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[QUOTE=PicHunter;6217017]BrightBelle wholesome (near) professional pics, don't think she's real. Didn't try to scam me but don't think she'll ever meet you. Waste of time for me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33f3b688-bb0f-4a4e-ab3f-0a71ef3d1a15[/URL][/QUOTE]I got the same vibe. Communicates, seems interested, doesn't try to scam. But its not happening.
WTF is wrong with these girls? The last few times I've seen Jojo she plays these games with not answering, making you wait, over and over. I called today, set everything up, drove a half hour then she said she was moving to a new room after I set everything up and went her way. I get there, wait, call and no answer, call, message, call, message, she said just a minute, then she disappeared for an hour so I leave. As you can guess I get a few miles away and there she is messaging. I told her I was going back and made her wait for once, after a while I said in was there and she said I don't see you, so I said that's right you don't, that's what you get for playing games. She has done me and many others this way. Now I know why I quit doing this before.
From the description I am guessing you and I know the same Jojo. I literally sat around watching football for 3 hours waiting for her once. She texted me about every 30 minutes giving me all kinds of excuses. I just woke up, I had to take my sister to school, I still need to shower. I finally gave up and I left to go get something to eat. I texted her and told her so she didn't bother to not show. LOL! She texts me 15 seconds later cursing me with every negative word ever invented because I was canceling. She claimed she was there and I left her high and dry. Yet I was in my vehicle and was sitting right there parked with no Jojo in sight. Complete waste of flesh.
[QUOTE=Royd33;6218506]WTF is wrong with these girls? The last few times I've seen Jojo she plays these games with not answering, making you wait, over and over. I called today, set everything up, drove a half hour then she said she was moving to a new room after I set everything up and went her way. I get there, wait, call and no answer, call, message, call, message, she said just a minute, then she disappeared for an hour so I leave. As you can guess I get a few miles away and there she is messaging. I told her I was going back and made her wait for once, after a while I said in was there and she said I don't see you, so I said that's right you don't, that's what you get for playing games. She has done me and many others this way. Now I know why I quit doing this before.[/QUOTE]
I was wondering if anyone has had any luck using Plenty of Fish (POF) for landing SBs or other interesting finds?
Once upon a time when I used it as a dating App I had some success here and there. Last time I was on it there were definitely some legit hotties but also a large number of scammers to weed out, and then the POF Hall Monitors decided that they could dictate what age range was appropriate for you so you could not communicate with women who were like 15 or more years younger than you! Really annoying- so obviously you'd have to give a bogus age if you are an older guy like me and want to be able to communicate with young hotties. But I digress.
Anybody had any luck there lately?
[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;6222237]I was wondering if anyone has had any luck using Plenty of Fish (POF) for landing SBs or other interesting finds?
Once upon a time when I used it as a dating App I had some success here and there. Last time I was on it there were definitely some legit hotties but also a large number of scammers to weed out, and then the POF Hall Monitors decided that they could dictate what age range was appropriate for you so you could not communicate with women who were like 15 or more years younger than you! Really annoying- so obviously you'd have to give a bogus age if you are an older guy like me and want to be able to communicate with young hotties. But I digress.
Anybody had any luck there lately?[/QUOTE]For Sugar Babies, I would say POF is not a good place to look. But when I read SugarLifestyle forum on Reddit, I read aspiring SBs try Tinder, Bumble and Hinge.
Still I would say Seeking is the best for findings SBs.
Beautiful lady seems very eager to meet -- does anybody have any info on her? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/39579e5b-a5ab-48ed-b71c-efa08996eac4[/URL].
[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;6222237]I was wondering if anyone has had any luck using Plenty of Fish (POF) for landing SBs or other interesting finds?
Once upon a time when I used it as a dating App I had some success here and there. Last time I was on it there were definitely some legit hotties but also a large number of scammers to weed out, and then the POF Hall Monitors decided that they could dictate what age range was appropriate for you so you could not communicate with women who were like 15 or more years younger than you! Really annoying- so obviously you'd have to give a bogus age if you are an older guy like me and want to be able to communicate with young hotties. But I digress.
Anybody had any luck there lately?[/QUOTE]Before POF was bought by Match, it was kind of a cool Wild West where you could definitely find SBs and a whole bunch of kinky chicks. Once Match bought them, all the things that made it fun got locked down. Now their TOS basically make looking for a hookup, paid or otherwise, a bootable offense.
TL; DR. No, not anymore.
Have been texting these two. Anyone seen them?
FunDame.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/01f0793d-27f8-4f9d-a2d7-6e489a671766[/URL]
Queen smart.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/442b3547-74fa-4859-9396-b4ca8e6b0293H[/URL]
[QUOTE=JaxAsian;6231026]Have been texting these two. Anyone seen them?
