understand, then try that shit out on strippers and watch how fast you get booted out of a club. This is. Or white knight shot, this is advice on how to deal with providers. Advice you obviously need. Call them with only three questions, how much, where, and what time. Don't waste their time. Saying they don't have a job just makes you look ignorant. They could be hosting a high roller instead of answering dumb questions. I always treat them with respect, and don't waste their time. They don't owe any of us a single thing. Judging by the general attitudes I read, it's no wonder why they're always calling me.
So for you novices our there, don't overthink things, don't over complicate things. Call them, then go fuck them. Don't pay in advance. We've all been burned at one point or another. Sometime I end up screwing the girl who burned me the next day anyway. They're constantly testing you to see what they can get away with.
P.S, all that being said, you can expect a little more from high class / high price escorts, but the same rules apply.