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My subscription expired a while ago but over the past week I have continued to receive a few text messages from SBs who I had given my number to on SA. I've sent out hundreds of msgs in the past three months and obviously I do not recall who I sent my number to, their name, username, details?

My issue is this. I get a lot of these texts that go like "hi, I'm Cindy from SA" . I will of course log into SA and try to search for a Cindy but in all likelihood I will not find a Cindy in my SA inbox. When I reply back with some niceties and then politely ask them to remind of of their user name. As soon as I ask, most of these girls ghost me! I'm not kidding its like 70-80% never reply back.

I get it. They probably feel *unspecial* because I don't remember their face / username / anything about them (even though they respond back days after I may have given my number) . But c'mon.

So wise men of SA. How do you turn this around? Do you deal with similar issues? What is the best way to keep the convo going? Which I would love to because if I had given my number to them means we at least had some conversation on SA and I liked the pics enough to want to chat more.

Just be chat with them, and ask them to share a pic. Just tell them a lot of girls catfish on the site. Hopefully, you can figure out who it is base on the pic.

[QUOTE=HeyDuhman;5336269]My subscription expired a while ago but over the past week I have continued to receive a few text messages from SBs who I had given my number to on SA. I've sent out hundreds of msgs in the past three months and obviously I do not recall who I sent my number to, their name, username, details?

My issue is this. I get a lot of these texts that go like "hi, I'm Cindy from SA" . I will of course log into SA and try to search for a Cindy but in all likelihood I will not find a Cindy in my SA inbox. When I reply back with some niceties and then politely ask them to remind of of their user name. As soon as I ask, most of these girls ghost me! I'm not kidding its like 70-80% never reply back.

I get it. They probably feel *unspecial* because I don't remember their face / username / anything about them (even though they respond back days after I may have given my number) . But c'mon.

So wise men of SA. How do you turn this around? Do you deal with similar issues? What is the best way to keep the convo going? Which I would love to because if I had given my number to them means we at least had some conversation on SA and I liked the pics enough to want to chat more.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Silk3434;5336262][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8df3c3b3-263f-4e97-bdf2-597d4c03e2d0[/URL]

Wants $100 cashapp to prove you are for real. How has she been on the site since 2018?[/QUOTE]No go! Plus she says she's a college student in Texas. I know remote classes are common, but is she even in the DMV?

[QUOTE=HeyDuhman;5336269]My subscription expired a while ago but over the past week I have continued to receive a few text messages from SBs who I had given my number to on SA. I've sent out hundreds of msgs in the past three months and obviously I do not recall who I sent my number to, their name, username, details?

My issue is this. I get a lot of these texts that go like "hi, I'm Cindy from SA" . I will of course log into SA and try to search for a Cindy but in all likelihood I will not find a Cindy in my SA inbox. When I reply back with some niceties and then politely ask them to remind of of their user name. As soon as I ask, most of these girls ghost me! I'm not kidding its like 70-80% never reply back.

I get it. They probably feel *unspecial* because I don't remember their face / username / anything about them (even though they respond back days after I may have given my number) . But c'mon.

So wise men of SA. How do you turn this around? Do you deal with similar issues? What is the best way to keep the convo going? Which I would love to because if I had given my number to them means we at least had some conversation on SA and I liked the pics enough to want to chat more.[/QUOTE]I'm not sure all the unidentified texts are from someone who is or was on SA. I have a feeing that some SBs or scammers share your number. You could get a message from a friend of a friend of a friend.

[QUOTE=DickLongwood;5336824]I'm not sure all the unidentified texts are from someone who is or was on SA. I have a feeing that some SBs or scammers share your number. You could get a message from a friend of a friend of a friend.[/QUOTE]I know exactly who I have given my number to on SA, and I get messages from time to time from girls claiming they met me on SA. It's all a scam, I'm sure they trade numbers just like we do. I don't even reply if I don't get a message with a screen name.

[QUOTE=FogHorn1;5336845]I know exactly who I have given my number to on SA, and I get messages from time to time from girls claiming they met me on SA. It's all a scam, I'm sure they trade numbers just like we do. I don't even reply if I don't get a message with a screen name.[/QUOTE]If she doesn't include her screen name, she's being rude at best and deceptive at worst. Don't worry--you aren't missing anything!

So my buddy heard some news that seeking is trending on tictok and broke girls are signing up for quick cash. Sounds good until you realize that they are underage girls joining the site and setting up traps. Buddy heard some are cops and others are just blackmailing guys with threats to tell the cops. Also there is scammers on there collecting information on guys for public projects. My friend has left the site and also heard the site is collecting information on guys. Ya'll might want to get off and cancel accounts too. Just sharing a heads up before stuff goes down.

