Veteran providers and novice providers
You know, if you are going to go into any biz, if you are going to invest in any biz- learn something about it. If you wanted to go into being a real estate broker, car dealership owner, mechanic shop owner, to name a few- learn something about it; otherwise, you won't be in biz for very long.
Why these examples? I have spoken with many novice providers who are under the tutelage or mentor-ship of a dumb bunny veteran provider and the things they either omit telling them or tell them about how to stay out of trouble in this biz is just plain ignorant. The so-called vets tell them: if you touch the customer- he's not a leo; if he touches you-he's not a leo; if he shows you his private parts-he's not a leo; if he gets butt naked-he's not a leo; and the biggest one is- if you ask him if he's leo and he says no then- he's not a leo! All I can say is ignorant!
In order for LEO to make you feel safe, he must do something to make you comfortable; he may even allow you to give him a BJ 1st then once you feel safe, he'll have the conversation with you about $ and s-x and once you commit to this- you're gone! So getting you to feel safe before you have the conversation is one tactic. You might say they can't allow you to give them a BJ; well technically you are right but by the time they arrest and book you; you bond out and hire an attorney and by the time your trial comes up, LEO would have had 100 showers to wash away your DNA. Then once in trial, he can lie to the court that you never put your mouth on his private parts. They lie all the time and its legal. Do you think an undercover working to bust a drug gang is going to tell them who he really is? No!
So my main point is that people have many opinions about what to do and what not to do in order to stay out of trouble BUT I urge you to proceed with caution. Some of us have a lot to lose and we don't want our pix to end up in SSS publication and therefore we have educated ourselves in order to avoid any legal issues. If you don't want to have an arrest as a constant reminder of what you use to do (this escort hobby) , my advice is to get a sound education about these things so when you walk away from it, you're fine. People who continue to sleep with providers without raincoats will probably have HIV as a reminder of what they use to do. Is it worth it!
And so it is, there are varying opinions out there but hopefully you'll use sound judgement in knowing what is legitimate and what isn't. I also hope people don't misread me or misinterpret me. I am not on here to be a big shot or to try to know it all or have people look up to me. I just like to help people stay safe and avoid the embarrassment and inconvenience of getting jammed up.
One ruff and rotten world!
Hey guys, I know we have all traveled down a road wondering what we will find along the way. But this life is so much like the old saying "the dog chasing the tail". We are all chasing the tail if you know what I mean. But our life becomes like there's a wonder if we are going to get caught by LEO. But some they worry about loosing there careers and there family. The only thing most of the ladies worry about is will I ever get another hit or a needle in the arm and how will I ever get my life back. The guy giving them the goods worries about will he not get our money and does not want to go to jail. What a very sad world. We really want to find a lady that has all her eggs in one basket, if she is making a living than that's a great and that would be a lady to spend time with. But there are so many sad stories out here of the "dark horse" leading them around, a rock that melts with heat. Even the system of LEO reaps a benefit from us. All I can say is look where the oldest profession has really advanced from the cowboy days "LOL". So folks I am signing off here for now I may be back and then again I may not. Guys and girls please stay safe!