The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

I've been getting the a lot lately. I think they just pick a name off Google Maps of Jax. My favorite is a couple which have said Windy Hill, which is the Town Center / Tinseltown area. Who from Jax is going to call that area Windy Hill. There is also the generic "Downtown" which is almost always a fake.

Another sign of a fake is they add you on Snap and their "Snap score" is only double digits indicating they most likely just made the account.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;6142549]They also place their location in a specific area in Jax, which nobody does if they are from here. And I'm not talking like "Murry Hill" or "Ortega". I'm talking "Sans Souci" and "Miramar" and many others. I've had to look them up. I'm guessing whatever browser they are using over in Dier Village.[/QUOTE]

Hi all.

This one looks pretty damn sexy, talks a good game, but seems a little too eager.

I'm thinking about meeting up with her but thought I'd run her by here first for an Intel Check.

Anyone know her or had experience?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ff6b94c0-6338-4fc0-b6ff-da326cf185eb[/URL]

I reviewed her in post 5500.

I also saw her once more around six months ago. Very transactional and wanting me to buy her food afterwards. She had definitely put on weight and possibly pregnant. I also notice she seems to pop back up every few weeks / month under a different profile.

I would pass especially if she still has gps, but I also know things are slow right now.

[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;6157982]Hi all.

This one looks pretty damn sexy, talks a good game, but seems a little too eager.

I'm thinking about meeting up with her but thought I'd run her by here first for an Intel Check.

Anyone know her or had experience?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ff6b94c0-6338-4fc0-b6ff-da326cf185eb[/URL][/QUOTE]

OK -- these two are 99.999999% likely fakes -- but they did respond to me wanting to "chat". Anybody else interacted with them?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ab0edf12-0bbb-4269-818c-39d70bf08f20[/URL]

The red head is definitely real. She tagged along on a meet and greet I had with a different friend of hers. I am supposed to have a private meet with the friend the week after next. I wish the brunette would have been the tag along, I would have definitely been working the 3 some.

[QUOTE=KDoogie;6159794]OK -- these two are 99.999999% likely fakes -- but they did respond to me wanting to "chat". Anybody else interacted with them?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ab0edf12-0bbb-4269-818c-39d70bf08f20[/URL][/QUOTE]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1f507519-ceed-401f-835f-d5e68e98a742[/URL]

Supposed to have a meet and greet in Arlington tomorrow (Wednesday) -- does anybody know her?

[QUOTE=KDoogie;6164819][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1f507519-ceed-401f-835f-d5e68e98a742[/URL]

Supposed to have a meet and greet in Arlington tomorrow (Wednesday) -- does anybody know her?[/QUOTE]Did you meet her? I am currently talking to her.

Cassy Humblebee blocked me on SA shortly after moving to text. I don't know her intent but my guess is the block is to prevent a negative feedback later. When I called her out on it she claimed she disabled her account but it was active from an alternative SA login. Regardless, those games aren't worth my time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/56ad15e6-8c53-4988-b5d8-422504226703[/URL]

Anyone have any experience with SunshineEli?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b17b46a5-b958-4d2c-8ba9-3d77508a9a02[/URL]

Sorry to come on with my hand out, which I hate doing, but any experiences would be appreciated as I'm deep in discussions with her.

EndearingRocker's second message to me was "Where are you from, where do you live, and where are you now?

I offered a DNA sample.

"She" claimed to just wanting information on each other.

Don't waste your time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6c6ee581-bd93-422b-927f-d7efc935d44b[/URL]

[QUOTE=PicHunter;6187735]EndearingRocker's second message to me was "Where are you from, where do you live, and where are you now?

I offered a DNA sample.

"She" claimed to just wanting information on each other.

Don't waste your time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6c6ee581-bd93-422b-927f-d7efc935d44b[/URL][/QUOTE]"She" will pop up with different profiles and in different cities. I'm not sure about the nature of the scam- but it definitely is.

