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I have business in OL in the SW often. Today, I saw CBE walking. It's sad, I really wanted to stop and try to get her to get off the street, but 1) I know she can't be helped until she is ready to help herself and 2) I've never picked up a SW and it would be my luck to get busted because I have no idea what I'm doing!
I know it was her, she didn't look great, but she's still heads and tails above the other walkers I've seen.
How do I become a senior? I devulge good info, but only a choice few respond to my inquiries and I can only assume its because I'm not a senior. Thanks brotheren and A2!
[QUOTE=DewDirty;2641728]How do I become a senior? I devulge good info, but only a choice few respond to my inquiries and I can only assume its because I'm not a senior. Thanks brotheren and A2![/QUOTE]How long does it take to become a Senior Member?
Regular Members are automatically upgraded to Senior Member when they have been a Forum Member for 6 months AND have posted 25 or more reports.
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/faq.php?faq=member_type_questions[/URL]
[QUOTE=DewDirty;2641728]How do I become a senior? I devulge good info, but only a choice few respond to my inquiries and I can only assume its because I'm not a senior. Thanks brotheren and A2![/QUOTE]If you look up at the top of the page at the FAQ it will explain it to you. Look under membership questions. You need to be a member for 6 months and have 25 posts. You have more than enough posts, but I guess you need a little more time. Hang in there.
[QUOTE=SteveF111;2642028]If you look up at the top of the page at the FAQ it will explain it to you. Look under membership questions. You need to be a member for 6 months and have 25 posts. You have more than enough posts, but I guess you need a little more time. Hang in there.[/QUOTE]I was just curious. Some seniors still show me love though and I appreciate it!
It's been a good ride but I'm going to take a break from the hobby for a while. I let emotions run away with my mind and almost fell for a girl in the hobby. I posted about it he other day. I was just ready to make the leap from client to a more personal thing. She even announced her retirement. We were friends on Facebook, flirting via texts and pics and then all of a sudden I find out she has a boyfriend. He finds about about me and throws a fit. Said I would have trouble etc if I didn't leave her alone. I've done a ton of research about him. Found out we have several mutual friends. That really brought me to my senses. I can't afford to have any trouble. I'm not afraid of a fight but I can't risk my business I've spent 15+ years building and yes I'm married. So I know you're saying I'm stupid getting too much involved and being married. That's my whole point. I need to clear my mind and be able to put that wall back up before I get back in be game.
So my point is, if you're married, and I know most are, don't let yourself develope feelings for these girls. If you do, weigh all the options before you act.
To my ATF, if she ever comes back, I'll probably see her, but it's going to have to be a long time. I like her enough to really wish her the best.
[QUOTE=DewDirty;2641728]How do I become a senior? I devulge good info, but only a choice few respond to my inquiries and I can only assume its because I'm not a senior. Thanks brotheren and A2![/QUOTE]First a senior takes 6 months of posting and a minimum of 25 posts. So, you are probably getting close to that status. Second is a little more difficult to answer and is really up to the responder. I get a lot of requests for referrals from regular members and senior members. But I answer very few guys.
The reason is I ask that the responders be active, USASG, senior members, and in good standing. By this I mean, senior status, current posting of dates with gals, and 5 out of the last 10 posts are about dates you had, not questions for the guys who actually dated her. I am surprised how many guys get to senior status, then never or rarely post another date. But do ask for contact info as if their "senior" status entitles them.
I assume most people who want info are LE, and I try to prove them, not, by reading their last 10 or 15 posts. Be safe and good hunting. MW.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2642237]It's been a good ride but I'm going to take a break from the hobby for a while. I let emotions run away with my mind and almost fell for a girl in the hobby. I posted about it he other day. I was just ready to make the leap from client to a more personal thing. She even announced her retirement. We were friends on Facebook, flirting via texts and pics and then all of a sudden I find out she has a boyfriend. He finds about about me and throws a fit. Said I would have trouble etc if I didn't leave her alone. I've done a ton of research about him. Found out we have several mutual friends. That really brought me to my senses. I can't afford to have any trouble. I'm not afraid of a fight but I can't risk my business I've spent 15+ years building and yes I'm married. So I know you're saying I'm stupid getting too much involved and being married. That's my whole point. I need to clear my mind and be able to put that wall back up before I get back in be game.
