Sugar Babies & Arrangements

[QUOTE=VloneCarti;6861542]Hi guys,

I'm 23 and right now live in TN but am thinking about moving back to Tampa Florida in around a year from now. The sugar baby scene here in TN is absolutely non existent and TN as a whole is very boring place. I lived in Tampa for about 3 years before this. I tried SA once back when I was 21 but it didn't go too well because I kept getting remarks about my age and questions about why I was on the site.

I obviously didn't want to tell them the real reason (that dating in America is too hard for me and I can't compete so I have to rely on P4P). Do you guys think when I move back there (around age 24) that I will have better luck with the sugar baby scene this time around? I much rather prefer sugar babies over escorts cause escorts feel too transactional for me and I'm looking for more of an emotional connection.[/QUOTE]Short answer, no. Longer answer is that there may be a few who give you the benefit of the doubt but I wouldn't count on it being cheap. I can see you getting absolutely soaked. Lots of $1 k ppm offers. If you can't pull randos off of dating apps the women your age aren't going to be interested either. The ones who are already semi pro hoes may give you a shot but it will cost you. Seems like you would be better served finding a decent escort which isn't too expensive and see her repeatedly. The good ones will appreciate the repeat business and allow some feelings. Or at least pretend convincingly. Most mongers have stories of low cost escorts who they clicked with and saw over a long period. The young hot SBs won't take you seriously.

[QUOTE=VloneCarti;6861542]Hi guys,

I'm 23 and right now live in TN but am thinking about moving back to Tampa Florida in around a year from now. The sugar baby scene here in TN is absolutely non existent and TN as a whole is very boring place. I lived in Tampa for about 3 years before this. I tried SA once back when I was 21 but it didn't go too well because I kept getting remarks about my age and questions about why I was on the site.

I obviously didn't want to tell them the real reason (that dating in America is too hard for me and I can't compete so I have to rely on P4P). Do you guys think when I move back there (around age 24) that I will have better luck with the sugar baby scene this time around? I much rather prefer sugar babies over escorts cause escorts feel too transactional for me and I'm looking for more of an emotional connection.[/QUOTE]I'm around your age, I started using SA last month and have had a lot of success while also being extremely picky. Just give a good description about yourself when you message them. I also think age can be an advantage, for my current arrangement she told me she felt more comfortable with someone her age. It all depends on how you approach and just keep it as respectful as possible. You can very easily find $400-$500 PPM with gorgeous women who are not pros and new to all of this.

[QUOTE=Mandane;6863074]Short answer, no. Longer answer is that there may be a few who give you the benefit of the doubt but I wouldn't count on it being cheap. I can see you getting absolutely soaked. Lots of $1 k ppm offers. If you can't pull randos off of dating apps the women your age aren't going to be interested either. The ones who are already semi pro hoes may give you a shot but it will cost you. Seems like you would be better served finding a decent escort which isn't too expensive and see her repeatedly. The good ones will appreciate the repeat business and allow some feelings. Or at least pretend convincingly. Most mongers have stories of low cost escorts who they clicked with and saw over a long period. The young hot SBs won't take you seriously.[/QUOTE]I completely disagree with this. I used SA for a few years in my mid to late 20's. It was gold. I banged a boatload of hotties and it would usually cost 200-300. But no time limit. No rules many many times. Some of the young ones don't know what they are worth. I just said my profession required travel and I'm not looking to date. Simple as that. Women will feel more comfortable in most cases with a younger guy. And in my experience do it for cheaper. A few of them were repeats and didn't even take money after a certain point. My favorite was a girl in st Pete who would give me hour long blowies for basically nothing. 50 bucks, dinner, a ride. Whatever.

Does it take some effort and some weeding? Yes? Do you have to look somewhat presentable and clean and normal? Yes, but it can be done easily, if you have the time and energy for it.

[QUOTE=Tbrayj1987;6824877]Dropped off the boards last summer because I started dating a hot nympho I met off Seeking. It was nice while it lasted but she caught feelings and wound up wanting a more committed than just casual relationship with financial support for bills so had to cut the cord. From the looks of things doesn't seem like guys have been having much luck on seeking finding anyone that doesn't have GPS. Is it even worth rejoining if you're looking for a non-pro open to PPM of 500 or less or monthly allowance of 2000 or less?[/QUOTE]Gps at 2 k a month? I'm sorry to break it to ya, but burger flippers at mcdonalds are starting at 44 k a year in california these days. 2 k a month is pretty modest!