[QUOTE=GAGuy2020;5337288]So my buddy heard some news that seeking is trending on tictok and broke girls are signing up for quick cash. Sounds good until you realize that they are underage girls joining the site and setting up traps. Buddy heard some are cops and others are just blackmailing guys with threats to tell the cops. Also there is scammers on there collecting information on guys for public projects. My friend has left the site and also heard the site is collecting information on guys. Ya'll might want to get off and cancel accounts too. Just sharing a heads up before stuff goes down.[/QUOTE]It's well known that there are a few popular TikTok creators with hundreds of thousands of followers that are making content saying how easy it is to get money from guys on seeking without ever actually meeting them. There has been an influx of young girls but it's pretty easy to spot them and block them. As far as LEO, it's hard to say how involved they are in seeking at this point. There has been a lot of negative press about seeking recently so I'm sure their eyes are browsing however I personally don't think it's a problem. Do your due diligence and vet the girl you're going to see. There are fool proof ways to make sure that you're not walking into a trap. I learned the hard way last year that there are underage girls on seeking. Just be careful, be smart and if a girl isn't willing to prove that she's 18+ and not LEO then move on to the next one.

I've seen her under a previous profile. Anyone with recent experience? You can PM if you want. Just wondering if she's still DTF.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/978fb615-10d6-4721-adf9-257623a2917e[/URL]

[QUOTE=GAGuy2020;5337288]... Also there is scammers on there collecting information on guys for public projects...[/QUOTE]There is / was a girl on SA posting as Sarah something or other. A handful of guys mentioned they had chatted with her but no one met her. After some digging another monger found her to be a reporter at a local (MD) TV station, plenty of videos online of her reporting live local news events in MD. I was concerned right away that she might be doing some sort of story about seeking. So many people had talked to her, yet no one ever meet her the story angle made sense. Or she just liked to be chased, plenty of those on there too. She never asked for inappropriate pics or anything but she could dirty text with the best of them and had some interesting kinks. This was 9 months or so ago.

[QUOTE=Silk3434;5336262][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8df3c3b3-263f-4e97-bdf2-597d4c03e2d0[/URL]

Wants $100 cashapp to prove you are for real. How has she been on the site since 2018?[/QUOTE]She was aggressive. Chatted me up and asked straight away what in wanted. When she says that men on here are not serious about meeting, I blocked her.

I don't think it's LEO but girls setting up blackmail and traps. The problem is there is eyes on it and people collecting information. Big red flags and getting more active now than ever. Be safe!

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;5337564]It's well known that there are a few popular TikTok creators with hundreds of thousands of followers that are making content saying how easy it is to get money from guys on seeking without ever actually meeting them. There has been an influx of young girls but it's pretty easy to spot them and block them. As far as LEO, it's hard to say how involved they are in seeking at this point. There has been a lot of negative press about seeking recently so I'm sure their eyes are browsing however I personally don't think it's a problem. Do your due diligence and vet the girl you're going to see. There are fool proof ways to make sure that you're not walking into a trap. I learned the hard way last year that there are underage girls on seeking. Just be careful, be smart and if a girl isn't willing to prove that she's 18+ and not LEO then move on to the next one.[/QUOTE]

Hi there! Longtime lurker, first time poster. Time for me to give back. This one is the real deal. She has been my goto and only girl throughout covid.

She has hosted me at her medical office in Dupont scores of times, and we have even played in my car in the Days Inn parking lot in Van Ness.

She gives amazing BBBJCIM with lots of spit and swallow.

The floor below is always soaked after. I've gone down on her too (once in the women's bathroom on her office floor! Risky and hot) and she tastes and smells great.

We haven't fucked, my choice not hers.

350 a pop for bomb-ass oral, which, as she hosts, I consider a hell of a deal. I will keep seeing her but I thought I should spread the wealth.

Enjoy gents!

DM me for any other details.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bb7ffbff-81b0-465e-869e-26887089f315[/URL]

Continuing the trend of giving back.

This one is real too! I had a hotel from the previous night with a sb in Georgetown so I thought what the hell, I have the room till 12 noon, let me see if I can add a second nut to my tally.

I contacted this girl and it was a bit complicated to set up but I agreed to 300 plus 40 for ubers from Arlington.

She showed up looking exactly like her pics. Hot, but not rail skinny, Asian with a totally sultry look.