So my point is, if you're married, and I know most are, don't let yourself develope feelings for these girls. If you do, weigh all the options before you act.
To my ATF, if she ever comes back, I'll probably see her, but it's going to have to be a long time. I like her enough to really wish her the best.[/QUOTE]I wish you the best. Retirement can be a fleeting thing. I tried it for a while but I had a relapse. Your right don't get involved with the ladies. I don't monger as often now but that Mother Nature call gets you sometimes. Take care.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2642237]It's been a good ride but I'm going to take a break from the hobby for a while. I let emotions run away with my mind and almost fell for a girl in the hobby. I posted about it he other day. I was just ready to make the leap from client to a more personal thing. She even announced her retirement. We were friends on Facebook, flirting via texts and pics and then all of a sudden I find out she has a boyfriend. He finds about about me and throws a fit. Said I would have trouble etc if I didn't leave her alone. I've done a ton of research about him. Found out we have several mutual friends. That really brought me to my senses. I can't afford to have any trouble. I'm not afraid of a fight but I can't risk my business I've spent 15+ years building and yes I'm married. So I know you're saying I'm stupid getting too much involved and being married. That's my whole point. I need to clear my mind and be able to put that wall back up before I get back in be game.
So my point is, if you're married, and I know most are, don't let yourself develope feelings for these girls. If you do, weigh all the options before you act.
To my ATF, if she ever comes back, I'll probably see her, but it's going to have to be a long time. I like her enough to really wish her the best.[/QUOTE]I'm always reminded of one monger's comments about his "Ride or Die" girl, and IIRC correctly, he died.
Best of luck!
I feel ya. Take a break. If you come back new girls will be here. Same old dudes though. Best of luck. LC.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2642237]It's been a good ride but I'm going to take a break from the hobby for a while. I let emotions run away with my mind and almost fell for a girl in the hobby. I posted about it he other day. I was just ready to make the leap from client to a more personal thing. She even announced her retirement. We were friends on Facebook, flirting via texts and pics and then all of a sudden I find out she has a boyfriend. He finds about about me and throws a fit. Said I would have trouble etc if I didn't leave her alone. I've done a ton of research about him. Found out we have several mutual friends. That really brought me to my senses. I can't afford to have any trouble. I'm not afraid of a fight but I can't risk my business I've spent 15+ years building and yes I'm married. So I know you're saying I'm stupid getting too much involved and being married. That's my whole point. I need to clear my mind and be able to put that wall back up before I get back in be game.
So my point is, if you're married, and I know most are, don't let yourself develope feelings for these girls. If you do, weigh all the options before you act.
To my ATF, if she ever comes back, I'll probably see her, but it's going to have to be a long time. I like her enough to really wish her the best.[/QUOTE]
I had a dream about miss Kentuckiana Katana this morning. Called and was being met with a beautiful smile in about 30 min. She has to be the friendliest and most personable woman in the hobby. We gabbed for a bit and she said, hold up a sec theres something I should be doing while you're talking. She layed down between my legs and unzipped me and started the best BBBJ I've ever recieved! What a dream! She talked like we were old friends and licked like we were lovers LOL It was incredible! Then she said it was her turn to talk a while and she rolled over spread her legs and we switched places for a while! Her hygiene is top notch and she really enjoyed a good tongue lashing. In my dream she covered me up gave me a big kiss and rolled over ass up and asked me to find a good leverage point and start pounding! I took her suggestion and ran with it! We hit mish, cowgirl and rolled her on her side. When she asked if I'd like to hit the ass for a while! Only in a dream could this happen I tell Ya! I was only in there for a moment when the dream ended with both of us in a puddle of sweat laughing about my surprise at her request. I recomend if you have any time to daydream you find miss katana of kentuckiana! She's like your best friend that likes to blow your mind!
I feel for you. I've been there too, and think lots of us have to varying degrees. When you show respect and kindness then you are more likely to get some in return. This is a double-edged sword though. It's feels good to us making the ladies feel comfortable, and we like it when they make us feel comfortable in return. It is a very slippery slope, a very fine line. To everyone, remember that actions speak louder than words. Some of these girls are VERY GOOD at keeping us coming back but at the same time keeping a solid distance between their real lives and their relationships with their clients. We might think we're "close" to them personally and emotionally, but we're not. Not like you want / need from a romantic bf / gf relationship.
