Korean Bar Reports

[QUOTE=MushiBoy;5614961]Most of the korean bar girls are a little picky as to who they mingle with. If you are a regular and they know you, they will be more than happy to spend time with you. However, if you are new to the bar, it will be a YMMV situation until they get use to seeing you there.[/QUOTE]I generally have appointments with the bar girl's when I go see them. They know that they will have to give me their full attention when I setup that appointment ahead of time. They probably won't sneak in a drink with a stranger when she is busy taking my money.

But when I show up without an appointment with the girl, I don't have that claim on her time and she might be working taking your money and I will either have to wait for her to finish or setup another time to see her.

Does anyone know where she is working now?

[QUOTE=HonoluluYobo;5615010]Does anyone know where she is working now?[/QUOTE]Yumi is now at Acacia. She might know.

[QUOTE=MeCook;5614999]It is nice sometimes to keep a low profile and not be harassed by some of these bar girls looking for my money.[/QUOTE]Yups, no forget these KBGs no respect customas that ack tantaran and spend the money foolishly. You going be tested all the time by how much the KBGs can get away with (money, favors, etc.); some of them always looking for 'something for nothing;' the established KBGs ack more sassy. But, as previously stated here, once they get to know your style (not cheap, dumb Charlie) then one understanding is established, IMO.

[QUOTE=MeCook;5614994]It depends on what you are after. If you are wanting a girl to go home with you then that has a price bigger than buying a girl one or two drinks. If you are just wanting company in the bar then one or two drinks will go a long way for that especially when it is slow for them.

Don't expect much if she is busy with other customers, if you want that girl then you will be better off by ask her for an appointment with her for another time when she is working. The popular ones give out time slots in advance and you will be expected to keep her filled with drinks for the time you are with her. It doesn't matter to me what she drinks it is just the cost per hour of her time.

Choose wisely since you will be become the property of the first girl you buy drinks for in that bar. Bar customers don't have to follow that rule but they also don't have as big of chance for the girls to go to bed with them and will be considered an easy target.

These girls generally don't go home with every guy they meet in the bar. You will have to earn that by talking a good story and buying the right number of drinks. Generally for me, it is on the repeat visits that when the girls go home with me. I am not young or handsome but I do know how to follow the bar girl rules to have them to go to bed with me.[/QUOTE]Would like to learn from you, what kind of stories, what is the right number of drinks, what are bar girl rules. Thanks.

[QUOTE=HawaiiRaven;5614922]Wonder if this will work at Splash. Checked it out for the 1st time recently. Normal sign your info on the paper, vac check, temp check. The bartenders at the back bar were the hottest girls in there. Think one was the mama, at least that's what I heard a few of the waiters call her.

Carried money and all but I think the problem is that we are not regulars so nobody gave us the time of day. Even offered to buy dtinks for one of the bartenders because she was sitting with a group of guys drinking when we first got there but she just blew us off. Then when a regular that she obviously knew came in, she went to drink with him. It was a disappointing and uneventful night. Ended up just drinking and then left a big tip for another bartender because she gave us really good service. Was always right there to check on our drinks, gave us snacks, and didn't just ignore us like the others.

So am I right? Is it because we were new faces that mostly all the girls paid no attention to us?[/QUOTE]Your initial observation is pretty much correct from my experience as well. This probably applies to most if not all the other bars as well. If they don't know you and you're not a regular and they have their regulars there who they know will spend money the whole night, they will unfortunately favor their regulars. I'm guessing it was busy when you went as well?

I think there's some truth to what both of you guys said. I never seen it or experienced first hand the difference in dressing up or down making a difference, it was just more about what's in your wallet and how much you're willing to spend. I get it though, for some of these bar girls their reputation with whom they are seen with and how the customer is dressed / groomed / accessorized might matter if they decide to sit with you or not regardless if you have money to spend.

