[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3448434]😂128514;128514;no, not really, enjoy myself too much![/QUOTE]One word. VIXEN! OMG. Where has she been all my life. 5'8" blond / blue hair. Body of the gods.
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[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3448434]😂128514;128514;no, not really, enjoy myself too much![/QUOTE]One word. VIXEN! OMG. Where has she been all my life. 5'8" blond / blue hair. Body of the gods.
Hi, I'm __ _ _ and I'm a stripaholic. "Hi _ _ _128540; I have not been to a Strip Club in 1 day! (Wild applause) This post is for those of you like me that have gone to these clubs looking for love😘. Let me give you my resume. Reasonably attractive (not ugly) early 50's (dancers guess me late 30's) built decent, dress well, smell well, witty conversationalist😜And mostly just a really nice guy. Did I mention that I also drive really nice vehicles, have a little money and tip well. I have taken several dancers out to dinners (expensive restaurants) and always treat them exceptionally well and as a gentleman. I have spent roughly $25,000 dollars in the last 15 months on dates, dances, tips, helping ladies out, etc. You would think that maybe one of these young lasses would have interest in getting to know me better, maybe actually consider texting me first or even responding to my texts in a timely matter. Anyways I have still enjoyed myself, love getting to know these ladies but alas I feel that I may be kidding myself to think any of the beauties are interested in me. Who knew😜 Anybody else out there suffering from stripclubitis? Anybody have more success than me. Truthfully not talking about quick sex.
[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3449866]Hi, I'm __ _ _ and I'm a stripaholic. "Hi _ _ _128540; I have not been to a Strip Club in 1 day! (Wild applause) This post is for those of you like me that have gone to these clubs looking for love😘. Let me give you my resume. Reasonably attractive (not ugly) early 50's (dancers guess me late 30's) built decent, dress well, smell well, witty conversationalist😜And mostly just a really nice guy. Did I mention that I also drive really nice vehicles, have a little money and tip well. I have taken several dancers out to dinners (expensive restaurants) and always treat them exceptionally well and as a gentleman. I have spent roughly $25,000 dollars in the last 15 months on dates, dances, tips, helping ladies out, etc. You would think that maybe one of these young lasses would have interest in getting to know me better, maybe actually consider texting me first or even responding to my texts in a timely matter. Anyways I have still enjoyed myself, love getting to know these ladies but alas I feel that I may be kidding myself to think any of the beauties are interested in me. Who knew😜 Anybody else out there suffering from stripclubitis? Anybody have more success than me. Truthfully not talking about quick sex.[/QUOTE]Right there with ya except not near that much money. I go mid range restaurants, not near as often as you. Couple good friends along the way, mostly same as you. I made up for ya last night. I went. Good lineup.
Honestly going to these helped break me of seeing providers so I consider it a good thing. I enjoy going, talking to the girls and seeing the girls, but I also think there hit or miss. For every really fun night I have, I have one or two that aren't so fun. I also tend to not have much fun when I realize that the girl views me as a human ATM machine and nothing more. That sucks because how much fun I have is dependent on how long I can keep the fantasy going.
[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3449866]Hi, I'm __ _ _ and I'm a stripaholic. "Hi _ _ _128540; I have not been to a Strip Club in 1 day! (Wild applause) This post is for those of you like me that have gone to these clubs looking for love😘. Let me give you my resume. Reasonably attractive (not ugly) early 50's (dancers guess me late 30's) built decent, dress well, smell well, witty conversationalist😜And mostly just a really nice guy. Did I mention that I also drive really nice vehicles, have a little money and tip well. I have taken several dancers out to dinners (expensive restaurants) and always treat them exceptionally well and as a gentleman. I have spent roughly $25,000 dollars in the last 15 months on dates, dances, tips, helping ladies out, etc. You would think that maybe one of these young lasses would have interest in getting to know me better, maybe actually consider texting me first or even responding to my texts in a timely matter. Anyways I have still enjoyed myself, love getting to know these ladies but alas I feel that I may be kidding myself to think any of the beauties are interested in me. Who knew😜 Anybody else out there suffering from stripclubitis? Anybody have more success than me. Truthfully not talking about quick sex.[/QUOTE]You just haven't met up with the right girl yet. More girls than you think have boyfriends or SOs who are sitting in the club watching them. These girls do not want a relationship, although they may lead you to think that if you are seen as a Sugar Daddy.
