[QUOTE=Cooperman;2527251]Don't sell yourself short, Mojo. You're pretty heartless. . . LOL[/QUOTE]You and my ex are both right in a way, if someone pulls my chain enough I can be one heartless SOB. LOL.
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[QUOTE=Cooperman;2527251]Don't sell yourself short, Mojo. You're pretty heartless. . . LOL[/QUOTE]You and my ex are both right in a way, if someone pulls my chain enough I can be one heartless SOB. LOL.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]Hey teammate keep doing what you are doing. Tomorrow is not promised. I have been in this hobby both here and abroad for many years and I have had several ATFs. Got one now as a matter of fact. However, do not stop checking out something new every now and then. It will keep it all in prospective. Finally since you have a SO do not forget to enjoy those times with her too regardless of who you are thinking about. SMO.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]You already told us the right answer, the good ones all play the role, No one will come back if they don't first have the skills and secondly make you think they are into you and the session. You know the gig for them is regular cash flow from people they have seen before.
Keep seeing her and others but think with your big head not your little, even if she tells you she loves you like no one else, don't believe for a minute she is not telling everyone that. After all they are adult entertainers, and seems to be a good entertainer.
No reason to get out of the hobby, but with all due respect after 10 years in the hobby you should already know all of this.
Good luck.
Island Dreams.
[QUOTE=IslandDreams;2527774]You already told us the right answer, the good ones all play the role, No one will come back if they don't first have the skills and secondly make you think they are into you and the session. You know the gig for them is regular cash flow from people they have seen before.
Keep seeing her and others but think with your big head not your little, even if she tells you she loves you like no one else, don't believe for a minute she is not telling everyone that. After all they are adult entertainers, and seems to be a good entertainer.
No reason to get out of the hobby, but with all due respect after 10 years in the hobby you should already know all of this.
Good luck.
Island Dreams.[/QUOTE]JUst had one in a TXT say it was all about her her benefit and her CAUSE and she wasnt about to change for a guy who offered to spoil her and treat her like a princess. Keep your money and use it WISELY and don't think with your little friend down below. The good ones are masters at making you think you are the one and only until Ben and Ulysess run out then you are the old story and the hunt for them begins over again. Just sayin.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]These girls will tell you a lot of bull shit. I see a I love you comeing from her soon. Then a let move in if you love me you would want a place for us to spend every night. She may not even take money from yon weeks at a time. And keep her real drug habit from you till one day she gets nail or maybe you are with her and the cops find a crack pipe on her. If there good they can do all of this there will even be fake crying. Main thing you may be spacial to this girl but I would take all my emotions out of it and try find out what her real emotions are. And the other Big thing find out why she is see all of the guys (maybe habit). And yes she will tell that your the only one is fucking. Wish both of you all the best of luck.
Yes the women will suck you dry if you let them! Some may be wanting to change their life but only with the wealthy! LOL.
[QUOTE=IslandDreams;2527774]You already told us the right answer, the good ones all play the role, No one will come back if they don't first have the skills and secondly make you think they are into you and the session. You know the gig for them is regular cash flow from people they have seen before.
Keep seeing her and others but think with your big head not your little, even if she tells you she loves you like no one else, don't believe for a minute she is not telling everyone that. After all they are adult entertainers, and seems to be a good entertainer.
No reason to get out of the hobby, but with all due respect after 10 years in the hobby you should already know all of this.
Good luck.
Island Dreams.[/QUOTE]You are right I am sure. I do know these things but I guess I needed to be reminded.
[QUOTE=KaintuckMan;2527880]Yes the women will suck you dry if you let them! [/QUOTE]That's what I pay them to do Kain. LOL.
Have you noticed girls responding quicker today?? First of the month, rents due & baby daddy didn't pay his child support AGAIN!! Does that makes us surrogate dads?? LOL They always go for the "bad boys" & then run to the good guys to bail them out. Not sure I qualify as a "good guy" considering my habits, but at least I take care of my kids!! End of rant, easy hunting today.
