Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=PHunt37;2430274]I have been messaging this gal. She is hard to get read on. Comes off as p2 p but sort of beats around bush. Not sure if it is just a play for cash. Any info would be appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e8d5df7d/view?search-recently-active[/URL]


Thinking of contacting this one also if anyone has the scoop.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1338a0d/view?search-recently-active[/QUOTE]Second link isn't working. See if this works.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1338a0d/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Her profile states she is 22 and located in Knoxville.

I short-cutters many of my screening processes and began regretting it. My methods have generally served me very well. This experience was a "gentle" reminder to stick with my approach.

Chloe got onto SA in April and I contacted her. We chatted a bit on SA and then by text. We talked $ and she finally agreed to my number. We set up a day to meet. She had to rearrange her work schedule to make it happen. I stopped by her work and met her the day before our arranged meet. Saw that her pics were likely years old and 30+ lbs ago. Based upon her situation and having rearranged her work, I didn't feel comfortable backing out. Normally, I would have vetted that better, so it was my own fault.

The day of the meet she again addressed our deal. I told her I do the deal we made. So, we confirmed the start time, duration, and amount, again. I drove to a nearby town where she lives and got a place. She showed on time, but was nervous. Said it was her first meet. I talked with her for awhile to allow her to get comfortable. She stated her relative would pick her up at a certain time. The time she stated was prior to when we were supposed to be finished. She looked confused and I did the math for her. Told her she could have the relative pick her up after we were done.

A few minutes later she stated she was too nervous and started apologizing for wasting my time. I told her not to worry, that she needed to be comfortable with the situation or it wouldn't be right. She offered to reimburse me for the room, but I told her not to worry about it.

I would have just let it all go, writing it off to an ultra nervous first-timer. However, she was back working the SA website within 20 minutes. So, maybe she's new. Maybe she didn't like me. Maybe she had a hard commitment that wouldn't allow her to stay the entire time. Don't know. However, the rest of you now know what went on with she and I should you choose to contact her.

SouthernJohn.

[QUOTE=PHunt37;2430280]Second link isn't working. See if this works.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1338a0d/view?search-recently-active[/URL][/QUOTE]Haven't seen either. Limited chatting with the first and more extensive negotiations with the second. P Hunt, check your PM for details.

SouthernJohn.

[QUOTE=SouthernJohn;2430318]Haven't seen either. Limited chatting with the first and more extensive negotiations with the second. P Hunt, check your PM for details.

SouthernJohn.[/QUOTE]I would be interested in knowing more about "Nicole". Is this the one you are calling Chloe?

I had Nicole down as a favorite but haven't contacted yet.

[QUOTE=Gibson1970;2430568]I would be interested in knowing more about "Nicole". Is this the one you are calling Chloe?

I had Nicole down as a favorite but haven't contacted yet.[/QUOTE]I had an aborted meeting with Chloe. I also stated I never met either of the girls that P Hunt mentioned. So, Chloe cannot be Nicole. You can follow P Hunt's links to which girls he referenced. I couldn't get the link to post so I put Chloe's screen name in the title.

What am I doing wrong when I go to SA I only find males can't find how to search for females.

[QUOTE=KenVetteman;2431872]What am I doing wrong when I go to SA I only find males can't find how to search for females.[/QUOTE]Check your profile settings.

[QUOTE=Jg3786;2431875]Check your profile settings.[/QUOTE]Thank you ken.

But seems to play games with endless messaging. Having some good luck with others though.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/edc71d4c/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

Is this Charlie's Curves?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e5aeb7ed/view?conversation-sent[/URL]

[QUOTE=BobVac21;2434039]Is this Charlie's Curves?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e5aeb7ed/view?conversation-sent[/URL][/QUOTE]No that is not her.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e2bd4abd/view?search-recently-active[/URL]

Could just be she is busy but think this one is a scammer.

After much lurking, signed up last week on SA. Have gotten heavy marketing from Kelsowellso. , who is also on SD4 Me. She wants a high priced restaurant for a first meet. Any more info than what is already posted below?

Got a picture request from DEE DEE, [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ecf1f62a/view?interests-my-favorites[/URL] . Any intel? Thanks.

Bob.

[QUOTE=PHunt37;2430274]I have been messaging this gal. She is hard to get read on. Comes off as p2 p but sort of beats around bush. Not sure if it is just a play for cash. Any info would be appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e8d5df7d/view?search-recently-active[/URL]


Thinking of contacting this one also if anyone has the scoop.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1338a0d/view?search-recently-active[/QUOTE]The lady in the first link goes by ashmariebarbie. I texted with her late last week and she didn't like my proposed arrangement. She wanted to be paid for going to dinner and I told her that I didn't do that. After wishing her well, I told her to contact me if she ever changed her mind. Something made her snap (one of you guys?) and she tore into me via message on SA (got her facts all wrong and leveled some slanderous statements). She claimed she was turning my info (texts, etc) over to the police (LOL). I blocked her and reported her to the SA Admin (received confirmation they are investigating her behavior). I also noticed she changed her profile pic and rewrote her profile (more LOL).

So, save yourself the grief and avoid the PSYCHO.

[QUOTE=SouthernJohn;2434699]The lady in the first link goes by ashmariebarbie. I texted with her late last week and she didn't like my proposed arrangement. She wanted to be paid for going to dinner and I told her that I didn't do that. After wishing her well, I told her to contact me if she ever changed her mind. Something made her snap (one of you guys?) and she tore into me via message on SA (got her facts all wrong and leveled some slanderous statements). She claimed she was turning my info (texts, etc) over to the police (LOL). I blocked her and reported her to the SA Admin (received confirmation they are investigating her behavior). I also noticed she changed her profile pic and rewrote her profile (more LOL).

So, save yourself the grief and avoid the PSYCHO.[/QUOTE]Some of these young ladies must think we can only think with our little heads. I think AMB is fine and wouldn't mind at all putting her on a monthly allowance for regular visits. However, some of these young ladies have this 50 shades of grey delusion. This game of meeting with me pouring sugar on them then they decide after accepting the sugar that we don't click is a game I won't play. I have chemistry with my SO. We have an unspoken don't ask don't tell, don't expose her to something she don't want, and for God's sake definitely don't be seen by friends or family. Taking some young girl to Ruth's Chris or the Orangery is never going to happen with me. Now, if we have a regular thing and she is cool when I go to Atl she can come along.

A few of these ladies think they can go out to dinner with an older guy pick up $50-$100 w / o ever having any intention of being a sugar baby. They see a dozen guys a month that fall for that shit and collect $600-$1200 a month. Not bad but very little difference between that and cash & dash in my mind.