If you're married then obviously DON'T fall for them. But you don't have to be married to be risking more than you want / think you are. A recent experience for me involved a provider's ex-bf who is on H and other things, who is also an ex-con with violent tendencies. Threats from them can't be taken lightly, and as I learned there's NOTHING you can do about it. Not even file an EPO. Filing a LE report won't matter either, and won't scare the ex-con / addict that has already done time. In this type of extreme situation our lives are at risk, not just our emotions or money.
I'll reiterate your advice to weigh all the options. All the evidence has to be considered, such as whether or not you're meeting her family / children, and little things like whether or not she remembers your birthday. Actions speak louder than words. If she's calling / texting only for sessions / money then that's another RED FLAG. Are you sleeping with her on a regular basis, and at no cost? I guess there's a check-list in the making here, not just for the transition of client / provider to bf / gf but also if you met on any "legit" dating site. Use your brain, not the little head, when making life-altering decisions. TRUST has to be earned, not paid for.
I hope you're able to clear your head and reacquire proper perspective on the hobby. It's something we all need to do (keeping proper perspective). It's tough to be a nice gentleman while still having walls.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2642237]It's been a good ride but I'm going to take a break from the hobby for a while. I let emotions run away with my mind and almost fell for a girl in the hobby. I posted about it he other day. I was just ready to make the leap from client to a more personal thing. She even announced her retirement. We were friends on Facebook, flirting via texts and pics and then all of a sudden I find out she has a boyfriend. He finds about about me and throws a fit. Said I would have trouble etc if I didn't leave her alone. I've done a ton of research about him. Found out we have several mutual friends. That really brought me to my senses. I can't afford to have any trouble. I'm not afraid of a fight but I can't risk my business I've spent 15+ years building and yes I'm married. So I know you're saying I'm stupid getting too much involved and being married. That's my whole point. I need to clear my mind and be able to put that wall back up before I get back in be game.
So my point is, if you're married, and I know most are, don't let yourself develope feelings for these girls. If you do, weigh all the options before you act.
To my ATF, if she ever comes back, I'll probably see her, but it's going to have to be a long time. I like her enough to really wish her the best.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=KaintuckMan;2640138]X marks the spot to her treasures.[/QUOTE]Actually why marks the spot I want!
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2642237]It's been a good ride but I'm going to take a break from the hobby for a while. I let emotions run away with my mind and almost fell for a girl in the hobby. I posted about it he other day. I was just ready to make the leap from client to a more personal thing. She even announced her retirement. We were friends on Facebook, flirting via texts and pics and then all of a sudden I find out she has a boyfriend. He finds about about me and throws a fit. Said I would have trouble etc if I didn't leave her alone. I've done a ton of research about him. Found out we have several mutual friends. That really brought me to my senses. I can't afford to have any trouble. I'm not afraid of a fight but I can't risk my business I've spent 15+ years building and yes I'm married. So I know you're saying I'm stupid getting too much involved and being married. That's my whole point. I need to clear my mind and be able to put that wall back up before I get back in be game.
So my point is, if you're married, and I know most are, don't let yourself develope feelings for these girls. If you do, weigh all the options before you act.
To my ATF, if she ever comes back, I'll probably see her, but it's going to have to be a long time. I like her enough to really wish her the best.[/QUOTE]I've always enjoyed your reviews. Good luck in getting your life back inline.
[QUOTE=LancePkrbttm;2642911]Actually why marks the spot I want![/QUOTE]That's what I should have written. 2 XX is all I can afford. The third X is out of my price range. Now if I was 21 again. LOL Natane is low volume but well worth the trip if you desire or can afford her. References required of her which I like. Hell I could have had BBBJCIM today for chump change but not worth the risk. I guess you could say I'm very picky. Play safe, Stay safe.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2642237]It's been a good ride but I'm going to take a break from the hobby for a while. I let emotions run away with my mind and almost fell for a girl in the hobby. I posted about it he other day. I was just ready to make the leap from client to a more personal thing. She even announced her retirement. We were friends on Facebook, flirting via texts and pics and then all of a sudden I find out she has a boyfriend. He finds about about me and throws a fit. Said I would have trouble etc if I didn't leave her alone. I've done a ton of research about him. Found out we have several mutual friends. That really brought me to my senses. I can't afford to have any trouble. I'm not afraid of a fight but I can't risk my business I've spent 15+ years building and yes I'm married. So I know you're saying I'm stupid getting too much involved and being married. That's my whole point. I need to clear my mind and be able to put that wall back up before I get back in be game.
