Seeking Arrangement (SA)

Like I've alluded to before, there are several different types or buckets of gals on SA. Pros, semi pros, all about the money SBs, sincere connection SBs and finally gals trying to weed out deadbeats to actually date. Their age, experience and time on SA also help determine their bucket. I try to quickly sort out which bucket I believe they belong to and treat them accordingly. Some may fall into a couple categories.

And yes, the sincere connection SBs should get much more sugar.

[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;3654355]This situation here is the exact opposite of what you're talking about, it's a girl who does this regularly and is somewhere between UTR and pro, who offers a 1 pop quickie. That's not an SA experience to me, and would not be be worth 400, but we all like different things so to each his own. She seems pretty hardline on px, but again, I'll say that the UTR types like her on there can almost always be had for 300 at the most and it's not a timed, rushed pro style experience, most of them are not used to that.[/QUOTE]

Only want to be wined and dined. Platonic only.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0e986876-6ab6-4efe-a915-7a98d8118866[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d7557f0d-72ff-439d-b176-9354cc2c2aa4[/URL]

Dinner date set for Sunday evening. No other details yet.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/41009a03-43cc-b799-0b24-f0f1a1456f74[/URL]

Moved to text after several messages. Got upset and went silent when I would not send a pic. Her loss (if she is not a guy).

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/41009a03-43cc-b799-0b24-f0f1a1456f74[/URL]

Finally got her to send me her cell number but she never responded to texts and has gone silent on SA as well.

Was a tough week getting responses, but satisfied myself with a visit to Avery Adams from the sister site. I do have one that I believe will end up meeting me but for now things are progressing slowly.

One more week before the month runs out. Not been good so far only two visits to the FC for the month. Really would have thought Christmas would have brought them out in droves.

[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3656079][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d7557f0d-72ff-439d-b176-9354cc2c2aa4[/URL]

Dinner date set for Sunday evening. No other details yet.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/41009a03-43cc-b799-0b24-f0f1a1456f74[/URL]

Moved to text after several messages. Got upset and went silent when I would not send a pic. Her loss (if she is not a guy).

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/41009a03-43cc-b799-0b24-f0f1a1456f74[/URL]

Finally got her to send me her cell number but she never responded to texts and has gone silent on SA as well.

Was a tough week getting responses, but satisfied myself with a visit to Avery Adams from the sister site. I do have one that I believe will end up meeting me but for now things are progressing slowly.

One more week before the month runs out. Not been good so far only two visits to the FC for the month. Really would have thought Christmas would have brought them out in droves.[/QUOTE]Those last two links are the same SA profile.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[QUOTE=RWarNmsn69;3656304]Those last two links are the same SA profile.

Safe mongering and sugaring![/QUOTE]MY bad here is the correct link.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/aeb0e086-d42e-6ab5-9ef5-912f752f7614[/URL]

[QUOTE=RWarNmsn69;3656304]Those last two links are the same SA profile.

Safe mongering and sugaring![/QUOTE]Your first link is to Medical Assistant69. Took her to the FC. Lots of fun. Good skills. Will not repeat just because I am not into BBW. Her pictures are 50 to 60 pounds light of what she weighs now If BBW are your thing she is sweet, fun, and enthusiastic. This is a big girl.

Anybody have any info? PM me is fine, I think I've met her before but not sure.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/cad1ded4-1fae-44c0-ac5c-d6f3bfc781e4[/URL]

[QUOTE=HornDawgs;3656593]Anybody have any info? PM me is fine, I think I've met her before but not sure.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/cad1ded4-1fae-44c0-ac5c-d6f3bfc781e4[/URL][/QUOTE]I thought I heard "she" was not real?

[QUOTE=MTWilliams911;3656613]I thought I heard "she" was not real?[/QUOTE]Clearly her tits aren't real.

[QUOTE=MTWilliams911;3655441]Only want to be wined and dined. Platonic only.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0e986876-6ab6-4efe-a915-7a98d8118866[/URL][/QUOTE]Did you meet them? I've had a couple girls try to bring a friend. No way jose for me.

[QUOTE=TrebleHook;3654663]Like I've alluded to before, there are several different types or buckets of gals on SA. Pros, semi pros, all about the money SBs, sincere connection SBs and finally gals trying to weed out deadbeats to actually date. Their age, experience and time on SA also help determine their bucket. I try to quickly sort out which bucket I believe they belong to and treat them accordingly. Some may fall into a couple categories.

