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2 Hour Delay
Absolutely hilarious that you came to this board looking for sympathy, empathy or allies. You wasted her time and money, she was beyond professional in her response, and now you're looking for validation from us? You're a funny dude.
[QUOTE=CuminCider;7196867]I'm going to write this impartially. I gave Heather a timeframe a day or two before the proposed meeting, and we were set. I told her I'd be in a meeting before that.
Fast forward to the day of. The meeting went about two hours over and I couldn't help it. That's how business goes sometimes, we all know that.
I'm getting to my car and letting her know I'm on the way. She tells me not to come over. Not that she's unavailable now, just that she's offended.
The final text she sent is below. She didn't curse me out and call me names, but I do think she was unfair. I was about to become a regular, but, now, I guess we both lose out, me included. I told her I was dressed nicely for her and I would give her a tip.
Here it is:
I never doubted in any way how you were dressed. I just don't want clients who book in the way that you did and then especially after you used the "tip" as your defense. I care about gaining clients who are punctual. Clients who don't assume I am sitting here waiting with nothing to do. Clients who cost me money are no longer welcome to be a client. I very much take what I do seriously. Just a tip for you. I would wait and book your visit when your meeting is over when you seek a different provider. I also would answer the questions she asks bc we ask them for a reason. Furthermore. If the next provider is a well establish provider, as I am, NEVER, EVER, EVER throw a tip up in the air like it's something special. You making.
That statement is just as rude as if I was to act like low class white trash and cuss you out because you have already wasted 2 plus hours (600 $+) of my time today. No. I took the higher road. I was polite. I don't need your money or your tip. Have a wonderful weekend just please find another provider.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=MarcusGoinsBig;7198357]Absolutely hilarious that you came to this board looking for sympathy, empathy or allies. You wasted her time and money, she was beyond professional in her response, and now you're looking for validation from us? You're a funny dude.[/QUOTE]I totally agree with Marcus. Heather was beyond professional in her response. I certainly would have not been so kind. Anyway, I have never seen Heather but I will make a point of doing so in the very near future. She is a class act!
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[QUOTE=CuminCider;7196867]I'm going to write this impartially. I gave Heather a timeframe a day or two before the proposed meeting, and we were set. I told her I'd be in a meeting before that.
Fast forward to the day of. The meeting went about two hours over and I couldn't help it. That's how business goes sometimes, we all know that.
I'm getting to my car and letting her know I'm on the way. She tells me not to come over. Not that she's unavailable now, just that she's offended.
The final text she sent is below. She didn't curse me out and call me names, but I do think she was unfair. I was about to become a regular, but, now, I guess we both lose out, me included. I told her I was dressed nicely for her and I would give her a tip.
.[/QUOTE]Put the shoe on the other foot!! You called her for an incall and she showed up 2 hours late. What would you be saying?
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Heather
I'm with the others on here. If I'm 5 minutes late I'm calling or texting the provider to let her know what's going on. 2 hours is beyond ridiculous.
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Really?
I find it EXCEEDINGLY hard to believe a meeting goes two hours over and you can't "take a bathroom break" a half hour in to shoot her a text? Also feels redundant you were "dressed nice for her" if you were in a meeting that took several hours. No one in a meeting that long is doing so from a McDonald's.
She is totally in the right and handled that with complete professional courtesy. You treated her like an object meant to be picked up at your whim rather than a small business owner. She's "selling" her sexual services sure, but think if it was someone coming to install custom windows and you left them out in your driveway for 2 hours.
Next time, if something runs long and there's no end in sight, a tip: take 30 seconds and send a "hey this is running long, no idea when it'll be done, I'll text when it is maybe we can connect then" text. Watch the world get much easier for you.
I'm going to write this impartially. I gave Heather a timeframe a day or two before the proposed meeting, and we were set. I told her I'd be in a meeting before that.
Fast forward to the day of. The meeting went about two hours over and I couldn't help it. That's how business goes sometimes, we all know that.
I'm getting to my car and letting her know I'm on the way. She tells me not to come over. Not that she's unavailable now, just that she's offended.
The final text she sent is below. She didn't curse me out and call me names, but I do think she was unfair. I was about to become a regular, but, now, I guess we both lose out, me included. I told her I was dressed nicely for her and I would give her a tip.
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Heather
Saw Heather again recently and she now only does CFS now (for health reasons as of about a week or two ago). Regardless, I would definitely still recommend seeing her as she's the sweetest and you won't find another provider like her for miles.
