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So, I'm talking to several women on normal dating apps right now, and then logged into SA and saw 2 of them on there. Any thoughts on how to navigate? I'm wondering if I should be viewing them as potential partners or sugar babies (they probably don't know I looked at them on SA). I assume they weren't planning to ask for an allowance is I met them through Bumble? LOL.
[QUOTE=NerdyGuy12;5309996]So, I'm talking to several women on normal dating apps right now, and then logged into SA and saw 2 of them on there. Any thoughts on how to navigate? I'm wondering if I should be viewing them as potential partners or sugar babies (they probably don't know I looked at them on SA). I assume they weren't planning to ask for an allowance is I met them through Bumble? LOL.[/QUOTE]Assuming that you are both on bumble hoping to find a legitimate boyfriend / girl friend, why would you approach them any differently just because they have an SA account?
"Rosy" is back, but beware: She's a grifter.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d9929398-f5d4-4bbc-b278-c552396f47b2[/URL]
[QUOTE=Anonyminn;5152362]I've only met the younger sister. Couldn't find her profile today but yes, her screen name is usually Rose, Rosy or Ruby something. She's a couple inches taller and a bit thinner than her older sis and while she doesn't show her mug, their faces are strikingly similar. Sounds like both sisters have a similar style in the bedroom; Rose / Rosy / Ruby could be a gem with a better attitude, more effort and no smoke. I did bareback her but would never repeat or recommend her; seniors may PM me for details.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ryan33;5310595]Assuming that you are both on bumble hoping to find a legitimate boyfriend / girl friend, why would you approach them any differently just because they have an SA account?[/QUOTE]I think that changes things significantly and suggests they may be willing to take a much lower donation / allowance or eventually be cool with no allowance at all if there is a good vibe. It also means if you go the dating route, you better be comfortable dating a sex worker and should probably insist on monthly STD checks, which would be a deal breaker for me.
Nerdyguy, out of curiosity, who were the ones with dual SA / dating profiles?
[QUOTE=PenilePerson15;5311016]I think that changes things significantly and suggests they may be willing to take a much lower donation / allowance or eventually be cool with no allowance at all if there is a good vibe. It also means if you go the dating route, you better be comfortable dating a sex worker and should probably insist on monthly STD checks, which would be a deal breaker for me.
Nerdyguy, out of curiosity, who were the ones with dual SA / dating profiles?[/QUOTE]Good chance they are just seeking online attention and have no intention of meeting anyone. Be prepared to be disappointed with their communication.
If anyone is interested in helping me test this by sending them a PPM offer to see if they accept (I. E: help me figure out how to perceive them. Relationship material or no? PM me haha. I'll send you links to their profiles.
[QUOTE=PenilePerson15;5311016]I think that changes things significantly and suggests they may be willing to take a much lower donation / allowance or eventually be cool with no allowance at all if there is a good vibe. It also means if you go the dating route, you better be comfortable dating a sex worker and should probably insist on monthly STD checks, which would be a deal breaker for me.
Nerdyguy, out of curiosity, who were the ones with dual SA / dating profiles?[/QUOTE]
Any intel on this one? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1d7c4e2d-e41c-4f18-a5f9-6a69ce453763[/URL].
[QUOTE=MinneSoDumb;5315631]Any intel on this one? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1d7c4e2d-e41c-4f18-a5f9-6a69ce453763[/URL].[/QUOTE]Negative. Let us know how it goes!
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Made contact with this one, kitten145.
Wanted to go to text right away. Ok sure. As soon as we got on text, said she hopes things work out with us (literally first words). Then says " I'm also interested in finding a SD so I was maybe hoping we could keep our interaction online for about a week with maybe small allowance to get to know eachother before we meet up if that's alright with you?
Sounds scammy to me.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0002b0b1-dee7-4e7d-a51c-cf319b1e8bb8[/URL]
[QUOTE=MileHighFreak;5331916]Made contact with this one, kitten145.
Wanted to go to text right away. Ok sure. As soon as we got on text, said she hopes things work out with us (literally first words). Then says " I'm also interested in finding a SD so I was maybe hoping we could keep our interaction online for about a week with maybe small allowance to get to know eachother before we meet up if that's alright with you?
Sounds scammy to me.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0002b0b1-dee7-4e7d-a51c-cf319b1e8bb8[/URL][/QUOTE]This is a very common scam now, which tells me it must be effective with the simps out there. Excuses vary -- sickness, on vacation, "safety", etc. Don't fall for it. (My strict MO: She gets her money only after my cum is in her pussy.)
Yet another winner! First response was "I'd love something like that but I generally like to get to know someone over the phone with an allowance for pictures / vidoes before we meet is that something you'd be intrested in?
Ummmm. Let me think about it. Oh. Right. Nope!
