General Reports

And we all know the wind blows hardest at the top of the flag pole.

Alexis is sweet, sexy and fun as hell and all those qualities are wrapped up in an exterior that is nothing short of stunning! I don't know why people feel compelled to start this shit but they do. It doesn't take a wild imagination to come up with a few reasons why someone might. In any event, I talked to Alexis on Saturday around mid-day and she was perfectly coherent and I would even say chipper when we talked.

I've seen Alexis for over a year and a half and I've never encountered anything like what TM38 described. While I'm not in Senna's league in terms of number of visits or money spent, I have about as good a relationship with Alexis as one can have, just to be a regular, dependable client who doesn't have the means to win anyone over with money.

I can assure you, she puts on no fronts for me. I would dare say that I know much more about Alexis' past and present than most, including some warts and some past deeds that she wouldn't want most to know about. In fact, I have some insight that could very well offer some explanation to at least part of what TM claims to have encountered. But I'm not about to breach her confidence, so don't bother asking.

I would also add that Alexis has always been 420 friendly with me but she's never, ever partaken. Not one single time.

Alexis is awesome! I'll continue seeing her as long as she'll have me. If any of ya'll don't want to see her, that's just more for me! Who knows? Maybe I'll try to catch Senna! Lol!

PF, I never understood until I started mongering alittle that there are girls who enjoy what they do and talk about the good guys they've seen. Now that I've seen a good girl (sadly in Atlanta, not here) , I see what the talk is about. Hate to use the line in the sand analogy, but the media doesn't show mongers in the same light the girls see us. The one I saw (& some of the ones here that I've spoken to, including Anna) I can definitely say appreciate guys who still treat a girl like the light of their life, even if it's only for an hour or two a week.

I think anyone who doesn't believe in love (but is a decent sort) needs to see at least one good escort in their lifetime. Can't believe I'd ever say this, but does anyone else think that the girls we count as the cream of the crop and the ATFs are better than any psychiatric drug or therapy on the market?

Ok. And that's the end of my sleep deprived musings for the day.

I agree she is a fine women, I also have some insight I wish not to share in public. Never the less what she chooses to do in her life, I've never seen or heard her be out of line with a client. She has a class all too herself and I will still attend that class haha.

[quote=PinkFloyd; 1356592]And we all know the wind blows hardest at the top of.

Alexis is sweet, sexy and fun as hell and all those qualities are wrapped up in an exterior that is nothing short of stunning! I don't know why people feel compelled to start this shit but they do. It doesn't take a wild imagination to come up with a few reasons why someone might. In any event, I talked to Alexis on Saturday around mid-day and she was perfectly coherent and I would even say chipper when we talked.

I've seen Alexis for over a year and a half and I've never encountered anything like what TM38 described. While I'm not in Senna's league in terms of number of visits or money spent, I have about as good a relationship with Alexis as one can have, just to be a regular, dependable client who doesn't have the means to win anyone over with money.

I can assure you, she puts on no fronts for me. I would dare say that I know much more about Alexis' past and present than most, including some worts and some past deeds that she wouldn't want most to know about. In fact, I have some insight that could very well offer some explanation to at least part of what TM claims to have encountered. But I'm not about to breach her confidence, so don't bother asking.

I would also add that Alexis has always been 420 friendly with me but she's never, ever partaken. Not one single time.

