Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

[QUOTE=JaxSon07;6299095]She's had various profiles over the past few years, I got with her 3 times back in 2018 I think. Then she was 21 or 22, new to SA, and had a rocking body. Really sweet gal, liked sex, and gave great head. Haven't seen her since, or seen pics of her since. So I can't comment on what she's like today.[/QUOTE]I am laying the groundwork for a business trip to Indy in a month or so. This profile I haven't favorited b / c this looks like a light skinned AA girl. Not my taste. Can you clarify on that? And what sort of allowance?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/76fa56bc-46f0-4fee-b59b-6b394a869e7f[/URL]

She's been on since last spring. She hit me up last summer but I already had to many in rotation. Pics she sent me were pretty good and she was def DTF based on our texts, couldn't host but was located in Avon I think. Her communication was a little sporadic so I lost interest. She just hit me up again and she's on the site constantly. I'm sure one of dudes has some more info on her. PM or Post if you have anything.

Thanks TB.

[QUOTE=SixtyNineX10;6290967]Has anyone partaken. Feel free to dm.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f59b9e21-6121-43b7-a815-dcf5ad79a77f[/URL][/QUOTE]Ehh. Saw her about 4-5 years ago and we spent an evening at the jw. Boobs were deflated and had tummy damage.

Worth a meetup in a pinch. Seems to really enjoy sex tbh.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/42c4a37e-5ae4-4162-a50c-e096bb6c4c04[/URL]

Limited rules.

[QUOTE=Bigred2006;6298037][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ad9916ac-b771-4473-8fd4-181c4cf23449[/URL]

Don't waste your time.[/QUOTE]Yep. I had some exchanges with her. Waste of time.

[QUOTE=TommyButt;6280424]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6fd9245c-7e3b-400c-b9a4-7ba853da8805[/URL]

Owns a cleaning biz in Indy and seems a little over exuberant.

Thanks TB.[/QUOTE]Met this lady three times. She's a tall drink and a lot of fun!

[QUOTE=HasselFree;6294381]Perusing SB got a message. Long story short wants a 1 K weekly allowance [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/messages?box=Inbox&requested_profile_id=10021907[/URL].[/QUOTE]I've met her twice, as Rachael1919. Decent time, but there are so many others I moved on.

I've been on SA for one and a half subscriptions. After checking this thread, and looking at the profiles you guys have dissed, I see I've already trashed them or blocked them. A lot of accurate info here!

I get around 200-400 interest likes on my profile a week. Most are Colombia, Venezuela, and Philippines. Many from Europe, too. Then most of the rest are all over the USA A few a week are from the Indy area ans I initiate contact.

All I see on how to filter where my profile is seen is my message inbox. Messages from out of the area are diverted. All else, views and likes clog up my page!

Thanks in advance.

JohnGuest.

Anybody taken a ride on this one? She sent me a number without even asking. Seems ambitious to me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b53e7c0b-dbb5-4370-a67a-43dcd4bd0487[/URL]

[QUOTE=Mnyez;6301531]Anybody taken a ride on this one? She sent me a number without even asking. Seems ambitious to me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b53e7c0b-dbb5-4370-a67a-43dcd4bd0487[/URL][/QUOTE]She did the same thing to me. Message with just a phone number. Given how hot she is I'm 95% sure she's not real. But to quote Dumb and Dumber. So you're saying there's a chance.

[QUOTE=IndyGuy85;6301602]She did the same thing to me. Message with just a phone number. Given how hot she is I'm 95% sure she's not real. But to quote Dumb and Dumber. So you're saying there's a chance.[/QUOTE]Yep, I haven't texted yet.

[QUOTE=Mnyez;6301531]Anybody taken a ride on this one? She sent me a number without even asking. Seems ambitious to me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b53e7c0b-dbb5-4370-a67a-43dcd4bd0487[/URL][/QUOTE]I have she's overpriced.

[QUOTE=JohnBuddy;6302026]I have she's overpriced.[/QUOTE]I stand corrected. Guess she is real LOL.

[QUOTE=JohnBuddy;6302026]I have she's overpriced.[/QUOTE]What's the damage & menu?