#Next.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/66f084a3-910b-463b-8ebc-47b814175e9d[/URL]
I was recently contacted by a POT that I would normally be interested in. The conversation quickly moved to text and she wants to meet for drinks this week. The strange part is, if I run a search for her profile it does not show up in any results. I even searched on a few key words in her profile within 1000 miles and nothing comes up. I can view her profile only from my inbox or "viewed me" section. She has Minneapolis listed as location, she does not appear to be Premium. Can POT SBs hide themselves from search results? I know we can if we are Premium.
Also, any insight on this one? We've exchanged a few texts but she has been really flakey, late responding.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d3edf23a-860e-40e2-8a78-1145c2f4de86[/URL]
Her profile says Grand Forks, ND. Probably is a scammer or traveling pro.
[QUOTE=Zipp531;5334277]I was recently contacted by a POT that I would normally be interested in. The conversation quickly moved to text and she wants to meet for drinks this week. The strange part is, if I run a search for her profile it does not show up in any results. I even searched on a few key words in her profile within 1000 miles and nothing comes up. I can view her profile only from my inbox or "viewed me" section. She has Minneapolis listed as location, she does not appear to be Premium. Can POT SBs hide themselves from search results? I know we can if we are Premium.
Also, any insight on this one? We've exchanged a few texts but she has been really flakey, late responding.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d3edf23a-860e-40e2-8a78-1145c2f4de86[/URL][/QUOTE]
Contacted this one. MJinxx on SB.
She responded that she is only looking for online due to corona, but would send pics for allowance!
LULZ!!
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/6e8ddaf4d022b98a[/URL]
[QUOTE=Anonyminn;5310950]"Rosy" is back, but beware: She's a grifter.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d9929398-f5d4-4bbc-b278-c552396f47b2[/URL][/QUOTE]That profile is now disabled.
Is this her new profile?? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e9bd0509-2df6-443d-ac9b-5ff88fa4ea24[/URL].
I've been talking to this Rubyrosy, and have a meet scheduled! Is this the same Rosy? Yikes!
This one says she's been around before and she sounds naughty. Any intel?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d5df9a9d-381a-4e3f-90ab-3f13aecd2bea[/URL]
[QUOTE=MileHighFreak;5343687]That profile is now disabled.
Is this her new profile?? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e9bd0509-2df6-443d-ac9b-5ff88fa4ea24[/URL].
I've been talking to this Rubyrosy, and have a meet scheduled! Is this the same Rosy? Yikes![/QUOTE]UPDATE: So, I did end up meeting her today. Yikes! What a waste! Probably the worst meet I've ever had. No personality, zero enthusiasm, oral only, no intercourse. And yes, it was definitely the Rosy that was previously discussed. Former Gymnast. Also smelled like that had been working out all day and hadn't showered. Literally zero effort on her part.
Save your money and time guys!
[QUOTE=MileHighFreak;5343687]That profile is now disabled.
Is this her new profile?? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e9bd0509-2df6-443d-ac9b-5ff88fa4ea24[/URL].
I've been talking to this Rubyrosy, and have a meet scheduled! Is this the same Rosy? Yikes![/QUOTE]Same Ruby. She pops up with a new profile every few months.
Guys, this may be the same poster using different pictures. Similar profile names (name and age) and similar descriptions. "I do work" is an odd phrase and the use of zero punctuation resonates throughout each profile. I've messaged all 3, 2 have agreed on a ppm and then go silent. Appears to be just a game.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0019100b-37de-4938-8ab6-24873d5f4414[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/19dda31c-82a6-41d7-9163-1918471b1acd[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ec8781b6-c1df-417a-ba0d-525402c76a0f[/URL]
Spending a night this week and looking fir a companion. I've got tentative dates with these two. I'll narrow it down and just see one. Any intel appreciated. Happy to return the favor in MKe.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f71a4c78-7352-4cd4-9b06-707fb6797491[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/701f9e7d-4503-4ed8-914d-efa475d4747f[/URL]
TIA.
[QUOTE=Zipp531;5334277]I was recently contacted by a POT that I would normally be interested in. The conversation quickly moved to text and she wants to meet for drinks this week. The strange part is, if I run a search for her profile it does not show up in any results. I even searched on a few key words in her profile within 1000 miles and nothing comes up. I can view her profile only from my inbox or "viewed me" section. She has Minneapolis listed as location, she does not appear to be Premium. Can POT SBs hide themselves from search results? I know we can if we are Premium.
Also, any insight on this one? We've exchanged a few texts but she has been really flakey, late responding.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d3edf23a-860e-40e2-8a78-1145c2f4de86[/URL][/QUOTE]I have seen this blonde girl a half a dozen times or so in Fargo. The pics are real, she is very cute, nice little body, very small tits. She is a working girl, the most you will get from her is about 15 minutes unless you want to spend big bucks. Not a bad time, if you are ok with a short visit.