[QUOTE=VloneCarti;6861542]Hi guys,

I'm 23 and right now live in TN but am thinking about moving back to Tampa Florida in around a year from now. The sugar baby scene here in TN is absolutely non existent and TN as a whole is very boring place. I lived in Tampa for about 3 years before this. I tried SA once back when I was 21 but it didn't go too well because I kept getting remarks about my age and questions about why I was on the site.

I obviously didn't want to tell them the real reason (that dating in America is too hard for me and I can't compete so I have to rely on P4P). Do you guys think when I move back there (around age 24) that I will have better luck with the sugar baby scene this time around? I much rather prefer sugar babies over escorts cause escorts feel too transactional for me and I'm looking for more of an emotional connection.[/QUOTE]You can try changing your age range if that's an issue but I would think it would be a lot easier to pull them when you're younger. As long as you have the cash to spend there is no reason you should have an issue finding gems on there. It just takes time and effort. Things were a lot easier 3 years ago but there is still talent out there to be had. Trust me on this!! Yes there is tons of GPS going on right now but once in a while you will find one and ask yourself why she is even on the site. Low rate and low mileage and like the other monger said, sometimes even just a dinner date and drinks. But these kind of girls take lots of time and energy to find. Once you find one I would suggest keeping her to yourself until you are ready to let her loose into the wild like another guy likes to say. Good luck.

[QUOTE=Abcxyz1234;6865322]Gps at 2 k a month? I'm sorry to break it to ya, but burger flippers at mcdonalds are starting at 44 k a year in california these days. 2 k a month is pretty modest![/QUOTE]Yeah, but a burger flipper has to work 40 hours for $44 k / yr. These girls likely have multiple arrangements, so $2 k / mo for a few hours a month is actually a lot of money if you want to calculate it per hour. I don't think I'd see one of these girls for more than 2 hours a week. So if it's $2 k for that that would equate to $250/ hr. There's no burger flippers making that much. Are you guys spending a lot more time than that with them?

[QUOTE=Member#1658;6866046]Yeah, but a burger flipper has to work 40 hours for $44 k / yr. These girls likely have multiple arrangements, so $2 k / mo for a few hours a month is actually a lot of money if you want to calculate it per hour. I don't think I'd see one of these girls for more than 2 hours a week. So if it's $2 k for that that would equate to $250/ hr. There's no burger flippers making that much. Are you guys spending a lot more time than that with them?[/QUOTE]Guess it's a good thing we're not in Cali then cause $24 K / yr to meet up 4 to 6 times a month and be taken out on all expenses paid dates to nice restaurants and concerts seems like a pretty easy gig if you're attracted to the guy and willing to put out.

[QUOTE=JohnnysTruant;6772058][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f303734d-690e-4ef1-89fa-63a8360533bd[/URL]

Meeting her within the hour should have a good report soon[/QUOTE]Did you ever meet this young lady? Thanks.

[QUOTE=Mandane;6647692]The first one's IG:

[URL]https://instagram.com/kamilperezz?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==[/URL][/QUOTE]Did you ever meet with these ladies? Thanks!

[QUOTE=CheekyFella;6871242]Did you ever meet with these ladies? Thanks![/QUOTE]Sorry, no.

Any Intel on this girl, asked for 500.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a3f02859-8bbb-4051-9e20-a5f00a42d77e?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL]

[QUOTE=TheRoboHuman;6878180]Any Intel on this girl, asked for 500.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a3f02859-8bbb-4051-9e20-a5f00a42d77e?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL][/QUOTE]She wanted $600 ppm everything covered. Super bratty. Hard pass on my end.

Crazy how many younger guys are getting into this. I started when I was 25 and I was pretty rare. The sugar bowl was LIT in 2014-2018, its been down hill ever since then.

It's going mainstream now!

Ever have a "black cloud" SB? This one would definitely qualify for that definition.

Won't go into too much detail, but I got comfortable in an arrangement and then burned. If you insist on sampling know that she's high volume, does OF porn, and will ghost if you move off anything but cash. I'm always amazed when these chicks abscond with an advance ppm, especially when they have been getting something steady. The desperation for a few hundred bucks is real I guess.

If you insist on seeing her protect yourself in all ways.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/55af86be-5a26-4d4b-aa87-10dc6154dd10[/URL]

[QUOTE=Mandane;6908565]Ever have a "black cloud" SB? This one would definitely qualify for that definition.

Won't go into too much detail, but I got comfortable in an arrangement and then burned. If you insist on sampling know that she's high volume, does OF porn, and will ghost if you move off anything but cash. I'm always amazed when these chicks abscond with an advance ppm, especially when they have been getting something steady. The desperation for a few hundred bucks is real I guess.