Had it comfirmed that BP is not accepting that evil plastic number but will take the new fake currency of Bitcoin.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]I've been in and out of the hobby for 20 years and have avoided this exact problem until recently. I'd really like to retire from the hobby and am not opposed to being with someone that also wants out. You do have to take a step back and examine the situation from as unbiased of a position as you can manage. Do you do more than just visit for play time? Do you have things in common outside the bedroom? Similar likes / dislikes? Does SHE call YOU to do things "off the clock"? Do your friends / family know her? Do you know hers? Relationships are a two-way road, and both have to work to make them happen no matter how / where you met and the relationship started. Just because someone says "I love you" doesn't mean it's romantic live-with-you-forever material.
If you find you're the one doing all the work and dreaming then there's your answer. Nobody knows that except you, and her. Communication is the make or break for any relationship. You've got to talk about it together. Be prepared for "I love you but I'm not ready for a serious relationship right now. " That's what I got, and I know what that means. It means it's all business. She wants the regular income and will do what it takes to keep the green rolling in. If that's what you get too, then I highly recommend you get the relationship thoughts out of your (big) head, enjoy your time together for what it is (play), and consider spending more time with others for a fresh perspective. I. e. It's "time to move on". They WILL suck you dry financially if you let them. YOU are in control, don't let them break your heart! Don't let the little head do all the thinking!
It's a really tough call when our emotions get involved. Best of luck, I hope it works out like you want!
May the fourth be with you!
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]Just like so many have stated before me, I wouldn't recommend putting your heart into it. A long time ago, I was "dating" a stripper and I use the term loosely, because I was dating her and not the other way around. We would hang out and do stuff and I thought we had a good connection. We had lots of sex, but it wasn't a sex for money thing, it was sex and if she needed money at random times, she would call me. I had the perfect storm of disaster financially at one point and she happened to call me in the middle of it. I told her I couldn't do anything for her this time, but I would get her next time. She thought she hung up the phone, but she didn't. I heard her say, "This mother fucker ain't shit either. " That definitely did two things for me. One was to put me in perspective about the reality of the situation and two it let me know to not fall for a girl like that. Not to say it could never work out, but I think the odds are against it.
Excellent prespective. I appreciated the read.
[QUOTE=BTFDesire;2530236]I've been in and out of the hobby for 20 years and have avoided this exact problem until recently. I'd really like to retire from the hobby and am not opposed to being with someone that also wants out. You do have to take a step back and examine the situation from as unbiased of a position as you can manage. Do you do more than just visit for play time? Do you have things in common outside the bedroom? Similar likes / dislikes? Does SHE call YOU to do things "off the clock"? Do your friends / family know her? Do you know hers? Relationships are a two-way road, and both have to work to make them happen no matter how / where you met and the relationship started. Just because someone says "I love you" doesn't mean it's romantic live-with-you-forever material.
If you find you're the one doing all the work and dreaming then there's your answer. Nobody knows that except you, and her. Communication is the make or break for any relationship. You've got to talk about it together. Be prepared for "I love you but I'm not ready for a serious relationship right now. " That's what I got, and I know what that means. It means it's all business. She wants the regular income and will do what it takes to keep the green rolling in. If that's what you get too, then I highly recommend you get the relationship thoughts out of your (big) head, enjoy your time together for what it is (play), and consider spending more time with others for a fresh perspective. I. e. It's "time to move on". They WILL suck you dry financially if you let them. YOU are in control, don't let them break your heart! Don't let the little head do all the thinking!
It's a really tough call when our emotions get involved. Best of luck, I hope it works out like you want![/QUOTE]
No offense to JSMW. I know how it can be easy to fall for these girls. The sex is great, they always seem glad to see you, and they're so pretty and vivacious, they make you feel like a kid again.
But you have to put things in perspective. You are an income source to them. Like you found out the hard way, without $ you ain't s**t and even if they do fancy you, if they need $ they will put up an ad or go through their address book and find a guy to get what they need.