[QUOTE=MakaKiller;5614958]I have had varied experiences there. Went in solo a few times pau hana time & sat at the bar. Received good service / attention, decent pupu. Usually buy at least 1 neko and leave enough to cover food. Dropped in late / prime time with a wingman and bar full so end up on booth. Pretty much ignored so called out one of the old ladies who clears the tables. Ended up having a few brews w / o drawing any attention from the floor ladies. There seemed to be a lot of regulars there so unless she is w / o customer they won't attempt to establish a new host parasite relationship. I may be wrong but sometimes your dress / appearance will influence the amount & nature of attention you draw. I've been into the same KB dressed / groomed differently and the service from the same staff was totally different, until they blew my cover. The ladies try to balance their need to obtain new hosts but no lose the current ones. If there is conflict they will usually go with their steady unless he's not buying. Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MeCook;5614999]You are so on point with your observations MakaKiller. Remember these girls are also into the high fashion brand names and accessories. We are just another accessory for them to use and the greater perceived value they see us, the better for us. They like to be with the "whales" than to be with the "minnows" that come into the bar. That gives the girl better status with the other girls in the bar.

It is nice sometimes to keep a low profile and not be harassed by some of these bar girls looking for my money.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MeCook;5615006]I generally have appointments with the bar girl's when I go see them. They know that they will have to give me their full attention when I setup that appointment ahead of time. They probably won't sneak in a drink with a stranger when she is busy taking my money.

But when I show up without an appointment with the girl, I don't have that claim on her time and she might be working taking your money and I will either have to wait for her to finish or setup another time to see her.[/QUOTE]Ahh, I didn't know about this whole appointment thing. I guess I've never had the urge to spend more than 1 or a few drinks on a girl but if I did feel like splurging and seen a girl that caught my eye and wanted to spend a long time with her then I'll know to setup an appointment especially so she don't sneak a drink with another customer.

[QUOTE=MushiBoy;5614961]Most of the korean bar girls are a little picky as to who they mingle with. If you are a regular and they know you, they will be more than happy to spend time with you. However, if you are new to the bar, it will be a YMMV situation until they get use to seeing you there. I usually go to Splash often so I get pretty good service since the bartenders know me and know that I will take care of then with several drinks. The one thing I have noticed at most bars is that if you are a cheapskate, word gets around pretty fast about how cheap you are. These girls are working to earn a living so buying them a drink or two for their company is good for customer relations. Just my opinion.[/QUOTE]Not just the Korean bar girls but I've see this happen at Thai Angel and now T. A. Station. Yes, you will definitely get treated differently if you are a regular or at least if they recognize you as someone who has patronized the bar well.

[QUOTE=Loveasianhi;5615596]Would like to learn from you, what kind of stories, what is the right number of drinks, what are bar girl rules. Thanks.[/QUOTE]You going to have to figure out why you are wanting one of these KBGs and don't let them manipulate you to get you to spend money on them. If you are just horny, the AMP massage girls are a better solution for your problem. If like try hunting Korean girls then the KBGs are easy targets. Don't worry about the cheap Charlie label, it is just a way for them to get at your money. Just be respectful of their time and don't try to get away without paying and tipping for your food and drinks.

The one label that will hurt is if they start calling you a player. The girls will make runs at your wallet until it is empty since you have a reputation for having it open with free money available for all.

But most KBGs are damaged in their heads thinking that they are princesses. You just have to convince them that you will be good to for them to keep around for a friends with benefits arrangement.

Always bring cash, never credit cards.

Don't look a slob. Dress and groom appropriately. Your T-shirt and shorts with chains and fanny pack will attract to lowest-tier ladies.

Be cool and a bit of a prick at the same time.

Let them talk and talk and talk to get them comfortable.

Don't let your hands wander everywhere unless they start the roaming first.

Get them to chase you.

Make random visits at various times.

Once they get familiar and comfortable with you, go for the kill.

You are the hunter and they are the prey. Some prey are easy, some are not.

[QUOTE=MeCook;5615726]You going to have to figure out why you are wanting one of these KBGs and don't let them manipulate you to get you to spend money on them. If you are just horny, the AMP massage girls are a better solution for your problem. If like try hunting Korean girls then the KBGs are easy targets. Don't worry about the cheap Charlie label, it is just a way for them to get at your money. Just be respectful of their time and don't try to get away without paying and tipping for your food and drinks.

The one label that will hurt is if they start calling you a player. The girls will make runs at your wallet until it is empty since you have a reputation for having it open with free money available for all.

