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[QUOTE=MavSurf;3002418]I want to save this explanation for why a guy in a long term relationship could still need to go elsewhere to get his physical or psychological needs met. I'm a bachelor for now, but this resonates and lines up with some of the stories providers have told me about their many married customers.

I used to think it was crazy that so many guys in relationships were out getting play. But I guess lots of guys are in a position where the SO simply doesn't want sex anywhere close to what the human male is physically wired to desire.[/QUOTE]And some of us just like having sex with young beautiful women.

[QUOTE=SCJohn;3003911]And some of us just like having sex with young beautiful women.[/QUOTE]LOL! Yessir. For me that's part of it for sure! Also, once the kids came the wife was not as interested in sex. More interested in the kids. This is a way for me to do the things guys need to do while keeping things "clean". (No crying girls coming over or calling my wife, etc).

You're not that guy that was here who recently said he was quitting the boards bc he found a gf? I can't remember his handle for the life of me for some reason. (Hitting head with tennis shoe).

BTW way true or not these stories are awesome. Would hear more.

[QUOTE=SCJohn;3003911]And some of us just like having sex with young beautiful women.[/QUOTE]AMEN! Too funny! Why would a guy want more sex if he is in a relationship!? Really!?

[QUOTE=SlideHammer;3004223]You're not that guy that was here who recently said he was quitting the boards bc he found a gf? I can't remember his handle for the life of me for some reason. (Hitting head with tennis shoe).[/QUOTE]It was Dr. Ma something. [QUOTE=DrMajikLuv69;2965285]As of today, I want to officially announce that I am retiring from the hobby. I have found a girlfriend. It was a great experience this past year. To those that enjoyed the informational unbiased honest detailed reports I wrote. Good luck to you all.[/QUOTE] Found the post.

[QUOTE=SCJohn;3003911]And some of us just like having sex with young beautiful women.[/QUOTE]Congratulations! You win the internet for the day.

[QUOTE=SCJohn;3003911]And some of us just like having sex with young beautiful women.[/QUOTE]Life is good!

[QUOTE=MavSurf;3002418] I used to think it was crazy that so many guys in relationships were out getting play. But I guess lots of guys are in a position where the SO simply doesn't want sex anywhere close to what the human male is physically wired to desire.[/QUOTE]Even if the wife or girlfriend is willing to provide sex as often as the man desires, many guys would still want and enjoy [B]diversity[/B].

For example, my favorite dessert is cherry ice cream. However, even if I could eat all the cherry ice cream that I wanted for free, I would still want the variety of other types: mint chocolate chip, butter pecan, strawberry, etc.

As said years ago by Kapalua: "No matter how good the sexual service one particular woman provides, I can become tired of her if I have her night after night after night. For me, the point of being a hobbyist is to enjoy an 'endless buffet table' of sexual variety".

I can't speak for everyone because every situation is different but a few mongers have it right, variety is the main reason many mongers that have a SO do what they do. I've been with the same person 24 years, and we still have an active sex life (minimum of 3 times a week). But unlike many couples, we don't hide the fact that sometimes we like to change things up some. We've been to strip clubs, AMPs, LMT and have even had several experiences with the escorts who entertain couples. This has nothing to do with not being happy or being satisfied, but more about variety and to spice things up on occasion. We've had discussions after my AMP experiences and we talked about the experience, what I liked, what I didn't and so on. When we go out on an adventure, she typically gets her nails done, massage or some other pampering while I visit an AMP, and sometimes she has input to who I'm going to see. We both understand the difference between love and having fun, we love each other but other activities are simply having fun. We don't do it all the time, but only on occasion. In fact my SO asked me last night if I heard anything back from an escort I contacted a few weeks ago. I told her I didn't hear anything back, and was disappointed. It's hard to find a quality escort in Hawaii who entertains couples and money isn't really the issue. We've paid $$ once for a quality lady for two hours of her time and I will tell you, we both left satisfied and extremely happy. We still talk about the experience and wish we could find someone else like her. This was on the mainland, so no review posted here. Bottom line, for me, it's not being unhappy, it's about being happier and AMPs and other options present variety, which make our relationship healthier and makes us both happier.

Can someone explain to me what a Shill and Troll is? I've been following some of the threads and these references come up. Aloha.

[blue]Those are two different things

Shill: Person who pretends to not have a relationship with a thing being reviewed in order to write a good review about that thing as an uninvolved observer.

Troll: Is an asshole that tries to get people arguing on the internet.

