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I haven't really posted much in a while for a couple of reasons. First, I have been out of the country for work quite a bit and doing my thing in some wonderful countries. The beauty, the youth, the service in other countries have been AMAZING. Second, I got banned on SA. I am looking to get back in soon.
My screening and M&G almost always involve getting to know them a bit over a few days via texting. After we pass that phase, I invite them to a coffee and tea spot that also has cold drinks. I sit near the entrance so that I can see the young woman walk in. If she is way off from her pics, which happens from time to time. I message her, letting her know I'm not interested and why. I am not rude in my message, but very straightforward. If after we meet and our vibe is off, I let them know I am no longer interested. Again, honest but not rude. If we have chemistry in person, agree on terms, I almost always try to move the relationship / arrangement forward to the goods ASAP. Sometimes that is date one, other times it is date two.
I take this approach for a few reasons. I treat them like people and I get along with people are able to be straightforward in communication. It also helps to ensure that I waste as little of my time as possible. Third, I find that I have a better time when I establish some kind of chemistry with the young woman. I have no illusion that we are in a romantic relationship, even after I have had one try to actually be with me in a "real" relationship. Of course, I said no because that is not what I want. My point is that I build something with my SBs that is something between pure escort and true gf and that works for me. I have never given more than 200 and have a few women that hookup with me for 0 (quite often) because we actually enjoy the time together. Getting to this stage take time and effort. For me, time and effort has been a lunch without expecting intimacy after we have already been intimate, which sounds dumb until you one realizes I have had lots of intimacy for the cost of one lunch. It has also been texting (I don't talk on the phone much) about their problems or day. Once, I picked one up so that she could pick up a TV she ordered from Bestbuy and I never had time give her a thing for a year. She would tell me "No. I like you. " I think your M&Gs and screening processes should work towards what YOU want and need. So much of my process (via text, via M&G, how they handle my straightforwardness, etc.) is looking for those who might be open to my way.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;6287727]Well that explains it. I guess I get a little too wired from the anticipation. When I meet a new girl if she it hot and the sparks are there (like in the first few minutes) then bam. I need to get to it asap. I think in 15 or so years of doing this I have only sat through like 3 meals before hitting the FC. Sat through maybe a few more starbucks or whatever though. Also the way I M&G is usually just to chat in the car for a few minutes anyway. I basically did that even when I was rolling in it. But I have been semi-retired for quite a while so scheduling is a whole lot easier than what you have to deal with.
I read once that almost any girl makes up her mind about a guy within the first 5 minutes. And not always but many times I am picking up the girl. So I go to the spot, talk in the car, and if its cool I am back to my place. And if not, some mild awkwardness and then she is gone. And I do let some come straight to my place with no M&G, but that style seems to have gone out of style with these girls since covid. Plus I really do a heavy screening prior to meeting them to cut down on the ones I reject in person.
But thanks for all your many posts. I wish more people would post their screening and M&G techniques as I have learned a lot and adopted many of those over the years. Whatever happens after that is usually a YMMV scenario.[/QUOTE]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11b094ab-bc4c-480d-afd2-dbb712820cbc[/URL]
Started texting, tell her 500 ppm for dinner and fun. She says 1000 min. I ask for bareback and at least 4 hours in bed. She replies:
"Condom is nonnegotiable sorry sweetie".
"If you show me your test results I'd be happy to give you a BJ for the happy ending LOL".
"Let's meet and we can talk about arrangement then LOL. Doesn't have to be so serious.
"If I'm only seeing you once a month, I know you will make it worth my time.
My previous arrangement with my ex of 1. 5 years was 6 k per month, housing, health insurance, bmw, and new iPhone. I would like something comparable. If you're in town for a week can you do $2-3 k?"
Lmao.
[QUOTE=Mcsylv;6291669][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11b094ab-bc4c-480d-afd2-dbb712820cbc[/URL]
Started texting, tell her 500 ppm for dinner and fun. She says 1000 min. I ask for bareback and at least 4 hours in bed. She replies:
"Condom is nonnegotiable sorry sweetie".
"If you show me your test results I'd be happy to give you a BJ for the happy ending LOL".
"Let's meet and we can talk about arrangement then LOL. Doesn't have to be so serious.
"If I'm only seeing you once a month, I know you will make it worth my time.
My previous arrangement with my ex of 1. 5 years was 6 k per month, housing, health insurance, bmw, and new iPhone. I would like something comparable. If you're in town for a week can you do $2-3 k?"
Lmao.[/QUOTE]Always hilarious when they've only been on the site for a week and they talk about their mythical previous arrangement where a guy gave them 4 figures for almost nothing. I always ask them why it ended if they had such a great thing. They always say "he moved".
[QUOTE=Mcsylv;6291669][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11b094ab-bc4c-480d-afd2-dbb712820cbc[/URL]
Started texting, tell her 500 ppm for dinner and fun. She says 1000 min. I ask for bareback and at least 4 hours in bed. She replies:
"Condom is nonnegotiable sorry sweetie".
"If you show me your test results I'd be happy to give you a BJ for the happy ending LOL".
"Let's meet and we can talk about arrangement then LOL. Doesn't have to be so serious.
"If I'm only seeing you once a month, I know you will make it worth my time.
My previous arrangement with my ex of 1. 5 years was 6 k per month, housing, health insurance, bmw, and new iPhone. I would like something comparable. If you're in town for a week can you do $2-3 k?"
