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[QUOTE=Brudda1;3398618]It's that "it won't happen to me" attitude. Obviously we know the risk, but if like me will just put that thought to the side and ignore it. It's part not caring about yourself and can be linked to depression. Most mongers on this site probably don't take care of themselves, and I wasn't for a while, quite likely the reason we all pay for sex here. If what I said even helps just one person on here I'll accept your smartass comment anyday.[/QUOTE]Thank you for "mansplaining" things to me. Come on this is a sex forum about how to get laid. Do you really need to go there? "Even helps just one person" Save your missionary zeal for another day or site. And while we're at it "Most mongers on this site probably don't take care" Really? And just how did you arrive at such speculation? I would suggest to you that you take a look in the mirror and not try to lay your issues on anyone else. Just sayin'. Have a nice day!

Ss.

[QUOTE=SureYourRight;3398798]Everyone is putting themselves at risk when they have sex with anyone provider or not. You should be glad the dude was honest enough to even say anything because not everyone would be so forward.

I know a lot of the CFS only guys are sitting around saying "I told you so" but that that's just going to discourage other people from doing the same thing (coming forward) if they catch something.[/QUOTE]And that is why I started the discussion. The subject was quickly getting buried on the other thread. I sought guidance as to what I could post and proceeded to post it. Not to call the guy out, rather to "inspire" him to do the right thing in his personal / internal debate. I'm glad he posted it. I am hopeful he will seek professional help in curing it. And I seriously doubt he will call every provider he's been with to tell them to go get checked. Not going to happen. He did a service in revealing his health issue, but, even considering a continuation of BBFS seemed to me to be totally self centered. Just an aside, had a buddy who tried to cure his bowel syndrome issues with garlic. This delayed him going to a doctor. When he finally did, he was diagnosed with colon cancer. So he went to Mexico to do some homeopathic shark cartilage cure. He's dead (at age 32). Point is the guy was trying to "think out of the box" for a possible cure. Fine, but in the meantime, go see a doctor.

Ss.

I'm not saying cut this subject, nor am I saying this issue is getting out of hand on forum. But, this forum and "safe mongering" forum where this started, certain members should review back posts a little more carefully. I can easily call out 2-3 of them now, on their (later) posts that conflict what they said in their (earlier) posts. We always say RTFF good, before you jump out, and post something you are assuming. I ain't talking about this guys issue-I'm talking about firing back on other members posts regarding his issue. Don't get your "opinion" and your "assumptions" mixed up here, because you start to conflict yourself. Don't assume your being accused of being wrong on any subject when its only an opinion by someone else.

[QUOTE=Shipshape;3398872]And that is why I started the discussion. The subject was quickly getting buried on the other thread. I sought guidance as to what I could post and proceeded to post it. Not to call the guy out, rather to "inspire" him to do the right thing in his personal / internal debate. I'm glad he posted it. I am hopeful he will seek professional help in curing it. And I seriously doubt he will call every provider he's been with to tell them to go get checked. Not going to happen. He did a service in revealing his health issue, but, even considering a continuation of BBFS seemed to me to be totally self centered. Just an aside, had a buddy who tried to cure his bowel syndrome issues with garlic. This delayed him going to a doctor. When he finally did, he was diagnosed with colon cancer. So he went to Mexico to do some homeopathic shark cartilage cure. He's dead (at age 32). Point is the guy was trying to "think out of the box" for a possible cure. Fine, but in the meantime, go see a doctor.

Ss.[/QUOTE]There is no cure for Herpes / HPV. There is medication to lower the chance of outbreaks and he can take things to try to suppress his chance of outbreaks / passing it on but that shit is never going away. It all honesty I expect that guy to resume BB service as soon as the warts clear and continue taking certain supplements / medication to up his chances of not passing the virus. This is what I expect to happen. I might be wrong and he'll "Do the right thing" and either retire from mongering or go CFS every time. I'm sure hes getting enough crap in PMs about which providers he was with last.

