Strip Club Reports

[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3457300]Don't want to put it out there After reading my post again this morning, I think I answered my own question. Yes, I am a bit of a moron.[/QUOTE]Best you can hope for, she likes the attention, you listen to her, she loves when someone will listen to her. She likes having a man's attention. Or she sees you as possible funding down the road. Know your spending limits and go for it as a realist. Then when it ends you aren't blown up. But you can say it was a hell of a run. Been there.

[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3456990]Have you ever just hit it off with one of these Girls? I mean laughing, great conversation, incredible eye contact. Unbelievable Heat and attraction in the private dances (nothing illegal&#128540 ? I mean the kind where every time you see her you just think she's even more gorgeous than the last time you saw her? Unfortunately, it has happened to me. The problem is that I don't think she has the same interest as me. So the question is this " Am I moron thinking that a beautiful young lady could possibly be interested in going out with me? I'll let you know the answer when I know.[/QUOTE]Think of it like this. If you were in an environment outside a strip club in which her goal is to make you feel good to get as much money as possible, would she give you the time of day? Granted based on how we criticize some of the looks of the girls on this board I know we all have bodies and looks like Chris Hemsworth.

I understand though. I really like a couple girls there. One I really like and love talking to because we have a lot in common and she's like my dream girl. But the fantasy does the second I see her talking to someone else and I remember that's there job.

[QUOTE=FootMan2007;3458164]Think of it like this. If you were in an environment outside a strip club in which her goal is to make you feel good to get as much money as possible, would she give you the time of day? Granted based on how we criticize some of the looks of the girls on this board I know we all have bodies and looks like Chris Hemsworth.

I understand though. I really like a couple girls there. One I really like and love talking to because we have a lot in common and she's like my dream girl. But the fantasy does the second I see her talking to someone else and I remember that's there job.[/QUOTE]You are right on a whole lot of points. Sometimes I'm shocked if I'm walking through the mall and 25 year old hot girls don't check me out. I have spent some time with several girls and have had a great time. I just have more of a connection and feel differently about this girl. Kind of makes me feel a little stupid at times but honestly, these clubs have really helped restore my confidence which was beaten down from a long marriage. I know I'm in a dream world but hope I don't wake up soon.

[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3458209]You are right on a whole lot of points. Sometimes I'm shocked if I'm walking through the mall and 25 year old hot girls don't check me out. I have spent some time with several girls and have had a great time. I just have more of a connection and feel differently about this girl. Kind of makes me feel a little stupid at times but honestly, these clubs have really helped restore my confidence which was beaten down from a long marriage. I know I'm in a dream world but hope I don't wake up soon.[/QUOTE]You are selling her to yourself. I've been in your position many times where I thought I found a real connection. I have had girls that were legitimately attracted to me. There have been 2 over the past 7 years. Out of hundreds I've met and maybe 30-50 I've hooked up with, there were 2 real relationships, and they were VERY atypical girls. And at the time these relationships happened I was in top form and able to pick up young girls even when I wasn't at a club.

If one of these girls honestly likes you, you will know it because she will be gtg almost right away, or within the first 3 or 4 times you meet at the club. She will miss you and bug you to come in and she will not bug you for money. In fact one I dated refused to take any money from me once we started dating because it defined our relationship as real as opposed to me being just a customer. If she's not on drugs, then she's probably got more money than you and she doesn't need your financial support.

Just enjoy the illusion and don't read too much into it until you start seeing that sort of behavior. Don't hold your breath.

[QUOTE=NickTheDick;3459304]You are selling her to yourself. I've been in your position many times where I thought I found a real connection. I have had girls that were legitimately attracted to me. There have been 2 over the past 7 years. Out of hundreds I've met and maybe 30-50 I've hooked up with, there were 2 real relationships, and they were VERY atypical girls. And at the time these relationships happened I was in top form and able to pick up young girls even when I wasn't at a club.

If one of these girls honestly likes you, you will know it because she will be gtg almost right away, or within the first 3 or 4 times you meet at the club. She will miss you and bug you to come in and she will not bug you for money. In fact one I dated refused to take any money from me once we started dating because it defined our relationship as real as opposed to me being just a customer. If she's not on drugs, then she's probably got more money than you and she doesn't need your financial support.

Just enjoy the illusion and don't read too much into it until you start seeing that sort of behavior. Don't hold your breath.[/QUOTE]Thanks, really good advice. This young lady is definetly atypical. Regardless of where this ends up, I'm pretty sure she cares for me as much as I care for her. She likewise is strong and independent and doesn't want my money. I've dated enough dancers to know the difference but only time will tell.

Saw a super hot spinner at Harem Friday. Long black hair almost to her ass. Beautiful smile. Goes by Meadow. Don't think takeout is possible, but didn't ask. Maybe will the next time I see her. 2 ror 1 was an 8 plus.

