Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=MisterPlow;4774039]I'm taking some time during isolation to make some introductions on seeking. I was wondering if anyone noticed this and new the answer here:

If a girl "disappears", you'll still see her messages in your inbox. Sometimes her name changes to "Sugar Baby". I think this happens when they close their account themselves. When you go to their profile, like if you saved a link, it will come up as "profile unavailable" not the "find a better match" you get if you are blocked. Sometimes, though, the name stays in place, so I'm wondering if the two scenarios gives something away. My original theory was that if the name stays, you got blocked. I created a 2nd account to check this theory, but found that even though their name remained, it came up as "profile unavailable" instead of the "find a better match" screen.

Does anybody know what action causes their name to go away vs stay? It would be useful if, for example, the name staying means they were suspended, because that gives us a hint at scams.[/QUOTE]I don't think you really can tell for sure. Sometimes I think they blocked me and then the profile returns. Other times they delete their profile (or the site does) and they return as another new profile. It used to be you could block and unblock, and see a list of who you blocked, but now it is irreversible.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a55e618d-f247-4efc-bf62-fae53246fc5c[/URL]

Very agreeable and keen to meet soon. Only wants legit cellphone numbers. No text or burner numbers. Mine is an 203 number, which means it was checked against a database of some sort for a name.

Maybe she is verifying it against a blacklist.

Did you end up seeing her?

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4776561][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a55e618d-f247-4efc-bf62-fae53246fc5c[/URL]

Very agreeable and keen to meet soon. Only wants legit cellphone numbers. No text or burner numbers. Mine is an 203 number, which means it was checked against a database of some sort for a name.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;4778623]Maybe she is verifying it against a blacklist.

Did you end up seeing her?[/QUOTE]Nope, my safety and my discretion trump her need for hers, or an allowance.

From the tone and attitude, very much seemed like a phishing attempt.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;4776561][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a55e618d-f247-4efc-bf62-fae53246fc5c[/URL]

Very agreeable and keen to meet soon. Only wants legit cellphone numbers. No text or burner numbers. Mine is an 203 number, which means it was checked against a database of some sort for a name.[/QUOTE]I am wary of those profiles from Glastonbury, Avon, and Simsbury. Never fucked a girl from those towns / cities.

Likely scam / phishing. As her to do video chat and you will have your answer.

Block and report her now.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/94c33463-8435-4bfb-83f1-008811e2007b[/URL]

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4778977]Block and report her now.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/94c33463-8435-4bfb-83f1-008811e2007b[/URL][/QUOTE]What happened? Report her for what?

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/profile/038bff85b3445d55[/URL]

I think this is the girl who robbed the sailor a couple years ago. If you are a member on that site, give her the run around!

Setup a meeting with her tonight. She gets to the location and the shit show starts. She starts screaming and yelling give me my money! I tell her to get the fuck out. She starts screaming get your hands off! He took my money! She then opens the door and acts like she's on the phone with 911. She's yelling give me my money, he took my money, I'm scared and fearing for my life. I finally said fuck it and gave the little **** the money and she ran away. She jumped into a sliver dodge truck with a light on the roof and sped off. She already blocked me on SA or deleted her add. I did screenshot. I cannot upload the screenshot or her photo. It says invalid file. She was advertising out of Wilbraham. MA

[QUOTE=Rubicon666;4781926]Setup a meeting with her tonight. She gets to the location and the shit show starts. She starts screaming and yelling give me my money! I tell her to get the fuck out. She starts screaming get your hands off! He took my money! She then opens the door and acts like she's on the phone with 911. She's yelling give me my money, he took my money, I'm scared and fearing for my life. I finally said fuck it and gave the little **** the money and she ran away. She jumped into a sliver dodge truck with a light on the roof and sped off. She already blocked me on SA or deleted her add. I did screenshot. I cannot upload the screenshot or her photo. It says invalid file. She was advertising out of Wilbraham. MA[/QUOTE]Holy crap!- That is insane. I'm not sure what I would have done, in a semi panic situation like that. I'm sure others will chime in. Was this at a public place?. I'm almost completely sick of SA. 98% of those who I talk to are a waste of time, meaning they chose how long to get back to you, if at all. A meaningful / useful conversation is extremely difficult. Also, I searched for the given username, and came up empty handed. Perhaps she has already ditched.

[QUOTE=Hapcj7;4782084]Holy crap!- That is insane. I'm not sure what I would have done, in a semi panic situation like that. I'm sure others will chime in. Was this at a public place?. I'm almost completely sick of SA. 98% of those who I talk to are a waste of time, meaning they chose how long to get back to you, if at all. A meaningful / useful conversation is extremely difficult. Also, I searched for the given username, and came up empty handed. Perhaps she has already ditched.[/QUOTE]The only reason I gave her the money was because it was at a hotel. I don't need the hassle of the hotel or a guest calling the cops. I have two accounts on SA and she deleted her account. I was laughing at her the entire time she was acting like she was on the phone with 911. When she started yelling don't touch me is when it can get real serious. The 200 I lost is not worth the hassle and it doesn't hurt me financially a bit.

Here are her pics and screenshot of her SA.

[QUOTE=Rubicon666;4782272]The only reason I gave her the money was because it was at a hotel. I don't need the hassle of the hotel or a guest calling the cops. I have two accounts on SA and she deleted her account. I was laughing at her the entire time she was acting like she was on the phone with 911. When she started yelling don't touch me is when it can get real serious. The 200 I lost is not worth the hassle and it doesn't hurt me financially a bit.[/QUOTE]Sorry to hear about this. Glad you got out with just the cash lost. This is why 99% of the time I like to meet in public first or even in the lobby for a drink if there is a bar.

[QUOTE=TSmithers24;4782443]Sorry to hear about this. Glad you got out with just the cash lost. This is why 99% of the time I like to meet in public first or even in the lobby for a drink if there is a bar.[/QUOTE]This is why no girl will ever be allowed to come to my house. I've had very good results on SA and met some great women. I usually do a meet and great myself but no bar in this hotel and the bars next to it are closed. Sometimes shit happens! It was actually funny watching her run as fast as she could to the truck LOL. I guess she thought she hit the jackpot haha.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3c4c53e1-1c61-46b2-826e-78b3ae815b75[/URL]

Very holier than thou, I'm not doing this cause I need to cnt. Waste of time.