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I used to think it was crazy that so many guys in relationships were out getting play. But I guess lots of guys are in a position where the SO simply doesn't want sex anywhere close to what the human male is physically wired to desire.[/QUOTE]This post is not pointed to anyone in particular, but just a reminder to realize that females in general take a serious emotional prospective in a relationship. Sure some are jerks and man hatters who will take you to the cleaners, but before things get out of hand, sometimes its best to break it off before serious damage occurs, not just for her but for the other dudes who may want to start a relations with her but can't because of the psychological damage.

I once had a good relationship with a German, blond, green eyes and 39 D knockers. One day she strained her ankle and I tried to reset it, the pain triggered a reaction that caused her relapse into a nervous breakdown. He collapsed and went into convulsions just the same as someone going into epileptic seizures.

What happened previously is a two-year serious relationship with a local Japanese guy who called her one-day and said to break it up because he just got married five minutes ago! He strung her along all this time in another relationship and did not have the balls to explain it to her and dropped the ball for his own convenience.

If things get serious, then it's best to be honest about it, it least everything is up front. Now she does not trust any guy and it makes harder for the next guy to accomplish anything with her because some asshole can't or would not act like a real man and do what is right.

A guy who has honor and integrity will not fuck it up and leave his mess for another to clean up or leave her with a $50,000 medical bill for 6 months in the hospital to recover from a nervous breakdown. A true story.

[QUOTE=BotoMoco;3004861]Can someone explain to me what a Shill and Troll is? I've been following some of the threads and these references come up. Aloha.

[blue]Those are two different things

Shill: Person who pretends to not have a relationship with a thing being reviewed in order to write a good review about that thing as an uninvolved observer.

Troll: Is an asshole that tries to get people arguing on the internet.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]I hope I will never fall in any of those categories LOL thanks for the clarification.

Brothers, what's a good iPhone app that allows you to text other mobile users with a different phone number than your iPhone? Setting up a hookup with someone I met on POF and OKC. She thinks I'm divorced so need to use a different number than my iphone. Thanks!

[QUOTE=Poiuy2;3006698]Brothers, what's a good iPhone app that allows you to text other mobile users with a different phone number than your iPhone? Setting up a hookup with someone I met on POF and OKC. She thinks I'm divorced so need to use a different number than my iphone. Thanks![/QUOTE]Talkatone and Google Voice. Good luck!

Jan Fortifore.

[QUOTE=Poiuy2;3006698]Brothers, what's a good iPhone app that allows you to text other mobile users with a different phone number than your iPhone? Setting up a hookup with someone I met on POF and OKC. She thinks I'm divorced so need to use a different number than my iphone. Thanks![/QUOTE]Works good also.

[QUOTE=Poiuy2;3006698]Brothers, what's a good iPhone app that allows you to text other mobile users with a different phone number than your iPhone? Setting up a hookup with someone I met on POF and OKC. She thinks I'm divorced so need to use a different number than my iphone. Thanks![/QUOTE]Textme, and pinger are two more good ones.

[QUOTE=LittleDickie;3007572]Textme, and pinger are two more good ones.[/QUOTE]I'm partial to Line2. You can get an 808 number from them, which is kind of rare for a VOiP service, at least not without some kind of additional fee.

If you can swing a Google Voice number, that works too, though I believe the number it's associated with needs to be a number that's not an 808 area code (and there's no 808 numbers available).

The only problem with GV and Line2 is that they won't let you receive pics via text (SMS). You can send images, though. (If anyone knows of a service that allows receiving images via SMS, please let me know.).

I also suggest the GV Mobile + app for the iPhone to act as your front end if you go the Google Voice route, or you'll have to deal with the Google Voice website as your interface.

EDIT: If the girl is an 18- to 20-something, you might be able to get away with using Kik or some other comm app.

[QUOTE=Poiuy2;3006698]Brothers, what's a good iPhone app that allows you to text other mobile users with a different phone number than your iPhone? Setting up a hookup with someone I met on POF and OKC. She thinks I'm divorced so need to use a different number than my iphone. Thanks![/QUOTE]Try:

Spoofcard.

Once you sign up, you can also use Spooftext on their web site.

Been using it for awhile now. When using spoofcard, the destination call will see a phone number that YOU put in (anything you want virtually), even on their phone bill, the call will come up as whatever number you put in. Very secure.

[QUOTE=JanFortifore;3006701]Talkatone and Google Voice. Good luck!

Jan Fortifore.[/QUOTE]Just remember that google voice is linked to your personal email and is texts and calls are tracked. Don; t use a personal google email.

Also, you can delete all texts and calls.

Thanks everyone for the tips on the testing and phone apps. Now I got to figure out which one she can not access if she picks up my phone. I know there is that app to secretly hide other apps.