[QUOTE=HardWoodsman;5344546]Same Ruby. She pops up with a new profile every few months.[/QUOTE]Confirmed. Her handle usually contains Ruby, Rosy or both, and her listed location is often a NW metro suburb. Seriously, don't even think about her.
[QUOTE=MaconWhoopi22;5345207]Guys, this may be the same poster using different pictures. Similar profile names (name and age) and similar descriptions. "I do work" is an odd phrase and the use of zero punctuation resonates throughout each profile. I've messaged all 3, 2 have agreed on a ppm and then go silent. Appears to be just a game.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0019100b-37de-4938-8ab6-24873d5f4414[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/19dda31c-82a6-41d7-9163-1918471b1acd[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ec8781b6-c1df-417a-ba0d-525402c76a0f[/URL][/QUOTE]I'd lined up a meeting with #3 for this afternoon, but noticed yesterday afternoon that her previous profile (and all our messaging) had vanished. I assumed she was banned.
During extensive messaging earlier this week, she sent me two nudes via SA that matched her body type very well, though there was short hair in the nudes and long hair in the profile pics. From what little I could see of the face in the nudes, I couldn't tell whether or not it was the same person as in the profile pics.
I reached out to her this morning after seeing the above post, asking if she got banned and whether we're still on for this afternoon. She blocked me within minutes, confirmed as such through an alternate profile.
It seems we have our answer.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b36812f0-71ae-42b8-b80b-cd7b48160232[/URL]
I met her for dinner. Man, what an oddball. There's a real disconnect between the profile and the person.
She arrived wearing long, fake eyelashes and heavy perfume, both of which are major turnoffs for me. Conversation generally ranged from awkward to confusing. Based on that, some word slurring, and her mannerisms... Yeah.
At the end of the meal, we got down to brass tacks. She's open to BBFS with gifting at my discretion, but I'm not sure I'd trust her even for a single lowball spin. It should be noted that despite her profile info, she's had a child.
Had been chatting with this one from SB. She played it off like she was totally interested, we planned a meet last week. Was still chatting for a couple days leading up to the meet. Confirmed day of, and even confirmed again after I had booked the room.
Come meet time. No call / text, No show, then she ghosted.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d74e61802d2bc0c0[/URL]
Another player! Avoid!
I pretty much done with tryouts at this point. I found a solid reliable one, and will be set for now. Good thing too, because this process is time consuming, and frustrating with all the flakes and players.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a319a38b-2784-4169-8b19-6a550b66e759[/URL]
A little older and rougher looking than I usually pursue, but she's tall and slender with strong facial features so I took the plunge. Made plans this past weekend to meet yesterday (Tuesday) morning for breakfast in Maplewood with an agreement to confirm an hour beforehand. I reached out two hours prior to our meeting time but heard nothing back. She hasn't been online in two days and my message remains unread. She claimed to live in Stillwater FWIW.
[QUOTE=Anonyminn;5287842][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a080a7bc-c4e8-4cef-86e7-6212a59173a6[/URL]
Any intel on this one? I believe she's been on the site under another profile. Seems eager to get down to business.[/QUOTE]Things finally came to a head with this one, now going by Luna_2882. After several weeks of text silence, she contacted me one morning last week asking if I'd be up for meeting later in the day. I replied affirmatively and asked if 1:00 would work. She failed to respond.
Then on Monday, she again texted me in the morning, claimed that she thought she'd replied to my text sent last week, and asked if I'd be up for meeting later in the day. This time I shot her down, stating that her repeated requests for last-minute meetups demonstrate a fundamental incompatibility to put it more nicely than my reply text. Has anyone actually met up with her?
Same experience here. She would randomly hit me up in the afternoon on a workday and ask if I'm available. Apparently she still lives with her boyfriend and she can only host when he's gone for work but something doesn't feel right about this chick. She's had multiple profiles before so for everyone's safety I'd steer clear of this one.
[QUOTE=Anonyminn;5347704]Things finally came to a head with this one, now going by Luna_2882. After several weeks of text silence, she contacted me one morning last week asking if I'd be up for meeting later in the day. I replied affirmatively and asked if 1:00 would work. She failed to respond.
Then on Monday, she again texted me in the morning, claimed that she thought she'd replied to my text sent last week, and asked if I'd be up for meeting later in the day. This time I shot her down, stating that her repeated requests for last-minute meetups demonstrate a fundamental incompatibility to put it more nicely than my reply text. Has anyone actually met up with her?[/QUOTE]
I ran across this site the describes around 20 different sugar baby dates. Good stuff.
[URL]www.sugarbaby411.com[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4899c799-3394-4ec9-bd0e-9f3d40e4575d[/URL]
Has had a profile since Sept. Location. Dellwood, MN (NE of White Bear Lake). Sent this message: "Hello I just got in town do you want to set something up, do you have another way I can contact you?
