Most of these chicks are usually not very attractive. But I always check out the page.
Today features a nice sexy 'ginger' red head, slim, sexy, hot. Oh baby.
[URL]http://www.honolulustreetpulse.com/hottie-week-gracie-berkley/[/URL]#25839.
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Most of these chicks are usually not very attractive. But I always check out the page.
Today features a nice sexy 'ginger' red head, slim, sexy, hot. Oh baby.
[URL]http://www.honolulustreetpulse.com/hottie-week-gracie-berkley/[/URL]#25839.
[QUOTE=DrMajikLuv69;2965285]As of today, I want to officially announce that I am retiring from the hobby. I have found a girlfriend. It was a great experience this past year. To those that enjoyed the informational unbiased honest detailed reports I wrote. Good luck to you all.[/QUOTE]I thought all the AMP girls were your gf? YOU"LL BE BACK! Just remember that.
Redheads who have curtains that match the carpet are the best.
+1000000 for your find.
[QUOTE=Darkman808;2977805]Most of these chicks are usually not very attractive. But I always check out the page.
Today features a nice sexy 'ginger' red head, slim, sexy, hot. Oh baby.
[URL]http://www.honolulustreetpulse.com/hottie-week-gracie-berkley/[/URL]#25839.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PVenkman;2983469]I thought all the AMP girls were your gf? YOU"LL BE BACK! Just remember that.[/QUOTE]Its hard to walk away for long once you have tasted all the forbidden fruits. Its in your DNA.
[QUOTE=ExitOnly;2984791]Its hard to walk away for long once you have tasted all the forbidden fruits. Its in your DNA.[/QUOTE]Ask any working girl, and she'll tell you a good chunk of her business comes from guys in relationships.
Coincidence? I think not.
[QUOTE=ExitOnly;2984791]Its hard to walk away for long once you have tasted all the forbidden fruits. Its in your DNA.[/QUOTE]Super true. Super hard.
[QUOTE=DangerBoy;2984825]Ask any working girl, and she'll tell you a good chunk of her business comes from guys in relationships.
Coincidence? I think not.[/QUOTE]Once you monger everything seems to break down to how I spent for the time and as you sit there pretending to listen to your date or whomever you are saying to yourself I could've just gone to an AMP, suddenly you crack a smirk, time to visit the candy store!
Russian / AMERICAN.
22 YEARS OLD.
5'5.
112 LBS.
34 B NATURAL.
$200.
These girls you could actually see tomorrow if you were on the mainland.
In Hawaii, we have a great market for Asian girls who provide great service. The white girls are over priced and provide subpar service.
[QUOTE=Goser;2991255]Try this girl. You have to go to the mainland to see her. Her rate? $180.
Andrea. 27 years old, 5 feet 3 inched tall, and 115 pounds, 34 C.[/QUOTE]What part of the mainland? I like go.
Haha. This was bound to happen.
[QUOTE=CM0069;2991173]Once you monger everything seems to break down to how I spent for the time and as you sit there pretending to listen to your date or whomever you are saying to yourself I could've just gone to an AMP, suddenly you crack a smirk, time to visit the candy store![/QUOTE]If you're a guy, you pay for it one way or another.
[QUOTE=MeinArschUndde;2993279]After hearing about this model-like beauty, I had to see for myself. Aloha Me is now 1800's Kapiolani in a residence duplex. "Papasan" directed me to park in the garage.
Luisa is Belgian with a pronounced French accent. She has a virtually perfect model body. By that I mean that some might prefer a tad more meat and others perhaps a tad more boobage. As to the latter, hers are perfect Tupperware Bee cups with very nice tootsie-roll nipples. Although her skin is very light, her face shows some exotic traces of African heritage. Her hair is quite thick and wavy, maybe to half-way down her back. She's very friendly and talkative and met me in a skimpy jeweled bra / panty ensemble. She truly could be a run way model. She asked for payment up front, and I gave her 250, which she said was perfect.
