[QUOTE=RonWilliams;5604316]You have never given a provider reference? That's pretty standard practice and all of them typically have no issue with it.[/QUOTE]I've been asked but never provided.
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[QUOTE=RonWilliams;5604316]You have never given a provider reference? That's pretty standard practice and all of them typically have no issue with it.[/QUOTE]I've been asked but never provided.
[QUOTE=Suede15;5604724]Be careful. It's no longer a business transaction and if you need to be discreet, well all bets are off. I've had plenty of providers that want to "hang out", but never partaken. Just not worth it to me to break that business transaction rule.[/QUOTE]Like everything in this hobby, YMMV. For some of us, it's a bit of an "ego stroke" to have a provider offer a free session, or want to connect, but like most things in life, there's always a cost. I've been asked to " spend the night" , & "hang out" with providers over the years and have chosen to respectfully pass. There are SO many ways this can go sideways. I may be too cautious by some guys standards, but I don't want the providers that I see to know my real name, where I work, or what I drive, and I really don't want her thinking we have a "thing" going on. In my humble and extensive experience I can truly say: "WOMEN ARE CRAZY". AND. Providers are 10-X crazier than your wife or gf. So. If you want to ad some real spice to your life, take your provider out for a beer.
[QUOTE=VanillaStick;5604261]I think it's a little ridiculous for a provider to ask for a provider reference. 1. Unless you're a regular she probably isn't going to remember you, 2. It's probably going piss her off for giving up her info, 3. Most of these local providers probably going to get pissed that you're not spending your money with her.
I've never done this, how does it work out?[/QUOTE]I don't think it's that big of a deal. I only give references to providers who have been well reviewed. And by reference they just want to ask if the other provider knows you, no other details.
Usually when I see someone I ask them to save my number so it's easy for them to remember me (my stage name obviously. Most of these providers maintain a history of your text messages so they know who you are and if you have seen them in past.
[QUOTE=RickForFun1;5604708]Yes, several times. When they like you it not that unusual.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the reply, I just thought it was strange, just out no where she texted me wanting to know if I busy and if not do I wanted to see her, since she is good at what she does, I said what the hell, got there as usual, we chatted for a minute and the fun begins, this time it was better than what I get when I've paid for a session with her. But I just had to ask since this was a first for me.
[QUOTE=SoiCowboy100;5604847]Yes, I have gotten freebies from 3 different providers![/QUOTE]Lucky you SoiCowboy, this was my first so I was checking to see how unusual this was. But hey! I'll take them!
[QUOTE=Suede15;5604724]Be careful. It's no longer a business transaction and if you need to be discreet, well all bets are off. I've had plenty of providers that want to "hang out", but never partaken. Just not worth it to me to break that business transaction rule.[/QUOTE]I get that part, I would never go on a date. Only if it happens like it did. Thanks for your reply!
Has anybody met or better yet experienced this Mimi? I've messaged several times, Claims only HE but last time said $$ for FS! We were on the phone and this was said we a cute giggle, followed by? Let's hang out and talk about it? Red Flag or Hubris! Just checking before I TOFTT? Let's be safe V.
Has anybody met or better yet experienced this Mimi? I've messaged several times, Claims only HE but last time said $$ for FS! We were on the phone and this was said we a cute giggle, followed by? Let's hang out and talk about it? Red Flag or Hubris! Just checking before I TOFTT? Let's be safe V. [URL]https://nashville.rubratings.com/245364[/URL].
[QUOTE=Vickster;5605688]Has anybody met or better yet experienced this Mimi? I've messaged several times, Claims only HE but last time said $$ for FS! We were on the phone and this was said we a cute giggle, followed by? Let's hang out and talk about it? Red Flag or Hubris! Just checking before I TOFTT? Let's be safe V.[/QUOTE]PM me for details, bottom line is hard pass!
[QUOTE=Vickster;5605705]Has anybody met or better yet experienced this Mimi? I've messaged several times, Claims only HE but last time said $$ for FS! We were on the phone and this was said we a cute giggle, followed by? Let's hang out and talk about it? Red Flag or Hubris! Just checking before I TOFTT? Let's be safe V. [URL]https://nashville.rubratings.com/245364[/URL].[/QUOTE]I dunno about this one Vick. I don't get a good vibe from that ad. Keep us posted.
I don't review many ladies but this is a unicorn!! Don't wait you will regret it if you do. Arianacruz on Ero.
Hey, I am a senior member been out hobby for while. Everyone I contact these days wants face pic or deposit. What is this shit.
I am not sending my face or deposit for a person at will not ever meet up. Anyone have advice for me?
Just tired of all the crap these days. I even went to get a rub in Boro this past sat and no frills at all.
Sad days.
[QUOTE=WhiteHorse77;5605070]Like everything in this hobby, YMMV. For some of us, it's a bit of an "ego stroke" to have a provider offer a free session, or want to connect, but like most things in life, there's always a cost. I've been asked to " spend the night" , & "hang out" with providers over the years and have chosen to respectfully pass. There are SO many ways this can go sideways. I may be too cautious by some guys standards, but I don't want the providers that I see to know my real name, where I work, or what I drive, and I really don't want her thinking we have a "thing" going on. In my humble and extensive experience I can truly say: "WOMEN ARE CRAZY". AND. Providers are 10-X crazier than your wife or gf. So. If you want to ad some real spice to your life, take your provider out for a beer.[/QUOTE]LOL! Solid advice.
[QUOTE=PirateSkul;5605109]I don't think it's that big of a deal. I only give references to providers who have been well reviewed. And by reference they just want to ask if the other provider knows you, no other details.
Usually when I see someone I ask them to save my number so it's easy for them to remember me (my stage name obviously. Most of these providers maintain a history of your text messages so they know who you are and if you have seen them in past.[/QUOTE]From my experience, I always ask a good provider if it's ok to use her as a reference & all the ones I have seen are good with it, seem like standard practice to me.
[QUOTE=ColtsRn123;5606345]Hey, I am a senior member been out hobby for while. Everyone I contact these days wants face pic or deposit. What is this shit.
I am not sending my face or deposit for a person at will not ever meet up. Anyone have advice for me?
Just tired of all the crap these days. I even went to get a rub in Boro this past sat and no frills at all.
Sad days.[/QUOTE]I agree with your opinions and face pic / deposits can only lead to trouble.