[QUOTE=Shipshape;3398863]Thank you for "mansplaining" things to me. Come on this is a sex forum about how to get laid. Do you really need to go there? "Even helps just one person" Save your missionary zeal for another day or site. And while we're at it "Most mongers on this site probably don't take care" Really? And just how did you arrive at such speculation? I would suggest to you that you take a look in the mirror and not try to lay your issues on anyone else. Just sayin'. Have a nice day!

Ss.[/QUOTE]A big part of taking high / unnecessary risks is linked to depression or an internal "don't care what happens to me" attitude. I'm just saying men who pay for sex are usually men who can't get it outside of it. It's a mental stigma for most as they genuinely think the girl is enjoying being with them LOL. Just feeds the ego. My opinion on most people on this site is 40+, over weight and like I said not very presentable to women. Sure it's shitty to assume, I'm sure there's some people who do it here solely for the pussy and aren't unattractive. But every monger I've "bumped" into is as I described.

[QUOTE=Brudda1;3398911]A big part of taking high / unnecessary risks is linked to depression or an internal "don't care what happens to me" attitude. I'm just saying men who pay for sex are usually men who can't get it outside of it. It's a mental stigma for most as they genuinely think the girl is enjoying being with them LOL. Just feeds the ego. My opinion on most people on this site is 40+, over weight and like I said not very presentable to women. Sure it's shitty to assume, I'm sure there's some people who do it here solely for the pussy and aren't unattractive. But every monger I've "bumped" into is as I described.[/QUOTE]
You might be correct about some of the mongers on here. Another factor could be time, there could be young studs with lots of cash that have no time but want to fuck girls that don't waste time nor play games. One thing is for sure we've never met, because if we did your perception might drastically change regards to a mongers appearance IMHO. Oh oh here we go off tangent! Let's stick to the agenda. The agenda is dude who has HPV and debating if he should continue mongering BBFS or not?

I got two question, with the dude being that open about girls, sex, the girls he's fucked, his condition etc...wouldn't the AMP girls know his screen name? Thus not want to BBFS with him?

[QUOTE=ShootngStarBoy;3398914]You might be correct about some of the mongers on here. Another factor could be time, there could be young studs with lots of cash that have no time but want to fuck girls that don't waste time nor play games. One thing is for sure we've never met, because if we did your perception might drastically change IMHO. Oh oh here we go off tangent! Let's stick to the agenda. The agenda is dude who has HPV and debating if he should continue mongering.[/QUOTE]I consider myself lucky all I had to do was hit the gym and now I have no problem dating outside of the hobby. So I'm there with you I don't hit the stereotypical monger either. And the answer is no, he shouldn't.

To put this topic to rest, all the providers need to do if they are doing BBFSCIP is to get checked every so often. Going undetected can kill the or older worese case scenario. I don't know the statistics but I believe millions have HPV. This virus is not like HIV. Many women at a very young age catch this virus. Going undetected may kill them. The providers I believe can give it to the guys also if they do BBFS. It's the risk we all take if we go BB.

Not all mongers are fat, ugly, out of shape and don't take care of themselves or can't get sex outside of an AMP. A lot of mongers are tip top shape, okay to very good looking, built like Giants and have top notch hygiene. Many just want new pussy without getting caught or having some other woman fall in love with them or the opposite. Many mongers also have great to awesome careers, beautiful wives etc. Again, have an affair with some outside woman get caught and lose everything from our businesses, pensions so on and so forth.

Ck out.

[QUOTE=Ck813;3398930]
Not all mongers are fat, ugly, out of shape and don't take care of themselves or can't get sex outside of an AMP. A lot of mongers are tip top shape, okay to very good looking, built like Giants and have top notch hygiene. Many just want new pussy without getting caught or having some other woman fall in love with them or the opposite. Many mongers also have great to awesome careers, beautiful wives etc. Again, have an affair with some outside woman get caught and lose everything from our businesses, pensions so on and so forth.

Ck out.[/QUOTE]Well said brother. Totally agree. Don't want that drama and get caught by the SO. One hour rentals. LOL.