Performance was somewhat of a mixed bag but way better than a poke in the eye. She seemed to take control of the flow but in an odd way. She let me open mouth kiss her a little but admonished against tongue. Also, her nipples are wonderful to suck, but she said they're a bit sensitive. Lastly, she likes her clit being stroked, but informed me that it too is quite sensitive and she only wants one FIV max. Still yet, once I got all the rules down, she let me do all of the above as she gave me a pretty fair BBBJ and I felt her juices flow around my finger. Once the cover went on, she mounted me CG and got herself off by taking my whole rod in and moving it against her clit for a couple minutes. Once I got her in other positions, she accepted full stroking, her vaginal contractions suggesting she enjoyed this, as well. One fun thing was listening her to yell "Oui! Oui! Oui!" as she came.
Luisa is very vivacious and talkative, and we spent a little more time just talking about her travel plans. Yes, I might want to see her again. She's like that hot but quirky girlfriend that lets you fuck her but only if you do it just right. S7, A8, L8. Damages: 50 + 250 = 300[/QUOTE]That sounds like a ton of rules for over paying.
[QUOTE=Goser;2991255]Try this girl. You have to go to the mainland to see her. Her rate? $180.
Andrea. 27 years old, 5 feet 3 inched tall, and 115 pounds, 34 C.[/QUOTE]Hey bro Goser.
Could you PM me the contact info for this white girl and the Venezuelan? I bet V-girl is glad she ain't back in her home country right now. She'd be 10 lbs lighter maybe. Damn she looks hot.
I hope they are on the West Coast somewhere.
Much mahalo,
MP Man.
[QUOTE=DangerBoy;2984825]Ask any working girl, and she'll tell you a good chunk of her business comes from guys in relationships.
Coincidence? I think not.[/QUOTE]Excuse my ignorance. I'm one of the mongers who is not in a relationship and I fail to understand why so many guys in relationships seek out working girls for sex. Is it because the guy is scared to ask his SO for the kind of sex acts he really wants but knows he can get from women in the AMPs, or because his SO isn't willing or interested in having as much sex as he is, or what?
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;2993764]Excuse my ignorance. I'm one of the mongers who is not in a relationship and I fail to understand why so many guys in relationships seek out working girls for sex. Is it because the guy is scared to ask his SO for the kind of sex acts he really wants but knows he can get from women in the AMPs, or because his SO isn't willing or interested in having as much sex as he is, or what?[/QUOTE]The reasons you mentioned might be part of it, but for those who've been in a relationship for a long time, I think it comes down to variety. Wanting to try something new. I like lasagna, but after eating lasagna every night for a couple of decades, I might want to try a little kal-bi.
[QUOTE=Macko69;2993804]The reasons you mentioned might be part of it, but for those who've been in a relationship for a long time, I think it comes down to variety. Wanting to try something new. I like lasagna, but after eating lasagna every night for a couple of decades, I might want to try a little kal-bi.[/QUOTE]Variety is the spice of life and uncomplicated is a working girls expertise. You pay for it no matter and for the pleasure of a come and go can't be beat. No hit and miss.
[QUOTE=Relax808;2993820]Variety is the spice of life and uncomplicated is a working girls expertise. You pay for it no matter and for the pleasure of a come and go can't be beat. No hit and miss.[/QUOTE]President Truman was talking to a farmer. The farmer told him a rooster could have sex ten times a day. Truman asked, "with the same chicken?
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;2993764]Excuse my ignorance. I'm one of the mongers who is not in a relationship and I fail to understand why so many guys in relationships seek out working girls for sex. Is it because the guy is scared to ask his SO for the kind of sex acts he really wants but knows he can get from women in the AMPs, or because his SO isn't willing or interested in having as much sex as he is, or what?[/QUOTE]It is within a man's primal nature to procreate and spread his seed as far as possible. Marriage and relationships throw a kink into this primal urge. Seeking out paid relationships is a lot less complicated and less likely to get caught by the SO. A real girl will leave clues for her rival. A professional usually understands discretion. Discretion leads to more business. However, sometimes we mongers get emotionally confused and imagine theirs a relationship (with a provider) that doesn't really exist. To our detriment.
