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[QUOTE=DildoBaggins77;4033393]I don't normally do this, but she checked out my profile so I checked hers. She can't be real. Can she?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a4b354da-41bd-42fe-b4df-643cbaea9757[/URL][/QUOTE]I sent a note back, but I forgot to start my message with "COMPLY" and I'm not blocked yet.
Sometimes it's fun to stir the pot just to see what happens. .
[QUOTE=GoodNightBalt;4034730]She is probably just looking for someone to pay for the airfare etc and it is most likely a scam, considering the age (or lack thereof) on the account. I get them all the time.[/QUOTE]Ah, ok! I didn't think anyone could be that diluted into thinking their aesthetics (and she's not even that good looking.) isn't a depreciating asset. I also rejoined today, so I should have some more intel later:
Sms08 - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/59ea82a7-5c70-4f18-922a-411ed3e8b096[/URL].
Looked like something I'd like to get into. Said she wants to network and have conversations. Asked if she expected compensation for conversation and she dodged the question, asked what I wanted and then no more replies. Probably safe to assume another internet relationship. If it goes in the other direction, I'll update.
Sierrababy - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a6493573-d1a0-4cec-b17b-3f89597803ad[/URL].
Seems DTF and realistic about expectations, however, on the fence about looks. If something pops with her personality I may pursue. Comes to baltimore once a week for work.
Maria - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fea78958-47e5-1d3c-a33b-a7400c6bf346[/URL].
Set up a meet, a little pushy about the time (I had things to take care of that day, and I told her that), but ended up cancelling the meet for that reason. Moved quickly and seemed DTF. Profile says "someone who possesses the ability to hold my attention," but wasn't very good at holding mine (and I wanted to talk).
With the increase in babies like the ones DepthCharge was talking about (and those that aren't attractive enough to be called babies) I decided to try and filter some of my page's traffic before it hits my inbox with these caveats in my "about me":
"open to anything" includes the intent of this website (dating, or similar investments).
And the last: don't asked to be "spoiled" if you have no intentions of putting a comparable or similar amount of investment into the daddy. No man, regardless how lonely, wants to dump that time, energy, resources AND money into someone that's not actually invested (emotionally and physically). I mean, would you do it? Nah. Let's be realistic about our expectations ladies.
Hopefully, I can dodge some bullets with that! I was offering 300 to babies I exchanged fluids with, but after some research, I also firmly believe it shouldn't be more than 200 for these girls. If I have some history with a baby, or she's a gem, then of course I'll adjust, but otherwise no. Offering more than the standard doesn't endear them to you, they're here for the money and I don't want to enable that GPS-like behavior anymore especially when you can get professional intervention for that price. I would encourage all the other daddies to make this the standard as well. If they need the money, a simple "no thanks" usually brings them down, trust me!
Pussy is tight, she loves to fuck, non rush, nice ass when your tired of driving in circles and want to beat uo some pussy in the back seat of your car she is the one.
[QUOTE=Piddybo;4032895]19 yr old, long brown hair, blue eyes, 4 ft 10,90 lbs in need of assistance.
EXTREMELY tight and had me popping in less than 5 (which is a first for me). Barely able to squeeze myself in and the walls just stayed clamped on me.
Pics attached.
Only seniors, reliable members and past number trades message me for number.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=LikItFun;4034801]I sent a note back, but I forgot to start my message with "COMPLY" and I'm not blocked yet.
Sometimes it's fun to stir the pot just to see what happens..[/QUOTE]Lmao. Agreed.
[QUOTE=DildoBaggins77;4034888]Ah, ok! I didn't think anyone could be that diluted into thinking their aesthetics (and she's not even that good looking.) isn't a depreciating asset. I also rejoined today, so I should have some more intel later:
Sms08 - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/59ea82a7-5c70-4f18-922a-411ed3e8b096[/URL].
Looked like something I'd like to get into. Said she wants to network and have conversations. Asked if she expected compensation for conversation and she dodged the question, asked what I wanted and then no more replies. Probably safe to assume another internet relationship. If it goes in the other direction, I'll update.
Sierrababy - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a6493573-d1a0-4cec-b17b-3f89597803ad[/URL].
Seems DTF and realistic about expectations, however, on the fence about looks. If something pops with her personality I may pursue. Comes to baltimore once a week for work.
Maria - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fea78958-47e5-1d3c-a33b-a7400c6bf346[/URL].
Set up a meet, a little pushy about the time (I had things to take care of that day, and I told her that), but ended up cancelling the meet for that reason. Moved quickly and seemed DTF. Profile says "someone who possesses the ability to hold my attention," but wasn't very good at holding mine (and I wanted to talk).