This was way before vaccines and I was being really careful so I specified just a hand job with both of our masks on.

Turns out she works at Target and her store had a bunch of covid cases so I am glad I was careful.

Very little small talk, I pulled my cock out and she started jerking it, and unexpectedly she took her top off and jacked me off all over her ample tits!

Bonus!

On her way out she offered to fuck me raw next time as "I get tested for STDs every three months with my depo shot".

Enjoy!

DM with any questions.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e782d787-d86b-404f-8964-7bb38df4b380[/URL]

[QUOTE=Sexcg;5343552]...We haven't fucked, my choice not hers.

350 a pop for bomb-ass oral, which, as she hosts, I consider a hell of a deal. I will keep seeing her but I thought I should spread the wealth.[/QUOTE]So let me get this straight, you think getting a BJ for 350 is hell of a deal.

No thanks, perhaps others might think of it as a hell of a deal.

[QUOTE=Sexcg;5343919]Continuing the trend of giving back.

This one is real too! I had a hotel from the previous night with a sb in Georgetown so I thought what the hell, I have the room till 12 noon, let me see if I can add a second nut to my tally.

I contacted this girl and it was a bit complicated to set up but I agreed to 300 plus 40 for ubers from Arlington.

She showed up looking exactly like her pics. Hot, but not rail skinny, Asian with a totally sultry look.

This was way before vaccines and I was being really careful so I specified just a hand job with both of our masks on.[/QUOTE]Appreciate the insight. But why are you paying $300 for hand jobs?

[QUOTE=SexCg;5343919]Continuing the trend of giving back.

This one is real too! I had a hotel from the previous night with a sb in Georgetown so I thought what the hell, I have the room till 12 noon, let me see if I can add a second nut to my tally.

I contacted this girl and it was a bit complicated to set up but I agreed to 300 plus 40 for ubers from Arlington.

She showed up looking exactly like her pics. Hot, but not rail skinny, Asian with a totally sultry look.

This was way before vaccines and I was being really careful so I specified just a hand job with both of our masks on.

Turns out she works at Target and her store had a bunch of covid cases so I am glad I was careful.

Very little small talk, I pulled my cock out and she started jerking it, and unexpectedly she took her top off and jacked me off all over her ample tits!

Bonus!

On her way out she offered to fuck me raw next time as "I get tested for STDs every three months with my depo shot".

Enjoy!

DM with any questions.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e782d787-d86b-404f-8964-7bb38df4b380[/URL][/QUOTE]Three bills for a HJ?!

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[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/490635b6-a3ea-4c4b-b8dd-f5ee51b55545[/URL]

Been chatting it up with this lady. Does anyone have any intel on her?

I spent a night in a DC hotel w her during Christmas holidays. We got shitfaced. Met on tinder. It was a date so no pay...

[QUOTE=Dimples572;5327070]Anyone have any info on her? I feel like I've seen her pics before under a different profile. We're supposed to hook up tomorrow for a nooner, just curious if anyone's got any info. If so please send a PM. Thanks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/69a77ef2-94a0-45b2-8bd2-72174416bf07[/URL][/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=FlashLidar;5344939][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/490635b6-a3ea-4c4b-b8dd-f5ee51b55545[/URL]

Been chatting it up with this lady. Does anyone have any intel on her?[/QUOTE]I recall chatting with her last year and was really expensive.

Claimed guys were giving her huge allowances, taking her on trips shopping etc.

[QUOTE=SexCg;5343919]Continuing the trend of giving back.

This one is real too! I had a hotel from the previous night with a sb in Georgetown so I thought what the hell, I have the room till 12 noon, let me see if I can add a second nut to my tally.

I contacted this girl and it was a bit complicated to set up but I agreed to 300 plus 40 for ubers from Arlington.

She showed up looking exactly like her pics. Hot, but not rail skinny, Asian with a totally sultry look.

This was way before vaccines and I was being really careful so I specified just a hand job with both of our masks on.

Turns out she works at Target and her store had a bunch of covid cases so I am glad I was careful.[/QUOTE]Linked up with her this week on SA and move to text. She tells me she is expensive up front. Her pics seemed interesting, not model material but definitely unique so I kept an open mind. She then stated she wanted 5 bills. That's in my range if certain criteria are met and number one is no protection for 500. I asked her if she was open to that and she responded and I quote: "Haha. Who has unprotected sex on this site? You must be crazy. LOL".

I then responded that just about every single SB I have ever had arrangement with and she then responds and I quote again: "Never would I ever have unprotected sex for $500 LOL. That's all that I know.

