NoVA SugarBabies

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5412809]I understand sharing numbers with escorts, because they are pros. Sugars aren't quite the same. [blue]

Actually they are, you give them money and they fuck you.

I banned the troll, please stop talking about him. He will be back, when he does please report him don't engage him.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]I agree that from the POV of a monger, there is technically no difference between an escort and an SB in that they both have sex with you for money. However, there is a difference in how an escort and an SB views themselves. An escort is a professional and most high-end escorts behave accordingly. An SB is an amateur and hence most behave like an amateurs, they are less consistent with services, how much cash they want and reliability. I have older SBs who do not need the cash but still have sex for cash because they get turned on by getting paid for sex or they like the dirtiness of the transaction. I'm not saying I agree with SBs who feel they are not escorts or prostitutes as it does smack a little holier than thou and two-faced but it is how they do feel.

At the end of the day we are paying them to spread their legs, but I was trying to point out a different. Escort advertised their contact information on escorts sites. So they are use to random guys msging them. While Sugar Babies don't advertise their contact information. You have to msg them through sites like SA first. When a SB gets a msg from a random number saying $300 1 hr with no previous contact wouldn't that creep them out? It happen to one of my SBs reasonly, and she was creep out.

I also ask if any of you guys share numbers of SBs, and how do they react when you msg them, with no previous contact through a site like SA.

[QUOTE=OldChineseGuy;5415470]I agree that from the POV of a monger, there is technically no difference between an escort and an SB in that they both have sex with you for money. However, there is a difference in how an escort and an SB views themselves. An escort is a professional and most high-end escorts behave accordingly. An SB is an amateur and hence most behave like an amateurs, they are less consistent with services, how much cash they want and reliability. I have older SBs who do not need the cash but still have sex for cash because they get turned on by getting paid for sex or they like the dirtiness of the transaction. I'm not saying I agree with SBs who feel they are not escorts or prostitutes as it does smack a little holier than thou and two-faced but it is how they do feel.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FogHorn1;5411691]Really cool girl, but at the end of the day she wants like 800 per meet. I wasn't going for that with her.[/QUOTE]It was weird. I met her at a Starbucks and we agreed on 400 BBFS, made plans, and then she ghosted. I guess she realized her market value was higher. Sort of bad skin and teeth, but great body.

[QUOTE=OldChineseGuy;5415470]I agree that from the POV of a monger, there is technically no difference between an escort and an SB in that they both have sex with you for money. However, there is a difference in how an escort and an SB views themselves. An escort is a professional and most high-end escorts behave accordingly. An SB is an amateur and hence most behave like an amateurs, they are less consistent with services, how much cash they want and reliability. I have older SBs who do not need the cash but still have sex for cash because they get turned on by getting paid for sex or they like the dirtiness of the transaction. I'm not saying I agree with SBs who feel they are not escorts or prostitutes as it does smack a little holier than thou and two-faced but it is how they do feel.[/QUOTE]Another big difference is that generally escorts require a lot less work than SBs. You may have to get verified for ones you have never seen before but once you are in, it is wham bam thank you ma'am. You turn up, get whatever services you came for and leave satisfied. This is more true of higher-end escorts, basically you get what you pay for. You ain't getting any emotional interaction and rarely the intellectual sort of interaction not matter how GFE the experience is. There are rare exceptions where you might find a cultured and intellectual escort but you are forking over big coin for that experience. But this sort transactional experience is an advantage as you will almost never get calls from an escort, you call them when you want service. Again there are exceptions and I've gotten calls for help with computer stuff from escorts I've had a long-term relationship with. I should probably charge them for that but it often parlays into going way past the hour and MSOG.

SBs are a lot more work, not only to find the one that is right for what you seek but even subsequently. Because they are amateurs, type, quality and consistency of service is highly variable because they do not view themselves of providing a service. Many do not view themselves as escorts or prostitutes (yes, it is two-faced and holier-than-thou) and often behave like a GF or SO would, so you are more likely to get that emotional component. They will call or text you and for some of us that is a huge no no. Some will get emotionally attached to you as they see you as a BF and they will not always be able to see you when you want. But you are also more likely to find the rare intellectual interaction you might want from some creative, business-type or an academic. I've had SBs who are artists, musicians and former ballet dancers. I've also had SBs who are successful business owners, work for the State Depart and travel extensively or are in graduate school for their PhD. I can tell you the intellectual interactions I have with these types of SB is very different than the ones I have with escorts. You get to converse on a wider variety of topics, enjoy the company of someone sometimes highly intelligent and still get to stick it into one or more holes. On your part it requires charm and an ability to converse at the same level they do but there is something quite satisfying about fucking an intelligent women. In some cases, since they don't really need the money and do it for some psychological kink, I don't pay then with coin but we trade services like in the olde days. I build or buy them something they need / want, teach them some sport they want to get into, take them to some performance they have been wanting to see or take them on travel to a place they have wanted to visit (have not actually done the last one but am in discussions).