With the increase in babies like the ones DepthCharge was talking about (and those that aren't attractive enough to be called babies) I decided to try and filter some of my page's traffic before it hits my inbox with these caveats in my "about me":
"open to anything" includes the intent of this website (dating, or similar investments).
And the last: don't asked to be "spoiled" if you have no intentions of putting a comparable or similar amount of investment into the daddy. No man, regardless how lonely, wants to dump that time, energy, resources AND money into someone that's not actually invested (emotionally and physically). I mean, would you do it? Nah. Let's be realistic about our expectations ladies.
Hopefully, I can dodge some bullets with that! I was offering 300 to babies I exchanged fluids with, but after some research, I also firmly believe it shouldn't be more than 200 for these girls. If I have some history with a baby, or she's a gem, then of course I'll adjust, but otherwise no. Offering more than the standard doesn't endear them to you, they're here for the money and I don't want to enable that GPS-like behavior anymore especially when you can get professional intervention for that price. I would encourage all the other daddies to make this the standard as well. If they need the money, a simple "no thanks" usually brings them down, trust me![/QUOTE]She used to be on BP, I saw her years ago, nice long legs, and greek friendly, definitely utr now, not a sb.
Hey, I haven't been as active lately but here is some info since the last time I posted. Details are below each lady. I also have a couple good ones in Philly if anyone travels there, reach out and I'll provide info.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1ea389e7-097d-4e0e-bca4-938f09162c17[/URL]
Said she was DTF for 300, gave me her number and when I texted her, she didn't respond. Hasn't been active on the site for a bit so assume she changed her mind.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2eb49fb8-21ba-40aa-875e-3c118d7924df[/URL]
Said she wants 800 per meet LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7d8bba42-d715-4251-93a0-a9b0833dc540[/URL]
Pretty sure this one is DTF but we didn't get to the amount. She had issue with me being married so I moved on.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2d947fc9-1845-428b-9978-6522d2c3855b[/URL]
Said she wants 700 per meet LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3183f024-129c-4835-b060-446918226f0d[/URL]
She's DTF and wants 300 to 500 per meet, I did not partake.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/516bfc69-a774-4acc-8ac3-fd418e259d53[/URL]
She's DTF but wants 1 K per meet LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fafdd28c-b24d-4f32-8dca-78d9c26a62be[/URL]
This one says she's a virgin and wants 3 k to give it up. I've had several virgins so even if she's telling the truth which I bet she isn't, I wouldn't go for it.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/752c5730-8a6f-466e-bb34-2907a9404d00[/URL]
No intimacy.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/14ab25bc-ad76-49a6-9115-186e9603d6ba[/URL]
She indicated DTF for 200 to 300. I needed her to come to me and she wanted 350. I passed for now.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/52a2340f-91b8-4350-9598-b07fe4122748[/URL]
Wants to sell pics and videos.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0907d0f5-280a-45b0-847f-4c7891a1b9e8[/URL]
Indicates she's DTF but wants 500 per meet.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b5eb1018-50c0-403a-aaea-c277c8c5cc57[/URL]
Indicates she's DTF but wants 400 per meet. I thought about it but I have plenty of action at 250 and less per meet. So I've passed for now.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/82ff3417-fa2f-4b4e-a3ff-02d9c13a045f[/URL]
I'm going to try and meet this one at some point. DTF and wants 250 per meet, no backdoor.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3bb08f63-7816-4860-a128-1bbc7b493de5[/URL]
She's DTF, but wants dinner paid for and minimum 350 per meet. Has to include dinner in each meeting.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1943a5e7-0b49-4ef1-9de0-91ce629f4e70[/URL]
Wants to do pictures.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ff774e6f-307a-4539-9c3e-5038177a9c37[/URL]
Wants online only.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ef6b480d-b5f2-4c92-8c13-1b6caf64e5b9[/URL]
She's DTF but wants 500 per meet and won't come to you.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b3239c1e-1bc8-413c-972f-9a7201913b78[/URL]
Says she's DTF but a ways from me. We didn't get to dollars discussion.
Just renewed my membership so I'll throw some preliminary reports but they're not that promising yet. Will put in more work once the holiday is over and girls are checking their inboxes more.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7e7bc6df-f6ab-4455-b1c5-5b96610f3f04[/URL]
Been reviewed on here before. She is DTF and open to suggestions. Will likely set up a time for this weekend if I am free. Like others have suggested she is heavier than the pics but I'm a younger guy so like the MILF thing.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d17574a8-7466-4b6e-a0d5-5362ef414c6e[/URL]
Talking to this one. Profile implies dtf. Claims car broke down so she is "having difficulty meeting" but I'm open to calling Ubers or driving myself, said that to her and she hasn't checked her inbox yet.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8e3115cd-0a57-4468-9ad0-df30965d59cc[/URL]
Supposedly has a girlfriend in college far away. Sending pics and vids while the gf is at school, says she is open to an arrangement when her gf is back from school. Don't feel like she's being too truthful so pass.
