Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[QUOTE=RyanRivera;3511416][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2db7b49c-7fa8-0d7d-c549-81d52a25c537[/URL]

This one is EXTREMELY high maintenance, but if you seem to pass her BS detector, she is down for anything. Haven't met yet (not sure if my type considering the GPS). This is all based on texts.[/QUOTE]Ryan I saw her earlier in the year and her pics are far better than her in person. She is not ugly but just average aswell as her performance was for me. BBBJ and mish somewhat rushed due to a hair app. I would not repeat cause at her price there are much better options for me. She is a very nice girl though. JJ.

[QUOTE=RyanRivera;3511402][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3960c13b-e83e-ba06-dfe7-7c1f63bad3f3[/URL]

I've seen her on massage section of BP previously I think. Same number, also.

Spoke with her, worked on getting a date, but got a real sense of urgency and wrecklessness, so I've put that one on caution. If I proceed, I'll update.[/QUOTE]Definitely desperate there's a review on her under backpage thread I think said she is homeless now.

[QUOTE=RyanRivera;3511416][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2db7b49c-7fa8-0d7d-c549-81d52a25c537[/URL]

This one is EXTREMELY high maintenance, but if you seem to pass her BS detector, she is down for anything. Haven't met yet (not sure if my type considering the GPS). This is all based on texts.[/QUOTE]She is basically a traveling escort. You can find reviews on her on Nashville forum.

[QUOTE=Wiggles;3511206]I have not went live with a profile but been checking it out based on all your reports. Looks like some gems to be found here. My question is on your own profile. No way I would put my own picture up for the world to see. Too much to loose if seen by the wrong person. Who knows a friends daughter could pop up.

So what do you guys do? How specific do you answer all those questions at the start. Looking for some constructive advice from the guys using this site.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]I have locked pics none are full face. I let mine lapse to try and catch up it'll take me a year to get all of them in my schedule LOL.

She is real, very real. I recommend.

[QUOTE=RyanRivera;3511404][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e50bc58c-a6da-39cf-2b33-4f5ecc242ec9[/URL]

Surely this one is a bot, no? Love her body type, but the replies make me think of those automated chatbots for customer support.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Wiggles;3511206]I have not went live with a profile but been checking it out based on all your reports. Looks like some gems to be found here. My question is on your own profile. No way I would put my own picture up for the world to see. Too much to loose if seen by the wrong person. Who knows a friends daughter could pop up.

So what do you guys do? How specific do you answer all those questions at the start. Looking for some constructive advice from the guys using this site.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Definitely understandable and truly a personal choice. I only posted one obscure pic of myself and was very vague in the description of myself. I have recently deactivated my SA account, as I have found an ideal arrangement and probably be seeing her for quite a while. There are ladies from both ends of the spectrum on there, those that truly act as providers, those that need some financial help and those that want to meet someone to see regularly. I was not seeking that but found one from my last example and couldn't be happier, it's the perfect situation for me.

Best of luck and if you have any questions feel free to PM me.

Jim.

[QUOTE=Wiggles;3511206]I have not went live with a profile but been checking it out based on all your reports. Looks like some gems to be found here. My question is on your own profile. No way I would put my own picture up for the world to see. Too much to loose if seen by the wrong person. Who knows a friends daughter could pop up.

So what do you guys do? How specific do you answer all those questions at the start. Looking for some constructive advice from the guys using this site.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]If your worried about posting your face photos. Just post a pic of a fist full of uncle Ben's. A pic of a 2017 Vett and a pic new Rolex on your profile.

Until you feel good about the provider then show your private photo.

Because in the long run we all know its just boils down to the money.

JMO.

[QUOTE=Skboy;3512154]If your worried about posting your face photos. Just post a pic of a fist full of uncle Ben's. A pic of a 2017 Vett and a pic new Rolex on your profile.

Until you feel good about the provider then show your private photo.

Because in the long run we all know its just boils down to the money.

JMO.[/QUOTE]Skyboy you definitely have a way with words lmao!

Jim.

Recently had dream with urokmysox91. Had been messaging and texting. Agreed to terms she asked for provided it was an unrushed meeting, it being the first time we met, to take a little time to chat a bit. She agreed. Dream planned day before with a option of 2 different times. Day of dream, we select time from one of the options. We talk on the phone to confirm. She shows up, we start chatting, she talks about what has been going on in her life. She says how much she appreciates the chance to meet a seemingly good guy who wants to take the time to talk beforehand, because so many guys are fake or will try to cheat her, and admits that a lot of girls are fake too, giving women like her a bad name. Then she comes out with this (I'm paraphrasing) - Oh, I know we said this would be unrushed, but my babysiiter has to go to work, so I have to leave at this time.

The problem is the time she had to leave, was 45 minutes from the time she walked in the door. And she mentions it after we've talked for 10-15 minutes. She tried to play it off as she needed more time to plan visit and that she was doing me a huge favor for doing a quick meeting. My time was flexible. I could have met at any time that day or not at all if she couldn't do it. And she still wanted the full agreed upon term. I started to only give 75%, which I thought was extremely generous considering. But in interest of self-preservation and not wanting to risk someone showing up at my room demanding more before I could get out, I paid in full. That same interest in self-preservation (and a bit of thinking with the little head) is why I didn't tell her to leave immediately when she told me she needed to leave in 30 minutes.

I know a few posters had good experiences when she was UTR, but if you meet her, there is rip off potential. Maybe the babysitting thing was legit and that day was a bad one for her, but that was on her for agreeing to meet when she knew she didn't have time.

