Monday Morning Quarterbacking
[QUOTE=Johnboy;1077400]That was probably one of the most honest statements I've heard on this board and I thank you for that. No one is perfect as you stated, and anyone who thinks that way will surely lose in the end.[/QUOTE]Thank you for your thank you.
There are way too many Monday morning quarterbacks on this site who are all too ready to tell you how they would have handled something or give you a brow beating about how something should have been handled. I would prefer to hear how someone actually DID handle a similar situation or a well-reasoned analysis and commentary that shows some thought and causes one to reflect.
The discussions regarding Camden and mongers facing tickets and legal battles in court is a prime example. There seem to be a lot of what we would have called "shit-house lawyers" where I grew up, who come on like gangbusters and tell you it is no biggie and how easy it is to beat the charges or the tickets in the Camden courts. It doesn't sound that way for the guys who actually are facing that, or from guys who actually have faced it. Regardless of the nature of the charge or ticket, at minimum it seems to involve an investment of your time and a considerable expense to be fighting anything in court, and requires a good attorney with experience in the Camden courts in defending your particular offense. The bottom line in all of this is obviously not to get a ticket, but that is easier said than done. You can be and have to be much more careful mongering in Camden than in Philly. The reasons for that seem primarily to be twofold: mongers stick out like a sore thumb in Camden as opposed to blending in on the K (except not so much at night, another reason I prefer day mongering) and LE there use local ordinances like loitering for the purposes of soliciting prostitution, or visiting a disorderly area for an unlawful purpose ( such as solicitation of prostitution), to hand out tickets like candy. Tickets may be relatively easy to beat from a legal perspective, by just showing up in court (since LE often does not) or lack of convincing evidence, or the relative ease of getting reduced charges if you fight them with a good lawyer at your side, but all those legal niceties are little comfort to the guy directly involved. There can always be good advice to follow in any situation involving LE, such as remembering to exercise your fourth amendment (protection from unreasonable search and seizure) and fifth amendment (protection from self incrimination) rights in a polite and reasonable way. Beyond the soundness of such advice, I would rather hear the first-person story of a monger who has experienced something like this as a lesson to be learned than all the blowhards who proceed to tell him how THEY would have done it!
Intention to buy controlled substances
That was the ticket. I couldn't even tell you the year. Going on ten years ago now. While with a girl, was pulled over for driving while white in Camden. As both of us came back clean from the traffic stop, this was the officer's only option. I guess?
Not wanting to pay 1500 for a lawyer, I talked to the prosecutor on court day. Plead guilty, paid a fine over 200. If no recurrence for x period of time offense goes away. Worked for me. No record of offense today.
Three of these tickets leads to a permanent record.
Stay Safe, STAY ALERT.
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LOOK on the top line. PHOTO GALLERY IS BACK!
Just noticed that the photo gallery is back.
Might be a few days until all of the glitches are worked out, but IT IS BACK!
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RE: LOOK on the top line. PHOTO GALLERY IS BACK!
[QUOTE=Cephlapod Love; 1078410]Just noticed that the photo gallery is back.
Might be a few days until all of the glitches are worked out, but IT IS BACK!
[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/fileslist.php[/url][/QUOTE]When the software on this website was updated, a lot of people were squealing like the proverbial stuck pig about the missing photo gallery. I wasn't one of them, and it wasn't because I didn't think the photo gallery was a useful thing to have. I figured that this website was going to be what it was going to be, and complaining about it wasn't going to change much. Besides that fact, I have my own private pic gallery both in what I publish here and what I have privately. 90% of the other pics on here that are worthwhile looking at are taken by a handful of mongers, and I already know who they are.
HOWEVER, I would still contend, as I have said before, that most of the pics in the gallery fall into the following categories: 1. Out-of-focus and / or long-range street shots of unidentified girls, some of whom may or may not be SWs, and so what if they are; they are just public eye candy and the pics are of little value in the way of intel as to names or performance. I posted just two public eye candy pics in my Jersey thread this past summer, and there was an uproar about it, even though I clearly indicated she wasn't a SW, and they were taken from the rear. It just goes to show you that when you are a big target you attract a lot of "envy shrapnel" even though others may be doing the same or far worse. 2. Advertising by internet girls. 3. Commercial photos (there are a LOT of these). 4. Photos that are way too tiny to see and aren't worth opening (the gallery should show the dimensions of a photo; it would save a LOT of unnecessary time bothering to open these). 5. Self-taken amateur pics. 6. Joke photos.
If I want to gawk at hot pictures there are FAR better on line sources for that. As a monger, there is relatively little useful I can glean from the photo gallery. If I want to find real SWs in other cities, with a few exceptions, SW pics are posted very few and far between. If I want to find real SWs right here in Philly and Camden, we have one of the most well documented pic collections of any city in the country, but about half of that in terms of number of SWs, reports and pics are already contributed by yours truly.
So, the bottom line is that having the photo gallery or not having the photo gallery is not a big deal to me. It is nice to have, but it could be a lot better in many ways, just like many aspects of this website could be better. I have made such suggestions in the past both publicly and privately, but after your recommendations seem to fall on deaf ears at a 100% rate, the effort soon loses its appeal. I have endlessly appealed to have a SW index back, and even volunteered to administer it. Hearing zero response on this over and over, I finally decided to do what needs to be done when you are trying to get someone to do something and they don't do it: you do it yourself. So, I created my own alphabetic index by year and by stroll to every SW report and pic series I have ever done. I am thinking of doing the same regarding different subjects I have written about here, because it has accumulated into quite a body of work.