FunDame.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/01f0793d-27f8-4f9d-a2d7-6e489a671766[/URL]
Queen smart.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/442b3547-74fa-4859-9396-b4ca8e6b0293H[/URL][/QUOTE]They either blocked me, are off the system or more likely. I blocked them. Why I blocked them can be anything from being ugly to wanting to get some allowance and not do anything or just being a scammer. But hey, ugly girls need luvn too. LOL. But yea, different strokes for different folks.
I'm reading it and wondering. WTF is Fairways Forest? So of course its a niche area in Arlington I guess. And of course she is most likely a fake.
Clever.
31 • Female • Fairways Forest, Florida, United States.
Hello.
FunDamen wants ebay gift cards and no cash. I am puzzled why she can't buy them herself, flag #2 she is eager and have no restrictions.
[QUOTE=JaxAsian;6231026]Have been texting these two. Anyone seen them?
FunDame.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/01f0793d-27f8-4f9d-a2d7-6e489a671766[/URL]
Queen smart.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/442b3547-74fa-4859-9396-b4ca8e6b0293H[/URL][/QUOTE]
College girl.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0391a403-24ef-461e-bb34-6e107c20e021[/URL]
Any info?
So -- I am pleased to report that I am at least having some discussions with ladies who appear to be both REAL and LOCAL on the site. In years passed, the start of a college semester (or the impending holiday season) always brought out some cuties needing to make some extra coin. Then the pandemic seemed to take a real toll on SA, with so many fake profiles and so many game-players. However, I have made some connections over the past few days that have positively impacted my mood. Will post more details as things evolve.
She is kinda far for a drive and espec with the holiday madness going on. Has anyone tried a meet up with her yet?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/936acf8c-7465-43e5-a393-aeda400529b5[/URL]
[QUOTE=KDoogie;6246672]So -- I am pleased to report that I am at least having some discussions with ladies who appear to be both REAL and LOCAL on the site. In years passed, the start of a college semester (or the impending holiday season) always brought out some cuties needing to make some extra coin. Then the pandemic seemed to take a real toll on SA, with so many fake profiles and so many game-players. However, I have made some connections over the past few days that have positively impacted my mood. Will post more details as things evolve.[/QUOTE]So you need to have pretty decent game and be reasonably decent looking to get these to work out right? I'm not too old, 31, I make good money I'm just fat and no game haha.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/804e5980-e9d6-430b-aa70-b531117ceaba[/URL]
Wants money upfront for groceries. She's good, but ultimately she tried it with me, which was a big no-no.
[QUOTE=VladVonK;6251786]So you need to have pretty decent game and be reasonably decent looking to get these to work out right? I'm not too old, 31, I make good money I'm just fat and no game haha.[/QUOTE]I'm 61, decent looking, have a game, and have nailed some serious leg on here. Not as often as I prefer- but often enough!
Well worth it.
[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;6255562]I'm 61, decent looking, have a game, and have nailed some serious leg on here. Not as often as I prefer- but often enough!
Well worth it.[/QUOTE]I am 57. My profile says 53. I look 45. Just good looking enough. It takes some effort but I have had some good luck with some of the hottest girls on SA. I am seeing a couple of girls now. One of them a 24 year old with one of the best bodies I have ever seen.
[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;6255562]I'm 61, decent looking, have a game, and have nailed some serious leg on here. Not as often as I prefer- but often enough!
Well worth it.[/QUOTE]Forgot to mention I am losing weight, just would like some strange during the interlude.
I plan to sign up for a 1 month around new years. I expect SA will offer a discount code around then. Anybody got a email alert of a discount code that is current?
[QUOTE=FourSeasons2;6260754]I plan to sign up for a 1 month around new years. I expect SA will offer a discount code around then. Anybody got a email alert of a discount code that is current?[/QUOTE]Sign up now and just wait. They will email you a code, usually 33% off.
[QUOTE=FourSeasons2;6260754]I plan to sign up for a 1 month around new years. I expect SA will offer a discount code around then. Anybody got a email alert of a discount code that is current?[/QUOTE]20 OFFSD just worked for me again 20 percent off.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;6262463]Sign up now and just wait. They will email you a code, usually 33% off.[/QUOTE]I'm in again for 1 month! Now I hope I can find some new talent to bang.
Sent out 10 messages yesterday am to Jax area SB. After 24 hrs I only got 1 reply back:
Melanie568. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7a428313-73f0-4dc6-b185-1623e94cc78c[/URL].
Texted with her, She wanted to find a SD to meet 1 x a week at $400 ($1600 a month). Said that was the arrangement she had previously with a prior SD. Wished her good luck.