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Heather status update
I just came back home and saw an update about Heather when trying to set up an appointment. Yeah someone messed up bad and should be ashamed since she is one of the nicer and honest providers around. While I set up an appointment with her I've found out a few things. So if you've been with her before, she honors the legacy pricing she had with you for the time being and the new rates for the new clients. As for doing it BBFSCIP, she still offers that to the legacy clients (unsure about new ones) but it does require a rapid STD test before the meeting. I didn't realize how long it would take but it has a max wait time of 5 business days and with my insurance a $50 co-pay. I messaged her 2 hours before the meeting letting her know the situation and ask if she wanted to keep the appointment but have everything covered or if its okay to reschedule, she was very understanding about it and said that its okay to reschedule and to let her know when once I get my test results back.
TLDR:
Legacy clients has the old rates and BBFSCIP is still on the table but requires a STD test beforehand now.
New clients might not have these anymore if they aren't on the new ads. You doesn't hurt to ask if its on the table.
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Heather
Had a dream with her about a month ago. It was in the evening on a Wednesday. Drove over to her place. Nice neighborhood / apartment. She answers the door in a nice green lingerie piece. She took me to the spare bedroom. I borrowed the facilities (was almost an hour drive due to traffic). She had me get comfortable and we laid cuddling. Her hand wandered someone but generally just cuddled. After about 10 minutes of that we made out while our hands wandered. BBBJ up first. She's pretty good at it. Not crazy or anything. She then didn't even hesitate and slid me in. She did her thing riding. I could see her wetness splattering on my legs. She came and not long after CIP. Afterwards we cuddled more and spoke about life, where we live things like that. She's a cool woman and super friendly. She has a pierced nipple with a bolt / heart. Since there was no discussion about it before hand and I was surprised I told her I had recent clean STI tests if she wanted to see. She said no and that she gets tested weekly. I haven't had a chance to see her again but was 100% worth it.
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[QUOTE=JohnTronBonne;7225627]I just came back home and saw an update about Heather when trying to set up an appointment. Yeah someone messed up bad and should be ashamed since she is one of the nicer and honest providers around. While I set up an appointment with her I've found out a few things. So if you've been with her before, she honors the legacy pricing she had with you for the time being and the new rates for the new clients. As for doing it BBFSCIP, she still offers that to the legacy clients (unsure about new ones) but it does require a rapid STD test before the meeting. I didn't realize how long it would take but it has a max wait time of 5 business days and with my insurance a $50 co-pay. I messaged her 2 hours before the meeting letting her know the situation and ask if she wanted to keep the appointment but have everything covered or if its okay to reschedule, she was very understanding about it and said that its okay to reschedule and to let her know when once I get my test results back.
TLDR:
Legacy clients has the old rates and BBFSCIP is still on the table but requires a STD test beforehand now.
New clients might not have these anymore if they aren't on the new ads. You doesn't hurt to ask if its on the table.[/QUOTE]That's a damn shame. She's my ATF for BBFSCIP.
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Heather
Well since this seems to be the Heather forum. LOL Has anyone seen or heard from her in the past few weeks? I'm a regular but am getting crickets lately. Curious.
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Heather
[QUOTE=Bryceman;7243723]Well since this seems to be the Heather forum. LOL Has anyone seen or heard from her in the past few weeks? I'm a regular but am getting crickets lately. Curious.[/QUOTE]Same. I've been a regular too and I've not heard back from her either in about two weeks.
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Town sucks
[QUOTE=Bryceman;7243723]Well since this seems to be the Heather forum. LOL Has anyone seen or heard from her in the past few weeks? I'm a regular but am getting crickets lately. Curious.[/QUOTE]Yeah. We can have ten times better options in Greenbelt or Alexandria areas. Now that's what it is.
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Heather is back but.
So, I got a message from Heather today explaining that she is back. It looks like she got a heads-up on LP activities in the area and decided to go on vacation for a bit. Due to LP booking the girls under the guise of a client, she is only seeing past clients, and absolutely no new clients. For the regulars here, lets not ruin a good thing even via DMs and leak her new numbers please. I'll probably hit her up later this month.
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Torin
I just found out this morning that she passed away on 5/13. I called the funeral home and hotel she stayed at to confirm. She was somebody that I got to know quite well and although she had a rough life, she always tried to see the good in people and try to better her situation. She was my favorite person to see despite the flakiness. Just wanted to let you all know. RIP Torin.
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RIP Torin
[QUOTE=RatedRko93;7288684]I just found out this morning that she passed away on 5/13. I called the funeral home and hotel she stayed at to confirm. She was somebody that I got to know quite well and although she had a rough life, she always tried to see the good in people and try to better her situation. She was my favorite person to see despite the flakiness. Just wanted to let you all know. RIP Torin.[/QUOTE]OH, No. I saw her regularly for a long time now. I was wondering what was going on, I have been messaging her. I will really miss her.