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6299769]I am laying the groundwork for a business trip to Indy in a month or so. This profile I haven't favorited b / c this looks like a light skinned AA girl. Not my taste. Can you clarify on that? And what sort of allowance?[/QUOTE]Yeah, she was a light skinned AA girl. However she's from the more affluent suburbs and had no "ghetto" in her. If that means anything to you. As far as donation, what I gave her 5 years ago is not really applicable today.

[QUOTE=JaxSon07;6302531]Yeah, she was a light skinned AA girl. However she's from the more affluent suburbs and had no "ghetto" in her. If that means anything to you. As far as donation, what I gave her 5 years ago is not really applicable today.[/QUOTE]I recently offered her 3 and she countered and asked for 4 or 3 twice a month.

Anyone seeing a bit of lowered costs from the girls? I feel like they might be feeling the tightening of the economy.

[QUOTE=Mnyez;6301531]Anybody taken a ride on this one? She sent me a number without even asking. Seems ambitious to me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b53e7c0b-dbb5-4370-a67a-43dcd4bd0487[/URL][/QUOTE]I met her last year for a drink, she was a realtor and used to live at Keystone at the Crossing area. She now lives in Chicago and keeps trying to sell me pictures. She was back for Christmas and contacted me, but I never did bother.

[QUOTE=ItsBigiKnow;6302436]What's the damage & menu?[/QUOTE]5 bills open menu covered except BJ.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7fdbd88e-ae96-412e-9d98-de4231bff2e6[/URL]

Been on and off for couple years. Think I recall that she was a $$ and totally open menu a cpl years ago, before after market boobs. Texted her and she was 1000 ppm. I just dropped it, she isn't that hot. Anyone hit it for reasonable? If so I may try, just don't want to play if she's that deluded. She's a 3 $ all day.

[QUOTE=ItsBigiKnow;6307917][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7fdbd88e-ae96-412e-9d98-de4231bff2e6[/URL]

Been on and off for couple years. Think I recall that she was a $$ and totally open menu a cpl years ago, before after market boobs. Texted her and she was 1000 ppm. I just dropped it, she isn't that hot. Anyone hit it for reasonable? If so I may try, just don't want to play if she's that deluded. She's a 3 $ all day.[/QUOTE]She has all kinds of toys and stuff for BD on her wish list. DYK if she is really submissive? I think she's pretty, and as an out of town visitor, I bet I could have fun w / her for a reasonable amount.

Just tried to log in and received a "account has been deleted" message. There is zero point zero chance that I broke any of the rules regarding sex for money discussions through the site. Very soon after initial meeting, I take things to text. If they won't do it, I don't speak with them any further. Not a single time in the five years plus that I've been a member has money been discussed outside of a text exchange, nor have I spoken about any sexual acts. I wrote to them. I guess I'll see if they reply. The last person I was corresponding with was a chick in Daytona who turned out to be an a-hole. So I blew her off, via text. We penciled something in for like a Tuesday, no location and no set time BTW. On Monday, I told her I wouldn't be able to get together, asked what her schedule was like later in the week. She gave it to me, and that was the end of the exchange, but she was shitty. You could just tell. Is it possible that someone can accuse you of something that supposedly took place off the site, in a text exchange or in person, that could get you banned without having any actual texts or other proof, like an offer of money for sex, assault, etc. In the age of metoo, an accusation is as good as proof, and I suspect that a site owner wouldn't even look into anything. They'd just boot you. Who knows. It had to be something like that though, and I haven't had any negative correspondence with anyone other than her. I can tell through my emails that my account was active until at least the 10th. The interactions with the Daytona a-hole were a couple days after that. If they don't respond, I'll reach out and ask her if she did something. I think she would be honest, not because of a moral compass, but because she would be proud that she fucked someone over and exacted some weird sort of revenge for somehow being wronged. In the past few years, I've had two different women in two completely different scenarios threaten to make a false allegation. The smart ones know that such an accusation would never ever ever be investigated or looked into, no matter what the context. If you're a woman, and you want to take someone down, how to make that happen without the fear of anyone questioning you is a no-brainer, not today.