I then responded that she should try her luck on escort sites and that set her off. She then called me broke, poor, how I should stop stealing from my wife's retirement (I'm not even married LOL) etc etc.

I'm my opinion an obvious pro so beware. Probably makes sense that she got 300 for a HJ so now she thinks that's the going rate. Ugh.

[QUOTE=FlashLidar;5344939][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/490635b6-a3ea-4c4b-b8dd-f5ee51b55545[/URL]

Been chatting it up with this lady. Does anyone have any intel on her?[/QUOTE]Without question the most entitled C I've ever interacted with on SA. Insists on meeting without exchanging phone numbers (I won't do that) and only at 5 star restaurants. Will also not discuss allowance expectations until you "at least treat me to the meal I deserve" I didn't respond after that and she got nasty. Good luck, she's hot and all but no way I'm dropping 5 star restaurant meals on someone on the first meeting. I'm ok to buy drinks or something if it's a local M&G but several hundo plus drive time to the 5 star of her choice is a HARD pass for me.

Anyone else run into problems getting the "Viewed Me" tab to actually load? I suppose it could be VPN-related, but I doubt it.

Was chatting with this one earlier this week. Everything was smooth sailing until she requested $$$ upfront before meeting in person. I'm not sure but my Spidey sense say this could be a potential scam.
I end the discussion there sorry no longer interested. Have a nice day.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8a6681ff-1f1a-4ea7-b773-68691dcc15b5[/URL]

Mid 20's. Thai. Alexandria area.

Trying to get in contact with her any details on her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b812c70e-c300-4309-bb30-222e94c95f79[/URL]

Got this one on text. She is seeking $700 per meet. Sorry not in my range. I'm not sure but what about her say I'm worth $700 per meet?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b6f76f12-0848-4279-b21f-e24b3314fdda[/URL]

[QUOTE=Tophat31;5345315]Linked up with her this week on SA and move to text. She tells me she is expensive up front. Her pics seemed interesting, not model material but definitely unique so I kept an open mind. She then stated she wanted 5 bills. That's in my range if certain criteria are met and number one is no protection for 500. I asked her if she was open to that and she responded and I quote: "Haha. Who has unprotected sex on this site? You must be crazy. LOL".

I then responded that just about every single SB I have ever had arrangement with and she then responds and I quote again: "Never would I ever have unprotected sex for $500 LOL. That's all that I know.

I then responded that she should try her luck on escort sites and that set her off. She then called me broke, poor, how I should stop stealing from my wife's retirement (I'm not even married LOL) etc etc.

I'm my opinion an obvious pro so beware. Probably makes sense that she got 300 for a HJ so now she thinks that's the going rate. Ugh.[/QUOTE]As the guy I prefer raw but defer to my SB on what they prefer. But from the SB perspective, I would never go raw with any guy I met on SA. Not at least until a relationship has been established. I would trust no one.

[QUOTE=FogHorn1;5345504]Without question the most entitled C I've ever interacted with on SA. Insists on meeting without exchanging phone numbers (I won't do that) and only at 5 star restaurants. Will also not discuss allowance expectations until you "at least treat me to the meal I deserve" I didn't respond after that and she got nasty. Good luck, she's hot and all but no way I'm dropping 5 star restaurant meals on someone on the first meeting. I'm ok to buy drinks or something if it's a local M&G but several hundo plus drive time to the 5 star of her choice is a HARD pass for me.[/QUOTE]Ty FogHorn. I'm going to pass on her, too. Seems way too gps for my liking.

The trend of offering a crazy number has to stop. It alters expectations and puts most out of reach, depending on what the limit is. I've met a few for coffee to test the waters / chemistry, at their request, before setting up something at a later time. I'd never go blind to Joes or Ruths Chris. Don't have the time to invest in that.

[QUOTE=FogHorn1;5345504]Without question the most entitled C I've ever interacted with on SA. Insists on meeting without exchanging phone numbers (I won't do that) and only at 5 star restaurants. Will also not discuss allowance expectations until you "at least treat me to the meal I deserve" I didn't respond after that and she got nasty. Good luck, she's hot and all but no way I'm dropping 5 star restaurant meals on someone on the first meeting. I'm ok to buy drinks or something if it's a local M&G but several hundo plus drive time to the 5 star of her choice is a HARD pass for me.[/QUOTE]

This one is real but is asking for a 8 $ - 1 K $ for a PPM. If it was a month ago before I was robed, maybe, but not at this time. Good luck to those high rollers out there!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4e1e87e7-0122-43cb-baba-f54315a823bf[/URL]

[QUOTE=Itfcd;5345888]Anyone else run into problems getting the "Viewed Me" tab to actually load? I suppose it could be VPN-related, but I doubt it.[/QUOTE]Been that way for the past week or so for me as well.