[QUOTE=RickDugan;6186043]Anyone have any experience with SunshineEli?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b17b46a5-b958-4d2c-8ba9-3d77508a9a02[/URL]

Sorry to come on with my hand out, which I hate doing, but any experiences would be appreciated as I'm deep in discussions with her.[/QUOTE]She claims to be a pro domme. Ask her to verify. If she's legit, that shouldn't be too hard.

I'm suspicious of a 24-year old pro domme claiming years of experience, but hey, weirder things have happened.

[QUOTE=PervNerd48;6188556]She claims to be a pro domme. Ask her to verify. If she's legit, that shouldn't be too hard.

I'm suspicious of a 24-year old pro domme claiming years of experience, but hey, weirder things have happened.[/QUOTE]She is not what I would call a handsome woman.

Met this one for a meet and greet. Was cute and seemed normal. Gave a small donation for the m&g to show I was serious. We set up a regular meeting, but she wound up pushing it back by a day at first, and then ghosted me completely. Don't bother with that one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/10a3a07a-02f5-400d-b905-1d4aa0e1cadb[/URL]

[QUOTE=BTC13;6189541]Met this one for a meet and greet. Was cute and seemed normal. Gave a small donation for the m&g to show I was serious. We set up a regular meeting, but she wound up pushing it back by a day at first, and then ghosted me completely. Don't bother with that one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/10a3a07a-02f5-400d-b905-1d4aa0e1cadb[/URL][/QUOTE]Why would you ever pay anything for a Meet and Greet?!

That doesn't show you are serious.

If they give you "well it's for my time". Guess what- it's your time too. And whose time do you think is worth more?

A M&G is just that, if they are interested it will happen or not- no reason to pay anything.

[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;6189747]Why would you ever pay anything for a Meet and Greet?!

That doesn't show you are serious.

If they give you "well it's for my time". Guess what- it's your time too. And whose time do you think is worth more?

A M&G is just that, if they are interested it will happen or not- no reason to pay anything.[/QUOTE]I paid a small amount that I was willing to risk to see if it worked out. A small fraction of what I paid to get on Seeking in the first place. It's not really much different than getting lap dances without knowing your expectations or trying a new MP to see what is available. It wasn't like her account on seeking was created the day before, and when she showed up she was definitely the girl in the photos she had sent me. Bad choice in retrospect, but in this hobby sometimes you take chances.

Bre probably just likes attention and will waste your time. I found her social media so think she's a real local but I don't think she has any intent beyond you sending her money. Lots of pics and they're cute.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5edcf0a8-7dd9-44ae-9c8c-82bb0a28021a[/URL]

WarmHottie asks personal questions like if you're married or why your using a burner phone number even though "she" is too. Also seems to really want pics of your face. I'm pretty certain she is going to lead to a extort / blackmail attempt.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33da25c0-1f1b-4835-bfb7-f24790da73c7[/URL]

[QUOTE=BTC13;6190272]I paid a small amount that I was willing to risk to see if it worked out. A small fraction of what I paid to get on Seeking in the first place. It's not really much different than getting lap dances without knowing your expectations or trying a new MP to see what is available. It wasn't like her account on seeking was created the day before, and when she showed up she was definitely the girl in the photos she had sent me. Bad choice in retrospect, but in this hobby sometimes you take chances.[/QUOTE]I'm no longer in the sugar game, but I regularly did the same as you. The way I see it, these ladies are putting up with a lot of BS, especially from low-brow mongers who are just looking for a quick lay. By the time I got them thru my own screening process and actually got time to meet with them in person, I figure that was a gift to me, so I chose to give to them in a tangible way. No, that didn't always guarantee a 2nd meet, but I usually didn't walk away feeling like I wasted my time. Besides, I truly enjoyed just having a casual date with a pretty young lady. I don't expect much agreement from many users on a monger site, but I'd hope that's why this discussion is in a separate forum from those expecting a BJ for $40.

