Good recommendations. A few more.
[QUOTE=Riley4511;3431456]Mr Juxtapose, Great tips and advice. MY 2 CENTS.
"1) do your intel. Read what these guys say about some of their dates they've been on with the ladies. Dudes are pretty much up front and call it like it is. But always trust your gut (not little head), and bail if it don't feel right. ".
Also, google their ad number and pics for any history. Search on other sites. TER, E BABYLON.
"3) make the call. Use an alternative phone and not your main cell phone. $30 flip phone from Walmart or something. ".
OR a phone app for your iPhone (go to the app store-type in text / call apps). "text now" "freestone".
"5) if you meet up, be safe. Figuratively and literally. Vibe the girl when you meet her to see if you to hit it off. But above all, be courteous and kind. It opens doors. If she is not nice, still be nice and leave. They get sketchy if you do too. ".
I don't ever chat in specifics like "do you offer bare back blow job"or "do we have sex and fuck our brains out" nothing in writing on text or calls. Use alternative language. When you meetup at their place take it slowly, let her approach you. If she's asking specific questions before any body parts have touched or clothing off be on alert. I like to let the girl take the lead. Is she going to kiss me, touch me.
When you get to their place, HOTEL / HOME alway. Always always look around. First review the outside, any suspicious cars, people. Any male presence? Ask to use the bathroom when you first walk in. Just check any closed doors. Harder in a home with multi rooms but in a hotel, easier. Also be confident with you demeanor, don't show that your too nervous. Some of these girls can smell a newbie and take you for a different kind of ride.
YES, be nice! I take the approach that I'm going on a blind date. I get myself freshly showered trimmed or shaved if your single, after shave lotion, nicely dressed and above all show them respect as a human being. I can't imagine some of the personalities they have to deal with. Above all do your intel, Take one and report back. RESEARCH, RESEARCH, RESEARCH. Stay safe but have fun.[/QUOTE]Never pay up front. If she demands it, explain you have been ripped off before, show her only the exact number of cash (never, ever flash more), put it back in your pocket and walk. If legit, she will say OK. If not WALK.
On photos TGTBT and also photos in general. Ask, "Are the photos current and of you". If she says yes, reply, "If it isn't, is it free?" If she gets mad or says something like, I don't play that game, then the photos ARE fake.
Get a concealed weapons permit and invest in a taser. Shoot someone with a regular gun in real life, then everything about you will be in the media. Taze their ass, they will not call LE. (Yes you have to have a CWP to carry a real taser, knife over 4", or canaster size mace in FL).
(On a side note, never threaten someone with a taser. You may get shot. Simply pull it out and immediately use it neutralizing the threat.).