They're not bad people, really I think some of them are very nice, gf material even. But the reality is that this is what they've chosen to do. If they leave the biz and go straight, get a legit job or go to school to learn a trade. Then maybe ok to date in real life. But then you will have her past to contend with? (Ever see Chasing Amy?) and she will have to deal with your past (Ever read Ffifty Shades Deeper). There will always be trust issues.
A good recent example was a Monger on here who actually married Ariel (the little mermaid), called her his "Ride or Die" girl, and all the while they were together she continued to run ads on BP and see clients. Up until the day he died. To include the day of the funeral. I have continued to see Ariel and even asked her if she really loved him. And she said yes she did. But he was much older and couldn't do much. And she wasn't going to be locked away in a little box.
Enjoy the hobby, but guard your heart and be wary of this thing called love. Like is ok, but love? Love kills. LC.
[QUOTE=Bjustice;2532124]Just like so many have stated before me, I wouldn't recommend putting your heart into it. A long time ago, I was "dating" a stripper and I use the term loosely, because I was dating her and not the other way around. We would hang out and do stuff and I thought we had a good connection. We had lots of sex, but it wasn't a sex for money thing, it was sex and if she needed money at random times, she would call me. I had the perfect storm of disaster financially at one point and she happened to call me in the middle of it. I told her I couldn't do anything for her this time, but I would get her next time. She thought she hung up the phone, but she didn't. I heard her say, "This mother fucker ain't shit either. " That definitely did two things for me. One was to put me in perspective about the reality of the situation and two it let me know to not fall for a girl like that. Not to say it could never work out, but I think the odds are against it.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=LotharioCancer;2532182]No offense to JSMW. I know how it can be easy to fall for these girls. The sex is great, they always seem glad to see you, and they're so pretty and vivacious, they make you feel like a kid again.
But you have to put things in perspective. You are an income source to them. Like you found out the hard way, without $ you ain't s**t and even if they do fancy you, if they need $ they will put up an ad or go through their address book and find a guy to get what they need.
They're not bad people, really I think some of them are very nice, gf material even. But the reality is that this is what they've chosen to do. If they leave the biz and go straight, get a legit job or go to school to learn a trade. Then maybe ok to date in real life. But then you will have her past to contend with? (Ever see Chasing Amy?) and she will have to deal with your past (Ever read Ffifty Shades Deeper). There will always be trust issues.
A good recent example was a Monger on here who actually married Ariel (the little mermaid), called her his "Ride or Die" girl, and all the while they were together she continued to run ads on BP and see clients. Up until the day he died. To include the day of the funeral. I have continued to see Ariel and even asked her if she really loved him. And she said yes she did. But he was much older and couldn't do much. And she wasn't going to be locked away in a little box.
Enjoy the hobby, but guard your heart and be wary of this thing called love. Like is ok, but love? Love kills. LC.[/QUOTE]I don't judge, hell I was once in love with a chick (not a pro) who was playing me the whole time, she was hot and I was fucking her and no money changed hands but I found out I was "the other guy" not the main one so it can happen anywhere at anytime. But the truth of the matter is, good or bad, once money changes hands that will always be there. You're not their savior or husband. Hit it and quit it.
[QUOTE=Norsem;2532248]I don't judge, hell I was once in love with a chick (not a pro) who was playing me the whole time, she was hot and I was fucking her and no money changed hands but I found out I was "the other guy" not the main one so it can happen anywhere at anytime. But the truth of the matter is, good or bad, once money changes hands that will always be there. You're not their savior or husband. Hit it and quit it.[/QUOTE]I'm not going to say anyone is right or wrong in this. I don't think there is a right or wrong, there is only individuals with different lives, situations and desires. In my case I do not like seeing different girls all of the time. I hate the associated risk taking and dealing with all the nut case girls that are out there. I prefer to find a girl that I like and see her pretty much exclusively with maybe an occasional foray into the field to keep my options open especially if the girl that I've been seeing regularly does something to piss me off. Sometimes the "relationship" will last a long time and sometimes it does not. Like life itself having a regular girl or even an sb is a fluid situation and I just mostly go with the flow of the said "relationship". I've never fallen in love with a girl in business and I don't ever see that happening as I am suspicious of everybody and by my nature I do not easily trust anyone regardless of whether they are inside or outside of the hobby. Aamof I have fallen in love with only two girls in my entire life and I married both of them. LOL. However, I have found several working girls that I really liked as a person and it's been my experience that if I treated them as such my time with them would be much better than otherwise. But that's just me.