So my point is, if you're married, and I know most are, don't let yourself develope feelings for these girls. If you do, weigh all the options before you act.
To my ATF, if she ever comes back, I'll probably see her, but it's going to have to be a long time. I like her enough to really wish her the best.[/QUOTE]Hey good luck. I have enjoyed and benefited from both your public and PM posts. You are right, I always say: you're not their boyfriend or their savior. But its human nature to sometimes forget that. Good luck and be careful, to all, both in mongering remembering that most of us have a parallel life that is more important and must be protected.
This is a timely posting for me. I've had relationships with a couple of these girls. Some casual, others like the one I'm currently in is pretty serious. I'm in the middle of it, and I know it's a terrible idea. These girls, especially the very popular ones have a gift. The gift to make a guy feel special, to have a level of sexiness / sexuality seldom seen in normal dating situations. It draws you in, who wouldn't want that? There are so many problems associated with this. There is a constant stream of clients wanting to date your girl, remember this is the part she plays for everybody. Wrapping your head around what she does everyday for a living. The constant texting, it's insane. Dating one is kind of like a drug that you know you need to quit. You want the girl so bad, but it's a constant stream of worry and misery when you have her.
That's another thing, the amount of these girls on drugs is ridiculous. Mostly heroin and pain pills. It's not just the usual suspects, many of the top rated girls are using. It blows my mind.
If you find one you like, become a regular, but leave your feelings behind when you leave. You will be saving yourself a world of misery.
Be careful out there!
[QUOTE=BTFDesire;2642892]I feel for you. I've been there too, and think lots of us have to varying degrees. When you show respect and kindness then you are more likely to get some in return. This is a double-edged sword though. It's feels good to us making the ladies feel comfortable, and we like it when they make us feel comfortable in return. It is a very slippery slope, a very fine line. To everyone, remember that actions speak louder than words. Some of these girls are VERY GOOD at keeping us coming back but at the same time keeping a solid distance between their real lives and their relationships with their clients. We might think we're "close" to them personally and emotionally, but we're not. Not like you want / need from a romantic bf / gf relationship.
If you're married then obviously DON'T fall for them. But you don't have to be married to be risking more than you want / think you are. A recent experience for me involved a provider's ex-bf who is on H and other things, who is also an ex-con with violent tendencies. Threats from them can't be taken lightly, and as I learned there's NOTHING you can do about it. Not even file an EPO. Filing a LE report won't matter either, and won't scare the ex-con / addict that has already done time. In this type of extreme situation our lives are at risk, not just our emotions or money.
I'll reiterate your advice to weigh all the options. All the evidence has to be considered, such as whether or not you're meeting her family / children, and little things like whether or not she remembers your birthday. Actions speak louder than words. If she's calling / texting only for sessions / money then that's another RED FLAG. Are you sleeping with her on a regular basis, and at no cost? I guess there's a check-list in the making here, not just for the transition of client / provider to bf / gf but also if you met on any "legit" dating site. Use your brain, not the little head, when making life-altering decisions. TRUST has to be earned, not paid for.
I hope you're able to clear your head and reacquire proper perspective on the hobby. It's something we all need to do (keeping proper perspective). It's tough to be a nice gentleman while still having walls.[/QUOTE]
When you find yourself getting too close to that line that your not suppose to cross and your judgement is clouded and you lose objectivity, just cut yourself off immediately, it will really be painful at first but your better off in the end. Theres no clean way of doing it, both will get hurt but in the end youll be doing the provider and yourself a great favor. Theres always other providers who will nurse you throug that pain. Food for thought.