A little too late. That POF OKC girl got my email and phone number. I panicked and gave my number without thinking. Hopefully she doesn't call when my so is around. Have my phone on vibrate all the time. Shit!

Am I the only feeling a staleness in the air? Some of the regular go to places are kind of stale and need to bump up their rotation. Happiness seems to be doing a great job at the moment but I'm not sure how this business works. I guess if we keep visiting the regulars they think its ok not to change the girls out? Any thoughts on this? Should we not visit the regulars and force the issue LOL. ? Idk sometimes the regulars are good cause you know what you're getting but then again it can come to stale meat after awhile too.

The past few times I visited chm I noticed someone sitting inside a parked minivan near the building across from the A Wong building. There were some lights coming from the inside too. Idk if they were just txting on their phone or if they were taking pics but I have seen the same minivan with lights flashing from the inside at least 3 times now. Anyone else notice this?

[QUOTE=JohnnyZero;3010786]The past few times I visited chm I noticed someone sitting inside a parked minivan near the building across from the A Wong building. There were some lights coming from the inside too. Idk if they were just txting on their phone or if they were taking pics but I have seen the same minivan with lights flashing from the inside at least 3 times now. Anyone else notice this?[/QUOTE]The silver / gray van with a surfboard on top? A couple lives in the van, they are homeless and found it to be a convenient place to park being its a private road. Nice local couple. No harm. No need to be alarmed.

Recently there have been a few comments in the "Massage Therapists" blog on this board regarding women who make appointments with both female and male massage therapists in order to receive HE. This got me to wondering if there are any horny women who have discovered this forum and regularly read this board, and if so, what these wahines may be learning or obtaining from said perusal. I mean, we take it for granted plenty male lurkers probably read our stuff here. But do we ever consider chicks may be checking this board as well? Maybe some women come here to cum! Could be they get their jollies from reading some of the more salacious blow-by-blow titillating descriptions of what went on in the room. Possibly some women read these anecdotes and even begin to adjust their attitudes about sexual conduct from what they read. In that case, what we write here could in some small way be helping to influence and change for the better the sexual moral compass of contemporary women and girls, for instance getting them to be more accepting of the sorts of indecent and creative sexual practices some of us dirty doggies enjoy and chronically immerse ourselves in at the AMPs. And hows about this one? What if some chicks read these posts with an eye on trying to find a fuck-buddy? Maybe this board is, in a peripheral context, being used by a few women as a free dating service, unbeknownst to our savior, His Highness & Excellency, A2? Is it possible that occasionally, certain select senior members secretly receive PMs from such women offering freebie activity? Just an off-the-wall fantasy of mine, although chances are it's got nothing remotely to do with reality as we know it in this dog-eat-dog and dog-eat-pussy world of ours.

If you ever get caught in building by someone you know during the day. Just say you was buying a musubi from the shop downstairs and got lost. They have a dam good spam musubi.

[QUOTE=CosmicKid;3011809]This got me to wondering if there are any horny women who have discovered this forum and regularly read this board, and if so, what these wahines may be learning or obtaining from said perusal. [/QUOTE]Don't get your hopes up. The only women reading these forums are working girls or aunt LEO. I'd imagine if there is an outlier it would be a woman evaluating her options as to entering this line of work.

And as much as the guys here like GFE, it's not like these reviews are Harlequinn romance novels.

I noticed the Maui boards got a complete overhaul from earlier this year. So little reports now and not very active. Noticed the massage parlor board basically dealt with legit spas that may or may not have extras. Prices were at $. 50 just for a HJ and if available $$. 5 possibly $$ if negotiated. Talk about having to be a beggar. There was even strip club thread but because there are none just had 1 member posting how he wishes things were different. Besides the relaxation parlors I feel we have it bad as it is in the US but Maui is just plain cruel, and the other islands must be inhumane. Hopefully their Kbars are keeping steady and not in a brink of extinction like here. Can't imagine what the mongerers there must have felt when the ferry got taken away. So feel lucky to be on Oahu guys, but still no reason to allow inflation to happen.

I feel the same as you, lucky to live on Oahu. I've lived many places, and the only place besides southeast Asian countries that compares to Oahu For mongers is Japan, obviously inflated prices there. Like many here, I love Asian ladies and Oahu has too many nice looking Asian ladies to choose from. You can find AMPs in many big cities, but it's nothing like here. On the mainland you can all races, but primarily Caucasian, which I don't mind, but prefer Asian over any other type, and the price for great service is really managible for me. I will say though, we need to keep the prices down so that we can afford many great sessions without tapping into rent or utilities, which are way out of hand. I don't mind sliding a little extra for someone who goes above and beyond, but let's not reward for substandard or even adequate service. As always, safe mongering.