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;2993764]Excuse my ignorance. I'm one of the mongers who is not in a relationship and I fail to understand why so many guys in relationships seek out working girls for sex. Is it because the guy is scared to ask his SO for the kind of sex acts he really wants but knows he can get from women in the AMPs, or because his SO isn't willing or interested in having as much sex as he is, or what?[/QUOTE]Show me a good looking girl, and I'll show you a guy that's sick of her shit.
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;2993764]Excuse my ignorance. I'm one of the mongers who is not in a relationship and I fail to understand why so many guys in relationships seek out working girls for sex. Is it because the guy is scared to ask his SO for the kind of sex acts he really wants but knows he can get from women in the AMPs, or because his SO isn't willing or interested in having as much sex as he is, or what?[/QUOTE]Variety plays a large part, but also, if not getting enough at home, the endorphins released during orgasm are about as good a drug as you can get, especially for those suffering from depression.
[QUOTE=Magnod;2993301]That sounds like a ton of rules for over paying.[/QUOTE]Agreed. As to performance, she doesn't come close to a decent AMP experience for one bill less. Like I said though, the overall experience was better than a poke in the eye.
So I start by saying that a sucker is born everyday. Yes, I know because I was one. I tried to help this provider but got taken advantage of big time. She took and took. Hey but call me stupid because I gave and gave. Now let it be known that I wasn't trying to buy love, but really trying to better her situation. Though I will admit that I nearly did fall in love but could never marry this girl for various reasons. Including her abuse of money. I'm sure most of them do, right? Anyway, it seems she knows how to use men and even marriage (can't get into details here) to her advantage. Scary part is another guy has taken my place-thank you for saving me! But I've heard talk of marriage so it seems that there might be another "sucker" born who thinks he can buy love with money. I wish I could warn him as I strongly believe this girl has no idea, grasp, or any interest in love. It's all about the money. If he's interested in something else, well perhaps then it might be good, LOL. I hope I'm not being out of line by writing this, but I just want to reiterate what most know, "Don't get involved" with the girls. There might be that one in a million, but yeah I bet those odds are correct!
[QUOTE=Luvnsex2;2995036]It's all about the money.[/QUOTE]There's always strings attach. That's why I sometimes play the notion I'm just an average guy trying to make ends meet, and if the girl is turned off by that so be it, but ones that stick to for who you are those are real confidants, besides it does make it easier to sometimes not show up so they figure you are just hard up on cash when in actuality you just took her out of the rotation. Hehe.
How does one contact Jackson? I was assessed an infraction and I have no idea what I did? I want to have that clarified to me. If the admin of this post can forward this to Jackson for some explanation. Thanks.
[blue]Jackson hasn't moderated the forum in years so I'm the guy to talk to.
Here's why;
"Effective immediately, posters in the Honolulu forum are prohibited from criticizing, complaining about or discussing other forum members."
You criticized, complained, or discussed another forum member.
If you have anything further to say about this send me a pm or take it to the fight thread.
