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Hawaii is too small a place to go public and meet, especially in bars/clubs; someone is going to see you sooner or later and that's not gonna be a happy occasion.
If you gotta meet and she has to do it public, gotta be real discreet and go to the shopping center or something and play it like you guys know each other from school or something; not gonna be obvious and easier to explain if someone does see you.

[QUOTE=Rhoku74]Fellow mongers,

I need some advice. I have meet a girl on CL's casual enconters section (yes, a real girl) and we have been emailing back and forth. I want to get together with her but we both have SO's. Does anyone know of a good bar to go to that is pretty safe, not to getto and out of the main stream of popular bars? i.e champions, kings, 8FF8..etc. Some place decent, low lighting, not to croweded. I think you guys get the picture of the kind of bar I'm looking for. Area isn't to much of a concern, just no KB's or VB's please. Any advice would be appriciated. PM or post is fine. Thanks in advance!

R74[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Rhoku74]Fellow mongers,

I need some advice. I have meet a girl on CL's casual enconters section (yes, a real girl) and we have been emailing back and forth. I want to get together with her but we both have SO's. Does anyone know of a good bar to go to that is pretty safe, not to getto and out of the main stream of popular bars? i.e champions, kings, 8FF8..etc. Some place decent, low lighting, not to croweded. I think you guys get the picture of the kind of bar I'm looking for. Area isn't to much of a concern, just no KB's or VB's please. Any advice would be appriciated. PM or post is fine. Thanks in advance!

R74[/QUOTE]

I used to take a girl to the Wailana coffee house bar. It has a bar area with discreet booths and low lighting.

[QUOTE=Rhoku74]Fellow mongers,

I need some advice. I have meet a girl on CL's casual enconters section (yes, a real girl) and we have been emailing back and forth. I want to get together with her but we both have SO's. Does anyone know of a good bar to go to that is pretty safe, not to getto and out of the main stream of popular bars? i.e champions, kings, 8FF8..etc. Some place decent, low lighting, not to croweded. I think you guys get the picture of the kind of bar I'm looking for. Area isn't to much of a concern, just no KB's or VB's please. Any advice would be appriciated. PM or post is fine. Thanks in advance!

R74[/QUOTE]

Try the Hideaway in Waikiki or La Mariana at Sand Island

[QUOTE=Rhoku74]Fellow mongers,

I need some advice. I have meet a girl on CL's casual enconters section (yes, a real girl) and we have been emailing back and forth. I want to get together with her but we both have SO's. Does anyone know of a good bar to go to that is pretty safe, not to getto and out of the main stream of popular bars? i.e champions, kings, 8FF8..etc.

R74[/QUOTE]

I'd go where locals don't usually go to. Like in Waikiki in one of the hotel bars or restaurants where locals would least likely go to and with good privacy. Just arrive and leave separately too.

[QUOTE=Showboatt]I would like to say that a prepay phone or a phone with an area code that is from another state will do just as good.

The reason is jurisdictional. The courts in Hawaii have no jurisdiction over anything in another state. Therefore the cops will be forced to ignore the out of state phone numbers! Because they will feel that you are back home and you are out of their reach.[/QUOTE]Good thinking. But how would one get an out of state phone without leaving the state? Online order? I think I'll stick with a prepaid phone. Still shopping around for the cheapest. I don't need anything fancy and I'll be using it mostly in the car so reception shouldn't be a problem.

[QUOTE=Starfox64]Good thinking. But how would one get an out of state phone without leaving the state? Online order? I think I'll stick with a prepaid phone. Still shopping around for the cheapest. I don't need anything fancy and I'll be using it mostly in the car so reception shouldn't be a problem.[/QUOTE]You can actually request your phone number to be of a specific area when you first get a cell phone, and they will give you the area code. I did it when I got my cell phone and I was living in New York at the time, and Sprint gave me a 808 number so that the family could call me local instead of long distance.

[QUOTE=Comp Dude 35]Hawaii is too small a place to go public and meet, especially in bars/clubs; someone is going to see you sooner or later and that's not gonna be a happy occasion.