[QUOTE=AlohaJ;3012431]I feel the same as you, lucky to live on Oahu. I've lived many places, and the only place besides southeast Asian countries that compares to Oahu For mongers is Japan, obviously inflated prices there. Like many here, I love Asian ladies and Oahu has too many nice looking Asian ladies to choose from. You can find AMPs in many big cities, but it's nothing like here. On the mainland you can all races, but primarily Caucasian, which I don't mind, but prefer Asian over any other type, and the price for great service is really managible for me. I will say though, we need to keep the prices down so that we can afford many great sessions without tapping into rent or utilities, which are way out of hand. I don't mind sliding a little extra for someone who goes above and beyond, but let's not reward for substandard or even adequate service. As always, safe mongering.[/QUOTE]This is the Mecca. Been all over the US and Hawaii can't be beat. The asians are as clean as you can get them too. I never really came across a stinky one. LOL.

[QUOTE=AlohaJ;3012431]I feel the same as you, lucky to live on Oahu. I've lived many places, and the only place besides southeast Asian countries that compares to Oahu For mongers is Japan, obviously inflated prices there. Like many here, I love Asian ladies and Oahu has too many nice looking Asian ladies to choose from. You can find AMPs in many big cities, but it's nothing like here. On the mainland you can all races, but primarily Caucasian, which I don't mind, but prefer Asian over any other type, and the price for great service is really managible for me. I will say though, we need to keep the prices down so that we can afford many great sessions without tapping into rent or utilities, which are way out of hand. I don't mind sliding a little extra for someone who goes above and beyond, but let's not reward for substandard or even adequate service. As always, safe mongering.[/QUOTE]For sure. This is an amazing place for that fellas. The quality and variety of the selection we have is primo! There are some places on the west coast and in NY that were good too but Hawaii still tops them out! Lucky we live Hawaii!

I pushed this subject here to ensure the rules of this site isn't broke. On the topic of a mongers map, it would've be that hard to build after the data is collected. You can use google earth and pins to map out each place. Once build, just take a snap shot of the map and posted it as a pic. Too easy. If anyone needs any help, and this do want break any rules of this site, let me know. I don't want another strike against me as I would be permanently banned from the site and that would suck serious hua. Cheers.

[blue]Good idea to put it here because no doubt it will bring some assholes out.

To the matter at hand. Maps are difficult because the rules say that you can't post a complete address. Some of the cities have streetwalker maps but that only has streets highlighted. An AMP map is problematic. Generally if an AMP has an ad, or can be googled and gotten an address I don't do anything but I wouldn't have the time to check a whole map.

If it could be done without exact address then it wouldn't violate the guidelines but I'm not sure what value a map like that would have.

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[QUOTE=AlohaJ;3012431]I feel the same as you, lucky to live on Oahu. I've lived many places, and the only place besides southeast Asian countries that compares to Oahu For mongers is Japan, obviously inflated prices there. Like many here, I love Asian ladies and Oahu has too many nice looking Asian ladies to choose from. You can find AMPs in many big cities, but it's nothing like here. On the mainland you can all races, but primarily Caucasian, which I don't mind, but prefer Asian over any other type, and the price for great service is really managible for me. I will say though, we need to keep the prices down so that we can afford many great sessions without tapping into rent or utilities, which are way out of hand. I don't mind sliding a little extra for someone who goes above and beyond, but let's not reward for substandard or even adequate service. As always, safe mongering.[/QUOTE]Well some things I feel Oahu needs to improve on are MT that give HJ and inconsistent AMP service. Eight years or so ago CC was becoming a staple for MT who gave HJ (particularly Kays old place). Then a combination of LE, girl's egos, and inflation kicked in. Recently seems things have been getting a little better, but prices and therapists are still inconsistent. As for our AMP scene, it's good but incidents of shorting time and lack of service is unacceptable. The AAMP scene in the mainland is unbeatable and much more organized. Sure it's not as convenient as a AMP and cost little more but worth it. For at least the Asian AAMP, one bad review and the booker fires the girl. I truly feel like a kid at a candy store when looking through LA CV. Only problem is getting in good with bookers to accept you. As of right now, I feel like I can only trust happiness and rejuve to walk out happy. However happiness has had a record of also pulling bullshit in the past and both places combined along with a few individuals from other places don't have enough top notch talent to service everyone. We basically should be able to go in any AMP and wonder how good of a hit will I get rather than will I strike out. Well let's just hope the next gen of mongerers and businesses smarten up and keep this hobby healthy.