[QUOTE=Jsmw1980;2526587]After having been in this hobby for 10+ years and a member of this board for around 2-3 years, I know you should never fall for or develop any personal feelings for these girls. I've been seeing my ATF for around 3 years. We've had countless meetings. Usually when I text her, I'm at her place in about an hour. I've seen others while seeing her but not many. She never brings up $. I don't always give her the same amount; it just depends on what's on me at the time. Once, we got so much into the fun and I was so out of it afterwards, I forgot to lay my money down. She acted like it wasn't any big deal. I came back on my own later to pay her. Our meetings have gotten better with time. The last few times, it's been more sensual instead of kink. We both enjoy kink, but it's been different. That gaze in the eyes and half smile. Anyway, I can't get her out of my mind. I know that I don't need to go down that road. I'm sure she's just playing the role, I'm probably another business transaction, but man it's gotten to me. I know she's into smoking pot but I don't see any signs of other drug use.
So my quandary is. Do I need to just get out of the hobby? Or just quit seeing her? I know pursuing her seriously isn't a good idea. What's everybody's take on this?[/QUOTE]I'm truly amazed no one has pointed out the obvious here. You have a SugarBaby! Some guys who hobby dream of such relationships! I have always found sex to be MUCH better with a lady I truly care about. As others have stated, it is critically important that you maintain perspective. In my view, it's OK to care for the lady you are seeing. Just don't EVER forget that almost every lady in this world came here for the $$. As a bonus, many of them really like good sex as well. She has likely found the best of both worlds with you. Sounds like a win-win to me.
The main thing you need to be watchful of in the short term is that you aren't foregoing a peaceful / happy retirement by surrendering more than just play-money on this relationship. Long-term, ask yourself this: can you live with knowing she has, and likely will continue, seeing other men while seeing you? Even if she convinces you she is prepared to stop seeing other men to be exclusive for you, can you live with knowing about her past?
I have seen some ladies who are married to men who are OK with what they do for a living. I honestly couldn't be such a man. Could you? I've also known ladies who have left the hobby to marry men they met here. I presume it has somehow worked out since they did not return. I think we have all heard stories of ladies who went exclusive and / or married guys only to go their separate ways once the well ran dry. You will want to be VERY careful you don't fall in that last group!
There are so many wise seniors on this site.
[QUOTE=ChipJeep;2532917]I'm truly amazed no one has pointed out the obvious here. You have a SugarBaby! Some guys who hobby dream of such relationships! I have always found sex to be MUCH better with a lady I truly care about. As others have stated, it is critically important that you maintain perspective. In my view, it's OK to care for the lady you are seeing. Just don't EVER forget that almost every lady in this world came here for the $$. As a bonus, many of them really like good sex as well. She has likely found the best of both worlds with you. Sounds like a win-win to me.
The main thing you need to be watchful of in the short term is that you aren't foregoing a peaceful / happy retirement by surrendering more than just play-money on this relationship. Long-term, ask yourself this: can you live with knowing she has, and likely will continue, seeing other men while seeing you? Even if she convinces you she is prepared to stop seeing other men to be exclusive for you, can you live with knowing about her past?
I have seen some ladies who are married to men who are OK with what they do for a living. I honestly couldn't be such a man. Could you? I've also known ladies who have left the hobby to marry men they met here. I presume it has somehow worked out since they did not return. I think we have all heard stories of ladies who went exclusive and / or married guys only to go their separate ways once the well ran dry. You will want to be VERY careful you don't fall in that last group![/QUOTE]It's refreshing that there are so many seniors that are in touch with what this hobby is all about, and are willing to share what they know and have learned.
BG.