A2[/blue]
[QUOTE=Luvnsex2;2995036]So I start by saying that a sucker is born everyday. Yes, I know because I was one. I tried to help this provider but got taken advantage of big time. She took and took. Hey but call me stupid because I gave and gave. Now let it be known that I wasn't trying to buy love, but really trying to better her situation. Though I will admit that I nearly did fall in love but could never marry this girl for various reasons. Including her abuse of money. I'm sure most of them do, right? Anyway, it seems she knows how to use men and even marriage (can't get into details here) to her advantage. Scary part is another guy has taken my place-thank you for saving me! But I've heard talk of marriage so it seems that there might be another "sucker" born who thinks he can buy love with money. I wish I could warn him as I strongly believe this girl has no idea, grasp, or any interest in love. It's all about the money. If he's interested in something else, well perhaps then it might be good, LOL. I hope I'm not being out of line by writing this, but I just want to reiterate what most know, "Don't get involved" with the girls. There might be that one in a million, but yeah I bet those odds are correct![/QUOTE]Sorry to hear about the let down my brother. I once was in that position and believe me ITS ALL ABOUT THE MONEY. No if and or buts. Its sad but think about it they are working this job and the top providers do make a lot of money. The only incentive for them to quit is to find a sugar daddy whose money they can spend and take care of them. My best advice is to never see only one provider. If you see one you will get totally attached and get caught up in that one and slowly get drawn into their world. They are pros remember that. Pros to suck your money and your dick hahahaha. Try them all because there are so many hot ones at each parlor and you get that in your rotation and you'll be fine. Don't fall for one.
[QUOTE=Goser;2991255]Try this girl. You have to go to the mainland to see her. Her rate? $180.
Andrea. 27 years old, 5 feet 3 inched tall, and 115 pounds, 34 C.[/QUOTE]Are you sure? No upsell bs?
Where in mainland?
Hi everyone.
I received a PM by this provider and could not find her ad in backpage or craigslist when I searched. When I ran a search on this website all I could find is that she had offered massage before. But is she an escort or massage therapist? What are her stats? She reached out to me about some survey but told me nothing about her looks. PM if you guys want, thanks.
[QUOTE=GoodTimeSoahu;2999895]Hi everyone.
I received a PM by this provider and could not find her ad in backpage or craigslist when I searched. When I ran a search on this website all I could find is that she had offered massage before. But is she an escort or massage therapist? What are her stats? She reached out to me about some survey but told me nothing about her looks. PM if you guys want, thanks.[/QUOTE]Honolulu Girl advertises on USA Adult Classifieds:
[URL]http://usaadultclassifieds.info/classifieds/-11/posts/2-Massages-Massage-Parlors/2-Massages-Massage-Parlors/18465-Honolulugirl-wants-to-stress-openmindedness.html[/URL]
She offers both massage and a full range of sexual services. Although personally I like her, her reviews on the forum have been mixed. She's a mature provider (in her forties), and her ethnic background is part black and part white.
She's posted many photos of herself on the forum, most before her new breasts but a few after.
Here are some of them:
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=343194&d=1410903406[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=343196&d=1399977856[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=410149&d=1457722045[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=399506&d=1449030183[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=343566&d=1411135944[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=343195&d=1410178385[/URL]
[QUOTE=Redneck1;2999933]Honolulu Girl advertises on USA Adult Classifieds:
[URL]http://usaadultclassifieds.info/classifieds/-11/posts/2-Massages-Massage-Parlors/2-Massages-Massage-Parlors/18465-Honolulugirl-wants-to-stress-openmindedness.html[/URL]
She offers both massage and a full range of sexual services. Although personally I like her, her reviews on the forum have been mixed. She's a mature provider (in her forties), and her ethnic background is part black and part white.
She's posted many photos of herself on the forum, most before her new breasts but a few after.
Here are some of them:
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=343194&d=1410903406[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=343196&d=1399977856[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=410149&d=1457722045[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=399506&d=1449030183[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=343566&d=1411135944[/URL]
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=343195&d=1410178385[/URL][/QUOTE]I did a google search and still could not find what you have given. Much Mahalo Redneck.
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;2993764]Excuse my ignorance. I'm one of the mongers who is not in a relationship and I fail to understand why so many guys in relationships seek out working girls for sex. Is it because the guy is scared to ask his SO for the kind of sex acts he really wants but knows he can get from women in the AMPs, or because his SO isn't willing or interested in having as much sex as he is, or what?[/QUOTE]There are a number of reasons and they vary from one monger to another:
There are some men who can be in an exclusive relationship with a woman and she'll be enough for him. But, not every man is like that. Even married men may find themselves wanting something different than the usual thing they get at home, without having to get a divorce or breakup with the SO. They stay in the relationship, but get a little play on the side. They still love the SO and would never divorce her, but an exclusive relationship isn't something they can live with.
