Great Report and insight into Freak Parties
[QUOTE=Steak404;2103266]I've been to a number of them with mixed results. The worst is I've wasted some time and a little money (sometimes as little as a $5 "cover charge" to closer to $40 or $50). I've also had some incredible times and enjoyed some WOW! Gals. Even with the same place / operator I've had hit or miss results. The biggest variable is who shows up on a given night. The talent is less reliable than a strip club.
Here are some suggestions:
1. It is a "freak party" -- if the idea of being next to another couple or in a corner with no privacy is uncomfortable for you, this probably isn't for you.
2. There's a difference between an "bad neighborhood" and a "not so nice neighborhood." Bad neighborhood is the kind where you are worried about your vehicle or getting accosted on the way out. Most of the ones I've seen are in the later, the not so nice category. You'll be fine. Then again if you aren't comfortable you won't have a good time & this probably isn't going to be for you. If you are looking for a "Mansion Party" be prepared to pay "Mansion Party" prices.
3. The party operators don't want any trouble. It's not good for business. Let's face it they invited like 50 people over to the same place at the same time. They aren't trying to pistol whip you for your wallet. The other guests can be more of a concern depending on circumstances. If the party operator has several security workers, pats people down upon entry etc. And throws out unruly guests that's very positive.
4. Related I typically try to avoid hitting these places "late night"/ after bar close. The combination of a bunch of guys all trying to get after the same pussy after a night out partying isn't always a good mix.
5. Ignoring the assholes that are drunk, most of the guests are your fellow mongers. They are there for the same thing as you. They may be just as nervous as you. Just want a good time without drama. Be friendly they aren't the enemy.
6. If you see a lady that you like be direct. "want to play?" Some may approach you but if you want something approach her. It's weird but some of the best ones seem content to check their Instragram or whatever all night. Go figure.
7. Not all of the ladies do all of the same stuff. Some are just "dancers" (similar to Strip Clubs).
8. If you are looking for "VIP" or whatever they are calling it no point in throwing a bunch of money at her in the common area then asking her if she does VIP etc. Just ask straightaway.
9. Don't pay strip club or escort prices. Keep these gals reasonable for the rest of us. They might throw you a crazy number. They will take less. (note the set up on all these places varies. Some are pay a door fee & that's it. Some are a small door fee than girl works on tips). Think about it: you are at some questionable place in the middle of god knows where drinking out of a keg party solo cup with a gal that didn't have to pay a fortune to Dekalb Cty for a permit. You should not pay anywhere near what she'd charge at Follies or Blaze. Think closer to SW prices.
10. As for the gals. What you see is what you get. I've never had a place not let me pop my head in the door and see what is there without paying the door fee. They will give you the whole "I've got more on the way" line which may or may not be true but if he's got a room full of 3's and 4's he isn't going to miraculously have a bunch of 6's and 7's show up later. Any if he does have one gem show up later & you are the new guy? Prepared to wait your turn. The regulars will all get a turn first.
11. Most are BYOB. Even if they say they have drinks it isn't a full bar. If practical just pick up a 6 pack or bottle and bring it with you. It's also a signal to the operator this isn't your first rodeo.
12. Bathroom situation is typically not so great. A travel pack of baby wipes & hand sanitizer not a bad call.[/QUOTE]I alwasy guessed what they were like in Atlanta as I have seen them advertised and always wanted to find the time to drive two hours to one. Attended a few many years ago in another state and sounds pretty much the same. Thanks for the great informative info for all of us. Stay safe all.
Don.