And yes, the sincere connection SBs should get much more sugar.[/QUOTE]I agree about the different buckets. I have met girls who don't want a dime. They want a real realationship with someone who isn't a loser.

[QUOTE=MinneMike;3657170]Did you meet them? I've had a couple girls try to bring a friend. No way jose for me.[/QUOTE]No they just messaged Platonic Only.

[QUOTE=MinneMike;3657167]Clearly her tits aren't real.[/QUOTE]She went dark after I said no to pics being sent. Just won't do that. I think it is a SCAM but hell I don't know.

[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3657675]She went dark after I said no to pics being sent. Just won't do that. I think it is a SCAM but hell I don't know.[/QUOTE]Someone should follow up with the understanding that we are highly skeptical that she is real.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/00d6360e-ff8b-4d09-8153-b4e677e4f374[/URL]

5 bills just to meet? WTF! Get out of here. Blocked.

[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3657698][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/00d6360e-ff8b-4d09-8153-b4e677e4f374[/URL]

5 bills just to meet? WTF! Get out of here. Blocked.[/QUOTE]She seems like an idiot right there in her profile demanding a "gift" for driving to meet. Let's drive these types out. No need to deal with them.

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/d8231e03-e408-4c97-b0bd-85fd791681dc[/URL]

Claims to be two bi girls. Seems to be a scam but I am not sure. Does anyone have experience with them?

[QUOTE=MinneMike;3658245]She seems like an idiot right there in her profile demanding a "gift" for driving to meet. Let's drive these types out. No need to deal with them.[/QUOTE]She's been on the scene at least a year. I have talked to her and never met. She was pushy and not very personable.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/524d75a6-0511-44a4-b854-6d0eafcdfaf8[/URL] Anyone have any experience with this one?

[QUOTE=NashFunGuy;3658489][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/524d75a6-0511-44a4-b854-6d0eafcdfaf8[/URL] Anyone have any experience with this one?[/QUOTE]Texted with her for months. Could not get her to meet.

[QUOTE=NashFunGuy;3658489][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/524d75a6-0511-44a4-b854-6d0eafcdfaf8[/URL] Anyone have any experience with this one?[/QUOTE]She's familiar with our uncle in a professional capacity.

[QUOTE=MinneMike;3658248][URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/d8231e03-e408-4c97-b0bd-85fd791681dc[/URL]

Claims to be two bi girls. Seems to be a scam but I am not sure. Does anyone have experience with them?[/QUOTE]Trust your spidey sense is what I think. Make them talk on the phone, etc etc to verify they are females first. Then pics to show they are here and real.

I chatted them up a few weeks ago. Almost pulled the trigger. From what I could tell they are real. Something just seemed 'off' about the entire deal so I used my big head for once and passed. One of their texts to me was: "We are just two girls who want to get paid to fuck".

[QUOTE=MinneMike;3658248][URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/d8231e03-e408-4c97-b0bd-85fd791681dc[/URL]

Claims to be two bi girls. Seems to be a scam but I am not sure. Does anyone have experience with them?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=EricJones21;3658526]She's familiar with our uncle in a professional capacity.[/QUOTE]How did you learn of her meetings with our uncle. Yikes!

[QUOTE=TrebleHook;3658774]I chatted them up a few weeks ago. Almost pulled the trigger. From what I could tell they are real. Something just seemed 'off' about the entire deal so I used my big head for once and passed. One of their texts to me was: "We are just two girls who want to get paid to fuck".[/QUOTE]Someone needs to investigate. Just be very very careful is all. TOFTT.

Meet in public, hide your I'd, and assume everything you say is being recorded. LOL.

There is an extortion going down on SA and other SD sites. The extortionist will scrape photos and data from your profile. Once they get your photo, phone number or email address they post them both on a sexual predator site and state that you are offering money for sex. The extortionist then texts or emails you that you have been posted and provides a link to that web site, you click the link and there is your photo, phone number and or email address. The scam is that right next to your posting is "Remove This Post" they will charge you up to $1500 to have it removed. Good luck with that!

Do not give your photos, phone number or email address to ANY girl on the site that has not been completely vetted that they are not an extortionist. I just exchanged a basic message with this one [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d528cd1f-e1d4-4f5a-80d9-7a2cbb986bb2[/URL].