[QUOTE=FourSeasons2;6272002]I'm in again for 1 month! Now I hope I can find some new talent to bang.[/QUOTE]How do you get 33% off I've only ever been offered 20% at $87 bucks per subscription. Haven't renewed in a minute and my inbox is loaded with replies from messages I sent out a couple months ago. Maybe I should wait till the new year and see if they'll offer me the 33%.
Any feedback on this one?
In the Orlando board somebody said she was an old pro from Jax.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/49d86892-b2fb-45f7-8b5d-8668704dcc30[/URL]
[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;6273739]How do you get 33% off I've only ever been offered 20% at $87 bucks per subscription. Haven't renewed in a minute and my inbox is loaded with replies from messages I sent out a couple months ago. Maybe I should wait till the new year and see if they'll offer me the 33%.[/QUOTE]Like I said, make an account and let it simmer. They will "probably" send you the 33% offer. Like getting back on after being banned, wipe out cookies, cache, history, get new IP, go IN cog and use a VPN. Don't use any of the same pics, as a matter of fact, use a fake real pic. Go on FB and find a friend of a friend then go to their page and look at their friends and use one of their pics. Doesn't matter how they look because you will only be using it to get the 33% offer. Maybe.
[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;6194504]Her opener with me was $800. I politely told her no thanks and made no counter-offer.[/QUOTE]Meeting her this afternoon just for coffee.
[QUOTE=FourSeasons2;6273540]Sent out 10 messages yesterday am to Jax area SB. After 24 hrs I only got 1 reply back:
Melanie568. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7a428313-73f0-4dc6-b185-1623e94cc78c[/URL].
Texted with her, She wanted to find a SD to meet 1 x a week at $400 ($1600 a month). Said that was the arrangement she had previously with a prior SD. Wished her good luck.[/QUOTE]If it's for a few hours or an overnight and she looks as good as her pics, with nearly zero rules I may be down. I could get a very nice new toy with $1600/ month so her performance would need to be really good too.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;6273911]Meeting her this afternoon just for coffee.[/QUOTE]She wanted me to text her when I was close. I texted her before I left and she told me the date was the next day, not the same day, but she said if I upped the allowance then she would maybe change her mind. Of course I never responded and that was that. Then she texts me back to see if we were still on for tomorrow. I just blocked her.
[QUOTE=VladVonK;6274749]If it's for a few hours or an overnight and she looks as good as her pics, with nearly zero rules I may be down. I could get a very nice new toy with $1600/ month so her performance would need to be really good too.[/QUOTE]That's a normal opening amount from most girls, I would have countered at $250 ppm for the first couple of meetups to make sure your chemistry is good. Then if she wants to move to an allowance then $1200 for 5-6 meets a month is what I would offer.
Lucy333, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/94ca5211-e986-44c5-84a9-efd9aee5e2a2[/URL]: Wants 350 for a M&G. Won't discuss anything over text, just says "pay me for the meet and greet and then we'll talk about it."
JadeGymGirl, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c07402a8-f504-4940-8c17-49bfe1e0c527[/URL]: Basically an escort, asks 500 for an hour. Didn't partake.
MaterialGirl, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/82bdb1a8-2d5d-4c54-8f79-6aec48284d64[/URL]: We met for a M&G. Thicker than her pictures. Loud in person. The whole coffee shop heard her talking about how she's DTF. Yikes.
Aly, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/60f9ad1f-eed1-4f51-9238-ae2e61b9c025[/URL]: Online only, not interested in meeting.
Melanie568, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7a428313-73f0-4dc6-b185-1623e94cc78c[/URL]: I'm hopeful about this one, she seems to want to meet, but communication is hit and miss. Any intel from other members?
[QUOTE=RiversideSlide;6288292]Lucy333, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/94ca5211-e986-44c5-84a9-efd9aee5e2a2[/URL]: Wants 350 for a M&G. Won't discuss anything over text, just says "pay me for the meet and greet and then we'll talk about it."
JadeGymGirl, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c07402a8-f504-4940-8c17-49bfe1e0c527[/URL]: Basically an escort, asks 500 for an hour. Didn't partake.
MaterialGirl, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/82bdb1a8-2d5d-4c54-8f79-6aec48284d64[/URL]: We met for a M&G. Thicker than her pictures. Loud in person. The whole coffee shop heard her talking about how she's DTF. Yikes.
Aly, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/60f9ad1f-eed1-4f51-9238-ae2e61b9c025[/URL]: Online only, not interested in meeting.
Melanie568, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7a428313-73f0-4dc6-b185-1623e94cc78c[/URL]: I'm hopeful about this one, she seems to want to meet, but communication is hit and miss. Any intel from other members?[/QUOTE]The last one was discussed and I posted about her not too long back, maybe a week or so, along with others.