[QUOTE=FogHorn1;5345504]Without question the most entitled C I've ever interacted with on SA. Insists on meeting without exchanging phone numbers (I won't do that) and only at 5 star restaurants. Will also not discuss allowance expectations until you "at least treat me to the meal I deserve" I didn't respond after that and she got nasty. Good luck, she's hot and all but no way I'm dropping 5 star restaurant meals on someone on the first meeting. I'm ok to buy drinks or something if it's a local M&G but several hundo plus drive time to the 5 star of her choice is a HARD pass for me.[/QUOTE]She gave me her number but you are correct sir, she is a huge C you Next Tuesday. She's got a kid so she's unable to meet certain days. She wants to be wined and dined and taken shopping. Doesn't like small talk and wants to get quickly to the point. We haven't met yet but it's in the works. If it ever happens I'll report back. I'm intrigued by her. I'm a glutton for punishment. LOL.

She pretty much states she is GPS in her profile, so it shouldn't come as a surprise if it did

[QUOTE=FogHorn1;5345504]Without question the most entitled C I've ever interacted with on SA. Insists on meeting without exchanging phone numbers (I won't do that) and only at 5 star restaurants. Will also not discuss allowance expectations until you "at least treat me to the meal I deserve" I didn't respond after that and she got nasty. Good luck, she's hot and all but no way I'm dropping 5 star restaurant meals on someone on the first meeting. I'm ok to buy drinks or something if it's a local M&G but several hundo plus drive time to the 5 star of her choice is a HARD pass for me.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=BStreet;5346630]She pretty much states she is GPS in her profile, so it shouldn't come as a surprise if it did.[/QUOTE]But that ass of her had me at least needing to find out. LOL I'd also add that GPS and being a total C are different categories. I've talked to others that have asked for over 1 k per meet and when I've declined it was a no hard feelings sort of end to the communication. This one actually gets super nasty, name calling, etc. I don't believe for a second her stories of being taken on expensive trips and the rest of the BS she claims "real" SD are doing. She went on and on with me about that too, after I stopped responding.

[QUOTE=FogHorn1;5345504]Without question the most entitled C I've ever interacted with on SA. Insists on meeting without exchanging phone numbers (I won't do that) and only at 5 star restaurants. Will also not discuss allowance expectations until you "at least treat me to the meal I deserve" I didn't respond after that and she got nasty. Good luck, she's hot and all but no way I'm dropping 5 star restaurant meals on someone on the first meeting. I'm ok to buy drinks or something if it's a local M&G but several hundo plus drive time to the 5 star of her choice is a HARD pass for me.[/QUOTE]Yes. I had the same experience with her by text about 6 months back. I almost could not believe how stuck up and entitled she acted. She wanted to evaluate me intensively and a total GPS. Truly almost turned me off the hobby for a few days at least.

[QUOTE=Dimples572;5346501]Been that way for the past week or so for me as well.[/QUOTE]I managed to get it to work by using the regular browser mode in Firefox instead of private. Not much of a fix as far as I'm concerned, but at least I can erase browser history after visiting.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0a980e7f-31a8-4693-ba83-45e8a65a4a8b[/URL]

Online only no thank you block.

She's recently deactivated her profile. Strong probability she reads these forums like more & more SBs do these days. Regardless, keep up the warnings of these bad experiences. From now on, I'll try to attach screenshots to my future posts just in case they try to pull a fast one & create a new profile. Cheers!

[QUOTE=FlashLidar;5344939][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/490635b6-a3ea-4c4b-b8dd-f5ee51b55545[/URL][/QUOTE][QUOTE=FogHorn1;5345504]Without question the most entitled C I've ever interacted with on SA. Insists on meeting without exchanging phone numbers (I won't do that) and only at 5 star restaurants.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=TheYoungMonger;5346582]She wants to be wined and dined and taken shopping. Doesn't like small talk and wants to get quickly to the point.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=FogHorn1;5346763]This one actually gets super nasty, name calling, etc. I don't believe for a second her stories of being taken on expensive trips and the rest of the BS she claims "real" SD are doing. She went on and on with me about that too, after I stopped responding.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=RegJoe732;5346778]I almost could not believe how stuck up and entitled she acted. She wanted to evaluate me intensively and a total GPS. Truly almost turned me off the hobby for a few days at least.[/QUOTE]