[QUOTE=Amigo;2645028]This is a timely posting for me. I've had relationships with a couple of these girls. Some casual, others like the one I'm currently in is pretty serious. I'm in the middle of it, and I know it's a terrible idea. These girls, especially the very popular ones have a gift. The gift to make a guy feel special, to have a level of sexiness / sexuality seldom seen in normal dating situations. It draws you in, who wouldn't want that? There are so many problems associated with this. There is a constant stream of clients wanting to date your girl, remember this is the part she plays for everybody. Wrapping your head around what she does everyday for a living. The constant texting, it's insane. Dating one is kind of like a drug that you know you need to quit. You want the girl so bad, but it's a constant stream of worry and misery when you have her.
That's another thing, the amount of these girls on drugs is ridiculous. Mostly heroin and pain pills. It's not just the usual suspects, many of the top rated girls are using. It blows my mind.
If you find one you like, become a regular, but leave your feelings behind when you leave. You will be saving yourself a world of misery.
Be careful out there![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HappyMinion;2645047]When you find yourself getting too close to that line that your not suppose to cross and your judgement is clouded and you lose objectivity, just cut yourself off immediately, it will really be painful at first but your better off in the end. Theres no clean way of doing it, both will get hurt but in the end youll be doing the provider and yourself a great favor. Theres always other providers who will nurse you throug that pain. Food for thought.[/QUOTE]I am NOT judging. I have plenty of faults in this hobby. Overpaying, ignoring red flags and bad reviews (not so much anymore) and not putting my foot down if I get there and the pics lie or the situation is unsettling. But one thing I do not do is cross that line, even at the beginning with providers. I'm very respectful and polite to them and ask them about their days, there lives, their children and families, etc. . . Same as I do with my bartenders, waitresses, the people who change my oil, etc, etc, etc. . . . I don't expect those people to text me out of the blue and form emotional bonds with me either. And I appreciate the people who get me drunk as much as the people who get me off. Got to shut that shit down at the get-go. My 2 cents. Stay safe.
When it's CRAZY GOOD. It can make us pussy stupid!
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2642237]It's been a good ride but I'm going to take a break from the hobby for a while. I let emotions run away with my mind and almost fell for a girl in the hobby. I posted about it he other day. I was just ready to make the leap from client to a more personal thing. She even announced her retirement. We were friends on Facebook, flirting via texts and pics and then all of a sudden I find out she has a boyfriend. He finds about about me and throws a fit. Said I would have trouble etc if I didn't leave her alone. I've done a ton of research about him. Found out we have several mutual friends. That really brought me to my senses. I can't afford to have any trouble. I'm not afraid of a fight but I can't risk my business I've spent 15+ years building and yes I'm married. So I know you're saying I'm stupid getting too much involved and being married. That's my whole point. I need to clear my mind and be able to put that wall back up before I get back in be game.
So my point is, if you're married, and I know most are, don't let yourself develope feelings for these girls. If you do, weigh all the options before you act.
To my ATF, if she ever comes back, I'll probably see her, but it's going to have to be a long time. I like her enough to really wish her the best.[/QUOTE]Have fun, play safe, do your research, give and get respect, find you some crazy good and TPHFB.
BG, get a crazy good one to get me off, so they can close the lid.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2642237]It's been a good ride but I'm going to take a break from the hobby for a while. I let emotions run away with my mind and almost fell for a girl in the hobby. I posted about it he other day. I was just ready to make the leap from client to a more personal thing. She even announced her retirement. We were friends on Facebook, flirting via texts and pics and then all of a sudden I find out she has a boyfriend.[/QUOTE]You aren't the first, friend, and you won't be the last. Take care.
[QUOTE=LancePkrbttm;2642911]Actually why marks the spot I want![/QUOTE]Now that's funny.
I met this gal in a SB board and she sent me these pics. I wondering if like she is a pro as her messages are a bit more professional than the typical SB and her photos seem vaguely familiar. However, don't get any hits on her photo, so maybe it's just me, but I thought I'd see if any one recognizes her.
Does anyone know a chick who licks anal? I need a freaky chick! LOL Thanks!
Saw a fellow monger mention Yohimbe in one of the threads here. I assumed it's an herbal alternative to Viagra or Cialis, so I did some research. It's indeed non-prescription. Found out that unless the Yohimbe product has (specifically) Yombine HCL alkaloid in it, it doesn't have a chance to give desired results. It's supposed to help with ED as well as burning fat and losing weight.