[QUOTE=Shock55;4036398]Hey, I haven't been as active lately but here is some info since the last time I posted. Details are below each lady. I also have a couple good ones in Philly if anyone travels there, reach out and I'll provide info.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1ea389e7-097d-4e0e-bca4-938f09162c17[/URL]
Said she was DTF for 300, gave me her number and when I texted her, she didn't respond. Hasn't been active on the site for a bit so assume she changed her mind.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2eb49fb8-21ba-40aa-875e-3c118d7924df[/URL]
Said she wants 800 per meet LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7d8bba42-d715-4251-93a0-a9b0833dc540[/URL]
Pretty sure this one is DTF but we didn't get to the amount. She had issue with me being married so I moved on.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2d947fc9-1845-428b-9978-6522d2c3855b[/URL]
Said she wants 700 per meet LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3183f024-129c-4835-b060-446918226f0d[/URL]
She's DTF and wants 300 to 500 per meet, I did not partake.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/516bfc69-a774-4acc-8ac3-fd418e259d53[/URL]
She's DTF but wants 1 K per meet LOL.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fafdd28c-b24d-4f32-8dca-78d9c26a62be[/URL]
This one says she's a virgin and wants 3 k to give it up. I've had several virgins so even if she's telling the truth which I bet she isn't, I wouldn't go for it.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/752c5730-8a6f-466e-bb34-2907a9404d00[/URL]
No intimacy.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/14ab25bc-ad76-49a6-9115-186e9603d6ba[/URL]
She indicated DTF for 200 to 300. I needed her to come to me and she wanted 350. I passed for now.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/52a2340f-91b8-4350-9598-b07fe4122748[/URL]
Wants to sell pics and videos.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0907d0f5-280a-45b0-847f-4c7891a1b9e8[/URL]
Indicates she's DTF but wants 500 per meet.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b5eb1018-50c0-403a-aaea-c277c8c5cc57[/URL]
Indicates she's DTF but wants 400 per meet. I thought about it but I have plenty of action at 250 and less per meet. So I've passed for now.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/82ff3417-fa2f-4b4e-a3ff-02d9c13a045f[/URL]
I'm going to try and meet this one at some point. DTF and wants 250 per meet, no backdoor.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3bb08f63-7816-4860-a128-1bbc7b493de5[/URL]
She's DTF, but wants dinner paid for and minimum 350 per meet. Has to include dinner in each meeting.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1943a5e7-0b49-4ef1-9de0-91ce629f4e70[/URL]
Wants to do pictures.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ff774e6f-307a-4539-9c3e-5038177a9c37[/URL]
Wants online only.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ef6b480d-b5f2-4c92-8c13-1b6caf64e5b9[/URL]
She's DTF but wants 500 per meet and won't come to you.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b3239c1e-1bc8-413c-972f-9a7201913b78[/URL]
Says she's DTF but a ways from me. We didn't get to dollars discussion.[/QUOTE]I don't understand where these egos come from. It's like they don't know there are cheaper, prettier, sexier women on this site. Great intel, man!
How do you guys successfully move the conversation from normal chit chat to getting confirmation that a SB is DTF and the $ they expect?
[QUOTE=BuffBill75;4037196]How do you guys successfully move the conversation from normal chit chat to getting confirmation that a SB is DTF and the $ they expect?[/QUOTE]I usually tell them what my current or most recent arrangement was like and that I'm looking for a similar arrangement. Then the onus is on her to tell you whether or not that sounds like something she's be interested in. I'll tell her what I'm paying or paid my most current SB and go from there. I'm not always honest here, I might fudge the numbers for a prospect that I think will take less. She can always counteroffer.
[QUOTE=DildoBaggins77;4036542]I don't understand where these egos come from. It's like they don't know there are cheaper, prettier, sexier women on this site. Great intel, man![/QUOTE]Many of the better looking ones may have a fairly strong social media presence where they have 100's or even a few 1000 guys ogling their bikini pics on IG or Facebook. If you're hotter than a 7 and under 25, your day is filled with an endless number of guys hitting on you online and in real life. For others they may have a friend who told them about this place. But the friend doesn't want to sound like she's easy or sells herself too cheap. So even though her friend really only gets 200-250 per date, she's going to lie and say she gets 500. But in a nutshell, imagine you're told you're hot a dozen times, every time you leave the house, or dozens of times when you update your profile pic on Facebook. It's going to do crazy shit to your ego. I'm also sure there are plenty of guys on SA who tell these girls that they'll pay 500-1000 just to keep the convo going and get access to the private pics even if they have no intention of meeting. I don't get mad because I don't get emotionally attached to outcomes. The girls who say they want 1000, I just let them know that's out of my league and wish them luck. There was one who I had to put in her place because she was being a ****. When I pissed her off, I brought the ghetto right out of her. Then I told her that no matter how good she looks, her ghetto affectation and shit grammar disqualified her from being a $1000 SB. The funny thing is the girls who come in at 300-400. I won't budge one cent over 250. But those 300-400 girls will keep coming back at you time and again. Some of them are quite hot, and I don't see it as ego. I just tell them that I absolutely don't budge past a certain point, and it's not about them, it's about the limits I place on myself.