Other guys are in a marriage where the wife simply isn't interested in sex anymore or the sex isn't as great as it used to be. Rather than breakup, a guy will get his sexual fulfillment with a provider, but stay married.
Some guys are basically stuck in a loveless marriage, but divorce is out of the question because he could be financially ruined. Plus, being single again, especially for an older man, put you back out into the Singles Market, where pickings are slimmer for an older man than for younger ones. So, they stay in a loveless marriage to maintain their own financial well-being, but enjoy the hobby so they can get what they aren't getting at home anymore.
As I said, the reasons vary from one guy to the next. There are undoubtedly other potential reasons I haven't mentioned. But, those come to mind right away.
[QUOTE=Niceguy808;3002079]There are a number of reasons and they vary from one monger to another:
There are some men who can be in an exclusive relationship with a woman and she'll be enough for him. But, not every man is like that. Even married men may find themselves wanting something different than the usual thing they get at home, without having to get a divorce or breakup with the SO. They stay in the relationship, but get a little play on the side. They still love the SO and would never divorce her, but an exclusive relationship isn't something they can live with.
Other guys are in a marriage where the wife simply isn't interested in sex anymore or the sex isn't as great as it used to be. Rather than breakup, a guy will get his sexual fulfillment with a provider, but stay married.
Some guys are basically stuck in a loveless marriage, but divorce is out of the question because he could be financially ruined. Plus, being single again, especially for an older man, put you back out into the Singles Market, where pickings are slimmer for an older man than for younger ones. So, they stay in a loveless marriage to maintain their own financial well-being, but enjoy the hobby so they can get what they aren't getting at home anymore.
As I said, the reasons vary from one guy to the next. There are undoubtedly other potential reasons I haven't mentioned. But, those come to mind right away.[/QUOTE]Thanks for that, Niceguy. Seems as if you really tagged all the bases. Kind of a panoramic photo of that landscape. I see it more clearly now. One thing that occurs to me after reading what you said is, maybe one reason the Powers-That-Be in this town haven't pushed to enforce laws against prostitution and shut down the AMPs is because some of those guys use and need those services themselves, for the reasons you've articulated.
[QUOTE=Niceguy808;3002079]There are a number of reasons and they vary from one monger to another:
There are some men who can be in an exclusive relationship with a woman and she'll be enough for him. But, not every man is like that. Even married men may find themselves wanting something different than the usual thing they get at home, without having to get a divorce or breakup with the SO. They stay in the relationship, but get a little play on the side. They still love the SO and would never divorce her, but an exclusive relationship isn't something they can live with.
Other guys are in a marriage where the wife simply isn't interested in sex anymore or the sex isn't as great as it used to be. Rather than breakup, a guy will get his sexual fulfillment with a provider, but stay married.
Some guys are basically stuck in a loveless marriage, but divorce is out of the question because he could be financially ruined. Plus, being single again, especially for an older man, put you back out into the Singles Market, where pickings are slimmer for an older man than for younger ones. So, they stay in a loveless marriage to maintain their own financial well-being, but enjoy the hobby so they can get what they aren't getting at home anymore.
As I said, the reasons vary from one guy to the next. There are undoubtedly other potential reasons I haven't mentioned. But, those come to mind right away.[/QUOTE]Very well said.