Don't get me wrong, sex for money / stuff is sex for money / stuff, it does not change who SBs are or what they want to call themselves, but the experience can be very different from escorts, it's what you want out of it.

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5415599]I also ask if any of you guys share numbers of SBs, and how do they react when you msg them, with no previous contact through a site like SA.[/QUOTE]They react fine, they are hookers regardless of where they advertise their snatch. I just say we met off SA and never have an issue, these girls are soliciting so many guys they don't remember who they talked to or even go back to check.

[QUOTE=FogHorn1;5411691]Really cool girl, but at the end of the day she wants like 800 per meet. I wasn't going for that with her.[/QUOTE]Saw her months ago when I just started on SA.

$400 BBFS and it was her asking price at the time.

Ok sex, not bad, not great.

I didn't bother to repeat as I had several better options at the time.

[QUOTE=HeyDuhman;5416235]Saw her months ago when I just started on SA.

$400 BBFS and it was her asking price at the time.

Ok sex, not bad, not great.

I didn't bother to repeat as I had several better options at the time.[/QUOTE]Well it's good to hear she was just ok. I was looking forward to firing a load on that freaky tattoo. Oh well. Onto the next. I have better options already.

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;5416339]Well it's good to hear she was just ok. I was looking forward to firing a load on that freaky tattoo. Oh well. Onto the next. I have better options already.[/QUOTE]+1 to what's been said already, I was anticipating someone much more freaky than she turned out to be, the sex was just ok and didn't repeat.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/95f1ebc5-967e-4c54-8c5a-26aa71d3f052[/URL]

I think this one is super cute. Anyone have any Intel to share?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b93e980a-e9d8-e7dc-5295-8776fc6727db[/URL]

She changed her profile name to the attached link. On one hand, she is actually very nice and very pretty with a great body. On the other hand, she seems really messed up in some way. She gives off too much of a pro vibe. Hosts in her apartment in Manassas. Everything covered. 350. But her apartment was so lame and she was so odd that I didn't begin to know what to do after the first shot was fired so I took off after like 25 minutes instead of waiting for round two. What do you guys do in that situation??

Your plan seems to be the way to go. Just pretend that you msg before on SA. I'm not one to normally ask for numbers. Just seems easier to msg the girl directly if I'm interested.

[QUOTE=KevinCalormis;5416008]They react fine, they are hookers regardless of where they advertise their snatch. I just say we met off SA and never have an issue, these girls are soliciting so many guys they don't remember who they talked to or even go back to check.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;5416521][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b93e980a-e9d8-e7dc-5295-8776fc6727db[/URL]

She changed her profile name to the attached link. On one hand, she is actually very nice and very pretty with a great body. On the other hand, she seems really messed up in some way. She gives off too much of a pro vibe. Hosts in her apartment in Manassas. Everything covered. 350. But her apartment was so lame and she was so odd that I didn't begin to know what to do after the first shot was fired so I took off after like 25 minutes instead of waiting for round two. What do you guys do in that situation??[/QUOTE]Leave. Or get rough / kinky for round two to keep myself interested.

I used to see her all the time back in 2015 2016 when she was a student at Towson state.

She lived in parkville md In a very messy apartment.

She was always distant except when we talked school Had that 1000 yard stare otherwise.

Had a boyfriend around 2017 and it got weirder so I moved on.

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;5416521][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b93e980a-e9d8-e7dc-5295-8776fc6727db[/URL]

She changed her profile name to the attached link. On one hand, she is actually very nice and very pretty with a great body. On the other hand, she seems really messed up in some way. She gives off too much of a pro vibe. Hosts in her apartment in Manassas. Everything covered. 350. But her apartment was so lame and she was so odd that I didn't begin to know what to do after the first shot was fired so I took off after like 25 minutes instead of waiting for round two. What do you guys do in that situation??[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JackRyan1;5416755]I used to see her all the time back in 2015 2016 when she was a student at Towson state.

She lived in parkville md In a very messy apartment.

She was always distant except when we talked school Had that 1000 yard stare otherwise.

Had a boyfriend around 2017 and it got weirder so I moved on.[/QUOTE]Great info all, thanks. Was thinking of hitting that.

Condoms or raw?

Damage?

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;5416485][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/95f1ebc5-967e-4c54-8c5a-26aa71d3f052[/URL]

I think this one is super cute. Anyone have any Intel to share?[/QUOTE]She seems great! But wants 300 for mandatory platonic date, 700 after.

I countered with nothing for coffee date, 800 for hotel dates sans protection.

After we exchanged papers and proof of birth control.