Pics say stripper, message says pro. I replied, "As long as you don't ask for gift cards or money in advance, I can share my #. " . Crickets.
[QUOTE=WiseTraveler;5348809][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4899c799-3394-4ec9-bd0e-9f3d40e4575d[/URL]
Has had a profile since Sept. Location. Dellwood, MN (NE of White Bear Lake). Sent this message: "Hello I just got in town do you want to set something up, do you have another way I can contact you?
Pics say stripper, message says pro. I replied, "As long as you don't ask for gift cards or money in advance, I can share my #. " . Crickets.[/QUOTE]She has ads on Eros occasionally. I think I've even seen reviews for her on TER as well.
She's real, also on EROS BTW so she is a pro. I didn't like her attitude when talking to her because she was way too sassy and I heard she upcharges like crazy once you meet.
[QUOTE=WiseTraveler;5348809][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4899c799-3394-4ec9-bd0e-9f3d40e4575d[/URL]
Has had a profile since Sept. Location. Dellwood, MN (NE of White Bear Lake). Sent this message: "Hello I just got in town do you want to set something up, do you have another way I can contact you?
Pics say stripper, message says pro. I replied, "As long as you don't ask for gift cards or money in advance, I can share my #. " . Crickets.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PhillipPlein;5349015]She's real, also on EROS BTW so she is a pro. I didn't like her attitude when talking to her because she was way too sassy and I heard she upcharges like crazy once you meet.[/QUOTE]Yep. Wanted $300 just to meet or $500 for outcall, $1,000 for her to host. Noped out of that.
[QUOTE=Rambo21;5348518]I ran across this site the describes around 20 different sugar baby dates. Good stuff.
[URL]www.sugarbaby411.com[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing. It's interesting reading but I found myself shaking my head more often than not. That young with that much money and he's paying 2-4 times as much as he needs to and then catching feelings based on barely any interactions. I guess if I had fuck you money I might throw it around more and help out others so it's not all bad. At least he doesn't seem rapey and he showed a little self-awareness at times but I get the sense his version of things and reality are strangers.
Re: one of the Asian SBs - $5,000 for maybe 3-4 dates with intimacy and she started distancing and not responding? I wouldn't give her more money, I'd end it or at least have 'the talk' so we're clear on expectations. She's clearly not into sugaring or him and he's pining over her as if they had a real relationship.
Wow the last 2 are just my type! Did you ever meet up with either of them eventually? I'd love to know more.
[QUOTE=MaconWhoopi22;5345207]Guys, this may be the same poster using different pictures. Similar profile names (name and age) and similar descriptions. "I do work" is an odd phrase and the use of zero punctuation resonates throughout each profile. I've messaged all 3, 2 have agreed on a ppm and then go silent. Appears to be just a game.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0019100b-37de-4938-8ab6-24873d5f4414[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/19dda31c-82a6-41d7-9163-1918471b1acd[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ec8781b6-c1df-417a-ba0d-525402c76a0f[/URL][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=WiseTraveler;5350056]Thanks for sharing. It's interesting reading but I found myself shaking my head more often than not. That young with that much money and he's paying 2-4 times as much as he needs to and then catching feelings based on barely any interactions. I guess if I had fuck you money I might throw it around more and help out others so it's not all bad. At least he doesn't seem rapey and he showed a little self-awareness at times but I get the sense his version of things and reality are strangers.
Re: one of the Asian SBs - $5,000 for maybe 3-4 dates with intimacy and she started distancing and not responding? I wouldn't give her more money, I'd end it or at least have 'the talk' so we're clear on expectations. She's clearly not into sugaring or him and he's pining over her as if they had a real relationship.[/QUOTE]Yeah, there are lessons to be learned. Seems like the dude was expecting a real relationship and got let down when it became clear that was not the case. Clearly he spent too much money. I like the story about the stinky pussy. That must have been a real buzz kill haha. The flakiness and poor communication are something I can relate to. I know from your posts you are big on setting clear expectations, but I have found in life that once flakey, always flakey.
[QUOTE=Rambo21;5348518]I ran across this site the describes around 20 different sugar baby dates. Good stuff.
[URL]www.sugarbaby411.com[/URL][/QUOTE]I would say over all, his experiences are incredibly pathetic. It appears he doesn't have much game at all and pays way too much.
[QUOTE=RoSteele65;5351753]Wow the last 2 are just my type! Did you ever meet up with either of them eventually? I'd love to know more.[/QUOTE]No. I blocked all three. Waste of time.
Hi,
I have a few phone#'s or SnapChat of POT SBs I am not interested in pursuing.
Senior members, please DM me, if you are interested in playing the SB game.