My profile is not nearly as intense as yours, but I frequent one of the local clubs during the daytimes and have made a few friends who I do communicate with on a regular basis. We consider each other "friends" however, I clearly understand the boundaries. A couple of lunches, even a dinner once in a while and yes, even more on a very selective basis. One secret is don't become that "Sugar Daddy" where the girl sees you just for the money you pass over the table. Be generous and become a regular for one or two of the ladies. See if you can get their FB page and if they give it to you ask discretely when they will be in the club. That sparks conversation. If find there is more conversation over MESSENGER than text messaging. BTW if you DO get a FB page check out her friends. You may see some very familiar faces.
Be careful of the "friend" who is always in need of a few bucks because the rent is due and they are $100 short or the kids meds are due and they don't have the cash. Don't EVER expect a loan to be paid back. Consider it a gift.
I frequent HAREM so PM me if you want to discuss any of the DAYTIME ladies. I try to not talk about specific individuals on an open forum.
[QUOTE=FootMan2007;3449934]Honestly going to these helped break me of seeing providers so I consider it a good thing. I enjoy going, talking to the girls and seeing the girls, but I also think there hit or miss. For every really fun night I have, I have one or two that aren't so fun. I also tend to not have much fun when I realize that the girl views me as a human ATM machine and nothing more. That sucks because how much fun I have is dependent on how long I can keep the fantasy going.[/QUOTE]I've been a regular at local clubs for years. Mostly just cheeks now. I've "dated"/ had fun with a handful of girls at a few different places. In my experience once you start giving these girls money in any way, that being dances or whatever, the chance of getting anything more is kind of unlikely not impossible tho. Most look at you as a customer at that point and don't want to lose the money they are getting.
[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3449866]Hi, I'm __ _ _ and I'm a stripaholic. "Hi _ _ _128540; I have not been to a Strip Club in 1 day! (Wild applause) This post is for those of you like me that have gone to these clubs looking for love😘. Let me give you my resume. Reasonably attractive (not ugly) early 50's (dancers guess me late 30's) built decent, dress well, smell well, witty conversationalist😜And mostly just a really nice guy. Did I mention that I also drive really nice vehicles, have a little money and tip well. I have taken several dancers out to dinners (expensive restaurants) and always treat them exceptionally well and as a gentleman. I have spent roughly $25,000 dollars in the last 15 months on dates, dances, tips, helping ladies out, etc. You would think that maybe one of these young lasses would have interest in getting to know me better, maybe actually consider texting me first or even responding to my texts in a timely matter. Anyways I have still enjoyed myself, love getting to know these ladies but alas I feel that I may be kidding myself to think any of the beauties are interested in me. Who knew😜 Anybody else out there suffering from stripclubitis? Anybody have more success than me. Truthfully not talking about quick sex.[/QUOTE]That was me less than a year ago. But I was able to break the habit. This is what worked for me.
First, it helps if you travel on business. Far more variety, and you are not considered a regular. They know you might be back for weeks at a time. I will only do one, if any, lap dances to see if she is worth the pursuit. Then spend as little as possible on drinks, but as long as possible, getting to know them at a private table. If there seems to be mutual interest, I make it clear that we can meet outside only if she wants. I tell her "I will not be a customer. We will only be intimate if you initiate it, and for zero money. " That will clear out most of the girls pretty quick. But I don't need most of the girls, I just need one in each town I visit. Those that stay around after my speech get to learn that I'm always willing to help a friend in need. I feel blessed that several girls consider me a friend today calling on me to advise on school choices, custody issues, rehab programs, and even resume writing and interviewing skills. I'm not interested in being their boyfriend, just a regular friend that gets his share from beautiful ladies.
[QUOTE=NdayGuy;3450155]You just haven't met up with the right girl yet. More girls than you think have boyfriends or SOs who are sitting in the club watching them. These girls do not want a relationship, although they may lead you to think that if you are seen as a Sugar Daddy.