She wished me good luck and that was that.

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;5416521][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b93e980a-e9d8-e7dc-5295-8776fc6727db[/URL]

She changed her profile name to the attached link. On one hand, she is actually very nice and very pretty with a great body. On the other hand, she seems really messed up in some way. She gives off too much of a pro vibe. Hosts in her apartment in Manassas. Everything covered. 350. But her apartment was so lame and she was so odd that I didn't begin to know what to do after the first shot was fired so I took off after like 25 minutes instead of waiting for round two. What do you guys do in that situation??[/QUOTE]This one and I have gotten together three or four times earlier this year. The last visit was over a month ago, but at the time she quoted me 300 PPM and 500 for an all-nighter. Very readily offers her digits within the first couple Seeking messages. Wants everything covered & can host out of Manassas or come to you.

Personally, our conversations never seemed to be forced. In the beginning yes, she kinda had that 1000-yard stare and came across as super awkward. But I used to live, work, and travel throughout Asia, so we had some things in common to talk about. Just talk about anything other than her current job and her ex will usually yield better results. As for the apartment, it is a tad cluttered--but it's [U]nowhere near as bad as ZoeyMarie[/U] from Baltimore! Absolutely loves being eaten out (quivers all over from it) and seems to put out a little more following that. Despite a so-so BBBJ and everything else covered, she's reliable in scheduling and a decent time in bed.

I might visit again, but there's others I've been working on who are much closer and open to a lot more stuff.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4ffdd121-99b5-4e5a-9a05-243c2680d3cf[/URL]

I've been hesitant to pull the trigger on this one. Pakistani, looks exotic and striking in some photos, others I worry she is going to be sloppy and fat. I got her down to 350.

Eventually I'll get horny and try her out.

[QUOTE=SexCg;5417060]She seems great! But wants 300 for mandatory platonic date, 700 after.

I countered with nothing for coffee date, 800 for hotel dates sans protection.

After we exchanged papers and proof of birth control.

She wished me good luck and that was that.[/QUOTE]Did she let you cum in her?

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;5417552][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4ffdd121-99b5-4e5a-9a05-243c2680d3cf[/URL]

I've been hesitant to pull the trigger on this one. Pakistani, looks exotic and striking in some photos, others I worry she is going to be sloppy and fat. I got her down to 350.

Eventually I'll get horny and try her out.[/QUOTE]Just my experience, but anytime they only show closeups of their face and list "curvy" as a body type, that generally means fatty.

I matched up on tinder and SA with her. Chats and then ghosts. So doubtful you will ever meet her. I don't think anyone has seen her. If you do. Post it 😁.

[QUOTE=FogHorn1;5418300]Just my experience, but anytime they only show closeups of their face and list "curvy" as a body type, that generally means fatty.[/QUOTE]

Anyone out there meet up with this girl? Looks Hot.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8e42ca50-c59f-405f-ad74-8a6ef012b4e5[/URL]

Thanks.

[QUOTE=Dimples572;5075617]Anyone have any experience with her? We've got something tentatively set up for tomorrow, just curious if there's any details anyone can share before I take the plunge. Thanks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8e42ca50-c59f-405f-ad74-8a6ef012b4e5[/URL][/QUOTE]Did you meetup? Anything I should know before possibly meeting with her?

Thanks.

Chatted with this one, she's an UTR pro advertising on SA. Quoted "300 for the hour" and when I offered to get a room she said she's got a room because "I'm staying here for the week until I move into my new place" LOL. Riiiight.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/895b11b1-a0a5-43db-9c50-5cf3cc74057c[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ed4adf17-a61a-4047-a7cb-dfd1fdd0bfca[/URL]

Seems pretty willing or even desperate for meetups. She gave out her number pretty quickly and sent a couple of photos that were so-so, and she couldn't host, so that wasn't going to work for me. But she says she's on birth control and sounded like she was up for whatever otherwise, so she sounds like she'd be a safe bet and probably not too pricey if you have her come over or get a room.

So a few of the sugarbabies I met or chat with have mentioned tinder, but I didn't dig deeper. Do they mean they are meeting sugardaddies for money there, or just dating?

If the former, what's the best approach? I assume they are easy to find it they are hot and 22 and looking for guys twice their age. Thanks.

[QUOTE=Itfcd;5419238][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ed4adf17-a61a-4047-a7cb-dfd1fdd0bfca[/URL]

Seems pretty willing or even desperate for meetups. She gave out her number pretty quickly and sent a couple of photos that were so-so, and she couldn't host, so that wasn't going to work for me. But she says she's on birth control and sounded like she was up for whatever otherwise, so she sounds like she'd be a safe bet and probably not too pricey if you have her come over or get a room.[/QUOTE]Will preface by saying I have not met her. She reached out to me and that usually doesn't happy. My Username and profile tend to turn them off. Doesn't mean much as I haven't met her. Just adding what info I have.