No correspondence other that immediately she (probably he) responded with "I'd love to talk more! What's your number?

You have been warned!

Be safe F&G.

[QUOTE=FirstAndGoal;3661176]There is an extortion going down on SA and other SD sites. The extortionist will scrape photos and data from your profile. Once they get your photo, phone number or email address they post them both on a sexual predator site and state that you are offering money for sex. The extortionist then texts or emails you that you have been posted and provides a link to that web site, you click the link and there is your photo, phone number and or email address. The scam is that right next to your posting is "Remove This Post" they will charge you up to $1500 to have it removed. Good luck with that!

Do not give your photos, phone number or email address to ANY girl on the site that has not been completely vetted that they are not an extortionist. I just exchanged a basic message with this one [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d528cd1f-e1d4-4f5a-80d9-7a2cbb986bb2[/URL].

No correspondence other that immediately she (probably he) responded with "I'd love to talk more! What's your number?

You have been warned!

Be safe F&G.[/QUOTE]Could be, but I think she has a different game. She's not in Nashville, or says to then asks for gas money to come see you. She's looking for suckers dumb enough to advance money via venmo or paypal or something without meeting first.

There probably are extortion trolls on the site for the express purpose of putting your stuff on there for blackmail as a business model, but there probably are also legit girls who get pissed at you for some reason that submit your info to those sites, as revenge.

This particular girl may not be one of the culprits however the business model predator web site has a bogas predator submital feature that does not work. The only inputs are being done by the site administrator!

[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;3661563]Could be, but I think she has a different game. She's not in Nashville, or says to then asks for gas money to come see you. She's looking for suckers dumb enough to advance money via venmo or paypal or something without meeting first.

There probably are extortion trolls on the site for the express purpose of putting your stuff on there for blackmail as a business model, but there probably are also legit girls who get pissed at you for some reason that submit your info to those sites, as revenge.[/QUOTE]

It's not a good idea to use a real phone number or email during the initial screening process. You may not want to ever use your real ones. I just learned that the hard way. There are lots of free ways to get a "hobby phone number". It's free.

As far as the photo, don't send a perfect photo for them to possibly post on a site. Use one with a hat on or sunglasses or even a far away pic sort of.

All you have to do is get the first date and a photo won't matter anyway. I use to do alright on SA, but now things suck in my opinion. Too many UTR pros, unrealistic expectations, etc.

[QUOTE=FirstAndGoal;3661176]There is an extortion going down on SA and other SD sites. The extortionist will scrape photos and data from your profile. Once they get your photo, phone number or email address they post them both on a sexual predator site and state that you are offering money for sex. The extortionist then texts or emails you that you have been posted and provides a link to that web site, you click the link and there is your photo, phone number and or email address. The scam is that right next to your posting is "Remove This Post" they will charge you up to $1500 to have it removed. Good luck with that!

Do not give your photos, phone number or email address to ANY girl on the site that has not been completely vetted that they are not an extortionist. I just exchanged a basic message with this one [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d528cd1f-e1d4-4f5a-80d9-7a2cbb986bb2[/URL].

No correspondence other that immediately she (probably he) responded with "I'd love to talk more! What's your number?

You have been warned!

Be safe F&G.[/QUOTE]I would recommend contacting SA to complain about it so they get involved and maybe able to file suit on the site.

[QUOTE=MTWilliams911;3658919]How did you learn of her meetings with our uncle. Yikes![/QUOTE]I've known her for a long ass time, 15+ years. And I can positively state that she has never been given jewelry by our uncle.

[QUOTE=Dogs22;3661614]It's not a good idea to use a real phone number or email during the initial screening process. You may not want to ever use your real ones. I just learned that the hard way. There are lots of free ways to get a "hobby phone number". It's free.

As far as the photo, don't send a perfect photo for them to possibly post on a site. Use one with a hat on or sunglasses or even a far away pic sort of.

All you have to do is get the first date and a photo won't matter anyway. I use to do alright on SA, but now things suck in my opinion. Too many UTR pros, unrealistic expectations, etc.[/QUOTE]It does suck on there, compared to the old days. A majority of the new profiles are either people trying to sell you pics and vids that probably aren't actually within 300 miles of Nashville, or "platonic" only, girls thinking guys will shower them with money for the pleasure of talking to them while buying them meals. The site has created the impression that that is widely available and almost the norm to try to get more girls to sign up and it's ruined the site as much as anything. I guess there are guys dumb enough to buy pics and vids, or pay someone to talk to them, but can't imagine that grows on trees and most girls are finding it, but that's their expectation now when they join.