Located this one on Amazon with 280+ reviews, and it has that specific alkaloid:
[URL]http://www.amazon.com/Yohimbe-Bark-Extract-Standardized-Yohimbine/dp/B008M6UQEY[/URL]
Many reviewers reported good results, but with some bad side effects if you take the whole 100 mg pill. (reading the reviews is entertaining) Many suggest opening the capsule, emptying the powder and starting with only 1/4 or 1/3 the capsule. Side effects seem to vary person-by-person.
I have very marginal ED and have previously used Sildenafil (generic Viagra) with great results for a harder erection (recently ran out). So. I ordered the bottle of Yohimbe noted above. Started with 1/3 dose. Seemed to help in the bedroom a little. A little bit of a headache and runny nose, but not bad at all. Next day took the rest of the capsule (2/3 dose). Headache a little worse, felt increased heart rate, a little runny nose again. Didn't have sex but didn't notice any improvement while watching porn. Next day took a whole pill. Headache and heart rate were a little too high, so I stopped for a few days. Took a 1/2 pill two days straight then had sex with the wife. It just didn't help me as I thought it might (definitely not like Sildenafil). In fact this most recent time, my orgasm seemed to decrease in intensity. Weird. I may continue experimenting, or move to something else.
Thought I'd share my experience in case others want to give it a shot (or already have and want to share their experience).
Nocturne
[QUOTE=DewDirty;2651684]Does anyone know a chick who licks anal? I need a freaky chick! LOL Thanks![/QUOTE]I know you've been on the board for awhile, but all you have to do is read the posts by the mongers in my title.
[QUOTE=Nocturne;2651884]Saw a fellow monger mention Yohimbe in one of the threads here. I assumed it's an herbal alternative to Viagra or Cialis, so I did some research. It's indeed non-prescription. Found out that unless the Yohimbe product has (specifically) Yombine HCL alkaloid in it, it doesn't have a chance to give desired results. It's supposed to help with ED as well as burning fat and losing weight.
Located this one on Amazon with 280+ reviews, and it has that specific alkaloid:
[URL]http://www.amazon.com/Yohimbe-Bark-Extract-Standardized-Yohimbine/dp/B008M6UQEY[/URL]
Many reviewers reported good results, but with some bad side effects if you take the whole 100 mg pill. (reading the reviews is entertaining) Many suggest opening the capsule, emptying the powder and starting with only 1/4 or 1/3 the capsule. Side effects seem to vary person-by-person.
I have very marginal ED and have previously used Sildenafil (generic Viagra) with great results for a harder erection (recently ran out). So. I ordered the bottle of Yohimbe noted above. Started with 1/3 dose. Seemed to help in the bedroom a little. A little bit of a headache and runny nose, but not bad at all. Next day took the rest of the capsule (2/3 dose). Headache a little worse, felt increased heart rate, a little runny nose again. Didn't have sex but didn't notice any improvement while watching porn. Next day took a whole pill. Headache and heart rate were a little too high, so I stopped for a few days. Took a 1/2 pill two days straight then had sex with the wife. It just didn't help me as I thought it might (definitely not like Sildenafil). In fact this most recent time, my orgasm seemed to decrease in intensity. Weird. I may continue experimenting, or move to something else.
Thought I'd share my experience in case others want to give it a shot (or already have and want to share their experience).
Nocturne[/QUOTE]Do NOT take this stuff if you take high blood pressure meds or anti-depressants which is why you got ED to begin with.
I've tried Yohimbe with similar results. It is _excellent_ advice to open the capsule and try a smaller dosage first! YMMV so if you're looking for an alternative to prescription products then this is something to try but only with extreme caution. As noted, don't use it at all if you already have hypertension or high blood pressure. Disclaimer: Check with your doctor first!
I did absolutely have an elevated heart rate after taking this, along with a headache which was likely caused by the increased heart rate. Did it work as intended on the libido / erection? Marginally yes, but definitely not enough to suffer the side effects. These days when I want to ensure "solid" results I stick with the V, although I cut / break the tablet into smaller pieces to help reduce the cost per "dose". I don't need help every time, certainly not when there's enough role-play, foreplay, and general chemistry / connection. If it's too mechanical / boring (I. E. Prude-ish ex-wife), then sometimes not even the V can make it happen!