If you insist on seeing her protect yourself in all ways.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/55af86be-5a26-4d4b-aa87-10dc6154dd10[/URL][/QUOTE]Hopefully anyone didn't pay her GPS PPM of 800 mario coins. Her friend on there who both did dous looked worth that.

[QUOTE=MoparGuy;6909245]Hopefully anyone didn't pay her GPS PPM of 800 mario coins. Her friend on there who both did dous looked worth that.[/QUOTE]I definitely wasn't paying that LOL. Body is good, but the tits are kinda tragic. She has kids and got implants removed so it's Frankenstein-ish.

[QUOTE=LolBoat;6903469]Crazy how many younger guys are getting into this. I started when I was 25 and I was pretty rare. The sugar bowl was LIT in 2014-2018, its been down hill ever since then.

It's going mainstream now![/QUOTE]Haha yeah I'm 23 and will be joining it again soon. I actually joined the site back when I was 21 and was surprisingly getting matches and had women that wanted to meet up but unfortunately I was too broke back then to afford it. But yeah Seeking Arrangements is our only option since the dating scene is a complete mess and P4 P is illegal in the states. Idk if it was by design or what but there's so many guys my age right now being left out of the dating scene and in life you just got to work with the cards you were dealt with somehow. That's where sites like this come into play.

Hey guys.

I will be in Tampa all next week for work. Looking for younger college chick age to mid 20's to potentially hang out with? Preferable not with Golden P*syndrome but hey we can't have our cake and eat it too. I have some cute younger UTR in jax if anyone comes up this way. One is 2 O one is 26. I have pics of both. Thanks!

She is new on Seeking, no links to verify her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ae434242-df53-45ca-ae89-9b4e6af7c413[/URL]#.

[QUOTE=WoozerBuck;6928380]She is new on Seeking, no links to verify her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ae434242-df53-45ca-ae89-9b4e6af7c413[/URL]#.[/QUOTE]OnlyFans seller.

[URL]https://x.com/suffok88?s=21&t=TGUHK8FJ0gvIN39iu8wetw[/URL]

[URL]https://www.tiktok.com/@kaitybug111?_t=8n81mSLN5d0&_r=1[/URL]

Remains to be seen if it's actually her.

[QUOTE=WoozerBuck;6928380]She is new on Seeking, no links to verify her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ae434242-df53-45ca-ae89-9b4e6af7c413[/URL]#.[/QUOTE]Url says profile not available, seems like she already took down her profile / got banned.

Pamela.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/03d06d82-d47b-4244-954c-24c4c1cc111d[/URL]

Using pics from an Australian mommy blogger.

[URL]https://www.instagram.com/p/C68du-FSBf0/?igsh=MXJqMjV4OGVkZmlyeQ==[/URL]

She contacted me so she's probably hitting a lot of locals up.

As someone who lived here from 2019-2022, the sugar baby scene for Tampa looks nothing like it did a few years ago. Back when I used it (21-22) I would see so many girls on there who looked like USF students. Now I don't see any at all. All the good looking sugar babies seem to be in Orlando which is about 2 hours away. Can someone explain what happened?? I'm guessing the insane increase in cost of living especially rent prices in Tampa forced a lot of people to move out of Tampa (including women who were in financial need)?

Offers a reasonable ppm - 400. Insists on getting her gas paid for before meeting. Don't waste your time.

I could tell that she was a scammer on the SA conversation. Just played it out on text to see what the scam was going to be.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3f6f6bc9-d1d7-4f8f-ad10-f0bd3c92e956[/URL]

Quick question for you gents. I have a profile for S. A and every time I click to link to see the girl reported. I get an error page or "profile is gone". Anyone come across to this problem or have a solution, I want to try S. A since I feel girl are a little more low key.

Thanks again.

Stay safe!

[QUOTE=DrBroham;6939570]Quick question for you gents. I have a profile for S. A and every time I click to link to see the girl reported. I get an error page or "profile is gone". Anyone come across to this problem or have a solution, I want to try S. A since I feel girl are a little more low key.

Thanks again.

Stay safe![/QUOTE]I take that as she has deleted her profile or maybe she has blocked you. Move on to the next one.

That's what I was thinking, but that's for every link I click on here that shows a report for a girl. I'm about to make a new account but it just seems wired I can't see who the girls are om the report you'll make.

