Tips, Tricks, Arguing, and Bullshit

[QUOTE=Postal12;7076260]I've been going round and round trying to schedule with a certain provider recently and finally gave up after terrible communication and it got me thinking.

For those of you who are "friends" with a provide and perhaps have some insider knowledge, on average, how many inquiries would you guesstimate they receive in a given day?

I couldn't guess if it's between 6-8 or 30-40, I genuinely have no idea.

Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Depending on the day, some days like Sundays are slow 5 messages. Busier days like Thurs-Saturday 20-40 messages. Most just asking questions. A few no shows. I would estimate less than a quarter of the texts are worth anything. The girls have to sort through the time waters, picture collectors and bored men just looking for someone to talk too.

[QUOTE=MiloRollins;7078651]I knew one very well for a time. When she would post an ad it would get over 100 messages in like 10 hrs. No way to keep up with it, tbh.[/QUOTE]Its worst then that with a very popular low volume provider. I know one provider that if you added all the back and forth text messages. She get 1000's of text messages and replys in 24 hours. She told me the people that get her attention in the first text always do this. She says she knows they are serious and most likely won't waste her time with a lot of texts.

FRIST TEXT MESSAGE.

1.) AGE, RACE, DATE AND TIME THEY WANT TO ME.

[QUOTE=DaveCoffee2018;7078849]Its worst then that with a very popular low volume provider. I know one provider that if you added all the back and forth text messages. She get 1000's of text messages and replys in 24 hours. She told me the people that get her attention in the first text always do this. She says she knows they are serious and most likely won't waste her time with a lot of texts..[/QUOTE]Absolutely right. Could not say it better. A gentleman should always start the conversation just like stated here. Introduce yourself. Give your age and race. Tell them get time and date desired.

Don't's. Start conversations with.

" send me your picture".

" what are your rates".

" where are you located".

" look at my past messages" - believe it or not these girls don't save every text they receive or have time to go back and read them even if they did.

All these things will be answered after introducing yourself.

Act like a grown adult not a middle school kid going through puberty. & don't keep asking for more pics. Overwhelmingly most men asking for more than one verification pic will never show up to see the lady. They are just trying to collect free pics.

Total Silence from and about her. She decide to take down another lifestyle hobby with her CI connections? Anyone heard more?

[QUOTE=BigJohncC;7078945]Absolutely right. Could not say it better. A gentleman should always start the conversation just like stated here. Introduce yourself. Give your age and race. Tell them get time and date desired.

All these things will be answered after introducing yourself.

Act like a grown adult not a middle school kid going through puberty. & don't keep asking for more pics. Overwhelmingly most men asking for more than one verification pic will never show up to see the lady. They are just trying to collect free pics.[/QUOTE]I found this site when first getting into the hobby and find it answers a lot of these types questions. Especially when trying to differentiate yourself from the hundreds of messages women get.

[URL]https://valleyscotthobby.wordpress.com/2018/08/21/contact-etiquette/[/URL]

[QUOTE=Tireddodger;7080703]I found this site when first getting into the hobby and find it answers a lot of these types questions. Especially when trying to differentiate yourself from the hundreds of messages women get.

[URL]https://valleyscotthobby.wordpress.com/2018/08/21/contact-etiquette/[/URL][/QUOTE]Great article thanks for sharing. I'm going to steal it for another board. Just yesterday my friend had some guy completely lie about where he got her phone number and for no reason. It's was not beneficial in anyway to lie and so obvious.

[QUOTE=CountryBoy419;7079127]Total Silence from and about her. She decide to take down another lifestyle hobby with her CI connections? Anyone heard more?[/QUOTE]Can you elaborate on this?

Anybody else get a feeling some on the board are going a bit overboard with the White Knighting and trying to be a handler?

[QUOTE=LiveMonger;7102072]Anybody else get a feeling some on the board are going a bit overboard with the White Knighting and trying to be a handler?[/QUOTE]If you're thinking about the Big guy here and also on the other board I thought of a handler after the first post or two.

[QUOTE=Mantenomo;7102313]If you're thinking about the Big guy here and also on the other board I thought of a handler after the first post or two.[/QUOTE]I'm not a handler. I get nothing from these girls other than the benefit of knowing I helped them out. Hell Emily gets $2000 a month allowance from me. All I do is help them and the men on these pages get quality interactions. I can totally under understand why someone would think that though. I just really care about these girls. All of them I meet on [URL]Sugardaddy.com[/URL] site and I have become good friends with them and they are on hard times. They like my mentorship and that's all.

Peace!

So some people on here think I'm a pimp or handler?

I'm am neither of those things. I have had numerous sugar babies all I have meet on sugar daddy. Com and have over the years became good friends with them. I never have and never would take a penny from these women and all of them have received generous compensation from me. I am only on here trying to help them in their fields of work by providing my experiences with them and letting you men know what's going on with them.

You want to call me a white knight? That's fine but I'm no handler and never would be. I'm a consulting professional and own my own business. I do t need their money and spend a great deal on them for their time and company. Sorry they are not all cheap high number taken advantage of women that some of you love to take full advantage of on here for pennys.

But I'll chill out and no longer share my numbers with people since it's causing false accusations that I don't need to have to deal with.

Peace out gentleman!

I never indicated who I thought this about. Another poster indicated you. I had others in mind as well. So there's that.

[QUOTE=BigJohncC;7102331]So some people on here think I'm a pimp or handler?

I'm am neither of those things. I have had numerous sugar babies all I have meet on sugar daddy. Com and have over the years became good friends with them. I never have and never would take a penny from these women and all of them have received generous compensation from me. I am only on here trying to help them in their fields of work by providing my experiences with them and letting you men know what's going on with them.

You want to call me a white knight? That's fine but I'm no handler and never would be. I'm a consulting professional and own my own business. I do t need their money and spend a great deal on them for their time and company. Sorry they are not all cheap high number taken advantage of women that some of you love to take full advantage of on here for pennys.

But I'll chill out and no longer share my numbers with people since it's causing false accusations that I don't need to have to deal with.

Peace out gentleman![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LiveMonger;7102072]Anybody else get a feeling some on the board are going a bit overboard with the White Knighting and trying to be a handler?[/QUOTE]Dude, You are wrong! Bigjohn is the nicest guy I have met here, truth be told. Its ok if you don't trust his review or input, but please don't drive this guy away with name calling like this as many of us who have benefited from his generosity can attest he's legit. Some of his providers are out of my price range, some are just not my type, but all his reviews are on point.

[QUOTE=Break24;7102982]Dude, You are wrong! Bigjohn is the nicest guy I have met here, truth be told. Its ok if you don't trust his review or input, but please don't drive this guy away with name calling like this as many of us who have benefited from his generosity can attest he's legit. Some of his providers are out of my price range, some are just not my type, but all his reviews are on point.[/QUOTE]Every board has their doubter and disbelievers even here. John has never done me wrong and he's shared his UTRs and some of his SB with me. Not all of them have have gone well but at least he's willing to put people in the know and doesn't have to. I'm just saying you guys are reading into this too much. I've been called the same on many of my post but false accusations and assumptions just hurt the board, then makes fellow mongers stop contributing.

[QUOTE=Break24;7102982]Dude, You are wrong! Bigjohn is the nicest guy I have met here, truth be told. Its ok if you don't trust his review or input, but please don't drive this guy away with name calling like this as many of us who have benefited from his generosity can attest he's legit. Some of his providers are out of my price range, some are just not my type, but all his reviews are on point.[/QUOTE]I never named a name. My post was an overall comment about the board. I never mentioned BigJohn at all. Others including you threw his name under the bus.