Reached out to a provider who is well documented on this board and sought after. Not using her name as I don't want to imply something when it's just a concern of mine. Decided not to meetup with her at this time, hopefully will in the very near future.
Texted her. Very quick response. Succinct and quick exchanges. PERFECT!
The rub, she gets explicit on a text elaborating by saying ". Sucking dick. ". I stated "QV without FS" earlier in the string. But the explicitness pushed me to explicitly say the $ was not in exchange for sex and that we can discuss in person. Other issues, the listing didn't mention carplay only and the rate quoted for non-FS QV was the same as what the specifically listed for FS QV. I honestly don't give a shit about the latter as the difference between my intial proposal and the counter was close enough to not matter to me. The former, carplay, was a bigger concern. It's daytime and I've never met a provider like that. I'm not even sure I can get it done like that but I know a QV would be nearly impossible. Add daylight to the equation and it's getting very complicated. Thankfully I wasn't looking for FS because there's no way that's happening in a car. Can't imagine that's worth it, but to each their own. The other big concern is that I believe this girl is, or at least was, wearing an ankle monitor and has some pending legal matters. She stated she knows some safe parking locations. However, those anklets track locations and if she's dealing with legalities concerning the scope of her ad, then going to the same locations frequently is going to flag those monitoring her. It could be worse if she's being squeezed to assist in exchange for a deal. I HAVE ZERO INKLING THAT'S THE CASE. It's just that her explicit comm didn't settle well. Maybe she's just very forward. But all of the concerns added up. Contradicting info from her ad (which is quite recent), carplay (especially during the day), and being in the middle of a legal quandry.
The other weird thing that I never anticipated. I hate the communication by providers. It's so flakey. So getting quick responses today was amazing. But then the concern arose over a sought after provider responding so quickly and how much of a stark contrast that is with so many other providers. I never considered the possibility that a quick response could raise concern for me LOL.
Would be interested in other's opinion on this.