If you gotta meet and she has to do it public, gotta be real discreet and go to the shopping center or something and play it like you guys know each other from school or something; not gonna be obvious and easier to explain if someone does see you.[/QUOTE]A few of my friends got caught by their wive's relatives. CD you are very wise. Stay in the open where there is a lot of people. Acting like school friends or old work associates is good. Going to a fast food place to talk is smart too. Everything appears to be open (not sneaking around) and legit. Leave in separate directions and meet somewhere else. For more pointers and what not to do, watch G4's "Cheaters".

TX

[QUOTE=Da Game]Seems like a private party being advertised on CL's erotic services section.

[url]http://honolulu.craigslist.org/oah/ers/1112524289.html[/url][/QUOTE]
Wassup Forum, Jzjz's back from retirement!!! Dis guy Hef is fo realz. Eef wuznt so good, Jz still be onna sidelinez slappin da vienna sossege.
Jzjz

[QUOTE=Rhoku74]Fellow mongers,

I need some advice. I have meet a girl on CL's casual enconters section (yes, a real girl) and we have been emailing back and forth. I want to get together with her but we both have SO's. Does anyone know of a good bar to go to that is pretty safe, not to getto and out of the main stream of popular bars? i.e champions, kings, 8FF8..etc. Some place decent, low lighting, not to croweded. I think you guys get the picture of the kind of bar I'm looking for. Area isn't to much of a concern, just no KB's or VB's please. Any advice would be appriciated. PM or post is fine. Thanks in advance!

R74[/QUOTE]
I use the Moana Surfrider Lanai Bar. Lots of tourists, Nice location and can get cozy.
Especially after dark.

In all seriousness (sp), I would suggest Hulas as a good place for a discreet enounter. I've done it before. Of course, the assumption is that you are meeting someone of the opposite sex.


[QUOTE=Showboatt]I use the Moana Surfrider Lanai Bar. Lots of tourists, Nice location and can get cozy.[/QUOTE]

When you first get any cell phone from any provider, you can request any area code.

For real privacy. The bar at the Airport Marina Hotel is definitely your bar of choice.
That bar should be renamed "sneaky bar". And if you really want to get cozy,
the rooms are reasonable.
I have used this bar numerous times.

(I took two sisters there and to a room. Believe me, that was a night to remember. They were total GFE.
The only problem I had with doing two women is that if you just subtly hint that you show more interest to one, then you will never do the two again). A Real life lesson. Maybe the real problem was that they both had the hots for me. I mean we fucked all day. And when we got hungry we ordered room service and ate. After we ate we fucked some more. When it comes to fucking beautiful women, I'm a fucking animal.

And after you take her home and want to monger. Just go back a little later and you can monger there Friday, Saturdays. Of course, these days (economy), its probably a seven day a week venture. Unless there was a recent bust.

Too Freekin Good.


Your most, "Excellent Dude"

[QUOTE=Thumperforq]Try the Hideaway in Waikiki or La Mariana at Sand Island[/QUOTE]
The Hideaway is a major dive. It may scare the woman he's meeting.

[QUOTE=Rhoku74]Fellow mongers,

I need some advice. I have meet a girl on CL's casual enconters section (yes, a real girl) and we have been emailing back and forth. I want to get together with her but we both have SO's. Does anyone know of a good bar to go to that is pretty safe, not to getto and out of the main stream of popular bars? i.e champions, kings, 8FF8..etc. Some place decent, low lighting, not to croweded. I think you guys get the picture of the kind of bar I'm looking for. Area isn't to much of a concern, just no KB's or VB's please. Any advice would be appriciated. PM or post is fine. Thanks in advance!

R74[/QUOTE]

side street inn?

[QUOTE=Rhoku74]Fellow mongers,

I need some advice. I have meet a girl on CL's casual enconters section (yes, a real girl) and we have been emailing back and forth. I want to get together with her but we both have SO's. Does anyone know of a good bar to go to that is pretty safe, not to getto and out of the main stream of popular bars? i.e champions, kings, 8FF8..etc. Some place decent, low lighting, not to croweded. I think you guys get the picture of the kind of bar I'm looking for. Area isn't to much of a concern, just no KB's or VB's please. Any advice would be appriciated. PM or post is fine. Thanks in advance!

