You have to be strategic on SA
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;3274408]I don't get the point of what you guys are up to. How does this teach you what you can get off the site? Fact is, most of the guys on SA are boors and are approaching women there like they were propositioning SWs, so if you have a fake profile, they are already sensitized against you. If you want to find out what's possible from SA, you're going to have to jump in w / who you really are (even if your idnetity is secret) - otherwise, I'd recommend sticking w / BP.[/QUOTE]You have to act different on SA. I used to have a profile there and met a lot of women to have with on a "per meet" basis. They would usually hang out for quite a few hours especially if you ordered in lunch or a meal and made it fun. Since most of these women are quite presentable, you can actually go outside and do things / events with them and they won't charge you anything extra.
I stopped going there because I found a really awesome mature, Asian spinner who comes to me on a per meet of 250. She stays for at least 4-6 hours, we eat lunch or do something together. We usually go multiple rounds until I am drained and then she gives me a full body massage. Her menu is completely open. She has never said no to me for anything and I have some rather kinky interests. We have a verbal agreement that she will come over about twice a month. After our meets, I am completely spent and usually just go to bed, feeling very content. That, on a per hourly basis is a steal.
Strategery for saving $ on SA
I've been a member for just under a month. 80 bux is not pocket change though.
At this point, I've seen enough ladies to keep me going as repeats, plus a list of others who will do per-meet engagements, some of which have been reported on here.
The next month would bring some new ones into the rotation, but I'm just "plowing" through the current ones before I could get to the next crop.
So, I'm thinking of skipping the next month, and then renewing a month later after I've exhausted my backlog, cutting the per-month cost to $40.
SA membership upgrade photo
Thanks for all the info regarding membership strategies. The sire does indicate that you can message the SB's with either a paid membership or by uploading a picture. Has anyone gone that route? I know posting photos is almost totally unheard of for us hobbyists, but if it's discrete, and doesn't show the face. If anyone has tried that angle, are there any requirements with regard to the pic you upload?
I'm sorry. That wasn't my experience at all!
[QUOTE=SconnieCarl4;3280590]Was supposed to meet up with ElizabethP from SA this morning. Long story short, I gave her the cash to get the room and she ran with it. Really bummed me out, she's a cute little thing that I think would have been fun to spend a few hours with. She's had good reviews here too. I've given her enough time to communicate back to me on SA via messages (she's read at least one asking her for an explanation) and via text. Was hoping that it was just nerves and that we'd be able to meet up to set things right. Hasn't communicated back, I'm assuming that she won't.
So, I can report that she's a cute little thing, but I can't report on any activities.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/8409e4e0-bb98-1d78-5bee-31e5f006cc89[/URL]
That's her SA profile. Other posters are right, SA pics don't don her justice. She wasn't all dolled up today, but she was cute as hell in yoga pants and a slightly tight shirt.
Bummer.
Carl out.[/QUOTE]Apologies friend. I met her once in Jan. She came over to my place and was basically no-limits-do-whatever-you-want for a benjamin. She never watched the clock and I was drained at the end of it.
Of course, I hide and lock all my valuables and identifying information before providers come over, even if they are ones that I have met multiple times and have proven to be generally reliable.