[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;6190519]I'm no longer in the sugar game, but I regularly did the same as you. The way I see it, these ladies are putting up with a lot of BS, especially from low-brow mongers who are just looking for a quick lay. By the time I got them thru my own screening process and actually got time to meet with them in person, I figure that was a gift to me, so I chose to give to them in a tangible way. No, that didn't always guarantee a 2nd meet, but I usually didn't walk away feeling like I wasted my time. Besides, I truly enjoyed just having a casual date with a pretty young lady. I don't expect much agreement from many users on a monger site, but I'd hope that's why this discussion is in a separate forum from those expecting a BJ for $40.[/QUOTE]I think I'm coming from the knowledge that there are a lot of chicks on here that just want a free dinner and some pocket money with no intentions of ever going any further with other developed plans and allowances. If you are OK paying a young chick to sit with you while you buy her dinner then that's fine- more power to you. To me it reminds me of the joke about the kid who was so homely that the family had to tie a porkchop around his neck to get the family dog to play with him. I can't get past that myself.

[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;6190761]I think I'm coming from the knowledge that there are a lot of chicks on here that just want a free dinner and some pocket money with no intentions of ever going any further with other developed plans and allowances. If you are OK paying a young chick to sit with you while you buy her dinner then that's fine- more power to you. To me it reminds me of the joke about the kid who was so homely that the family had to tie a porkchop around his neck to get the family dog to play with him. I can't get past that myself.[/QUOTE]I think of it more as what goals you really have in the hobby. I've been doing this for too many years to be content getting lowball deals with average looking women for routine experiences. I'm trying to find extraordinary experiences that are much harder to come across. So I'm not choking up on the bat to hit singles, I'm taking big swings that sometimes lead to strikeouts, but also generate home runs. So a girl on seeking that sends me a price and asks when we can meet up in the first few message interests me less than the one that you have to work a bit harder for, but in the end the experience is something much more enjoyable.

[QUOTE=BTC13;6191122]I think of it more as what goals you really have in the hobby. I've been doing this for too many years to be content getting lowball deals with average looking women for routine experiences. I'm trying to find extraordinary experiences that are much harder to come across. So I'm not choking up on the bat to hit singles, I'm taking big swings that sometimes lead to strikeouts, but also generate home runs. So a girl on seeking that sends me a price and asks when we can meet up in the first few message interests me less than the one that you have to work a bit harder for, but in the end the experience is something much more enjoyable.[/QUOTE]Whatever. You are rewarding the wrong behavior. I am curious how often this works out in your favor. I am guessing not very.

[QUOTE=BTC13;6191122]I think of it more as what goals you really have in the hobby. I've been doing this for too many years to be content getting lowball deals with average looking women for routine experiences. I'm trying to find extraordinary experiences that are much harder to come across. So I'm not choking up on the bat to hit singles, I'm taking big swings that sometimes lead to strikeouts, but also generate home runs. So a girl on seeking that sends me a price and asks when we can meet up in the first few message interests me less than the one that you have to work a bit harder for, but in the end the experience is something much more enjoyable.[/QUOTE]You probably sent $ to a dude. Plus she didn't even show her face on her profile. I can understand if you're like really ugly and need to send $ in order to get a M&G, but you seem to know the unwritten (but always posted) rule about sending $. You still did it and I bet you wasn't that much surprised when she ghosted ya. I'm surprised that you admitted doing it.

1. If you send $ first, they will then ghost ya.

2. If you bust a nut first, then you will ghost them.

FriendlyGirl wants 1 K, might take. 8 . Less friendly when you reuse her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/048ca3c2-adc0-472c-afa4-b3ea9532d498[/URL]

[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;6193446]Whatever. You are rewarding the wrong behavior. I am curious how often this works out in your favor. I am guessing not very.[/QUOTE]I haven't been on seeking in a couple years because my life just hasn't left much time for it; but when I was spending time on there, my approach echoed BTC's and I wouldn't change a thing. He's not rewarding the wrong behavior, he's pursuing the course that gets him what he wants. There's more than one way to skin a cat; and just because it's not yours doesn't make it wrong. There's a lot of unsolicited, yet oddly specific, advice on here about people should run their game. If you're getting what you want out of it, then it's not wrong.