[URL]http://louisville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/bree-bree-bree-502-912-2878/8584870[/URL]
Any body tried this one yet? She says she's new?
[QUOTE=LotharioCancer;2532182]No offense to JSMW. I know how it can be easy to fall for these girls. The sex is great, they always seem glad to see you, and they're so pretty and vivacious, they make you feel like a kid again.
But you have to put things in perspective. You are an income source to them. Like you found out the hard way, without $ you ain't s**t and even if they do fancy you, if they need $ they will put up an ad or go through their address book and find a guy to get what they need.
They're not bad people, really I think some of them are very nice, gf material even. But the reality is that this is what they've chosen to do. If they leave the biz and go straight, get a legit job or go to school to learn a trade. Then maybe ok to date in real life. But then you will have her past to contend with? (Ever see Chasing Amy?) and she will have to deal with your past (Ever read Ffifty Shades Deeper). There will always be trust issues.
A good recent example was a Monger on here who actually married Ariel (the little mermaid), called her his "Ride or Die" girl, and all the while they were together she continued to run ads on BP and see clients. Up until the day he died. To include the day of the funeral. I have continued to see Ariel and even asked her if she really loved him. And she said yes she did. But he was much older and couldn't do much. And she wasn't going to be locked away in a little box.
Enjoy the hobby, but guard your heart and be wary of this thing called love. Like is ok, but love? Love kills. LC.[/QUOTE]Very good advice.
But always remember most of these young, beautiful, sexy, fun Ladies. HAVE BOYFRIENDS OR PIMPS!
BG.
I'm just curious. Has anyone come across someone wearing one of those ankle brackets that track your location before?
I tried to reply to your pm.
[QUOTE=LuvR2015;2524681]Just came back from another colossal waste of time and I just reported on another thread.
Why is everyone so unreliable?
Are we experiencing a massive shift in the way people behave or just is it become too easy for providers?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=TheFonz;2536317]I'm just curious. Has anyone come across someone wearing one of those ankle brackets that track your location before?[/QUOTE]Yes. I did Sarah that used to be in this area that had one. Was a big turn on for some twisted reason. Guess cause she could not cash and dash. LOL.
[QUOTE=BigGuyUAteMe;2535848]Very good advice; but always remember most of these young, beautiful, sexy, fun Ladies HAVE [B][U]BOYFRIENDS[/U][/B] OR PIMPS![/QUOTE]Or "[B]girl[/B]"friends or some "[U]butch[/U]"[B]dyke![/B].
Does anyone have any information on swinger / sex parties? I had fun being in them when I lived in Florida!
[QUOTE=DewDirty;2537630]Does anyone have any information on swinger / sex parties? I had fun being in them when I lived in Florida![/QUOTE]If you had that much fun you should go back there.
[QUOTE=TheFonz;2536317]I'm just curious. Has anyone come across someone wearing one of those ankle brackets that track your location before?[/QUOTE]Yes several. One at a rub shop and two at their hotel / apartment. Hey, the odds are they won't run out with the cash!
[QUOTE=MojoGuy;2538198]If you had that much fun you should go back there.[/QUOTE]No Mojo. I am here now taking over your city! LOL.
I am curious about the concept because at the stage in my life I can not see myself paying for a woman to be with me on a constant basis. I would pick up a lady in a bar or online for that. I am not judging. Just curious to why that decision is made. Does she get paid weekly, every time you see her or just whenever she needs financial assistance? I am also curious if the men think that the woman really cares about them. Would she stay if he had no more money? Just curious! Stay safe!
I would also like some info on Bree. Anyone taken the plunge yet? She looks like my kind of girl.
