I couldn't have said any better
[QUOTE=Brian2891;2238739]BoobsMcghee brings up a very valid point that has been bothering me for a while. So I ask, why are some of you mongers so attached to / protective of certain providers? I can understand if you feel as if you connect with a provider as there have been a few that I've actually connected with. Very few, though, and can honestly say that Angie is the only one I've really felt close to as she's exceptional, in my opinion. More often than not, these women are just doing their jobs, which involves entertaining and pleasing you for money. If you were broke and homeless, they wouldn't and couldn't entertain you as you would have nothing to offer them. Case and point, I don't see any of you posting in the "Freebie" thread about these providers. That being said, why is it that some of you "brothers" here are sharing the information we discuss on this forum with providers? Doesn't that take away from the purpose of this forum as well as damage the coherence and integrity here? To you guys who expose the information that we share here, what is the benefit? I don't get it.
My problem is that I've had to deal with this on several occasions in my short amount of time here. I won't call any names, but I will say that when I tried to advise others mongers of the certain potential health concerns of an un-named provider, someone on this forum showed her my post and she called me. When she called and left a very long voicemail, that same someone / member was in the background coaching her on what to say and reminding her of my username when she forgot it. I could actually hear him coaching her. Is it me or is that pathetic?
This forum is for us mongers / customers. When the select few of you decide to show providers the things that we talk about, you're jeopardizing the hobby. Not to mention the fact that some who seem to do this are of no significance here. In the short time I've been on the scene here, I've had issues with three different known providers over this same issue and it is horrible that the few would sacrifice this brotherhood. This has gotten so bad that I've become hesitant to share any experiences I may have. WTF?? That's the entire purpose here. Some of you need to pull your heads out of your asses.
If anyone needs clarification, wants to talk, or disagree then feel free to PM me.[/QUOTE]Good post braddah Brian. The truth is that some mongers want to get in goof with the providers. They get fiscounts and stuff by posting good reviewd about certain providers. They even tell providers about this site. I hit the stroll last night and was refused service by one of my favorite ptovifer thanks to the braddahs on this forum. From now on I will keep my comments to my self and share information with a selected few little like on of my favorite mongers Mr smiley. Happy hunting all.