My profile is not nearly as intense as yours, but I frequent one of the local clubs during the daytimes and have made a few friends who I do communicate with on a regular basis. We consider each other "friends" however, I clearly understand the boundaries. A couple of lunches, even a dinner once in a while and yes, even more on a very selective basis. One secret is don't become that "Sugar Daddy" where the girl sees you just for the money you pass over the table. Be generous and become a regular for one or two of the ladies. See if you can get their FB page and if they give it to you ask discretely when they will be in the club. That sparks conversation. If find there is more conversation over MESSENGER than text messaging. BTW if you DO get a FB page check out her friends. You may see some very familiar faces.
Be careful of the "friend" who is always in need of a few bucks because the rent is due and they are $100 short or the kids meds are due and they don't have the cash. Don't EVER expect a loan to be paid back. Consider it a gift.
I frequent HAREM so PM me if you want to discuss any of the DAYTIME ladies. I try to not talk about specific individuals on an open forum.[/QUOTE]That is really sound advice and I have actually followed that almost to the "T" except for paying for way too many dances to try to find the right one. I will not go for dances unless we have talked at length a couple of times and their is a mutual attraction.
[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3449866]Hi, I'm __ _ _ and I'm a stripaholic. "Hi _ _ _128540; I have not been to a Strip Club in 1 day! (Wild applause) This post is for those of you like me that have gone to these clubs looking for love😘. Let me give you my resume. Reasonably attractive (not ugly) early 50's (dancers guess me late 30's) built decent, dress well, smell well, witty conversationalist😜And mostly just a really nice guy. Did I mention that I also drive really nice vehicles, have a little money and tip well. I have taken several dancers out to dinners (expensive restaurants) and always treat them exceptionally well and as a gentleman. I have spent roughly $25,000 dollars in the last 15 months on dates, dances, tips, helping ladies out, etc. You would think that maybe one of these young lasses would have interest in getting to know me better, maybe actually consider texting me first or even responding to my texts in a timely matter. Anyways I have still enjoyed myself, love getting to know these ladies but alas I feel that I may be kidding myself to think any of the beauties are interested in me. Who knew😜 Anybody else out there suffering from stripclubitis? Anybody have more success than me. Truthfully not talking about quick sex.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=NdayGuy;3450155]You just haven't met up with the right girl yet. More girls than you think have boyfriends or SOs who are sitting in the club watching them. These girls do not want a relationship, although they may lead you to think that if you are seen as a Sugar Daddy.
My profile is not nearly as intense as yours, but I frequent one of the local clubs during the daytimes and have made a few friends who I do communicate with on a regular basis. We consider each other "friends" however, I clearly understand the boundaries. A couple of lunches, even a dinner once in a while and yes, even more on a very selective basis. One secret is don't become that "Sugar Daddy" where the girl sees you just for the money you pass over the table. Be generous and become a regular for one or two of the ladies. See if you can get their FB page and if they give it to you ask discretely when they will be in the club. That sparks conversation. If find there is more conversation over MESSENGER than text messaging. BTW if you DO get a FB page check out her friends. You may see some very familiar faces.
Be careful of the "friend" who is always in need of a few bucks because the rent is due and they are $100 short or the kids meds are due and they don't have the cash. Don't EVER expect a loan to be paid back. Consider it a gift.
I frequent HAREM so PM me if you want to discuss any of the DAYTIME ladies. I try to not talk about specific individuals on an open forum.[/QUOTE]I spend about as much as notanewbie mentions above, but I tend to stick with escorts and Sugar babies. I mean, it's pretty much a sure thing and I've developed "affectionate" relationships with them from time to time. Is it the hunt? Genuinely curious. Why not throw the money towards a sure thing?