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;5419266]So a few of the sugarbabies I met or chat with have mentioned tinder, but I didn't dig deeper. Do they mean they are meeting sugardaddies for money there, or just dating?

If the former, what's the best approach? I assume they are easy to find it they are hot and 22 and looking for guys twice their age. Thanks.[/QUOTE]They are easy to find. If you casually mention in you profile that you are an experienced SD they will find and match you. A bit of a warning though. Many are just curious and will nope out the minute shit starts getting real. It's definitely fertile ground there but harder to get to a M&G or to the FC.

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;5419266]So a few of the sugarbabies I met or chat with have mentioned tinder, but I didn't dig deeper. Do they mean they are meeting sugardaddies for money there, or just dating?

If the former, what's the best approach? I assume they are easy to find it they are hot and 22 and looking for guys twice their age. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I've pulled several girls from SA that I've also seen on bumble and recognized many others. Fact is these girls have many lines in the water.

[QUOTE=SaSearch;5418954]Did you meetup? Anything I should know before possibly meeting with her?

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Never pulled the trigger. Idk what it is but she just doesn't do much for me sexually. She's cute and all but I don't really find her all that sexy, no curves to speak of at all. Flat ass. Different strokes for different folks but not worth $500 to me. Maybe she fucks like a pornstar but I've not seen anyone post a review on her.

Anybody met either of these girls? One is a Jamaican girl in Silver Spring, other is a white girl in Ashburn.

[QUOTE=DCKing;5420625]Anybody met either of these girls? One is a Jamaican girl in Silver Spring, other is a white girl in Ashburn.[/QUOTE]Links to profiles would help.

[QUOTE=DCKing;5420625]Anybody met either of these girls? One is a Jamaican girl in Silver Spring, other is a white girl in Ashburn.[/QUOTE]I saw her some years ago. Feel free to PM me. There are positives and negatives, as usual, but I'd recommend her.

For anyone that has a pregnant fetish this one can be had for $300 and she's very real and very pretty. Tbh I didn't read her profile details until after we started chatting and the pregnancy thing just isn't my bag. But different strokes for different folks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8879a660-a55d-4151-97f9-44815c419f54[/URL]

[QUOTE=FatWhiteGuy;5413015]I had already messaged her earlier in the day before I saw the first report on her.

Her initial response to mine was "finally somebody local, can I call you?

I gave her my number and she literally called. We spoke for 10 mins. I've never, ever had a girl call me. Ever. They always text. Later in the night we facetimed for over an hour. Talked about everything. In my profile I have a subset "ad" to any girls that want extra money to clean my house or be my personal assistant for the summer. She wants to do that too. LOL. I told her to come over, gauge the place and atmosphere first and next thing I have a date with her next week at my place for $400. Everything is on the table. Everything. The whole alphabet.

She's down to earth, pretty easy to talk to but seems to be picky with guys and def a YMMV girl.

We'll see next week. Stay tuned.[/QUOTE]Did you see her? Details?

[QUOTE=Dimples572;5421674]For anyone that has a pregnant fetish this one can be had for $300 and she's very real and very pretty. Tbh I didn't read her profile details until after we started chatting and the pregnancy thing just isn't my bag. But different strokes for different folks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8879a660-a55d-4151-97f9-44815c419f54[/URL][/QUOTE]Did you happen to get the digits? I'll PM you. Thanks!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cb50a940-fc9a-4590-b515-cb927419e4f6[/URL]

Anyone have experience with this one?

[QUOTE=SuckeredByaSB;5416521][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b93e980a-e9d8-e7dc-5295-8776fc6727db[/URL]

She changed her profile name to the attached link. On one hand, she is actually very nice and very pretty with a great body. On the other hand, she seems really messed up in some way. She gives off too much of a pro vibe. Hosts in her apartment in Manassas. Everything covered. 350. But her apartment was so lame and she was so odd that I didn't begin to know what to do after the first shot was fired so I took off after like 25 minutes instead of waiting for round two. What do you guys do in that situation??[/QUOTE]I pretty much had the same experience. I thought my time with her was exactly what I needed at the time. I am sure I will see her again.

Been away from the SB for awhile. I had quite a bit of luck on Seeking in 2018-2019 - but now everyone seems like a scam. Appreciate the reports more than you know. I plan many TOFTT to give back to the community.

Was chatting her up and then her profile disappeared. Which one of you dogs took her off market.

She looked like she would've been a lot of fun.

Any info on this one? She's gone back and forth a number of times about meeting up but then disappears for a few days. Seems flaky, maybe high volume.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6a588569-f79a-4c7a-b3e4-74e9dc0a2da2[/URL]