[QUOTE=TricitiesGuy;3513028]Recently had dream with urokmysox91. Had been messaging and texting. Agreed to terms she asked for provided it was an unrushed meeting, it being the first time we met, to take a little time to chat a bit. She agreed. Dream planned day before with a option of 2 different times. Day of dream, we select time from one of the options. We talk on the phone to confirm. She shows up, we start chatting, she talks about what has been going on in her life. She says how much she appreciates the chance to meet a seemingly good guy who wants to take the time to talk beforehand, because so many guys are fake or will try to cheat her, and admits that a lot of girls are fake too, giving women like her a bad name. Then she comes out with this (I'm paraphrasing) - Oh, I know we said this would be unrushed, but my babysiiter has to go to work, so I have to leave at this time.

The problem is the time she had to leave, was 45 minutes from the time she walked in the door. And she mentions it after we've talked for 10-15 minutes. She tried to play it off as she needed more time to plan visit and that she was doing me a huge favor for doing a quick meeting. My time was flexible. I could have met at any time that day or not at all if she couldn't do it. And she still wanted the full agreed upon term. I started to only give 75%, which I thought was extremely generous considering. But in interest of self-preservation and not wanting to risk someone showing up at my room demanding more before I could get out, I paid in full. That same interest in self-preservation (and a bit of thinking with the little head) is why I didn't tell her to leave immediately when she told me she needed to leave in 30 minutes.

I know a few posters had good experiences when she was UTR, but if you meet her, there is rip off potential. Maybe the babysitting thing was legit and that day was a bad one for her, but that was on her for agreeing to meet when she knew she didn't have time.[/QUOTE]Sounds to me like she is running a scam. I've heard the babysitter BS story as well.

Not bashing you, but I would not have given her any money. My guess is she does this every time she meets with a guy.

Has anyone had dealings with this one? Good? Bad? She's been on there a while.

Can either respond here or in PM.

Thanks all. Stay safe.

WHV.

Pretty much the same thing with me. The Babysitter the amount of time the amount for the time blah blah.

After two days of texting and coming to a agreement. The day of the meet She started with all this. I could tell it wasn't going to go well so I just canceled.

Thanks to all the members who pm / posted the info on her but I had to pass on this one.

Urokmysox91 needs to remember she is NOT the cuties little thing in shoe leather and she is NOT the only provider in town.

Looks like the GPS / Attitude bug is spreading to a lot of the girls on SA

[QUOTE=Skboy;3513164]Pretty much the same thing with me. The Babysitter the amount of time the amount for the time blah blah.

After two days of texting and coming to a agreement. The day of the meet She started with all this. I could tell it wasn't going to go well so I just canceled.

Thanks to all the members who pm / posted the info on her but I had to pass on this one.

Urokmysox91 needs to remember she is NOT the cuties little thing in shoe leather and she is NOT the only provider in town.

Looks like the GPS / Attitude bug is spreading to a lot of the girls on SA[/QUOTE]All it takes is one jackass overpaying and slobbering over how good she is to ruin them.

[QUOTE=TricitiesGuy;3513028]Recently had dream with urokmysox91. Had been messaging and texting. Agreed to terms she asked for provided it was an unrushed meeting, it being the first time we met, to take a little time to chat a bit. She agreed. Dream planned day before with a option of 2 different times. Day of dream, we select time from one of the options. We talk on the phone to confirm. She shows up, we start chatting, she talks about what has been going on in her life. She says how much she appreciates the chance to meet a seemingly good guy who wants to take the time to talk beforehand, because so many guys are fake or will try to cheat her, and admits that a lot of girls are fake too, giving women like her a bad name. Then she comes out with this (I'm paraphrasing) - Oh, I know we said this would be unrushed, but my babysiiter has to go to work, so I have to leave at this time.

The problem is the time she had to leave, was 45 minutes from the time she walked in the door. And she mentions it after we've talked for 10-15 minutes. She tried to play it off as she needed more time to plan visit and that she was doing me a huge favor for doing a quick meeting. My time was flexible. I could have met at any time that day or not at all if she couldn't do it. And she still wanted the full agreed upon term. I started to only give 75%, which I thought was extremely generous considering..[/QUOTE]In the heat of the moment, it is easy to "go with the flow" to preserve the good will you have invested to create with the lady. That's a dangerous position to be in. Many, if not most, are looking to get your money for as little effort as possible. So, at the 15 minute mark, she renegotiated the arrangement and was gauging your response.

It helps to have thought through "what could go wrong" prior to the meeting and have a plan for each. Years in "in the game" has taught me through my own experiences and those of fellow mongers. She just cut your time, plus she spent a good portion of the available time chit-chatting before she informed you. At worst, she is playing you (see above) and at best, she is showing she doesn't value your needs / desires (well established prior to meeting). So, here would have been an appropriate response.

Wait out the remaining 30 minutes while having fun, then casually indicate that you only have half of the agreed donation with you. Tell her you ran out of time to go to the ATM before hand (other important things to do). Since she was such a cool chick, you were planning to cut the time short (point out how that was a better deal for her) and go to the ATM for the rest before she left. Unfortunately, she has to leave now and give her half of the donation. Then watch her response.

If she is pissed off, you know she was up to no good and you just flipped the script on her. If she is understanding, tell her you'd like to see her again when she isn't rushed for time. Then observe her continued interactions (text / phone) to see if you want to continue dealing with her.

If she never wants to see you again, move on. You'll be better off finding someone that respects your needs / desires.

TrippinTB.

[QUOTE=HitAndQuit63;3513195]All it takes is one jackass overpaying and slobbering over how good she is to ruin them.[/QUOTE]Some on b / p has got a case of it also. Must be in the air.