[QUOTE=RogerOver;3451540]I spend about as much as notanewbie mentions above, but I tend to stick with escorts and Sugar babies. I mean, it's pretty much a sure thing and I've developed "affectionate" relationships with them from time to time. Is it the hunt? Genuinely curious. Why not throw the money towards a sure thing?[/QUOTE]They just want your money, that's what they are there for. I had a UTR once that became somewhat attached to me a few yrs ago and that is not a good thing. In my view 90% of strippers would not be interested in you because you are doing reasonably well. They generally are attached to losers who are supported by them. They have their low life in and out of jail boyfriend's, their dope boys etc, etc. I have never taken a stripper anywhere period. I have taken UTR escorts to dinner but expected nothing out of it. Was bored at the time. 25 k a yr for nothing is too much. You could have banged several sugar babies and some high end escorts for less.
[QUOTE=MotoGib1;3451564]They just want your money, that's what they are there for. I had a UTR once that became somewhat attached to me a few yrs ago and that is not a good thing. In my view 90% of strippers would not be interested in you because you are doing reasonably well. They generally are attached to losers who are supported by them. They have their low life in and out of jail boyfriend's, their dope boys etc, etc. I have never taken a stripper anywhere period. I have taken UTR escorts to dinner but expected nothing out of it. Was bored at the time. 25 k a yr for nothing is too much. You could have banged several sugar babies and some high end escorts for less.[/QUOTE]A lot of them do just want your money, but I have enough friends who are former dancers to prove you wrong. I did Strip Clubs for a good 30 years and spent way too much money in them, but I did come away with some pretty awesome friends. One is an interior decorator, one is a professionally trained photographer, one is retired back in the Philippines living on all the cash that she made dancing in the states. Several are housewife grandmothers, one is a legal secretary, and another one who was also a porn star is a retired chef. All are ladies that I met in the clubs, dated, and we eventually became lifelong friends. Some live a long way off now and we only keep in touch on social media and Skype but it is worth it. A couple had lowlife boyfriends for a short while but those that are in a relationship right now are not the primary breadwinners in their households. Granted this was before serious drugs came into the strip clubs and one of the reasons that I stopped going to them.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;3451540]I spend about as much as notanewbie mentions above, but I tend to stick with escorts and Sugar babies. I mean, it's pretty much a sure thing and I've developed "affectionate" relationships with them from time to time. Is it the hunt? Genuinely curious. Why not throw the money towards a sure thing?[/QUOTE]The hunt is important. The actual "getting to know" the girls is important. I am truthfully looking for companionship even more than sex if that makes sense. I've tried the other route briefly and just didn't like it all that much. Even though I haven't found love, I have made some friends and helped a few ladies along the way and had a ton of fun.
[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3452302]The hunt is important. The actual "getting to know" the girls is important. I am truthfully looking for companionship even more than sex if that makes sense. I've tried the other route briefly and just didn't like it all that much. Even though I haven't found love, I have made some friends and helped a few ladies along the way and had a ton of fun.[/QUOTE]Everybody has their own thing, you do what works for you.
[QUOTE=NotANewbie;3452302]The hunt is important. The actual "getting to know" the girls is important. I am truthfully looking for companionship even more than sex if that makes sense. I've tried the other route briefly and just didn't like it all that much. Even though I haven't found love, I have made some friends and helped a few ladies along the way and had a ton of fun.[/QUOTE]My experience is that you can certainly so that at the harem including "dating" with or without sex. The MOST IMPORTANT thing is to NOT shower them with cash. Once you start that, that is exactly what yo become. Their cash-cow. Be generous at the club and once you get to know a girl provide some help here and there. Just learn when it is really HELP and when she needs the money so she and her BF can get doped up.
I have had plenty of good experiences here. The club is spacious and I love the atmosphere, also most of the girls are attractive.
I went on a Saturday night around 11-2:30, bought a bucket of Heineken and sat with my friend at a table next to the stage. Took an hour for any one to approach but after that I had multiple girls talk to me. The dances were decent two way contact and 25 dollars a song with plenty of 2 for 1's are hard to beat.
The only drawback is the music. It is pretty bad, I was told it is mainly to keep the ghetto crowd out but I'm like it can still be fine without the slow crap. I do like the pop and rock music though, but please throw out that harmonica song.
Anyway I think it's better than the harem and living room overall, but I haven't been to the harem in nearly half a year.