Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=DakotaJohn88;7179811]During your initial contact with her, did she want a platonic relationship that could turn into something better, assuming the chemistry was there? I may have cut commo off to soon w this one.[/QUOTE]She started with that and I asked her if read my profile that clearly states no platonic. Couple days went by and she reached out asking if I wanted to meet, told her no if she was still wanting platonic. She said she was good to go. Meet at the bar in my hotel and within the hour she was naked in my room.

[QUOTE=Fergie830;7179949]She started with that and I asked her if read my profile that clearly states no platonic. Couple days went by and she reached out asking if I wanted to meet, told her no if she was still wanting platonic. She said she was good to go. Meet at the bar in my hotel and within the hour she was naked in my room.[/QUOTE]Ferg, you're my hero! Thanks for setting the record straight. 👍.

My plate is full (first time for everything) but I'd definitely eat some crow to have a dream with her.

[QUOTE=DakotaJohn88;7180071]Ferg, you're my hero! Thanks for setting the record straight. 👍.

My plate is full (first time for everything) but I'd definitely eat some crow to have a dream with her.[/QUOTE]She may have changed her ways, I was just looking and it was almost 2 years ago when I was seeing her. Time flys.

I have a couple of past contacts in Huntsville that were always DTF most anytime. But they all found a simp to pay to just hang out and aren't sharing the pussy anymore.

[QUOTE=Fergie830;7180088]She may have changed her ways, I was just looking and it was almost 2 years ago when I was seeing her. Time flys.

I have a couple of past contacts in Huntsville that were always DTF most anytime. But they all found a simp to pay to just hang out and aren't sharing the pussy anymore.[/QUOTE]I think every monger on Seeking and SB would love to see your blackbook! At the moment, I'm too busy to make any arrangement but I will give it another shot.

When I chat with the girls from both sights, it blows my mind that mongers will pay just to hang out with them for dinner so you're right, the pool of DTF ladies is getting smaller.

[QUOTE=DakotaJohn88;7180102]I think every monger on Seeking and SB would love to see your blackbook! At the moment, I'm too busy to make any arrangement but I will give it another shot.

When I chat with the girls from both sights, it blows my mind that mongers will pay just to hang out with them for dinner so you're right, the pool of DTF ladies is getting smaller.[/QUOTE]I've been doing the SB deal since 2008 or so. I had a friend who was an older gentleman who had done it for many, many years. He gave me lots of great advice early on and most is still relevant today.

The best thing he told me is; there are a lot of attractive, cute girls on these sites and more every day, there are far fewer men who can live up to their end of the arrangement and provide what they say they me.

Never give money up front, never buy pictures or videos. The first time you do, you'll be hard pressed to EVER meet them in person. I always put something in my profiles that say exactly what I'm NOT looking for and hint at what I am. Don't hound them over pictures. Don't constantly text them, they aren't your friend or girlfriend in the beginning. I keep some mystery about myself in my profile and when I first start talking to someone new.

Main thing is don't come off as a simp and you'll be fine.

[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7179573]This one messaged me. Then after I messaged. Her part of the message disappeared. I'm not sure what to think. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/0b69f834bda833e9[/URL].[/QUOTE]Exchanged 3 or 4 messages with this one. All generic so to speak. And then crickets. Who knows.

This one sounded really good and then I see the address she sent me is a store. Then she asked for me to cashapp partial for deposit. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/3123a5403782bcd7[/URL].

This is solid advice!

[QUOTE=Fergie830;7180713]I've been doing the SB deal since 2008 or so. I had a friend who was an older gentleman who had done it for many, many years. He gave me lots of great advice early on and most is still relevant today.

The best thing he told me is; there are a lot of attractive, cute girls on these sites and more every day, there are far fewer men who can live up to their end of the arrangement and provide what they say they me.

Never give money up front, never buy pictures or videos. The first time you do, you'll be hard pressed to EVER meet them in person. I always put something in my profiles that say exactly what I'm NOT looking for and hint at what I am. Don't hound them over pictures. Don't constantly text them, they aren't your friend or girlfriend in the beginning. I keep some mystery about myself in my profile and when I first start talking to someone new.

Main thing is don't come off as a simp and you'll be fine.[/QUOTE]

She real. I just had to message her cause of the weird picture. LOL. She had liked my profile also. She replied that she didn't like my profile now cause she realized it doesn't have a profile pic. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e8cea12360e121f9[/URL]

[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7181944]She real. I just had to message her cause of the weird picture. LOL. She had liked my profile also. She replied that she didn't like my profile now cause she realized it doesn't have a profile pic. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/e8cea12360e121f9[/URL][/QUOTE]I wouldn't waste the credits, soon as I mentioned in person she ghosted.

[QUOTE=BamaTrip;7182471]I wouldn't waste the credits, soon as I mentioned in person she ghosted.[/QUOTE]She should to the same and pass on having a profile pic too.

This one got back with me. I had already heard from someone that she asked for 1 k ppm. Getting only an hour. She told me 8. Senior discount applied! LOL. When I said that doesn't work and have a great day. She asked me what I would do. I said 3. Crickets. LOL.

Has anyone seen this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/188f8c6a-92cb-40d4-8d68-920950fb8c9f[/URL]

I know she'd had a couple different profiles before, I'm curious if anyone has actually gotten to meet up with her or her friend (who's profile seems to be deleted now). You can DM me if you'd like.

[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7184039]This one got back with me. I had already heard from someone that she asked for 1 k ppm. Getting only an hour. She told me 8. Senior discount applied! LOL. When I said that doesn't work and have a great day. She asked me what I would do. I said 3. Crickets. LOL.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/5c314dfd4c586fdf[/URL]

[QUOTE=BamaTrip;7185596]Has anyone seen this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/188f8c6a-92cb-40d4-8d68-920950fb8c9f[/URL]

I know she'd had a couple different profiles before, I'm curious if anyone has actually gotten to meet up with her or her friend (who's profile seems to be deleted now). You can DM me if you'd like.[/QUOTE]Her profile says she just joined yesterday.