[QUOTE=Sparkish;6194452]I haven't been on seeking in a couple years because my life just hasn't left much time for it; but when I was spending time on there, my approach echoed BTC's and I wouldn't change a thing. He's not rewarding the wrong behavior, he's pursuing the course that gets him what he wants. There's more than one way to skin a cat; and just because it's not yours doesn't make it wrong. There's a lot of unsolicited, yet oddly specific, advice on here about people should run their game. If you're getting what you want out of it, then it's not wrong.[/QUOTE]I agree with you- and definitely not trying to tell anybody what to do. Whatever a person is good with for them- more power to them! I originally made the comment because I don't think its necessary to pay somebody for a meet and greet. Drinks and / or lunch or dinner is plenty generous and that will be sufficient for truly interested chicks. The other concern is that paying them merely to meet in situations that go no further just cultivate the expectation of $ to meet (with no further intent) as a hobby among these girls.

[QUOTE=PicHunter;6194238]FriendlyGirl wants 1 K, might take. 8 . Less friendly when you reuse her.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/048ca3c2-adc0-472c-afa4-b3ea9532d498[/URL][/QUOTE]Her opener with me was $800. I politely told her no thanks and made no counter-offer.

Subforyou wants cash for gas before heading your way. Boasted about just getting paid 400 by someone else. Even if that was the case, she should have been cashed up enough to get her gas on her way over.

Also, given the pic she sent me, I think that there have been quite a few miles since sunflower pic was taken.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0ba8af14-f50a-4f30-a17f-4fd7b9f14e7c[/URL]

[QUOTE=Sicilly;6194181]You probably sent $ to a dude. Plus she didn't even show her face on her profile. I can understand if you're like really ugly and need to send $ in order to get a M&G, but you seem to know the unwritten (but always posted) rule about sending $. You still did it and I bet you wasn't that much surprised when she ghosted ya. I'm surprised that you admitted doing it.

1. If you send $ first, they will then ghost ya.

2. If you bust a nut first, then you will ghost them.[/QUOTE]I'm pretty sure it wasn't a dude because I put the cash straight into her hand. I'm not the type that will cashapp someone so that they can get their power back on or for gas money because they want to visit me from Ocala.

I really just posted the original report to help you all know to avoid that one. If you all think my methods stink and want to criticize whatever, just don't be condescending.

[QUOTE=BTC13;6196950]I'm pretty sure it wasn't a dude because I put the cash straight into her hand. I'm not the type that will cashapp someone so that they can get their power back on or for gas money because they want to visit me from Ocala.

I really just posted the original report to help you all know to avoid that one. If you all think my methods stink and want to criticize whatever, just don't be condescending.[/QUOTE]And her profile is gone which just shows she is full of crap and a scammer. I am not being condescending but I will double down on my opinion that you should not be paying for meet a greets. Word gets around and they will all expect that.

[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;6197384]And her profile is gone which just shows she is full of crap and a scammer. I am not being condescending but I will double down on my opinion that you should not be paying for meet a greets. Word gets around and they will all expect that.[/QUOTE]FunMiss is still up for me. Likely blocked you Rugger.

Regardless, everyone's game has their own rules and goals and that's okay.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/10a3a07a-02f5-400d-b905-1d4aa0e1cadb[/URL]

[QUOTE=Sparkish;6194452] If you're getting what you want out of it, then it's not wrong.[/QUOTE]But he didn't, hence the SMH posts. Yes, if he or you want to waste your money then sure, go for it, if it works then good on ya, but we all know it usually doesn't work.