[QUOTE=Nocturne;2651884]Saw a fellow monger mention Yohimbe in one of the threads here. I assumed it's an herbal alternative to Viagra or Cialis, so I did some research. It's indeed non-prescription. Found out that unless the Yohimbe product has (specifically) Yombine HCL alkaloid in it, it doesn't have a chance to give desired results. It's supposed to help with ED as well as burning fat and losing weight.
Located this one on Amazon with 280+ reviews, and it has that specific alkaloid:
[URL]http://www.amazon.com/Yohimbe-Bark-Extract-Standardized-Yohimbine/dp/B008M6UQEY[/URL]
Many reviewers reported good results, but with some bad side effects if you take the whole 100 mg pill. (reading the reviews is entertaining) Many suggest opening the capsule, emptying the powder and starting with only 1/4 or 1/3 the capsule. Side effects seem to vary person-by-person.
I have very marginal ED and have previously used Sildenafil (generic Viagra) with great results for a harder erection (recently ran out). So. I ordered the bottle of Yohimbe noted above. Started with 1/3 dose. Seemed to help in the bedroom a little. A little bit of a headache and runny nose, but not bad at all. Next day took the rest of the capsule (2/3 dose). Headache a little worse, felt increased heart rate, a little runny nose again. Didn't have sex but didn't notice any improvement while watching porn. Next day took a whole pill. Headache and heart rate were a little too high, so I stopped for a few days. Took a 1/2 pill two days straight then had sex with the wife. It just didn't help me as I thought it might (definitely not like Sildenafil). In fact this most recent time, my orgasm seemed to decrease in intensity. Weird. I may continue experimenting, or move to something else.
Thought I'd share my experience in case others want to give it a shot (or already have and want to share their experience).
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Yeah yohimbe gave me the shakes and jitters. I felt like I had 5 shots of espresso when it kicked in. Wasn't worth it. Now just order quality generics from places like All Day Chemist. They go through a lot to verify your order but you get it in less than like 2 weeks once verified.
[QUOTE=BTFDesire;2652623]I've tried Yohimbe with similar results. It is _excellent_ advice to open the capsule and try a smaller dosage first! YMMV so if you're looking for an alternative to prescription products then this is something to try but only with extreme caution. As noted, don't use it at all if you already have hypertension or high blood pressure. Disclaimer: Check with your doctor first!
I did absolutely have an elevated heart rate after taking this, along with a headache which was likely caused by the increased heart rate. Did it work as intended on the libido / erection? Marginally yes, but definitely not enough to suffer the side effects. These days when I want to ensure "solid" results I stick with the V, although I cut / break the tablet into smaller pieces to help reduce the cost per "dose". I don't need help every time, certainly not when there's enough role-play, foreplay, and general chemistry / connection. If it's too mechanical / boring (I. E. Prude-ish ex-wife), then sometimes not even the V can make it happen![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BaconGrease;2652825]Yeah yohimbe gave me the shakes and jitters. I felt like I had 5 shots of espresso when it kicked in. Wasn't worth it. Now just order quality generics from places like All Day Chemist. They go through a lot to verify your order but you get it in less than like 2 weeks once verified.[/QUOTE]Does All Day Chemist require a legit prescription?
I thought this was supposed to be a daily, albeit smaller, dose supplement, ike the daily cialis, and not an as needed one.
[QUOTE=Nocturne;2653803]Does All Day Chemist require a legit prescription?[/QUOTE]No All Day Chemist does not require a doctors / legit perscription. I've ordered their generic Viagra (they call in Manly on their website) several times now without a hitch. You simply go to their website and place an order for whatever you want. ADC will then call you back shortly thereafter to verify your order and get your credit card information. It's a legit site and like I said, I've had no issues with them. Product usually arrives within two weeks or less after order is placed. I've never used real Viagra so I can't compare but this stuff works great for me without fail. And it's dirt cheap compared to V. It comes in 100 mg tabs which I always cut in half or even quarters is all I need most of the time (mild ED). For me side effects are minimal only thing I noticed is flushing of the face after taking. Of course everyone may react differently so I am just passing on my personal experiance. It is made and shipped from India.
