Hey Juliette, Where do I sign up?
[QUOTE=GFE Juliette; 1449094]I want to genuinely get to know him and enjoy his company because I feel that it makes our time together so much better. I have been known to go out to lunch and dinner with these men without asking for anything more other than a great conversation and I am definitely not a clock watcher (I have allowed some men to hang around for hours if we really hit it off). I adore and truly care about each of my friends that come to visit me. We chat by phone or email one another occasionally even if I don't have a visit from them in some time. Some I send photos of my flowers or dogs. Sometimes if I need a friend to talk to I may call one of them. To me, this is not all about the money. It's about true friendship.
Juliette[/QUOTE]I know I am going to take a ton of crap for this, but I want the experience you describe and I believe it can be found. We hear terms thrown around like "connection","special relationship" and they meet with immediate ridicule and disdain. On the other hand we here terms like "Cash for Gash","leasing a warm hole" and they are echoed throughout the ethos like profound truisms to be repeated and admired. I say to each their own but Just looking for a quick "romp and run" is no more or less legitimate than looking for a little more.
Truth is, this is for the most part a purely commercial venture, however there is room at the margins for two human beings to come together within the confines of a "business" relationship and be friends! Not lovers, not romantic partners but friends.
Admittedly, I have thrown some serious dream money down the "friendship" rathole and gotten mainly grief and ingratitude in return but my stupid ass is going to keep on truckin!
Now excuse me while I go change my Tampon.
Senna.
P. S. Juliette, what do expect from a guy called sexhound? LOL.
Want To Celebrate Senior Status
Fellow hobbyists, you will see that I have 26 reports and have been a member here now for over 15 months, finally having met the requirements for senior membership status. As many of you do, I love meeting a very few reliable locals regularly, but am always anxious to find someone new. I would love a UTR recommendation with whom to see to celebrate my senior status. Being a total GFE guy, at first I seldom found providers that met that criteria, as many just seemed to be rushing guys through like an assembly line. I have learned the hard way, until beginning to use this site.
I cannot boast enough about being here. When Alexis first told me of this site over 1 1/2 years ago, or perhaps it was Barbie, it was a real eye opener. It has saved me so much time, money, and effort. A few times I TOFTT, without knowing what I was doing, and saw some ladies who were just passing through. I've since learned that without reviews, stay away from them. And stay away from those that look TGTBT, because they usually are.
I certainly understand the need to keep some info only available to senior members, and that trust is tantamount to success in this business. I apologize for PMing some of you when the stipulation was clearly to have been a senior member. I did not know that there were even membership levels then, but since have.
I feel that I know some of you as Alexis, Barbie, and Jenna have spoken of your helpfulness from giving legal advice, to medical advice, to just being protective and helpful to everyone in this business. The list could go on and on, but many thanks to twopuppop, drholiday, walker2011, fastcars1966, wheelerjim, knoxyankee, newbutold, Fredzeppelin, sexhoundtn2, ruavol2, galtguy, bonifino, beaux, etc. I may have missed some I'm sure. And Jackson as moderator has been very helpful!
To illustrate how valuable this site has been, at first I had no idea what a UTR was, and that I could meet some really good quality providers here who did not advertise elsewhere. Jenna was one of those UTR's I found out about here, at least when she was when first starting out. I also saw Kelly very early on, and had I known some of the negatives, I would not have. This site has also stopped me from seeing Monica who advertises at Straw Plains. Many many thanks!