[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;6197384]And her profile is gone which just shows she is full of crap and a scammer. I am not being condescending but I will double down on my opinion that you should not be paying for meet a greets. Word gets around and they will all expect that.[/QUOTE]They have already made up their minds what they expect before you even reach out to them. Last night a woman in Orlando told me that she typically gets $600-800 per meet and doesn't host. Just because I passed at that level doesn't mean that she is going to stop asking for that much, because she probably has gotten that much before. I'm not going to hate on the guy who paid her that much either though because we all have our own budgets and desires. And even if I never paid for a meet and greet, others will so it's not going to stop them from requesting it.

[QUOTE=BTC13;6196950]I'm pretty sure it wasn't a dude because I put the cash straight into her hand. I'm not the type that will cashapp someone so that they can get their power back on or for gas money because they want to visit me from Ocala.

I really just posted the original report to help you all know to avoid that one. If you all think my methods stink and want to criticize whatever, just don't be condescending.[/QUOTE]LOL, I'm sure our "condescending" posts didn't really bother you. Its a known fact that giving $ for a M&G will only get you the meet&greet. If even that. Nobody will change anyone's mind that offering $ for a M&G will lead to anything more. Not going to happen. I do not think you did the M&G to TOFTT, even tho you posted it. If you are old, fat, ugly or just a stupid moron with halitosis and BO then yeah, I can see having to pay for a M $G, but once they see you then its game over. IF on the other hand you're halfway good looking like me, then its a free M $G and they usually will want to go further.

P.S. I've ghosted more chicks I've done a M&G with than they've ghosted me. Those friggn filters piss me off to no end.

What is the best suger site for a long time legit arrangement? I'm asking for a man I work for?

I can't remember the one I used. Maybe it was adult dried finder. I don't believe so.

Looking for the popular one that men had to pay to join.

Ty.

Be safe.

[QUOTE=Ginger1013;6197780]What is the best suger site for a long time legit arrangement?[/QUOTE]Not sure you're real but sites that sell credits for engagement are motivated to have time wasting profiles so you spend credits each time you attempt to engage.

As for an arrangement lasting, that's not site specific, it's between you and her and how well you manage the relationship as the boss.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;6197656]LOL, I'm sure our "condescending" posts didn't really bother you. Its a known fact that giving $ for a M&G will only get you the meet&greet. If even that. Nobody will change anyone's mind that offering $ for a M&G will lead to anything more. Not going to happen. I do not think you did the M&G to TOFTT, even tho you posted it. If you are old, fat, ugly or just a stupid moron with halitosis and BO then yeah, I can see having to pay for a M $G, but once they see you then its game over. IF on the other hand you're halfway good looking like me, then its a free M $G and they usually will want to go further.

P.S. I've ghosted more chicks I've done a M&G with than they've ghosted me. Those friggn filters piss me off to no end.[/QUOTE]Yeah the filters and misleading pictures are insane. Went to meet a girl the other day. She said she was at the end of the bar. Looked like maybe it was her mother instead. I just kept walking. Had no idea how else to handle it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3867aa3e-1012-48ac-8441-2e1846a73eba[/URL]

Wants 50% deposit. Same old I have been scammed before story.

[QUOTE=RuggerForFun;6198275]Yeah the filters and misleading pictures are insane. Went to meet a girl the other day. She said she was at the end of the bar. Looked like maybe it was her mother instead. I just kept walking. Had no idea how else to handle it.[/QUOTE]Had a girl show up for a meet & greet at a thai place for lunch, she was 5'5 & over 300 lbs. ***** even got desert on my dime.

BrightBelle wholesome (near) professional pics, don't think she's real. Didn't try to scam me but don't think she'll ever meet you. Waste of time for me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33f3b688-bb0f-4a4e-ab3f-0a71ef3d1a15[/URL]