[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;3662143]It does suck on there, compared to the old days. A majority of the new profiles are either people trying to sell you pics and vids that probably aren't actually within 300 miles of Nashville, or "platonic" only, girls thinking guys will shower them with money for the pleasure of talking to them while buying them meals. The site has created the impression that that is widely available and almost the norm to try to get more girls to sign up and it's ruined the site as much as anything. I guess there are guys dumb enough to buy pics and vids, or pay someone to talk to them, but can't imagine that grows on trees and most girls are finding it, but that's their expectation now when they join.[/QUOTE]Is there any better site out there? I knew about SA many years ago but never got on until recently. I've had some really crazy girls show up. Some of them have been total liars, totally irresponsible. I mean, just crazy shit. It is so frustrating. Even the vandy students who should have their shit together, can be real idiots.

[QUOTE=MTWilliams911;3658929]Someone needs to investigate. Just be very very careful is all. TOFTT.

Meet in public, hide your I'd, and assume everything you say is being recorded. LOL.[/QUOTE]They are the real deal.

[URL]www.seekingarrangement.com/member[/URL]

So the first time we met was kinda of rushed m&g with a quick visit to the FC. She changed her profile to indicate she was very freaky. Setup a second date to find out. The freaky part was she brought a little motorized friend. Big deal. Bad part was it was very rushed again. I have decided to cut this one loose. I like the body. I like the look, just hate the rushing part and won't repeat.

[QUOTE=FigLeaf;3663144][URL]www.seekingarrangement.com/member[/URL]

So the first time we met was kinda of rushed m&g with a quick visit to the FC. She changed her profile to indicate she was very freaky. Setup a second date to find out. The freaky part was she brought a little motorized friend. Big deal. Bad part was it was very rushed again. I have decided to cut this one loose. I like the body. I like the look, just hate the rushing part and won't repeat.[/QUOTE]I chatted with her a few times but she has GPS and wanted $300 per meeting. I thought she seemed liked a semi-pro hooker and gave off the same Vibe. Glad I passed.

[QUOTE=MinneMike;3662688]Is there any better site out there? I knew about SA many years ago but never got on until recently. I've had some really crazy girls show up. Some of them have been total liars, totally irresponsible. I mean, just crazy shit. It is so frustrating. Even the vandy students who should have their shit together, can be real idiots.[/QUOTE]There is no better site out there that I'm aware of. This one still is still 10 x better than others, just not what it once was.

Also check your DM's man.

[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;3663345]There is no better site out there that I'm aware of. This one still is still 10 x better than others, just not what it once was.

Also check your DM's man.[/QUOTE]Thanks. Utopiaguide was good for the northeast.

Well four weeks have gone by this go around. This is the update for this week which will be my last of this month long subscription.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fb20cdb8-47a4-4879-afbc-374b9520df55[/URL]

Responded to initial message indicating she would be interested but then went dark.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/25dd8346-b9aa-c5c9-706c-72834074206c[/URL]

Also responded to initial message and then went dark.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e29ff7ff-d87a-4853-a99a-5fe6a77850c7[/URL]

Never got more than a responding "hey" to my messages.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/35206cfa-848e-4187-ad23-69182bf5f7a6[/URL]

A little further north than I normally look, but time was running short on my month long subscription. Looks very promising based upon initial messages. Plus I can have her come south and not have to ravel to BG.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/49063f78-3372-40fc-88d6-2d5864938354[/URL]

Simply put, too much attitude. Moving on.

Have one more that is mid 30's but very beginning stages. Will contact after Christmas to try and set up something.

Also this one I am to contact after Christmas.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/c05afb82-282b-43e1-b816-978fd222cf06?mailbox=sent[/URL]

And this one too. I have heard from others she is larger than pics but does an awesome BBBJNQCIMNS, so I may try to see her if just for that. Price being agreeable for both, of course.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d7557f0d-72ff-439d-b176-9354cc2c2aa4[/URL]

That's all for now folks so until next time.

FL Out!

[QUOTE=MinneMike;3662689]They are the real deal.[/QUOTE]What was damage and menu?