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[QUOTE=DuggerJug;6965803]She doesn't do the Boom Boom as he said. Some girls don't It's their choice. IMO we should respect their boundaries.[/QUOTE]I agree here, however unless I read his post wrong, I definitely don't see any issue with how this was handled regarding getting up and leaving if you are not getting the service that you want, especially if it was not to your liking. I think we have to start understanding that sometimes these girls especially in the AMP scene will get us for as much as they can with doing the least that they can and a lot of times it's done because most of us won't say anything to them about it. Just getting up and leaving to me is a perfectly respectful way of saying thanks, but you are not happy with the service being provided and just walk away. I definitely don't think this is a situation where boundaries weren't respected, but just not satisfied with the current services being provided. Unless I'm interpreting his post wrong or something.
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Daily Delight
Well, some young buck didn't like my last review and rather than lash out- I will simply offer another.
Stopped by Daily mid-thunderstorm yesterday. I took the small room to the right as the other two were servicing mongers. (perhaps the young'un who didn't like my last review though I doubt it.).
Opted for an hour of hard pressure and that is exactly what I received. On the flip asked for the whole shebang ($.2) and really enjoyed myself. Therapist said she was 25 though closer to 32 IMHO. Thin and really pretty with B adornments with large nips.
The place was busy as I mentioned and most of the parking spots were still full when I left. In short- a good experience that I wouldn't be able to do on a "Daily" basis.
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Agree
[QUOTE=Georgei;6965758]It's been over 2 months since the horrible fire and loss of life at Sunny's place. It's hard to believe that nobody has any update or heard anything about Sunny's condition or any information on what happened.[/QUOTE]There must be chatter on WeChat with AMP workers. I think she was independent but the "community " has to know something about her.
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Further
[QUOTE=GSpotGilligan;6965953]I agree here, however unless I read his post wrong, I definitely don't see any issue with how this was handled regarding getting up and leaving if you are not getting the service that you want, especially if it was not to your liking. I think we have to start understanding that sometimes these girls especially in the AMP scene will get us for as much as they can with doing the least that they can and a lot of times it's done because most of us won't say anything to them about it. Just getting up and leaving to me is a perfectly respectful way of saying thanks, but you are not happy with the service being provided and just walk away. I definitely don't think this is a situation where boundaries weren't respected, but just not satisfied with the current services being provided. Unless I'm interpreting his post wrong or something.[/QUOTE]I still haven't found a good reason to tip before services rendered at these businesses. But I am willing to hear a few.
Right now I am conflicted with restaurant servers coming to the table, taking my order and closing with" I'll appreciate your tip now. ".
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In Advance
[QUOTE=Indiguy;6966517]I still haven't found a good reason to tip before services rendered at these businesses. But I am willing to hear a few.
Right now I am conflicted with restaurant servers coming to the table, taking my order and closing with" I'll appreciate your tip now. ".[/QUOTE]I have had MTs ask for the tip in advance, but never a restaurant server. Never even heard of that. Wow! That takes balls!
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[QUOTE=Indylad;6966614]I have had MTs ask for the tip in advance, but never a restaurant server. Never even heard of that. Wow! That takes balls![/QUOTE]I think he was just comparing it to a restaurant server doing that and not actually having experienced it. If that's not the case and this actually did happen that would be some balls on their part LOL.
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Mundy turnover
Man, it seems there are new girls at Mundy every month. Cindy and the other girl are gone and now a plump little gal and another are there. Not a bad visit, but it is kind of nice to see someone more than once.
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Agree
[QUOTE=GSpotGilligan;6965953]I agree here, however unless I read his post wrong, I definitely don't see any issue with how this was handled regarding getting up and leaving if you are not getting the service that you want, especially if it was not to your liking. I think we have to start understanding that sometimes these girls especially in the AMP scene will get us for as much as they can with doing the least that they can and a lot of times it's done because most of us won't say anything to them about it. Just getting up and leaving to me is a perfectly respectful way of saying thanks, but you are not happy with the service being provided and just walk away. I definitely don't think this is a situation where boundaries weren't respected, but just not satisfied with the current services being provided. Unless I'm interpreting his post wrong or something.[/QUOTE]To add to the restaurant reference, restaurants will typically let you know when something that is normally on the menu is not available from the start rather than wait till you're done with the appetizers and a few drinks in.
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In Advance
To continue this discussion, in my experience, when meeting a provider for the first time, they do demand the tip up front. I usually chalk it up to mongers trying to get something for nothing and acquiesce. Perhaps I should not, but I see it from their point of view, also.
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Bobo
[QUOTE=Harley1961;6963966]Stopped into say hello and was told Bobo gone? She on break?[/QUOTE]Bobo is taking a couple weeks off and will be back soon.