[QUOTE=Zomby;2653894]I thought this was supposed to be a daily, albeit smaller, dose supplement, ike the daily cialis, and not an as needed one.[/QUOTE]There are versions of Yohimbe for sale that are 2. 5 or 3 mg pills. They are primarily sold as a supplement for appetite suppression, weight reduction. If you read the reviews, they don't help with libido or ED.
The 100 mg version that I linked to suggests taking one pill a day, every day. But I would NOT. Repeat NOT. Recommend that to anyone. It's too strong, for the reasons already stated (and emphatically stated in the reviews on that Amazon page).
Plus I don't really see it helping ED. YMMV. But DON'T take it with other blood pressure or hypertension medications.
[QUOTE=Kryp44;2652170]Do NOT take this stuff if you take high blood pressure meds or anti-depressants which is why you got ED to begin with.[/QUOTE]I don't take High Blood Pressure meds or Anti-Depressants.
Ok so as much as I appreciate a girl being freshly showered when I arrive wet hair totally fucks everything up!! Theirs nothing worse than cold wet hair touching the boys wile getting a BJ! Ladies please take note of this, its great to take a shower before an appointment but please don't get your hair wet, if you do need to wash your hair please dry it before we show up or tie your hair up so that it can't touch the boys when you go down south! OK I'm done carry on.
[QUOTE=Babadook;2642876]I had a dream about miss Kentuckiana Katana this morning. Called and was being met with a beautiful smile in about 30 min. She has to be the friendliest and most personable woman in the hobby. We gabbed for a bit and she said, hold up a sec theres something I should be doing while you're talking. She layed down between my legs and unzipped me and started the best BBBJ I've ever recieved! What a dream! She talked like we were old friends and licked like we were lovers LOL It was incredible! Then she said it was her turn to talk a while and she rolled over spread her legs and we switched places for a while! Her hygiene is top notch and she really enjoyed a good tongue lashing. In my dream she covered me up gave me a big kiss and rolled over ass up and asked me to find a good leverage point and start pounding! I took her suggestion and ran with it! We hit mish, cowgirl and rolled her on her side. When she asked if I'd like to hit the ass for a while! Only in a dream could this happen I tell Ya! I was only in there for a moment when the dream ended with both of us in a puddle of sweat laughing about my surprise at her request. I recomend if you have any time to daydream you find miss katana of kentuckiana! She's like your best friend that likes to blow your mind![/QUOTE]And we definitely got at it and ssshhh I'm supposed to be a secret greek liker LOL. But you done let me out the bag LOL. Cause I only let that be an option for men I've seen and known awhile. But its all good babe I'm glad you had fun I did as well and I'm always glad to hear when somebody is that comfortable and had that much fun with me.
[QUOTE=LvljJy;2658047]Ok so as much as I appreciate a girl being freshly showered when I arrive wet hair totally fucks everything up!! Theirs nothing worse than cold wet hair touching the boys wile getting a BJ! Ladies please take note of this, its great to take a shower before an appointment but please don't get your hair wet, if you do need to wash your hair please dry it before we show up or tie your hair up so that it can't touch the boys when you go down south! OK I'm done carry on.[/QUOTE]I disagree totally! I think it is hot as hell when I feel wet hair moving across my belly and / or legs as she does the deed!
[QUOTE=ChipJeep;2658560]I disagree totally! I think it is hot as hell when I feel wet hair moving across my belly and / or legs as she does the deed![/QUOTE]I had Kelli once freshly showered and still wet headed and it didn't bother me either. As many complaints as there have been about girls smelling like ass when guys show up, it is kinda refreshing to see evidence of them being clean.
Just a warning, there is a patrol car in the back of the Inn Town Suites on Preston at Fern Valley. He is hiding behind a dumpster.
[QUOTE=Joelouky;2658680]Just a warning, there is a patrol car in the back of the Inn Town Suites on Preston at Fern Valley. He is hiding behind a dumpster.[/QUOTE]There are 2 Inn Town suites on preston in close proximity to each other. I've seen a patrol car sitting in the parking lot of the one closer to outer loop, on weekends. Probably due to so much drug activity and unsavory characters found at those places.