Lmao.[/QUOTE]While this is laughable it is believable. Its like new girl money at the strip club. First time SB meets first time (but not always) SD. An arrangement that will never be repeated.
Saw her visiting a year + ago. Met up in a bar to check each other out, back to my room, great sex, reasonable allowance. Do not mention anything about me to her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ba6d44f2-4e54-4d7a-88c0-6f90c0820434[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/31d6ed81-49e8-49d5-87b9-aacaf78bdd8a[/URL]
Started talking and agree to 500 as long as I take her to dinner. Doesn't want to do bare, gives the typical bullshit of how her headgame is great, I'll cum easily, blah blah. Eventually asks for a 100 deposit to secure the date, which I refuse because I tell her I've been scammed. She says:
"That's.
A bummer. I've never scammed anyone I have revjews that prove it. If I was going to scam people than they would be the first to give me bad reviews".
I ask what reviews, she says:
"Private delights, erotic monkey, etc. ".
I fake like I don't know what those are and tell her I can't do a deposit, if that means we're not meeting then best of luck. She's not said anything so far.
I met up with her a few years ago when she advertised on Mojo. She went by Sophie or Sophia. She used to only be $$ for an hour. Her rates have gone up considerably. She is a nice girl. Looks just like her pics, at least she did back then. She is definitely worth $$, $$ seems like alot. Not sure I would go that high.
[QUOTE=Mcsylv;6296174][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/31d6ed81-49e8-49d5-87b9-aacaf78bdd8a[/URL]
Started talking and agree to 500 as long as I take her to dinner. Doesn't want to do bare, gives the typical bullshit of how her headgame is great, I'll cum easily, blah blah. Eventually asks for a 100 deposit to secure the date, which I refuse because I tell her I've been scammed. She says:
"That's.
A bummer. I've never scammed anyone I have revjews that prove it. If I was going to scam people than they would be the first to give me bad reviews".
I ask what reviews, she says:
"Private delights, erotic monkey, etc. ".
I fake like I don't know what those are and tell her I can't do a deposit, if that means we're not meeting then best of luck. She's not said anything so far.[/QUOTE]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a34202c6-4de6-4283-b9ab-c9c1885f94a9[/URL]
There's a scammer in Vegas making fake profiles and using the same lines. Hit up one of their profiles and they'll always say:
"happy to meet if arrangement is proper and we prebook".
By prebook, they mean send a deposit. Encountered 3 so far with the exact same line, always using pics of extremely hot girls.
[QUOTE=Hobbyist1980;6296519]I met up with her a few years ago when she advertised on Mojo. She went by Sophie or Sophia. She used to only be $$ for an hour. Her rates have gone up considerably. She is a nice girl. Looks just like her pics, at least she did back then. She is definitely worth $$, $$ seems like alot. Not sure I would go that high.[/QUOTE]I used to be regular with Sophie. Bare everything for $$.
Very thin (skinny). Great pussy. I loved it while It lasted.
Any time I've tried to see her in the last year or two she wanted $$ and no BBFS.
[QUOTE=VegasMatt;6298739]I used to be regular with Sophie. Bare everything for $$.
Very thin (skinny). Great pussy. I loved it while It lasted.
Any time I've tried to see her in the last year or two she wanted $$ and no BBFS.[/QUOTE]The auto correct on this site is making nonsense of your posts. Just write down what you are paying for allowance, 300,400, 500, whatever.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c33b8a95-5adf-4e08-af97-9f98d9b82cbc[/URL]
She starts off on SA by saying she had 600 PPM. I figured okay, I could work with it if she's down for the right kind of fun.
Get to talking, figure out date and dinner, then I ask if she's clean and tested, can we do bare? She responds with:
"I never said we were having sex".
LMAO.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6299291]The auto correct on this site is making nonsense of your posts. Just write down what you are paying for allowance, 300,400, 500, whatever.[/QUOTE]Nah bro, if the cops bust this site they'll totally get away with no charges because they wrote $$ instead of 200, and wrote that they were dreaming so none of it actually happened!
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6299291]The auto correct on this site is making nonsense of your posts. Just write down what you are paying for allowance, 300,400, 500, whatever.[/QUOTE]She wants 6 now. She has a web site and ter reviews. I don't see how she can try that platonic shit on.
SA. She's a pro for years.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fb9951d4-c16b-2421-0501-32f9cede970f[/URL]
Started talking, settled on date for dinner and fun for 500. I tell her I'm tested and clean, ask her to confirm. She says uncovered fun is more than 500, I ask how much and she says 1000. I tell her I normally only do that for overnights or all day dates, if she wants that for a dinner date what else is she willing to do? Anal? Rimjob? Watersports? I don't even like those kinks, I just wanted to see what she would say, 90% chance I would let her go. She says no anal, then gives me this:
"Don't under value me I won't see you!! I know my worth your not going to fuck me uncovered for 500".
https://members.seeking.com/member/57e51d37-df46-4b59-b1aa-d43ab8a62057
Claims to be two Euro girls who live in Miami and were in Vegas for a bit. Asked them to text, they're very short with 1-3 word responses to everything. Finally make my offer of 500 for each of them for intimate dates, they respond with:
"Lol no. Bye"
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6c3c5972-4607-4965-bdf4-064405af32ac[/URL]
Get to texting, I tell her I do 500 for dinner and intimacy. She says 500 is just for her time, anything else is extra. I ask what PPM for sex, she says 1000. I ask if bareback is on the menu, she says no.