After a phenomenal week of insanely good sex with three different women in Florida, my luck has apparently turned. First this seeking thing, and secondly last night, driving to Cincy, getting a room at a cost of $250 (room, tax, valet, pet fee), and then being ghosted by Kandee Apple (pretty sure that's not her real name), my luck has taken a downturn. I guess everything eventually tries to find its way toward equilibrium, so this is to be expected I suppose.

Second question. For those of you who have gotten kicked off, what did you do to go about securing another account?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6970ee63-afd7-4163-b7a5-d72ef46dd8b8[/URL]

Has anyone met her? She's been around a while.

[QUOTE=Bigred2006;6310072][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6970ee63-afd7-4163-b7a5-d72ef46dd8b8[/URL]

Has anyone met her? She's been around a while.[/QUOTE]She's real and like to be low volume and not that high of a donation. We stopped seeing each other as our schedules stopped matching up.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6308297]She has all kinds of toys and stuff for BD on her wish list. DYK if she is really submissive? I think she's pretty, and as an out of town visitor, I bet I could have fun w / her for a reasonable amount.[/QUOTE]Let me know what you're able to get her down to. PM is cool. I'll put in effort to negotiate if it seems she isn't totally deluded. Being from out of town helps?

[QUOTE=EarlyCuyler;6308500]Just tried to log in and received a "account has been deleted" message. There is zero point zero chance that I broke any of the rules regarding sex for money discussions through the site. Very soon after initial meeting, I take things to text. If they won't do it, I don't speak with them any further. Not a single time in the five years plus that I've been a member has money been discussed outside of a text exchange, nor have I spoken about any sexual acts. I wrote to them. I guess I'll see if they reply. The last person I was corresponding with was a chick in Daytona who turned out to be an a-hole.

After a phenomenal week of insanely good sex with three different women in Florida, my luck has apparently turned. First this seeking thing, and secondly last night, driving to Cincy, getting a room at a cost of $250 (room, tax, valet, pet fee), and then being ghosted by Kandee Apple (pretty sure that's not her real name), my luck has taken a downturn. I guess everything eventually tries to find its way toward equilibrium, so this is to be expected I suppose.

Second question. For those of you who have gotten kicked off, what did you do to go about securing another account?[/QUOTE]1. they claim to be a dating site, no longer a sugar site, they changed the name to seeking and dropped arrangements its a front to try to fool the. Gov.

2. I've noticed other sites actually email you with reasons and or warnings. Seeking is trigger happy. This drives the ratio of SB's to men up, so they can use this as an advertising point.

3. if you do happen to beat the system (its a lot of hassle but can be done) then they "collect" from you again. Win win for them.

4. I posted something about a year ago about how to go about getting back on. I don't know the exact post #.

5. account deleted may not mean you were banned. Check the email associated with the user name.

They say they don't have to explain anything to you. (user agreement) So they don't. You'd almost have to not talk to anyone to keep from being banned at some point. IMHO. Its my belief that if you are a SD and get reported they do not investigate as other sites do, they just ban you. the refs are all playing for the other side.

I have a nick that isn't banned but its not paid because I don't need anything off there right now. I've had 1 account banned and then got back on. I didn't get reported the second time they just figure out who I was from a profile picture. Now they want an I'd. All they have to say to demand an I'd is that they think something suspicious is going on with your profile.

All these sites are pushing for photo verification to be mandatory (its coming).

It almost makes it mandatory to learn how to find Sb's on semi free sites like tinder or in the wild. It is much harder but when you do its 100 times better. I still go by my theory that good Sb's are created not found. If you / me / we. Brag on one that were found, she's already been ran through. Which is OK. If That's not an issue. Sometimes you just have to go with that.

I also had a long post on creating a Sb rather than finding one, as its my belief all girls like to be spoiled, and its just a number to see how much they'll throw it back for.

There is a porn star on Seeking right now In INDY who is throwing it back for clients. Maybe you if you connect with her. Her user name is Spicybabiii or something like that. She really is in porn movies. Google produces plenty of her movies on the P hub.