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Tip Up Front?
[QUOTE=Couster;6967269]To continue this discussion, in my experience, when meeting a provider for the first time, they do demand the tip up front. I usually chalk it up to mongers trying to get something for nothing and acquiesce. Perhaps I should not, but I see it from their point of view, also.[/QUOTE]If you are a first time customer an MT may want to see that you have the $$ before they provide service. Some mongers will get grabby before the flip and expect something for virtually nothing. Believe me I have heard this from many MT's! So if you act like a gentleman and do not get too grabby but indicate that you have tip money you will be fine. At the flip, mutually agree pay and enjoy. If you are a regular somewhere often this all happens without even asking.
Be clean, be sober, be a gentleman, show respect goes a long way with MT's.
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Tipping before service
[QUOTE=Indiguy;6966517]I still haven't found a good reason to tip before services rendered at these businesses. But I am willing to hear a few.
Right now I am conflicted with restaurant servers coming to the table, taking my order and closing with" I'll appreciate your tip now. ".[/QUOTE]This is a tricky area, and I don't think you can quite equate it to a restaurant server. These providers can't exactly advertise the pricing for various services. We, on the other hand, would rather pay for what we get, and if what we get isn't to our liking we'd like to reserve the right to pay in kind.
My advice?: Do your due diligence here on the forum as best you can so you increase your odds of getting satisfactory service. This puts you at a lower risk of being disappointed.
If you find yourself with an unknown quantity, and you have a bad feeling, refuse to pay ahead of time, or just leave. There are others. I never allow myself to run the risk of paying beforehand and being disappointed. I'm not saying I always get fantastic service, but I never tip in advance. I know that limits my options at times, and that's OK too.
Bottom line: If you get a bad feeling, walk away.
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[QUOTE=Pabllini54;6967310]If you are a first time customer an MT may want to see that you have the $$ before they provide service. Some mongers will get grabby before the flip and expect something for virtually nothing. Believe me I have heard this from many MT's! So if you act like a gentleman and do not get too grabby but indicate that you have tip money you will be fine. At the flip, mutually agree pay and enjoy. If you are a regular somewhere often this all happens without even asking.
Be clean, be sober, be a gentleman, show respect goes a long way with MT's.[/QUOTE]I've had "fun" in a location where it seems no one else does. Perhaps that's why. I tipped up front, got my monies worth.
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[QUOTE=ServiceSeeker;6967445]This is a tricky area, and I don't think you can quite equate it to a restaurant server. These providers can't exactly advertise the pricing for various services. We, on the other hand, would rather pay for what we get, and if what we get isn't to our liking we'd like to reserve the right to pay in kind.
My advice?: Do your due diligence here on the forum as best you can so you increase your odds of getting satisfactory service. This puts you at a lower risk of being disappointed.
If you find yourself with an unknown quantity, and you have a bad feeling, refuse to pay ahead of time, or just leave. There are others. I never allow myself to run the risk of paying beforehand and being disappointed. I'm not saying I always get fantastic service, but I never tip in advance. I know that limits my options at times, and that's OK too.
Bottom line: If you get a bad feeling, walk away.[/QUOTE]While there is merit to both sided of this issue, I think the word "tip" confuses things. It's really only called a tip to camouflage what it actually is. Payment for a service. Even though escorts here have often used the system of payment after service, this seems to be rare now and, to the Chinese, it's a pretty foreign idea. The Chinese that do go along with it only do it because they've learned that they can often get more positive results from it. Most I've gotten to know aren't forward thinking enough to ever understand this but a few eventually get it. It all comes down to basic economics- if the service isn't good, business won't be good. Many MTs I've known have the opinion that they offer their service and we can either take it or leave it. Now, with so much competition, some are giving in and trying to find ways to alter their service to get more business. Others are still clueless and just whine about business being slow. All we can do is make it known how we think it should be by passing if it's not to our liking and eventually things may change.
Now the other side. I've been hanging out in many of these places for the past six years and I'm amazed at how many times guys in Indy really screw these women over by either giving an unbelievably small tip or refusing to tip at all. I've also seen a lot of instances where they were stolen from, forced into things, given counterfeit money, or tricked in some other way. A shop opened in Anderson recently and the first customer paid in fake bills. While I was there last week, some guy came in claiming to be a cop and was pushing her hard to give him a free massage. She told me she saw his vehicle was packed full of tools so she knew he wasn't a cop. Kind of wish he had been LEO. I'd have sent the camera footage straight to the local news.
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Yes
GSpotGilligan;6966619]I think he was just comparing it to a restaurant server doing that and not actually having experienced it. If that's not the case and this actually did happen that would be some balls on their part LOL. You would be correct to think I was giving a not experienced business transaction.