Thus goes hand in hand with.
Keeping appointments and not playing games for both the gentleman and sp. The worst is when you give your address and then they tell you they are on their way and then comes the crickets. Silence. Total creeper or LEO move, either way not cool. Keep the appointments and cancel in a timely manner.
Xoxo.
Paige.
[QUOTE=WilliamMstrs;2396710]Reply in a timely manner, and at a time of day that is not suspicious. (I. E. Don't reply three days after I texted and at midnight![/QUOTE]
You are right it isn't something turned on or off.
But to me it is all about how I vibe with someone. To some I may the most GFE chick on here, and to others they would not descrbe me as that in anyway. There are certain things I can't and won't do for anything. Thats why I don't advertise GFE.
There are some guys that no matter well I get to know them, how nice of guy they are, I am still not kissing them. I would much rather decline kissing than give some half ass forced kiss that is horrible. It is my policy to not do anything half ass.
At the same time tho kissing does not have to happen to be GFE but I know for some guys it is a must.
There is so many grey areas with this term so I try to avoid it. Most of all there has to an intimate and intellectual connection for it to happen tho.
Xoxo.
Paige.
[QUOTE=Alligator19;2397098]Thought this would be an interesting topic for discussion.
What, exactly does GFE mean. Or, at least, mean to you?
The following was posted on the Escort Classified Ads Thread recently:
"Come see me this toasty Friday!
NO FS!!
Also let me know before our dream if you would like the GFE experience. I thought that it was something specifically asked for during a dream. Sorry to those of you who came expecting GFE and didn't receive it!
Now, I've always been under the impression that GFE wasn't something that one turned on or off. That it was more of the overall vibe that a provider delivered along with their services.
For example. A GFE experience would be the illusion of intimacy or familiarity whereas a non-GFE would be just a straight business transaction or something like it. Again, I figured the whole FGE thing was just the general way an SP acted toward her clients, not something that could be requested or not requested.
Am I wrong?
Discuss.[/QUOTE]
Sisterhood vs. Competition
So I get it, technically as SPs we are in competition for business, nothing wrong with a little friendly competition, or new competition might make you have step your game up but there are few things of late that have been bothersome to me.
When a highly regarded SP reaches out to another new SP to introduce themselves I feel it is quite rude to ignore them. You probably won't get a second chance at that intro. The new SP may be the hot shit at the moment but with everything novelty wears off. There will come a point you may need referrals or references. You don't have to jump at their intro to you but acknowledgement of receiving would be more than cordial.
Lately there have been some new advertisers claiming to be THE BEST at whatever. Thats some big shoes to fill jumping on this board with some legends, women who have been providing A+ service for years in the hobby. I am not saying that these new SPs do not provide quality service but those are bold words. Not every SP is for everyone so there can't be any single one that is the best at everything everytime. I think reviews say more than your ads ever could.
With this being said white knighting average performance in hopes of getting discounts doesn't really help the community as whole. It may be good for the author and subject, but that is just selfish. An honest review is more beneficial to all involved. Constructive criticism can help an SP step up their game if needed. And after awhile when we all read these rave reviews by the same authors on those SPs that most either give average or subpar reviews the authors loose credibility within the community.
I don't claim to be the best at anything. I do claim to be a reliable, friendly, consistant, hot, smart SP that aims to please. I put safety an discretion at top of my list of priority for all those involved. SPs know that I am one of the most friendly and knowledgeable in this hobby, and very easy to approach. We need to look out for each other, its a sisterhood that may save one of our lives or from getting a new pair of shiny silver handcuffs. I am not saying we all have to be besties, as I do like a small hand full of you ladies better than the rest but as long as you have always treated me with respect I will do the same for you. There are plenty of mario coins and dicks to go around.
Just some food for thought.
Stay safe.
Xoxo.
Paige.