[QUOTE=Aruba1234;2535845][URL]http://louisville.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/bree-bree-bree-502-912-2878/8584870[/URL]
Any body tried this one yet? She says she's new?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DewDirty;2538352]I am curious about the concept because at the stage in my life I can not see myself paying for a woman to be with me on a constant basis. I would pick up a lady in a bar or online for that. I am not judging. Just curious to why that decision is made. Does she get paid weekly, every time you see her or just whenever she needs financial assistance? I am also curious if the men think that the woman really cares about them. Would she stay if he had no more money? Just curious! Stay safe![/QUOTE]The arrangements can vary between a regular (monthly / weekly) stipend down to a pay-as-you-go basis. I think their preference is usually at least weekly from my very limited experience just discussing the topic with a couple of potential SBs. However, I don't think the goal is to be with them on a constant basis. That's like a clingy girlfriend (YUK). Instead I believe the goal is that they are essentially on-call to be with you when you want. I also don't think the goal is always to be "exclusive" with each other. Maybe Mojo / Kory are like that, but that's an example of how it can vary. There are SBs that try to have a very limited number of SDs, but this only works as long as the SDs desire company at different times. And, who's to say that a SD can't have more than one SB? If I had mad cash I'd probably have a SB in a few different cities LOL.
Do the women really care about their SDs? I'm sure they can grow to care about them over time. Will the SB stay if the guy has no more money? Um, no! It is what it is. No pay no play! Good luck retaining a SB or even a real gf if you run out of money LOL.
Good questions though. I'm sure there are as many variations as days in the month.
[QUOTE=DewDirty;2538352]I am curious about the concept because at the stage in my life I can not see myself paying for a woman to be with me on a constant basis. I would pick up a lady in a bar or online for that. I am not judging. Just curious to why that decision is made. Does she get paid weekly, every time you see her or just whenever she needs financial assistance? I am also curious if the men think that the woman really cares about them. Would she stay if he had no more money? Just curious! Stay safe![/QUOTE]A semi exclusive ho for dough arrangement. I prefer just picking a favorite BR girl that offers extras or an escort. But my ho budget is limited.
[QUOTE=DewDirty;2538352]I am curious about the concept because at the stage in my life I can not see myself paying for a woman to be with me on a constant basis. I would pick up a lady in a bar or online for that. I am not judging. Just curious to why that decision is made. Does she get paid weekly, every time you see her or just whenever she needs financial assistance? I am also curious if the men think that the woman really cares about them. Would she stay if he had no more money? Just curious! Stay safe![/QUOTE]Sometimes you find gold. Got a regular that takes care of me a couple times a week, she's a stripper and I met her in a club. She is bi but likes the fact that I can eat pussy better than many of her girlfriends. Often no $ are given and she just texts when she's horny. Doubt I ever drop more than $$ a month on her and often much less so it's a pretty good situation. Sends me hot ass pics when she's bored at work and brings in a GF every now and then. That is what I consider a workable situation.
Google louisvillemunchgroup.
[QUOTE=DewDirty;2537630]Does anyone have any information on swinger / sex parties? I had fun being in them when I lived in Florida![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Jamster611;2538524]I would also like some info on Bree. Anyone taken the plunge yet? She looks like my kind of girl.[/QUOTE]Not sure, but I definitely recall that top picture from a year or so ago. Be careful brotheren!
[QUOTE=Ohboy469;2538630]Sometimes you find gold. Got a regular that takes care of me a couple times a week, she's a stripper and I met her in a club. She is bi but likes the fact that I can eat pussy better than many of her girlfriends. Often no $ are given and she just texts when she's horny. Doubt I ever drop more than $$ a month on her and often much less so it's a pretty good situation. Sends me hot ass pics when she's bored at work and brings in a GF every now and then. That is what I consider a workable situation.[/QUOTE]I like your situation! Thanks for the insight!
[QUOTE=LikeMike1963;2538649]Google louisvillemunchgroup.[/QUOTE]I will check it out!
[QUOTE=DewDirty;2537630]Does anyone have any information on swinger / sex parties? I had fun being in them when I lived in Florida![/QUOTE]Google two things:
-- Bluegrass Secrets.
-- Louisville Party Apartment.
[QUOTE=Nocturne;2538733]Google two things:
-- Bluegrass Secrets.
-- Louisville Party Apartment.[/QUOTE]Funboomers has meetings a few times a month and another group takes over that spot in Fridays.