R74[/QUOTE]

I'd choose a nice tourist hangout over say Side Street Inn as there are too many locals that go there, though it is crowded. The bar at the Surfrider is a good suggestion. Get a table close to the beach, talk, sometimes they have live music, and I find it a very good time for dates. You can then go out to the beach and with some music, it can be romantic!

Er, if you are into that.... :)

The bar at the Halekulani is also good and there are not really any locals that I've seen. Across the street is Nobu who also has a good bar and pricey sushi. There is also a Roy's close by. Fine dining abounds! Go for it tiger!


Stay safe and good luck,

VS

[QUOTE=Virtua Stick]
The bar at the Halekulani is also good and there are not really any locals that I've seen. Across the street is Nobu who also has a good bar and pricey sushi. There is also a Roy's close by. Fine dining abounds! Go for it tiger!


Stay safe and good luck,

VS[/QUOTE]
The Lewers Lounge has always worked for me, always.

Fellow mongers,

Thanks again for the places to go. Can always count on this place for advice. I think my CL girls is deciding if she wants to take the plunge and meet me. Hopefully this weekend i can use one of thoes spots.
CD35, good advice, thanks. Never thought of going into the open and acting like nothing with another girl.
If there is anymore idea's keep'um comming.

R74

[QUOTE=Starfox64]Still shopping around for the cheapest. I don't need anything fancy and I'll be using it mostly in the car so reception shouldn't be a problem.[/QUOTE]My monger phone is by Virgin Mobile (pay by the min plan). Got the phone free on a special deal from their website and I buy the cards at 7-11. I am very happy wit them cuz I they never shut my service off. Sometimes I don't use it for months and there is no money on it but I just put 10 in it and it's ready to go again.

You can find cheap phones on CL too. Don't need nothing fancy for a monger phone.

[QUOTE=Mello D]My monger phone is by Virgin Mobile (pay by the min plan). Got the phone free on a special deal from their website and I buy the cards at 7-11. I am very happy wit them cuz I they never shut my service off. Sometimes I don't use it for months and there is no money on it but I just put 10 in it and it's ready to go again.

You can find cheap phones on CL too. Don't need nothing fancy for a monger phone.[/QUOTE]I'll check out the website now, thanks.

You can also go to Wal Mart. They have a black Motorola flip phone offered by Tracfone for $20. It has double minutes offer for life. $20 gets you a 60 minute card = 120 minutes on the phone. They also text you special offers. I got 150 minutes for one $20 (60 minute) phone card. It's not like you would talk to the providers for a long time. Typically, you talk for 1 or 2 minutes per call.

Tracfone contracts AT&T for the coverage and Voicemail services.

Pay cash and you can't be traced. Remember, uncle LEO can use triangulation to track the location of any cell phone as part of the enhanced 911 service so area code doesn't matter. You do get to choose a zip code when initializing the phone if you still want to use an out of state area code.

[QUOTE=Starfox64]I'll check out the website now, thanks.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Rhoku74]Fellow mongers,

Thanks again for the places to go. Can always count on this place for advice. I think my CL girls is deciding if she wants to take the plunge and meet me. Hopefully this weekend i can use one of thoes spots.

CD35, good advice, thanks. Never thought of going into the open and acting like nothing with another girl.

If there is anymore idea's keep'um comming.

R74[/QUOTE]When I WAS married I met CL girls in public. I met a few at busy lunch food courts where there is limited seating so she or I could approach with the oldest line, "Is this seat taken?". The first meeting was always like that for me. Then if there was a second meeting I would get a room.

For those of you who did not get any Easter Eggs. (Sorry I just these myself)

Anybody know who that great looking oriental dancer was at the 2009 Brazilian Mardi Gras Downtown. Saw it on TV. "Olelo".

I was just thinking about, " what is the real objection to prostitution". And is it by the general masses or actually a small few.

