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I've been banned for the 2nd time from the Seeking site for seeking sex for money. I've been very careful with my wording but I did use the word allowance in one or two replies but always after the girl mentioned it first. I guess it's best to act like this is a normal dating site until the conversation moves to text or kik.
[QUOTE=ArtVandelay201;4133151]I've been banned for the 2nd time from the Seeking site for seeking sex for money. I've been very careful with my wording but I did use the word allowance in one or two replies but always after the girl mentioned it first. I guess it's best to act like this is a normal dating site until the conversation moves to text or kik.[/QUOTE]I've gone through the same thing. It's likely it's a girl who didn't like something you said, or simply just didn't like what you offered so they report you. Some of them love to use that feature and do it often, so be careful with convos.
There is a way around the permanent ban. I was permanently banned the first time, and I contacted customer support and they made me email a statement saying that I have read the terms of use and will not violate them anymore. Just contact customer support and they'll re-instate your account if you do that, and it'll be your same profile with however many days left on your membership.
I then got banned again, and support wouldn't re-instate me. I tried changing my IP address and making a new profile but that didn't work. They recognize the network you're on and if you are making a profile on that network the automated suspicious activity will stop you from making an account. I was able to make a brand new profile with no issues, even using the same credit card info and pics from my previous account by using a VPN. I downloaded a browser called "Opera", and it has a feature in the settings where you can turn on the VPN. Once you do that, you can create a profile, pay for a membership and you're good to go. Just make sure to never log in using your home network. Use only that VPN or your LTE data coverage on the road. If you log in at any point using your home network that was flagged before, it will immediately ban your account.
Hope that helps for anyone that's been through this. Figure I'd share how my experience worked out.
[QUOTE=ArtVandelay201;4133151]I've been banned for the 2nd time from the Seeking site for seeking sex for money. I've been very careful with my wording but I did use the word allowance in one or two replies but always after the girl mentioned it first. I guess it's best to act like this is a normal dating site until the conversation moves to text or kik.[/QUOTE]Well, I've had gals quote me a dollar amount "per meet" in an SA text message several times, including as recently as last week. And I've had a gal somewhat recently tell me she thought we should just meet in her bed for fun "if the allowance was right". However, when a dollar amount was quoted, the sex was only implied, not explicitly mentioned. And in the case of meeting in bed, no allowance amount was discussed until the convo moved off SA. If there is some kind of bot type screening of messages, it would appear to miss quite a bit if you're careful, though obviously its best to move off site ASAP.
I understand a gal can also report you, which would trigger a more careful review. So if you somehow annoy her or piss her off, she can retaliate by trying to get you banned. And if she submits your text or kik messages to SA they can use those to ban you too. Better to let the gal mention amounts and activities even off site. Or best yet save anything specific for an in person M&G. I've walked away from several M&Gs without ever proceeding further, and I think its a reasonable investment. I've even offered a M&G for coffee to a couple of stg gals who accepted. Its mutual screening.
[QUOTE=Bonadrag;4123209][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/01bbad21-4e5f-4fe7-aefc-3f74df385acd[/URL]
Funny seeing her profile on here! She's actually an acquaintance of my wife's. We went on a double date with her and her (ex) boyfriend a few years ago which was a bit awkward because she was way younger than us (and her boyfriend) plus incredibly immature.
If anybody wants any info on her (which isn't too hard to find as her profile pic is off her instagram), pm me..[/QUOTE]Ended up contacting her. You're right about the maturity thing. I felt like I was talking to a kid. After lots of back and forth and time-wasting, she says 500 per meet. Then randomly changes her mind to 500 just for pics. Lmao. She's just hoping she finds some whale dumb enough to cough up hundreds of dollars so that she can grace him with her presence.
[QUOTE=ArtVandelay201;4133151]I've been banned for the 2nd time from the Seeking site for seeking sex for money. I've been very careful with my wording but I did use the word allowance in one or two replies but always after the girl mentioned it first. I guess it's best to act like this is a normal dating site until the conversation moves to text or kik.[/QUOTE]I'm pretty sure whoever you were messaging is probably who got you banned. I've had some very blunt and open conversations on there with no issues. But over a year ago I called out a potential scammer and the next day I was banned. I usually don't start discussing any allowance till she mentions it or she is open to sending more reviewing pictures thru kik or text.
If SA bans you while you have a paid membership with them I would contact your credit card company and file a chargeback to get your money back. That's not right. Sometimes you can file a chargeback online on your credit card company's website. If you call, tell them the charge was unauthorized. They banned one of my profiles last year but it was literally the next day AFTER my paid membership expired, so I didn't really care. The bad thing is you lose all of the messages and favorites that you had saved in your profile.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b4e0f40d-54b7-465a-ace2-6131f3aad476[/URL]
Anyone had any fun with this one out of Madison? Looks nice but sometimes it is better to ask!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cfbfbb92-dd61-4f50-9755-d69b95762a86[/URL]
Forgot to write about this one! Very nice sweet hippy girl. Was very open minded and time flexible. Will repeat often but of course YMMV. Def not GPS and was really reasonable in getting arrangement started.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b19e6d89-f364-447d-bf7c-a4200342f571[/URL]
Really nice Filipina mom. English isn't the best but knows her way to please a man. Very nice ppm terms and is very enthusiastic in private. I noticed having much more success with the milfs and the recently seperated on SA. Obviously it's fun to have a 19-20 yr old college student for looks and such but nothing beats experience and neglectful husbands and exes.
Are there married women on this site or are they all single?
Surprisingly, I have encountered lots of married women. Some of them have husbands that know about it and some don't. Most of the ones I have encountered use there cash earnings for expensive purses and jewelry that their husbands don't buy them.
I'm still amazed at some of the women you end up meeting on that site.
[QUOTE=Miltown;4134871]Are there married women on this site or are they all single?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Miltown;4134871]Are there married women on this site or are they all single?[/QUOTE]There is a bit of everything on SA. You can use the filters and get very specific about what you want.
Age.
Ethnicity.
Height.
Hair Color.
Smoking.
Drinking.
Relationship Status (single, open relationship, married or?
Education.
Children (yes, no, how many).
Language.
[QUOTE=Milton;4134871]Are there married women on this site or are they all single?[/QUOTE]Met this married one a few months back:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4d8d91f3-a484-4631-b90c-535d016732a6[/URL]
In an open relationship. Met at her place in Waukesha, nice apt. The hipster / emo mix. Petite, with good body. Very nice girl. The hub lets her have fun while she lets him go out and suck a dick too. I just made sure he wasn't "joining" us. Fun time with reasonable donation. I love to mix it up with some experienced girls. I didn't repeat because it's too far for me to drive from Madison.
Have any of you guys done a search and seen some of the amazing women in other locations on SA? I do it often for entertainment cause these Milwaukee girls are a joke compared to places like Houston, Tampa, Miami, and Colombia. The SA girls in Medellin, Colombia will write you if all you do is look at their profile! I negotiated with a few of them on allowance, and it's amazing how much an American dollar goes. They ask for like 250,000 pesos which is $100 American dollars.
Have any of you taken a trip somewhere like that and have any experiences to share?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e8bae94e-96b0-41a2-bce7-2ea0b8e7976a[/URL]
Anyone have info on this one? She texted me out of the blue (I tried to contact her a few weeks ago.).
If the zip code in her name is any indication this ain't going to go nowhere.