Seeking Arrangement review
I thought it might be helpful to share my experiences here in case anyone else is thinking about making the jump. About me. Mid 30's, decent looking, good at talking to people. I get a lot of good feedback and "why are you here" type comments.
First month of membership was amazing. I was getting a bunch of messages, didn't really even need to reach out to anyone. A lot of the messages. A LOT. Were from Venezuelan and Fillipino women, as well as some who were several hours away. Definitely ran into a few scammers, I would not recommend doing "online fun" with anyone. Stick to the cam sites where the pros are where the payment is built in. I set up some dates, primarily looking for women who are more amateurs than working girls. Ran into my fair share of ghosting, which is wack. I could get ghosted for free on Hinge. A couple younger girls who are having tough times but aren't really ready for this either. Had to break things off with a couple of them because they were getting too attached.
Then my membership renewed. It really feels like the messages have dried up. I've messaged some without getting any real responses. This is actually very common behavior of this type of app in my experience. When you first sign up you're basically getting love bombed, then they cut off the tap to try and get you to throw more money at it.
Five weeks later, I have one regular connection and a few prospects. I've had some one time things. One girl who lives out in Hampton Roads who I'd see more but it's kind of a pain to work out the logistics. I think once this month's membership is over, I'll deactivate the account for a bit. Hopefully reactivating gets me back in the limelight of the algorithms. Still, I would say it's been worth it mostly, I'm getting more action than I would be on one of the apps that's for sure.