Alexis is awesome! I'll continue seeing her as long as she'll have me. If any of ya'll don't want to see her, that's just more for me! Who knows? Maybe I'll try to catch Senna! LOL![/QUOTE]

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[QUOTE=Mundane; 1356446 / These ladies are in the entertainment business. They get our money for putting on a show. They tell us we are amazing lovers and they cuddle and kiss and smile when we walk through the door because we have cash. It's smoke and mirrors. We tend to forget that because we don't want to look at ourselves for what we are, guys who have to pay for sex. /QUOTE]As usual, Mundane makes some good, thoughtful points about this little hobby. I would add, though, that I think of it as something a little different. My Significant Other used to cut my hair, but doesn't anymore for various reasons, so I pay another woman to do it. There are also some problems that have put an end to my married dreamlife. So I pay a woman-several, actually-to do that for me as well. Now I'm friendly and even a little flirty with the hairdresser, and I'm the same way-well, a bit more so-with the women who take care of this other thing. In neither case would I be able to obtain the service without paying some money. But that doesn't mean I should think any less of the women in either case just because they're providing a service for money. And I don't think any less of myself for being someone who has to pay to dream. I could be having an affair with a civilian, but that would be messy, more expensive, and probably damaging to my personal life. So for me paid dreaming is just the ticket: I enjoy myself and the companionship of delightful young women, and I do get the impression that at least some of them enjoy my company as well. I'm sure a good part of that is in fact play-acting, but I've seen (and felt, and tasted) some fairly convincing evidence that at least a couple of them are in fact getting off pretty good.

To put it simply, I'd never think less of anyone just because they're providing me with a much-needed trim.[/QUOTE]I'd agree with all including my reasons for paying for a service. Real damn similar.

[QUOTE=Mundane; 1356446]First, I will admit that I don't know Alexis (never seen, don't really plan to see her). She has always recieved excellent reviews and seems to be one of the top stars and ATF's in the area. Still, TennMann has been giving some solid reviews here and has given a very positive review previously of Alexis.

I can understand that many of you have developed a relationship with Alexis (which is natural and desired when a provider is above par) , but do not let that blind you to the unfortunate fact that these ladies are in the entertainment business. They get our money for putting on a show. They tell us we are amazing lovers and they cuddle and kiss and smile when we walk through the door because we have cash. It's smoke and mirrors. We tend to forget that because we don't want to look at ourselves for what we are, guys who have to pay for sex.

Senna, you say you have seen her around 50 times? At an estimated $150 per visit, that's $7500! I assure you that money like that is worth cleaning up for and making you feel special.

Like I said, I don't know Alexis, and I'm sure she is a wonderful girl, but don't fool yourself into thinking that you know EVERYTHING about her. You know what she wants you to know.

It is very possible that TennMann got a look behind the curtain. Don't blame him if you don't like what he saw.[/QUOTE]Mundane,

I appreciate the perspective of someone who is both a long time contributor and not a client of Alexis's. I will simply say that too many new members with very few posts including double posts have made these statements in the past. I am sorry but they are just not credible. Find me a long standing Senior member who will make these claims and I will of course listen. Find me one of these new posters who can produce a respected provider or contributor to vouch for their legitimacy. (Still waiting for that TennMan) I can do it, I'm sure you can do it.

If someone is using the substances that require intravenous injection, they typically cannot turn on and off the coherant button for much of anything much less Just for guys who pay well and they certainly cannot hide it exclusively from respected contributors and somehow show it with abandon to new contributors.

I do spend a lot of time with Alexis and she does make me feel special. I am quite sure it has much more to do with the money than my charm and good looks. I am way too old and fat for it to be anything else. That being said, I believe you can learn a persons character or at least gain some meaningful insight into their character through spending time with them regardless of what they may or may not deliberately reveal.

I just simply think the flaw in your admonition is granting too much credibility too quickly to this contributor. We must consider the source in making judgements of this nature. There is too much jealousy and mud slinging in this business to grant credibility to every accusation simply because the accused girls are not cleaning our teeth or as FZ says cutting our hair!

Here's a reality check I ask myself sometimes when I start feeling like I have a "special" relationship with a particular lady: What would she say if I went to her and said,"I've lost my job and can't afford to pay for you anymore. Can we still see each other once a week until I get back on my feet?" I don't think I want to know the answer (in fact, I'd be too embarrassed to ask).