[QUOTE=WreckItRight;6310364]It almost makes it mandatory to learn how to find Sb's on semi free sites like tinder or in the wild. It is much harder but when you do its 100 times better. I still go by my theory that good Sb's are created not found. [/QUOTE]And I can add it when you get tired of them you tell them about the Sugarbaby sites. Sometimes I will pay big money to get it that first time. After that it always comes now and it's good for other mongers because once they get OK with the idea of selling it. They'll sell it to anybody. Well about anybody.

[QUOTE=WreckItRight;6310375]There is a porn star on Seeking right now In INDY who is throwing it back for clients. Maybe you if you connect with her. Her user name is Spicybabiii or something like that. She really is in porn movies. Google produces plenty of her movies on the P hub.[/QUOTE]Do you have a link? I'm not able to find her on that usename or Spicybabii, Spicybabi, etc.

[QUOTE=ItCouldBeMe2;6311055]Do you have a link? I'm not able to find her on that usename or Spicybabii, Spicybabi, etc.[/QUOTE]Spicybabiii101 is her SA name. We exchanged messages, but it hasn't went anywhere yet.

I wasn't aware she does porn work. I searched her name online, and was never able to find anything, so I'm not sure what the OP is referring to.

[QUOTE=SixtyNineX10;6316034]Has anyone met her seems legit, feel free to pm me. Thanks.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/sent/7af12970-4afd-4716-be80-5f15106edd5a[/URL][/QUOTE]You posted link to messages.

Hate when I do that.

Anybody have any experience with this one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7a4ce326-1bd4-4055-861a-4ec575ebdab7[/URL]

[QUOTE=Mnyez;6317122]Anybody have any experience with this one.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7a4ce326-1bd4-4055-861a-4ec575ebdab7[/URL][/QUOTE]Mother of 4. I'd say many people have. LOL.

Lets try this again - anyone have info.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aedeeab8-2b11-47b7-b660-679d6e8477b3[/URL]

Tread lightly in contacting this one. I approached with humor and was met with excessive rudeness and a generally c-wordy demeanor.

Instant block and report.

This girl wore me out this past summer trying to set something up but never did happen. Just wandering if anyone has hit it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b6c7660e-b7cf-46f0-8128-c8b4bdacc604[/URL]
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/pwBZ4v2GJnPebxO0eXDWnjbg[/URL]

This girl immediately excepted an offer but I'm not buying any credits unless I get a good report. Only used the app once but I've had a profile on it for a few years. That buying token thing just feels like a massive scam. Though I do know a few dudes that have had some success on it and there are obviously crossover girls from SA and SB I have seen on there.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/pwBZ4v2GJnPebxO0eXDWnjbg[/URL]

[QUOTE=TommyButt;6321350]This girl wore me out this past summer trying to set something up but never did happen. Just wandering if anyone has hit it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b6c7660e-b7cf-46f0-8128-c8b4bdacc604[/URL]
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/pwBZ4v2GJnPebxO0eXDWnjbg[/URL]

This girl immediately excepted an offer but I'm not buying any credits unless I get a good report. Only used the app once but I've had a profile on it for a few years. That buying token thing just feels like a massive scam. Though I do know a few dudes that have had some success on it and there are obviously crossover girls from SA and SB I have seen on there.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/pwBZ4v2GJnPebxO0eXDWnjbg[/URL][/QUOTE]First one is real, thick (but not fat, she was attractive), and was good in bed. She's a bike though, she gets around. Hit it once and had fun but didn't feel the need to go again.

[QUOTE=JaxSon07;6311237]Spicybabiii101 is her SA name. We exchanged messages, but it hasn't went anywhere yet.

I wasn't aware she does porn work. I searched her name online, and was never able to find anything, so I'm not sure what the OP is referring to.[/QUOTE]Search for baby star or babi star also I would avoid her.

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Chatted for two days. Talks a good game about the experience she can provide and how she's not like everyone else. Then hits you with the deposit. I thought with the wrong head and gave in. And she instantly quit talking. Gave her 24 hours to make good. Silence.

Her name is Mykayla. Mom of three and her pics are very misleading as she's a buck-fifty, based on her police report. Oh yeah. She's awaiting trial on theft charges. Stay far away. Or you'll end up fucked in the not fun way.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6dc32ec8-3911-416c-8c7b-ec3d5a1a0f6e[/URL]