[QUOTE=PerfectBalls;6939979]I take that as she has deleted her profile or maybe she has blocked you. Move on to the next one.[/QUOTE]

Anyone talk to this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0490ecef-630a-432d-9580-35797219477b[/URL]

Somehow she's able to get away with asking for $1 k per meet in her profile. That's frankly way more than the pics warrant. Curious if anyone has chatted her up.

Anyone talk to or meet up with this one? PM me if need be.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6ca75220-eab5-4444-af3b-a61bc04ba8ae[/URL]

This one is showing up on SA recently.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/585790ca-d1a4-449e-841f-f42da3f75ffa[/URL]

Before speaking I did a little digging. Turns out she has a penchant for violence.

[URL]http://archive.today/M5zQ6[/URL]

That's the kind of crazy that is probably best to avoid. There are several charges that don't appear in that link. It's quite a rap sheet.

Don't waste your time. This one is into selling pics and videos. She reached out and I quickly transitioned the conversation to text messages. First, she agreed to full benefits including no protection for $$ I play along and ask when she is available. *But before we can meet. Because she has been burned before. She wants a deposit for some pics and videos. Her location appears to change also.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/557147ee-d2bf-420f-a9c3-5f654ae228b5[/URL]

Wants 6. PPM.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1b4d0e2-93fd-4e76-b73a-2dbeb23eb79d[/URL]

Just got back on the site and it doesn't seem to be as good as last year. Been talking to these ones but they're slow to respond. Any of you have experience with them?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e93f1772-bf4f-476e-815b-4ae671451dad[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ca193997-5919-4180-b2a8-27ed97e1bea8[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/409a33be-76f5-4297-8e12-8266c0e1b96e[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/461bd4be-1eae-4965-8b4d-bcd687efcc79[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15f97d98-d95c-46f7-8d69-56cb937455db[/URL]

[QUOTE=Tbrayj1987;6964301]Just got back on the site and it doesn't seem to be as good as last year. Been talking to these ones but they're slow to respond. Any of you have experience with them?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e93f1772-bf4f-476e-815b-4ae671451dad[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ca193997-5919-4180-b2a8-27ed97e1bea8[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/409a33be-76f5-4297-8e12-8266c0e1b96e[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/461bd4be-1eae-4965-8b4d-bcd687efcc79[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15f97d98-d95c-46f7-8d69-56cb937455db[/URL][/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e93f1772-bf4f-476e-815b-4ae671451dad?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL]

This one didn't want to discuss PPM or allowance until we met in person which was going to cost a 100 so I passed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15f97d98-d95c-46f7-8d69-56cb937455db?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL]

This one started off with desperately needing help with a bill before she would discuss anything so passed.

No word back from the others yet but will keep you posted.

[QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15f97d98-d95c-46f7-8d69-56cb937455db?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL]

This one started off with desperately needing help with a bill before she would discuss anything so passed.[/QUOTE]This one has been around for a while. She keeps saying she want to move forward then flake. Waste of time.

Got to texts. Talked a good game and tried to get money upfront.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2263c0f3-1abe-4f93-9a04-1b1367b0b9bb[/URL]

Got to text, told me 400. Things slowed down and felt like she wasn't going to meet. Anyone actually meet her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/608b8e0e-04fe-49ce-b35e-32b7d228c88e[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a098862c-cc16-4881-a827-2a273ebd29f3[/URL]

She jumped to pic request really quick. I'm discreet and share after were reach an accord. Not sure if I should waste time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd04d62e-002a-46ad-b2a1-59067ae262da[/URL]

Will ask for 500. Then after you agree on a price, she will tell you that you need to pay for her Uber. You can easily talk her down. As long as you pay for the Uber. She will then randomly ask you for money. Needs to pay for an Uber to the gym. Needs help to pay for her cell phone. Just needs money for food. She's a terrible lay. You will do all the work. ALL THE WORK. Doesn't care about you, and will immediately ask for an Uber home after you "hang out. ".

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d4efffff-707a-4333-9ef6-94cf7556a09c[/URL]

This one will tell you any and everything you want to hear. She's a stripper. She's so full of shit. Don't fall for her crap. Wants 500. Narcissistic personality disorder is alive and well with this one. Lmao Of the two, she will do BBFS. Watch yourselves.

[QUOTE=Noneya14;6966424][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a098862c-cc16-4881-a827-2a273ebd29f3[/URL]

She jumped to pic request really quick. I'm discreet and share after were reach an accord. Not sure if I should waste time.[/QUOTE]She wanted something ridiculous, like 6-800 from what I recall.