Much has been said on this board concerning mongers who fall for providers, and what an excruciatingly painful mess that scenario can become for the unfortunate guy who has allowed himself to lose control of his feelings in this way. But what about the flip side of the provider-monger equation? Supposing a provider falls into infatuation for you? Has this ever happened to you personally or have you heard of it happening to another monger? How does a monger handle this situation if / when it happens? Yeah, as a general thing, most providers are professionals and have probably trained themselves to not become emotionally attached to their customers. And Yeah, what looks like a provider's emotional attachment to a monger is likely her working the angles to strengthen the guy's attachment to her so he will keep coming back and spending money on her. I don't fault any provider who does this either. She's in the biz to make a buck and it's a dog-eat-dog world where she's got to fend for herself and formulate the most effective strategies for her financial survival. But all that having been said, these women aren't super-human. They are subject to the same weaknesses we all are. I bring this topic up and ask this question of you guys because I've recently come to suspect this may be happening to me with a certain provider. I like this woman as a friend but feel zero infatuation for her. However, I'm getting the impression she has developed an emotional attachment to me and I don't what to cause pain for her.
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;3002381]I like this woman as a friend but feel zero infatuation for her. However, I'm getting the impression she has developed an emotional attachment to me and I don't what to cause pain for her.[/QUOTE]If she has developed an emotional attachment and you only see her as a "friend", then you are obligated to make that a fact in front of her and stop playing around with her feelings, she is human. You are just using and abusing her if you already know she has "feelings" for you and should break it off to prevent any more damage.
Only a less of a man will take advantage of that and string it along inspite of her involvement in this business, unless you're a politician, then its understandable.
[QUOTE=Niceguy808;3002079]There are a number of reasons and they vary from one monger to another:
There are some men who can be in an exclusive relationship with a woman and she'll be enough for him. But, not every man is like that. Even married men may find themselves wanting something different than the usual thing they get at home, without having to get a divorce or breakup with the SO. They stay in the relationship, but get a little play on the side. They still love the SO and would never divorce her, but an exclusive relationship isn't something they can live with.
Other guys are in a marriage where the wife simply isn't interested in sex anymore or the sex isn't as great as it used to be. Rather than breakup, a guy will get his sexual fulfillment with a provider, but stay married.
Some guys are basically stuck in a loveless marriage, but divorce is out of the question because he could be financially ruined. Plus, being single again, especially for an older man, put you back out into the Singles Market, where pickings are slimmer for an older man than for younger ones. So, they stay in a loveless marriage to maintain their own financial well-being, but enjoy the hobby so they can get what they aren't getting at home anymore.
As I said, the reasons vary from one guy to the next. There are undoubtedly other potential reasons I haven't mentioned. But, those come to mind right away.[/QUOTE]I want to save this explanation for why a guy in a long term relationship could still need to go elsewhere to get his physical or psychological needs met. I'm a bachelor for now, but this resonates and lines up with some of the stories providers have told me about their many married customers.
I used to think it was crazy that so many guys in relationships were out getting play. But I guess lots of guys are in a position where the SO simply doesn't want sex anywhere close to what the human male is physically wired to desire.
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;3002381]Supposing a provider falls into infatuation for you? Has this ever happened to you personally or have you heard of it happening to another monger? How does a monger handle this situation if / when it happens?.[/QUOTE]While I can't say she was "in love" with me, somehow, my screen name alias leaked out.
Every visit to that establishment thereafter, there was "talk" about my reports on providers. Talk about a messed up situation. A lot of the words used weren't very nice and totally blown out of proportion. Thankfully, years later, said providers are no longer there, even though I haven't stepped foot in there for a long time either. Damn shame. I enjoyed that place.
Fight club rules.
H.