So I was only in town for the evening and no longer have a go to girl in the area since BrownEyedBrooke isn't around. I know, I need to get to work on that for my frequent visits to the area. Anyway, I decided to hit Cheeks and there was a nice amount of eye candy. I wasn't approached by anyone dancers the entire time I was there which was about 2 hours. Not sure if that's typical for this place or not which leaves me with nothing to really report.

Ventured down to NYNY since I was staying closer to there. Not many people in the club the time I was there and maybe 8 to 10 dancers. I sat at the bar and had conversations with 3 dancers and spent the majority of my time with Remy and Heny (spelling? They were fun and energetic and did a couple lap dances with them before calling it an evening.

On this night, NYNY was the better time for me!

[QUOTE=BuckeyeGuy5;3463230]So I was only in town for the evening and no longer have a go to girl in the area since BrownEyedBrooke isn't around. I know, I need to get to work on that for my frequent visits to the area. Anyway, I decided to hit Cheeks and there was a nice amount of eye candy. I wasn't approached by anyone dancers the entire time I was there which was about 2 hours. Not sure if that's typical for this place or not which leaves me with nothing to really report.

Ventured down to NYNY since I was staying closer to there. Not many people in the club the time I was there and maybe 8 to 10 dancers. I sat at the bar and had conversations with 3 dancers and spent the majority of my time with Remy and Heny (spelling? They were fun and energetic and did a couple lap dances with them before calling it an evening.

On this night, NYNY was the better time for me![/QUOTE]Had the same experience frequently. Had several $$$ to spend with the ladies and was never approached. Waitresses are sometimes hard to come by also. Had to go to the bar to get a drink.

[QUOTE=BuckeyeGuy5;3463230]So I was only in town for the evening and no longer have a go to girl in the area since BrownEyedBrooke isn't around. I know, I need to get to work on that for my frequent visits to the area. Anyway, I decided to hit Cheeks and there was a nice amount of eye candy. I wasn't approached by anyone dancers the entire time I was there which was about 2 hours. Not sure if that's typical for this place or not which leaves me with nothing to really report.

Ventured down to NYNY since I was staying closer to there. Not many people in the club the time I was there and maybe 8 to 10 dancers. I sat at the bar and had conversations with 3 dancers and spent the majority of my time with Remy and Heny (spelling? They were fun and energetic and did a couple lap dances with them before calling it an evening.

On this night, NYNY was the better time for me![/QUOTE]It doesn't seem to matter whether you tip the dancers on stage, or not, they never come around to thank you or ask to sit with you or even ask for a dance. They go immediately to the dressing room, to a regular, a boyfriend or a dealer. Could be they are hiding from the pervert manger Eric as well. I very rarely go back there for all of the above reasons even though they have the hottest looking dancers in Dayton.

Stopped by the club last Wednesday afternoon. It was a little slow but some of my favorite dancers were there. I first spent some time with Venus, who I find to be senior friendly, she doesn't care if I'm a lot older. My wallet suggested I could spend time with one more dancer, and just then along came Storm. These girls either "dig" you or they don't. Maybe that's part of the reason to patronize these places.

[QUOTE=HotDog0007;3465094]It doesn't seem to matter whether you tip the dancers on stage, or not, they never come around to thank you or ask to sit with you or even ask for a dance. They go immediately to the dressing room, to a regular, a boyfriend or a dealer. Could be they are hiding from the pervert manger Eric as well. I very rarely go back there for all of the above reasons even though they have the hottest looking dancers in Dayton.[/QUOTE]Never seen him in the club before. Just curious but what makes him a pervert?

I will say that my experience on Saturday was rather blah. Just none of the dancers did much for means only a couple came to me. Thankfully Panther was there. Otherwise I really wouldn't have had any fun.

Started at Cheeks around 5:00, Very Dead as per usual anymore. Dancers trickled in after awhile. Spent some time and dances with the Lovely and unbelievably sexy Natasha (I think she loves me:)) Then it was onto the Harem. Without being a Negative Nancy, the highlight of the evening was the Cheese Quesadilla. Several girls but let's just say, not the best selection I have seen there. Happy Hunting!

I haven't spoke with one ex Cheeks dancer who didn't share the same story that Eric is looking for perks from the dancer.

[QUOTE=FootMan2007;3465417]Never seen him in the club before. Just curious but what makes him a pervert?

I will say that my experience on Saturday was rather blah. Just none of the dancers did much for means only a couple came to me. Thankfully Panther was there. Otherwise I really wouldn't have had any fun.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dtndude;3465664]I haven't spoke with one ex Cheeks dancer who didn't share the same story that Eric is looking for perks from the dancer.[/QUOTE]I've heard the same stories from numerous different girls. I've had friends that got into the dance scene and hanging around them and other girls and just from striking up conversation in the clubs with girls and I heard pretty much the same thing verbatim. At some point during their tenure there they were put In an uncomfortable situation. And I've heard this from at least 10 girls over course of 5-7 years.

[QUOTE=Dtndude;3465664]I haven't spoke with one ex Cheeks dancer who didn't share the same story that Eric is looking for perks from the dancer.[/QUOTE]Ditto and then some.