[QUOTE=Ck813;3398930]To put this topic to rest, all the providers need to do if they are doing BBFSCIP is to get checked every so often. Going undetected can kill the or older worese case scenario. I don't know the statistics but I believe millions have HPV. This virus is not like HIV. Many women at a very young age catch this virus. Going undetected may kill them. The providers I believe can give it to the guys also if they do BBFS. It's the risk we all take if we go BB.

Not all mongers are fat, ugly, out of shape and don't take care of themselves or can't get sex outside of an AMP. A lot of mongers are tip top shape, okay to very good looking, built like Giants and have top notch hygiene. Many just want new pussy without getting caught or having some other woman fall in love with them or the opposite. Many mongers also have great to awesome careers, beautiful wives etc. Again, have an affair with some outside woman get caught and lose everything from our businesses, pensions so on and so forth.

Ck out.[/QUOTE]Yea I said it's shitty to assume all mongers are like what I described, but it's my general idea of the majority. Which I'm sure is correct. The providers I've seen have confirmed it as well. There are successful, handsome mongers as they've told me. But usually the carrying a small package for the girls hahha. Just saying we all got something wrong with us. If you got the total package, grats.

And having a 1 hour wife instead of an affair is understandable, but bring something home and aren't the repercussions the same? I would think the people who have something to lose would take much less risk.

[QUOTE=Brudda1;3399695]Yea I said it's shitty to assume all mongers are like what I described, but it's my general idea of the majority. Which I'm sure is correct. The providers I've seen have confirmed it as well. There are successful, handsome mongers as they've told me. But usually the carrying a small package for the girls hahha.
.[/QUOTE]So let me get this straight because I'm slow I guess. According to you, the majority of mongers, of which there are literally thousands, fall into what you described as bascally depressed, fat, old losers based upon your personal observations. Correct? (I know you said "I'm sure is correct" just double checking) Additionally, you make it a habit of talking with providers about other guys packages. Correct? Interesting.

SS.

[QUOTE=Shipshape;3399843]So let me get this straight because I'm slow I guess. According to you, the majority of mongers, of which there are literally thousands, fall into what you described as bascally depressed, fat, old losers based upon your personal observations. Correct? (I know you said "I'm sure is correct" just double checking) Additionally, you make it a habit of talking with providers about other guys packages. Correct? Interesting.

SS.[/QUOTE]Hahaha no. I don't instigate these conversations. They just talk to me because I end up dating them 75% of the time and sometimes they tell me more than I care to listen to.

[QUOTE=ShootngStarBoy;3398914] two question, with the dude being that open about girls, sex, the girls he's fucked, his condition etc...wouldn't the AMP girls know his screen name? Thus not want to BBFS with him?[/QUOTE]Nope not a chance not if you're wearing a mask or disguise. No way the AMP girls going to recognize. Cover up behind mask and going be hard to recognize.

The girls only care about cash, so just waive the bills in front, and they're gonna open up the spread eagle.

[QUOTE=Brudda1;3399863]Hahaha no. I don't instigate these conversations. They just talk to me because I end up dating them 75% of the time and sometimes they tell me more than I care to listen to.[/QUOTE]You know I'd imagine a client loves hearing a provider talk about other clients just as much as providers love hearing you praise other providers service. I don't think this topic would come up in conversation, especially with a guy she's trying to impress / date.

[QUOTE=ShootngStarBoy;3398914]You might be correct about some of the mongers on here. Another factor could be time, there could be young studs with lots of cash that have no time but want to fuck girls that don't waste time nor play games. One thing is for sure we've never met, because if we did your perception might drastically change regards to a mongers appearance IMHO. Oh oh here we go off tangent! Let's stick to the agenda. The agenda is dude who has HPV and debating if he should continue mongering BBFS or not?

I got two question, with the dude being that open about girls, sex, the girls he's fucked, his condition etc...wouldn't the AMP girls know his screen name? Thus not want to BBFS with him?[/QUOTE]I'm sure some know his screen name. Girls know mine. And I'm sure once he tells, if he tells, just one girl the news will spread through the grapevine so not only will BBFS be over, BBBJ too. Pretty much if he does get a provider willing to service him it will be all covered. TBH if I was a provider I personally would not see him at all because makes me wonder what else he may have. Just IMHO.