[QUOTE=BuffBill75;4037196]How do you guys successfully move the conversation from normal chit chat to getting confirmation that a SB is DTF and the $ they expect?[/QUOTE]I'm usually very direct. I give a greeting and ask what their expectations are from the site. They respond with that, and if I'm unsure I'll ask for clarity, then I start the chit chat. Before the chit chat, I usually can tell if they're DTF. Money? I like waiting to talk about donations until we meet the first time. In my opinion, not good practice to give her a reference point when I haven't even gotten a feel for her personality yet (or if she matches her photos).
[QUOTE=MBNewGuy;4037385]Many of the better looking ones may have a fairly strong social media presence where they have 100's or even a few 1000 guys ogling their bikini pics on IG or Facebook. If you're hotter than a 7 and under 25, your day is filled with an endless number of guys hitting on you online and in real life. For others they may have a friend who told them about this place. But the friend doesn't want to sound like she's easy or sells herself too cheap. So even though her friend really only gets 200-250 per date, she's going to lie and say she gets 500. But in a nutshell, imagine you're told you're hot a dozen times, every time you leave the house, or dozens of times when you update your profile pic on Facebook. It's going to do crazy shit to your ego. I'm also sure there are plenty of guys on SA who tell these girls that they'll pay 500-1000 just to keep the convo going and get access to the private pics even if they have no intention of meeting. I don't get mad because I don't get emotionally attached to outcomes. The girls who say they want 1000, I just let them know that's out of my league and wish them luck. There was one who I had to put in her place because she was being a ****. When I pissed her off, I brought the ghetto right out of her. Then I told her that no matter how good she looks, her ghetto affectation and shit grammar disqualified her from being a $1000 SB. The funny thing is the girls who come in at 300-400. I won't budge one cent over 250. But those 300-400 girls will keep coming back at you time and again. Some of them are quite hot, and I don't see it as ego. I just tell them that I absolutely don't budge past a certain point, and it's not about them, it's about the limits I place on myself.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't consider some of the GPS's in that intel to be 7's, personally. I've had a lot of my babies tell me about the private photo and no meet thing, and I think some of them just get stolen for scams too. My only contention about the ego is that they're in an environment where there is hotter, and cheaper, and curvier. I don't find it hard to get at least 2 of those 3, so it just struck me as ego. But, there's definitely more too it, like you said.
[QUOTE=DildoBaggins77;4036542]I don't understand where these egos come from. It's like they don't know there are cheaper, prettier, sexier women on this site. Great intel, man![/QUOTE]The ego has quite simply been bred into them. In every single other venue, online or real life, attractive women are used to being able to get what they want from men. And unfortunately, most men are conditioned to give it to them. Or at least to believe they're going to have to work harder to get attention from the woman than the woman is in order to get attention from them. SA is great because it's one of the few places where things are reversed. The hot college age girls are a dime a dozen and there's always another one (or ten) around the corner if you get one who's being a ***** or asking too much or you just don't feel like dealing with. The problem is, since they're so used to things being the other way, I don't think they can wrap their heads around the new dynamic. I think the guys on there who are shelling out money for no sex or paying $700 a meet are also operating under the results of this conditioning. Anyhow, those are my thoughts on it. I think sometimes these girls' minds might be smoking as the gears grind together trying to reconcile the fact that they're no longer the hot commodity and they should actually be showing their worth to a prospective SD, not the other way around. A surefire indicator that the chick doesn't get it is when they say "obviously you don't know what a SD / SB relationship is all about" when you tell them you're not just going to pay all their bills for meeting at Starbucks LOL.
[QUOTE=DepthCharge;4038703]I think the guys on there who are shelling out money for no sex or paying $700 a meet are also operating under the results of this conditioning. [/QUOTE]Which is why those chicks FUCKING HATE this forum. They want guys who have only been fucking their 60 year old wife twice a year for 20 years. Being allowed to masturbate with some chicks vagina is WAY more than they are used to. It all started when the guys who wanted to feel they were better than the guys fucking BP chicks started calling hookers SB's. Now they regularly talk about chicks with lots of customers charging by the hour as "SB's" it's bullshit.
Just keep going dark on the chicks with GPS and say NEXT.
A2.