So I was told by some other mongers that some of the posts are actually from people who work at the location. So hyping up their girls or their establishment is what's going on but how does one prove that? After hearing about this I can kind of see how it works. Posters going onto another locations site and comparing their girls or saying girls at another location are better or even reviews of girls at their location that is a little inflated. I guess one must take everything with a grain of salt and not believe all the hype there is. This is sad knowing that some of the post might be from an actual worker connected to an establishment. Oh well.

With the weather being as hot as it is and me being a bigger guy I have found my last session slightly ruined by not enough airflow in the room.

What places do you guys recommend for cool rooms?

[QUOTE=DukeAtreides;3014403]With the weather being as hot as it is and me being a bigger guy I have found my last session slightly ruined by not enough airflow in the room.

What places do you guys recommend for cool rooms?[/QUOTE]Did you tell the girl? She might have not had the ac on.

[QUOTE=Blade82;3013873]I truly feel like a kid at a candy store when looking through LA CV. Only problem is getting in good with bookers to accept you.[/QUOTE]Totally agree with you. I had access to all kinds of women in LA and Vegas white, Persian, Armenian, Indian and everything in between, and that's not including porn stars, models and D-list mainstream actresses. I also appreciated that there were services that were members-only that matched customers with girls, and a system in place to vet both as far as being who they say they are and delivering what they say they'll deliver.

Hawaii's great if you're into FOB Asians but if you're not, well, this place is pretty sparse. But then again, if you want the caliber of talent in LA and Vegas, the fact that guys were have it set in their head what that price is, regardless of the quality of provider, is detriment to them coming back again. I think it's pretty gauche to bargain with a girl with her rate if you don't like it, move on, but if you like her, what she's offering and how much she's asking, enjoy.

[QUOTE=DangerBoy;3014454]Totally agree with you. I had access to all kinds of women in LA and Vegas white, Persian, Armenian, Indian and everything in between, and that's not including porn stars, models and D-list mainstream actresses. I also appreciated that there were services that were members-only that matched customers with girls, and a system in place to vet both as far as being who they say they are and delivering what they say they'll deliver.

Hawaii's great if you're into FOB Asians but if you're not, well, this place is pretty sparse. But then again, if you want the caliber of talent in LA and Vegas, the fact that guys were have it set in their head what that price is, regardless of the quality of provider, is detriment to them coming back again. I think it's pretty gauche to bargain with a girl with her rate if you don't like it, move on, but if you like her, what she's offering and how much she's asking, enjoy.[/QUOTE]Well shit as hot as the non Asians there, they were too rich for my blood. The Koreans on the other hand were only $$. 5. Slightly more than here but totally worth it considering majority of the girls were equivalent to any top notch provider here and hotter, you go to a clean private residence with just you and her, and you never have to worry about shortened time or annoying mama. Basically you wouldn't have a reason to expect anything less than a GFE. Would have liked to try some white providers, but many were too expensive. Even if they came here they probably would have to drop their price at least a quarter for people to consider booking appointments. I can see some change happening here with the amount of quality providers and establishments opening in nice condos. Still got ways to go though.

[QUOTE=DukeAtreides;3014403]With the weather being as hot as it is and me being a bigger guy I have found my last session slightly ruined by not enough airflow in the room.

What places do you guys recommend for cool rooms?[/QUOTE]The room farthest away from the entrance at CHM has a relatively new air-conditioning unit above the bed, in addition to an electric fan on the floor. I'm an old fat guy (plus Viagra makes me feel warmer), but even on hot days I've always been cool and comfortable in that room when the AC unit is set on maximum and the fan is on. (In fact, sometimes I've turned off the fan and turned down the AC if the room becomes too cold.) If that room is available and you politely ask, in my experience the mama will turn on the AC beforehand so the room will be cool from the start.

[QUOTE=Redneck1;3014708]The room farthest away from the entrance at CHM has a relatively new air-conditioning unit above the bed, in addition to an electric fan on the floor. I'm an old fat guy (plus Viagra makes me feel warmer), but even on hot days I've always been cool and comfortable in that room when the AC unit is set on maximum and the fan is on. (In fact, sometimes I've turned off the fan and turned down the AC if the room becomes too cold.) If that room is available and you politely ask, in my experience the mama will turn on the AC beforehand so the room will be cool from the start.[/QUOTE]Also, CHM, the room closest to the entrance, it's next to their sleeping room, Jun calls this one the "VIP" room, first time she's put me in there, couple weeks ago, it's got one of those stand-up AC contraptions on the floor. I had to ask Monica to angle it away from me cause bugga too cold already!