I do want to clarify that I never said that what TennMan was saying was true. I honestly don't know. But, like all other posts on here, they must be weighed with the appropriate measure of experience and commons sense. Those who know Alexis well will ignore it. Those who don't know her will drop it on a scale across from the vast number of exceedingly positive reviews and assume it was an anomoly (or BS). Either way, I doubt it will affect traffic to her door.

My point, if I ever really had one, was that we rarely know people the way we think we do. How many of you are married? Have you been married ten years? Twenty years or more? Does your wife know about his site? About your hobby activities? She probably thinks she knows everything about you, yet you have secrets. If you aren't married, you have close friends or family members who you might see every day, but I'm sure they don't know all your dirty secrets.

I'm glad that many of you feel that you have a very special relationship with Alexis. Or any provider. But are you 100% positive that you know everything about them? Does that couple of hours a week really provide you with that kind of insight? I'm not saying any of this to belittle providers or any of the gentlemen on this site. We're all just doing the best that we can to live and pursue some happiness. I am just saying that we might need to step back sometimes and keep all of this in perspective.

I might be way out of line asking this on here, but I wanted to see if anyone else has picked up on this. Or maybe if anyone here has acrually given it a shot!

Does anyone else get a real UTR vibe from the BANGIN brunette who works the bar at dead end bbq? I'm not going to put her name up here, but you know who I'm talking about if you've ever been there. You just know.

Had a few conversations with her (she's a friend of a friend) that led me kto believe that she might have a second job.

[QUOTE=Mundane; 1356668]Here's a reality check I ask myself sometimes when I start feeling like I have a "special" relationship with a particular lady: What would she say if I went to her and said,"I've lost my job and can't afford to pay for you anymore. Can we still see each other once a week until I get back on my feet?" I don't think I want to know the answer (in fact, I'd be too embarrassed to ask).

I do want to clarify that I never said that what TennMan was saying was true. I honestly don't know. But, like all other posts on here, they must be weighed with the appropriate measure of experience and commons sense. Those who know Alexis well will ignore it. Those who don't know her will drop it on a scale across from the vast number of exceedingly positive reviews and assume it was an anomoly (or BS). Either way, I doubt it will affect traffic to her door.

My point, if I ever really had one, was that we rarely know people the way we think we do. How many of you are married? Have you been married ten years? Twenty years or more? Does your wife know about his site? About your hobby activities? She probably thinks she knows everything about you, yet you have secrets. If you aren't married, you have close friends or family members who you might see every day, but I'm sure they don't know all your dirty secrets.

I'm glad that many of you feel that you have a very special relationship with Alexis. Or any provider. But are you 100% positive that you know everything about them? Does that couple of hours a week really provide you with that kind of insight? I'm not saying any of this to belittle providers or any of the gentlemen on this site. We're all just doing the best that we can to live and pursue some happiness. I am just saying that we might need to step back sometimes and keep all of this in perspective.[/QUOTE]I agree. We never know! To disagree with that would be folly. I think we may be talking about two different things. I am simply speaking to the credibilty of the claim in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. Quite frankly, my protestations have probably brought too much attention to the post in the first place, so Touche' TennMan. However, There is a reason we do not see UFO sightings, bigfoot encounters nor "I know who shot Kennedy" stories every night on the evening news despite hundreds of claims per week. Someone makes the determination they are not worthy of publication, usually due to a lack of credibilty on the part of the source. Since we rightfully do not have such editorial limitations here I am simply offering an opposing opinion. That is all I'm saying.

Remember," All that is required for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing" Maybe a little hyperbolic but I think it fits.

BTW, I never said I had special relationship with Alexis, in fact I'm sure I do not. I said she makes me feel special. That is her JOB!

And I know the answer to the question you contemplate. It is "sure baby no problem, you've been good to me." That is week One. Week two I do not get my calls returned.