I wasted a lot of time the last time I tried my luck on seeking living out of Houston. I got one meet and greet and a few close setups but with pros.
Are there any good guides on other forums or here, basically step by step? Such as sample blurred out profiles, example messages, example texts leading to the deed. An idiots guide if you will.
Thanks.
So -- as somebody who has been an off-and-on SD for over 10 years (and an off and on member of SA for about the same length of time), I have dealt with the same fakers and scammers that all of you have. Today, however, I had a prospective SB pull a stunt that I haven't encountered for quite some time. Basically, after some good initial conversation on SA and some positive text communications, we agreed to an initial meet and greet. Shortly before the meeting, I get a text of a child with an injured head, and a message saying that she has to cancel because her kid had an accident, needs to go to the ER, etc. You can probably guess the rest.
I have had several ladies (and I use the term loosely) try this tactic over the years, but haven't seen it for awhile. I guess there is nothing like the photo of an injured child to approach people for money. I am disappointed, because I thought this SB and I were moving towards something mutually beneficial. I will give her the opportunity to redeem herself in a different way (but if she hits me up again for $ while providing no service I will update this board with her profile info so others can be warned.
[QUOTE=KDoogie;6291536]So -- as somebody who has been an off-and-on SD for over 10 years (and an off and on member of SA for about the same length of time), I have dealt with the same fakers and scammers that all of you have. Today, however, I had a prospective SB pull a stunt that I haven't encountered for quite some time. Basically, after some good initial conversation on SA and some positive text communications, we agreed to an initial meet and greet. Shortly before the meeting, I get a text of a child with an injured head, and a message saying that she has to cancel because her kid had an accident, needs to go to the ER, etc. You can probably guess the rest.
I have had several ladies (and I use the term loosely) try this tactic over the years, but haven't seen it for awhile. I guess there is nothing like the photo of an injured child to approach people for money. I am disappointed, because I thought this SB and I were moving towards something mutually beneficial. I will give her the opportunity to redeem herself in a different way (but if she hits me up again for $ while providing no service I will update this board with her profile info so others can be warned.[/QUOTE]"Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope your son fares thru with a full recovery. Tell me what hospital you are at and I'll meet you outside of the ER. I don't mind doing our meet & greet under such a tragic event. At least this way, I can still compensate you for your time while you shed tears for your son. My best regards to you and your son".
"Oh and I'll be donned with a mask and heavy boots. I don't want to smell or step in any of your bullshit. See you soon".
[QUOTE=RiversideSlide;6288292]Lucy333, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/94ca5211-e986-44c5-84a9-efd9aee5e2a2[/URL]: Wants 350 for a M&G. Won't discuss anything over text, just says "pay me for the meet and greet and then we'll talk about it."
JadeGymGirl, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c07402a8-f504-4940-8c17-49bfe1e0c527[/URL]: Basically an escort, asks 500 for an hour. Didn't partake.
MaterialGirl, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/82bdb1a8-2d5d-4c54-8f79-6aec48284d64[/URL]: We met for a M&G. Thicker than her pictures. Loud in person. The whole coffee shop heard her talking about how she's DTF. Yikes.
Aly, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/60f9ad1f-eed1-4f51-9238-ae2e61b9c025[/URL]: Online only, not interested in meeting.
Melanie568, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7a428313-73f0-4dc6-b185-1623e94cc78c[/URL]: I'm hopeful about this one, she seems to want to meet, but communication is hit and miss. Any intel from other members?[/QUOTE]I've had a couple of SBs not know how to use their indoor voice during meet and greets in public. Makes it pretty awkward when you realize that the people sitting near you realize what's up and are eavesdropping on your conversation.
In my experience, it's usually a red flag if she doesn't care about people knowing / is completely oblivious in public. Most non pros try to keep a little discretion.
I had a nice meet and greet / dinner date with Jade904 on What's Your Price. She says she is new to this. I am not sure if she would down for an arrangement. Has anyone else had any communication?
[QUOTE=PvbGator20;6295911]I had a nice meet and greet / dinner date with Jade904 on What's Your Price. She says she is new to this. I am not sure if she would down for an arrangement. Has anyone else had any communication?[/QUOTE]I can't find her under any search feature. Any more details?
[QUOTE=PvbGator20;6295911]I had a nice meet and greet / dinner date with Jade904 on What's Your Price. She says she is new to this. I am not sure if she would down for an arrangement. Has anyone else had any communication?[/QUOTE]I found her and made an offer. Haven't had a response yet. No experience using the site. I threw out several offers between $1-2, not sure if there is a standard protocol or anything.