[QUOTE=CosmicKid;3002381]Supposing a provider falls into infatuation for you? Has this ever happened to you personally or have you heard of it happening to another monger? How does a monger handle this situation if / when it happens? Yeah, as a general thing, most providers are professionals and have probably trained themselves to not become emotionally attached to their customers. And Yeah, what looks like a provider's emotional attachment to a monger is likely her working the angles to strengthen the guy's attachment to her so he will keep coming back and spending money on her. I don't fault any provider who does this either. [/QUOTE]I once had an atf, and no doubt her name was on here several several years ago, anyway we clicked first time we met, over next few times small talk about where she goes on break back in LA, eventually she was allowing me multiple pops and who was I to complain. So sad day happens when she of course goes on one of her trips and I visit the place to see who was there, and there was this younger tight body looking version of her, mediocre service. Basically she tried and made fake scripted nice nice. But my jaw dropped notheless banging a body with a 10 easily early-mid 20's k-girl, so following week she disappears and my atf shows up, and I made the mistake of saying whom I saw and she just slumped to the floor sliding her back as she just sat staring, oh fuck!. Anyway total look like she was punched-in the gut feel, asked some questions. Made me feel either I did someone she did not like or obviously she knew because damn several minutes went by, then we went at it. Almost knowingly she was trying to get over it somewhat pretending I suppose. Following month left for good to the mainland. Different state. I don't think it was me, there was something else that was going on so it made a convenient excuse to leave hawaii at that time. But yeah that sucks though knowing I had a fav provider going the extra extra mile for me, all providers tend to say the same lines, but better to keep it at side gig.
[QUOTE=Johnny14;3002415]If she has developed an emotional attachment and you only see her as a "friend", then you are obligated to make that a fact in front of her and stop playing around with her feelings, she is human. You are just using and abusing her if you already know she has "feelings" for you and should break it off to prevent any more damage.
Only a less of a man will take advantage of that and string it along inspite of her involvement in this business, unless you're a politician, then its understandable.[/QUOTE]Mr. 14, I'm only in partial agreement with you. If this was an intimate relationship with a civilian chick in the outside world, then yeah, your perspective and advice would be applicable. But in an AMP with a pro, hey, I've got a right to just be who I am and do what I do, no explanations required or expected. However, at the same time, you got me thinking about the idea of bringing this situation out into the open with her, probably better for both of us if I do this, hopefully clear the air with her, so, like, thanks for the suggestion, I probably will follow up on it.
Whats up guys. I just moved from Maui and this is my very first post. I read this forum all the time and just love it. Now I'm here and I hope to be a contributor to this also. The botomoco is on search mode now. LOL.
[QUOTE=CM0069;2995430]There's always strings attach. That's why I sometimes play the notion I'm just an average guy trying to make ends meet, and if the girl is turned off by that so be it, but ones that stick to for who you are those are real confidants, besides it does make it easier to sometimes not show up so they figure you are just hard up on cash when in actuality you just took her out of the rotation. Hehe.[/QUOTE]Actually there isn't always a string attached.
It all comes off as how you come off.
I'm sure if you go bragging like you're the shit and loaded, the girl is going to expect that.
I have had a couple providers fall in love with me and I in no way have a lot of money or act like I do.
I am kinda younger and I guess treat them nice.
The providers that "loved" me were all very very popular on the board here.
Many peoples atf, I know I might sound like I'm bullshitting but whatever's.
The first one happened about 10 years ago.
I think she was the first one that let me bbfscip that didn't work at Kison or chm.
After my first couple visits, we went out on a date and she slept over.
After that, every time I visited her she would never charge me.
I didn't think anything of it, just that she liked me and let me fuck for free.
One time she was feeling sick and I came to visit her work place and tried to fuck her while she wasn't feeling good. LOL, after that if was over and never saw heard or saw her for a while.
Ran into her a few years after and she told me she was in love with me that time. I was like WTF?!
I was really young back then so never gave it much thought.
My recent ones I won't go into much detail, but believe me just because they are working girl doesn't mean they are all the same.
Some of them are good people. But the one thing I found surprising amongst these girls are the level of insecurity and jealousy they have. You would assume with so many guys in love with them and what they do for work they would be more understanding but I think because of how many of their customers are married / in relationships that they fear being cheated on after giving their love to someone very badly.
Sometimes I feel like I'm living the life with them, sometimes I'm asking myself "how did I get myself into this" (both good and bad).