Thought #1. Sex is a basic fundamental need of mankind. Therefore sex makes us happy and feel good about life in general.
Basic constitutional right: Life, Liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
Thought #2.
Sex is generally held behind closed doors and between adults giving consent to each other for intimacy. Therefor: consenting adults. Another advantage of the law.

What are the objections against these rights guaranteed by law.
Thought #3.
Religious objections? Since the leader of all christians himself forgave a known cavorter of men for $. This cannot be a religious issue. Since the leader of the christion faith himself, did not think, that this woman was detrimental to his cause.
Thought #4.
Is it the Womens cause? Meaning, "Do women feel that they are being demeaned by this"? Feeling, what another woman does with her body is not a viable response, since the complainant does not know, in what light, the actual feelings of another woman are. Oh, "I don't like it" is not an actuality. Many countries believe this, and appropriately reflect this belief.

Thought #5.
So then what is the real complaint about prostitution?

Most definitely, "it is taxes"! And it is the only viable complaint.

Oh, people can say, it is this and it is that, but the real complaint is that the government does not benefit from this enterprise and it is therefor illegal.

So, if it is performed in a legal establishment, meaning sole prop, corp etc, that pays their taxes, then the criterian is met for its legality.
And LE can go ahead and do what our tax dollars meant for them to do. Chase the bad guys.

Thought #6. Think about it. Everybody.



Your most Excellent Dude.

[QUOTE=Excellent Dude]Thought #6. Think about it. Everybody.
[/QUOTE]
Religion is the root of all evil. Prostitution is illegal for that sole reason... religious zealots who forbade it early on... If I had a magic wand and could change one thing in the world, it wouldn't be to end world hunger, or have world peace--it would be to abolish and wipe out the concept of religion. Our world has been fucked up for YEARS because of this bullshit.

Believe in God, fine. Just don't insist that I do the same way you do, or follow your religious laws. I live by one rule... the golden one. "Do unto others as you would have done unto you!"

* The "you" above of course is a generality.

[QUOTE=Excellent Dude]LE can go ahead and do what our tax dollars meant for them to do. Chase the bad guys.

Excellent Dude.[/QUOTE]People have so much to learn about how the system really operates and what taxes are used for.

Everyone on this site should have voted for this guy.

Watch this video to the end.

[url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LbVwN3dEdU4[/url]

I am interested in calling Sienna, but noticed that the classified ads have the phone number below in common with others. Is she "managed" and how are the reviews? I don't feel like paying for TER. Thanks for the help.

Sexy Girls

853-0487

This is just some fun 411. This week I posted a ad on Craigs List in both casual encounters and men seeking women, would you believe I got 4 responses? I have been chatting with a real fine looking Asian lady my age, one Haolie lady older then me one youngster in her late 20's and one lady my age from the Big Isle. The Big Isle lady is suppose to be coming here for a business trip and is looking for some horizontal entertainment and hasnt mentioned a fee. (yeah she is on the heavier side but what the hell thats what the blue pills are for right? )

Anyhow I just wanted to mention that it is nice to be on the other side of the monger end, LOL!

Be safe everyone

[QUOTE=Sancho Z]This is just some fun 411. This week I posted a ad on Craigs List in both casual encounters and men seeking women, would you believe I got 4 responses? I have been chatting with a real fine looking Asian lady my age, one Haolie lady older then me one youngster in her late 20's and one lady my age from the Big Isle. The Big Isle lady is suppose to be coming here for a business trip and is looking for some horizontal entertainment and hasnt mentioned a fee. (yeah she is on the heavier side but what the hell thats what the blue pills are for right? )

Anyhow I just wanted to mention that it is nice to be on the other side of the monger end, LOL!

Be safe everyone[/QUOTE]

I've also had some genuine luck doing that (twice); but, beware. Anyone trying that is very likely to at least receive some spam responses from phonies asking you to first contact them (and sign up) at some sex-oriented website. They're easy to spot. Just delete their e-mail.