[QUOTE=Mundane; 1356668]Here's a reality check I ask myself sometimes when I start feeling like I have a "special" relationship with a particular lady: What would she say if I went to her and said,"I've lost my job and can't afford to pay for you anymore. Can we still see each other once a week until I get back on my feet?" I don't think I want to know the answer (in fact, I'd be too embarrassed to ask).

I do want to clarify that I never said that what TennMan was saying was true. I honestly don't know. But, like all other posts on here, they must be weighed with the appropriate measure of experience and commons sense. Those who know Alexis well will ignore it. Those who don't know her will drop it on a scale across from the vast number of exceedingly positive reviews and assume it was an anomoly (or BS). Either way, I doubt it will affect traffic to her door.

My point, if I ever really had one, was that we rarely know people the way we think we do. How many of you are married? Have you been married ten years? Twenty years or more? Does your wife know about his site? About your hobby activities? She probably thinks she knows everything about you, yet you have secrets. If you aren't married, you have close friends or family members who you might see every day, but I'm sure they don't know all your dirty secrets.

I'm glad that many of you feel that you have a very special relationship with Alexis. Or any provider. But are you 100% positive that you know everything about them? Does that couple of hours a week really provide you with that kind of insight? I'm not saying any of this to belittle providers or any of the gentlemen on this site. We're all just doing the best that we can to live and pursue some happiness. I am just saying that we might need to step back sometimes and keep all of this in perspective.[/QUOTE]I don't know Mundane, I don't know Alexis and I'm relatively new here, but in my opinion there is a LOT of wisdom in that post.

Think you know somebody because you spend an hour with them here and there?

Think again.

I've known people, both men and women who I've spent hundreds of hours with and was then surprised as hell by something they did and I'm pretty good at reading people.

My absolute best friend in the world happens to be a girl and one I've spent literally thousands of hours with and we've talked about everything in the world, from the weather to who we spent the night with and was it any good and yes, she knows I dabble in the hobby. She even once hooked me up with a UTR friend of hers.

Even as close as we are and as well as I know her, she still does things that surprise me, don't make any sense to me, or both.

Also, as I've said here many times before, never forget the YMMV thing.

I know one ho who I helped out while she was in jail and she promised to make it up to me while she was in jail.

Fast forward, she was on the street with her BF / pimp/"protector" and I picked her up.

She wanted $50 for BBFS.

Fast forward a bit more, I picked her up that she was by herself and she gave me a freebie because I helped her out when she was in jail.

Mostly I was serious, but I hope you got my dirty little pun at the very end back there.

[QUOTE=Fred Zeppelin;1356715]Mostly I was serious, but I hope you got my dirty little pun at the very end back there.[/QUOTE]And I think we ALL love a nice trim!

Good timing after our little soul-sharing exercise yesterday, I saw this article this morning written by (I can only assume) a very high end escort.

[url]http://www.huffingtonpost.com/bethany-st-james/sexuality-romance_b_1196610.html[/url]

Thanks for sharing!

[QUOTE=Mundane; 1357112]Good timing after our little soul-sharing exercise yesterday, I saw this article this morning written by (I can only assume) a very high end escort.

[url]http://www.huffingtonpost.com/bethany-st-james/sexuality-romance_b_1196610.html[/url][/QUOTE]

Honestly, I've not seen it written out so well in a long time. I think a lot of the world is losing its connection to intimacy and affection, which is sad. I knew a girl who went lesbian because she said guys didn't know how to be affectionate. I think the providers here can vouch otherwise.

I'm quite interested also. I picked up on it my first trip in. Inquiring minds want to know!

[QUOTE=West Knox; 1356694]I might be way out of line asking this on here, but I wanted to see if anyone else has picked up on this. Or maybe if anyone here has acrually given it a shot!

Does anyone else get a real UTR vibe from the BANGIN brunette who works the bar at dead end bbq? I'm not going to put her name up here, but you know who I'm talking about if you've ever been there. You just know.

Had a few conversations with her (she's a friend of a friend) that led me kto believe that she might have a second job.[/QUOTE]