But most KBGs are damaged in their heads thinking that they are princesses. You just have to convince them that you will be good to for them to keep around for a friends with benefits arrangement.[/QUOTE]Thank you Me Cook for the valuable information. I guess the hunting challenge is what I'm interested in. When at bars, I try to observe the rate at which the girls get drinks. What is a good rate to buy drinks? Thanks.

Hey I got a question for all you experts. I have a few friends that their fathers got divorced and sort of hooked up with kb girls. Don't know if they got divorced first cause they were going to KBs or after they got divorced. I was a young kid when this was happening. But anyway one of them I am pretty sure married one and he was like maybe late 50's or 60's and we think he married her to get her to stay in the country? Cause he never mentioned it to my friend but my friend saw some letters address to mrs so and so. My question after all of that. How much would you estimate he spent in the the bar to get to that level? Or how much are these dads spending a month when their wives divorce them? I went to a private school. So I don't doubt these fathers of my friends were upper or middle class. Maybe not lawyers or doctors, but engineers or top sales guys. Or union heads. Haha.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=GhostRecon;5615680]Your initial observation is pretty much correct from my experience as well. This probably applies to most if not all the other bars as well. If they don't know you and you're not a regular and they have their regulars there who they know will spend money the whole night, they will unfortunately favor their regulars. I'm guessing it was busy when you went as well?[/QUOTE]If I remember correctly the first time was a Thursday night. When I got there, the friendly bartender that I tipped well served us. The one hot looking bartender was drinking with a group of guys at the amaller bar closer to the front door but then they left and it was dead. She went back behind the big bar closer to the kitchen and we offered to buy her a drink but she kinda just snobbed us and didn't answer at all. Didn't serve us either until that one guy that she obviously knew came. We must just be ugly, haha!

Does anyone happen to know who these girls are? One, I am assuming is a mama. Other good looking one, skinny but she snobbed us. The third one was cute too and really friendly. That's why she got the good tip.

[QUOTE=Blackbriar;5615750]Always bring cash, never credit cards.

Don't look a slob. Dress and groom appropriately. Your T-shirt and shorts with chains and fanny pack will attract to lowest-tier ladies.

Be cool and a bit of a prick at the same time.

Let them talk and talk and talk to get them comfortable.

Don't let your hands wander everywhere unless they start the roaming first.

Get them to chase you.

Make random visits at various times.

Once they get familiar and comfortable with you, go for the kill.

You are the hunter and they are the prey. Some prey are easy, some are not.[/QUOTE]Great advice and So on point Blackbriar. If you get the bar girls chasing you, some girls will try to take you to bed without any effort from you. But you must be first noticed by the girls in the bar in a good way. Generally you get that by being very selective about who and when you buy drinks. To say what Blackbriar stated in another way, try being chill and not so open to spend money on any girl that asks you and be ready to tell the girls you are not interested in to get lost. The bottom feeders should leave you alone after that.

If you let your hands wander around too much then the prey will become the hunter. These girls will hunt you down and kill your wallet since they know horny guys are easy targets. Maybe a quick visit to the AMPs can slow down your hands.

If you hang around the bottom feeders, then the top tier girls (you know the good looking ones that the bar pays signon bonuses, salaries, health insurance etc.) will not be willing to go home with you.

Remember that most of these bar girls are so vain and it is all about themselves and what value they think you can provide them.

[QUOTE=Loveasianhi;5615767]Thank you Me Cook for the valuable information. I guess the hunting challenge is what I'm interested in. When at bars, I try to observe the rate at which the girls get drinks. What is a good rate to buy drinks? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Good looking top tier girls are more expensive than the bottom feeders. I don't buy many drinks for the girls until they make a commitment to me that they are interested in a friends with benefits arrangement. I tell them that I am looking for friends with benefits and then I get them to answer with a yes, no, or not now. The ones that say no to me I tell them goodbye. The ones that say yes I pursue and the ones that say not now I say okay let me know when.

Question is for you is how much are you willing to spend to have a girl to spend the night with you on a weekly / monthly basis? As most of these girls already have a few friends with benefits arrangements. I don't want a bar girl for a live in girlfriend and that too is possible. As for me some girls I am willing to spend some money on and others I don't want to go to bed with even if they pay me.