It's not religious.
Its the women's groups that only hide behind the veil of religion.
Women feel is demeaning to women.
Men only go along with women. Men do this to stay in the good graces of their mates. And you know for what reason? Brings us back to sex.
So its sex for the sake of sex. Strange isn't it.
Jimmy Swaggert, is my favorite Evangelist, simply because he a great messenger of the Almighty.
What the proponents of religion seem to forget is that every person on the face of the earth is a sinner.

Since it is legal for consulting adults to grant each other intimacy behind closed doors. Then intimacy, as long as it is performed behind closed doors and in a legal atmosphere, between consenting adults, meets the legality criterian.

[QUOTE=Hypo Luxa]Religion is the root of all evil. Prostitution is illegal for that sole reason... religious zealots who forbade it early on... If I had a magic wand and could change one thing in the world, it wouldn't be to end world hunger, or have world peace--it would be to abolish and wipe out the concept of religion. Our world has been fucked up for YEARS because of this bullshit.

Believe in God, fine. Just don't insist that I do the same way you do, or follow your religious laws. I live by one rule... the golden one. "Do unto others as you would have done unto you!"

* The "you" above of course is a generality.[/QUOTE]How do you explain the fact that prostitution is legal in countries like Australia and various European countries, despite the fact that the same religions exist there as here? It's really the puritanical mindset of the people in power in this country. I won't even say the majority.

Totally agree with you on the golden rule, and also live, and let live.

I wish Summer, from Ewa Beach, would show more than her beautiful ass.

I'm tired of looking at her ass.

Does anyone know what she really looks like?

Is she nice looking or is that why she is showing her backside, all the time.

Is she worth it? She is near me is why I ask.

Also, Can somebody give me the 411 on the Busty asian girl,

in Waipahu?

She may be brand new.

Religion is made up of men and women.

That's what religion is!!!

I had to instant message her to try and set someyhing up, but she requires you to go to a website and pay 5 bucks to verify yourself. I'm not willing to give my credit card number to a site to see an escort. She said that's the only way she sets up her dates.[QUOTE=No Count Mofo]Also, Can somebody give me the 411 on the Busty asian girl,

in Waipahu?

She may be brand new.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Bar Butterfly]I had to instant message her to try and set someyhing up, but she requires you to go to a website and pay 5 bucks to verify yourself. I'm not willing to give my credit card number to a site to see an escort. She said that's the only way she sets up her dates.[/QUOTE]

When I was mongering on the mainland I was screened by a service called preferred 411. Its like 20 bucks a year and ALOT of the higher end girls started to use it. I only did it in order to see the girls I wanted to see. Alot of upstart companies have sprung up on the net doing the same thing. I wouldnt do it to see a girl unless I was POSITIVE that the girl even excisted that I was wanting to see. ie reviews. Just keep an eye on your card after you do it to make sure no strange charges start to appear. Keep safe.

[QUOTE=Showboatt]Religion is made up of men and women.

That's what religion is!!![/QUOTE]

"Religion is made up"

No need to be more specific than that IMHO!

[QUOTE=Member#3973]"Religion is made up"[/QUOTE]
I like that quote...

Just to clarify, my views on religion isn't that religion is the root of all sex industry problems per se, but the root of almost all of the world's problems. So applying it towards the sex trade is a byproduct of applying it towards pretty much everything in general. I just feel that religion is hard to keep at its proper level and always gets blown out into extremism. Philosophically I don't see too many differences between religious Christian zealots and extremist muslims. I know this can open up a shit storm of debate and that isn't my intention here, but since we are on the topic...

[QUOTE=No Count Mofo]I wish Summer, from Ewa Beach, would show more than her beautiful ass.

I'm tired of looking at her ass.

Does anyone know what she really looks like?

Is she nice looking or is that why she is showing her backside, all the time.

Is she worth it? She is near me is why I ask.[/QUOTE]
That might not be not her pic. Read Eman007's funny report about Summer (#2501 in the Massage Therapist thread, Feb 9, 2009).

Now I've heard it all.

Me paying to get screened.

I relented to screening by a canadian company, because they were out of any jurisdictional reach. But I didn't pay to do it.

I hope that its no the coming trend because this "no count mofo" will bow out.