[QUOTE=BeachBum15;4551937]This has been an observation I've had for some time and seems appropriate to the 'climate' here in and. Alabama as well as many other locations I've visited. The 'culture' here in this part of Alabama and especially in Madison County is NOT conducive to massage parlors that provide what the Massage Board deems 'sexual services' (some of us, Bill Clinton included would argue that HJs and oral isn't sex but that's for another conversation). Over the last five years there has been a systematic approach to eradicate those 'shops' that offer an expanded 'menu' be it HE's or FS all have been closed down. I've visited most of those and many of the others that don't offer those 'services' and found a striking difference (in general, there are / were exceptions) in the quality of the massage and the greed for 'tips'. For the 'extra' services of those, now closed, business there were more focus on the 'sexual service' at the end than on the actual quality of the massage which BTW we pay. 6 - . 7 for up front. In the end we got a poor massage and a mechanical 'ending' that left most of us a bit poorer in both relaxation and wallet.
Switching to the other 'side', those businesses that run a legitimate shop often provide a high quality massage for about the same door fee and the 'tip' is up to the customer and based solely on the 'quality' of the massage. The problem I've discovered with these businesses is that most have developed a, not so surprising, fear of anything that might be construed as sexual. Their caution / fear is palpable and you can sense it in their motions and attitude and it distracts from what should be a highly pleasurable and relaxing experience. From time to time I've found a provider that offers both a high quality massage with sensual movements that truly makes the session fantastic. I've discovered that I really don't need that HE (especially at the 'suggested' tips demanded) but I do enjoy when my masseuse adds in sensual elements at the appropriate time. This can be done in a variety of ways and none involve 'fondling' or 'touching' or any of those other terms the Board and LE use to explain why they shut a place down. When the girl is comfortable with my body and understands the difference between sensual arousal and sexual. That translates to a much better experience and stays within the boundaries of the Law here in HSV. A massage shouldn't be 'medical' or 'mechanical' if I wanted that I'd go see a chiropractor. A massage doesn't have to be 'foreplay' to sex either. A massage can work out the knots AND leave you with an amazing sense of sensual relaxation if provided by a talented provider who understands the difference between Sensual and Sexual. And isn't afraid to offer the former over the latter. Be safe, be respectful, and enjoy yourself. And if you find that provider that hits all the right buttons without crossing the 'line'. Let us know. They are (shouldn't be) rare.[/QUOTE]Bro, most dudes who go to massage parlors want a great massage and HE (both sensual and sexual), these two are not mutually exclusive in most other parts of the world. Most times I've visited Mei the massage was actually good with a skillful HE, only real complaint were the giving middle age ladies being not much to look at. Ideally you want to relax with a release, there are about a handful of local private providers who also do massages but are way over-priced and under serve.
