Rants Opinions and Totally Pointless Bullshit

[QUOTE=BlackHawk101;4051848]I've played this game in Nashville for over 12 years. I've seen it's ups and downs. At one time seeing up to 3 girls a week. The reports of providers are the craziest I've seen in years. One guy singing a provider praise then days later a negative reports from numerous guys. In the past I could read between the lines and know who to take a chance on.

IMHO- there are one or two on the board that are inflating some of the providers reviews. Either they are playing the game many of the Senior members have seen before. Giving great reviews for discounted pussy or they are just studs who get a great fuck every time. LOL.

That's a good deal for them but hurts the purpose of the board. IMHO I know reviews are based on timing, chemistry and variables out of our control. However history repeats itself way to much in this Hobby in Nashville. The players and providers change but the gsme is a cycle.

Give honest reviews and let's use the board to have fun but CYA at all times. I guess when your hobby isn't rewarding it's time to find a new one. LOL.[/QUOTE]I agree. Personally, I can't remember being this bad. I do miss the good days. Dependable, quality ladies was the norm. , not the rarity.

[QUOTE=Mike1701;4053259]I agree. Personally, I can't remember being this bad. I do miss the good days. Dependable, quality ladies was the norm. , not the rarity.[/QUOTE]Ha! Its even less than the number of good NFL quarterbacks.

Former mayor Bill Boner, headbanger:

[i]Metallica Concert tickets.

Metallica Concert January 24,2019 Thursday 7:30 p m Section 116 Seats 1, 2, & 3 Cost: $425.00 each Resale sites are selling similar tickets for $500 - $1,000 If interested call me at 615-485-3294 Bill Boner.[/i]

Yes, it's really him.

-Jeepster1.

[QUOTE=Jeepster1;4079493]Former mayor Bill Boner, headbanger:

[i]Metallica Concert tickets.

Metallica Concert January 24,2019 Thursday 7:30 p m Section 116 Seats 1, 2, & 3 Cost: $425.00 each Resale sites are selling similar tickets for $500 - $1,000 If interested call me at 615-485-3294 Bill Boner.[/i]

Yes, it's really him.

-Jeepster1.[/QUOTE]That's hilarious. I haven't thought about ol' Billy in a decade or more.

How old is he now?

Warning this is nothing more than ranting and certainly a waste of your time: Every now and then I reflect upon my behavior (against my better judgement) and am in awe relative to why I am even here on this earth to reminisce. No, I'm not going to get dark and depressing. What good would that be (Rhetorical)? As I lay here on my hotel bed and see the blood on the sheets, all I can do is shake my head. Relax, no big deal, this day has been coming for a while. Well, at least since she had her last period. Anyway, I often wonder if anyone in this hobby has done some of the stupid shit that I have. I've been on this site long enough and in the hobby even longer. Still I am amazed at the stupid shit I do. Foretunately, I am not too hard on myself and have made myself laugh many times relative to the things I've done and fell for. I'm sure there are a few women out there who know me shouting Amen right about now if they ignored my Warning and chose to continue reading. Maybe I'm a bit too self deprecating? Maybe I'm an idiot (again, rhetorical)? This site is filled with bravado, stories of conquest, success and extreme orgasms! So many accounts of the fine women who have done us right. Also, the reports of bitches who fucked us over, ripped us off, smelled of dead fish, etc, etc. I'm sure I have contributed to each category. Although, I have had more good experiences than bad, Why is it the bad ones are more memorable than many of the good? Then there are a few guys who never fuck anyone but spend there time on here running down women they have never met and posturing as if they are all knowing. Truly cracks my ass up. Anyway, I digress. As I was saying, the amount of stupid shit I have done and fell for is unbelievable. I honestly think they could base a mini series on my experiences. "The Dumb Ass John" (appropriate for adult cable only) Believe me, I'm far from proud of it. But still have to laugh at how stupid and ignorant I still am after all these years. I I guess I am threatening to post some of the fucked up shit I have done as a public service to others. Shame on me for not doing it sooner. I'm assuming at the moment that I am brave enough to do this. If nothing else, a way to get it off my chest. After all, it's not the typical lunchtime conversation I can have at work.

There were a million ways you could have said THIS without being a dick but yet you chose the one where YOU were.

[QUOTE=Vet96;4121416]There were a million ways you could have said THIS without being a dick but yet you chose the one where YOU were.[/QUOTE]I'm an asshole, I've never said I wasn't. You're the fucking dick. A guy had a question, you could have ignored him, you could have answered it, instead with all you massive experience on this board you decided to be a dick to him.

Sorry that got your panties all bunched up but it's what it was.

A2.

[QUOTE=CanDoForU;4119773]Warning this is nothing more than ranting and certainly a waste of your time: Every now and then I reflect upon my behavior (against my better judgement) and am in awe relative to why I am even here on this earth to reminisce. No, I'm not going to get dark and depressing. What good would that be (Rhetorical)? As I lay here on my hotel bed and see the blood on the sheets, all I can do is shake my head. Relax, no big deal, this day has been coming for a while. Well, at least since she had her last period. Anyway, I often wonder if anyone in this hobby has done some of the stupid shit that I have. I've been on this site long enough and in the hobby even longer. Still I am amazed at the stupid shit I do. Foretunately, I am not too hard on myself and have made myself laugh many times relative to the things I've done and fell for. I'm sure there are a few women out there who know me shouting Amen right about now if they ignored my Warning and chose to continue reading. Maybe I'm a bit too self deprecating? Maybe I'm an idiot (again, rhetorical)? This site is filled with bravado, stories of conquest, success and extreme orgasms! So many accounts of the fine women who have done us right. Also, the reports of bitches who fucked us over, ripped us off, smelled of dead fish, etc, etc. I'm sure I have contributed to each category. Although, I have had more good experiences than bad, Why is it the bad ones are more memorable than many of the good? Then there are a few guys who never fuck anyone but spend there time on here running down women they have never met and posturing as if they are all knowing. Truly cracks my ass up. Anyway, I digress. As I was saying, the amount of stupid shit I have done and fell for is unbelievable. I honestly think they could base a mini series on my experiences. "The Dumb Ass John" (appropriate for adult cable only) Believe me, I'm far from proud of it. But still have to laugh at how stupid and ignorant I still am after all these years. I I guess I am threatening to post some of the fucked up shit I have done as a public service to others. Shame on me for not doing it sooner. I'm assuming at the moment that I am brave enough to do this. If nothing else, a way to get it off my chest. After all, it's not the typical lunchtime conversation I can have at work.[/QUOTE]I laughed out loud when I read this. I am a fairly inexperienced monger when compared to a lot of guys on this site. However, in my brief meetings I have been pretty damn lucky, just a couple of WTF was I thinking moments. I do wish you had included the names of providers who gave you these life lessons. Be safe man.

Hey cando. Every one of us has done multiple stupid things. This is the place to unload. Have at it. We can all contribute.

[QUOTE=BoroGuy54;4122901]I laughed out loud when I read this. I am a fairly inexperienced monger when compared to a lot of guys on this site. However, in my brief meetings I have been pretty damn lucky, just a couple of WTF was I thinking moments. I do wish you had included the names of providers who gave you these life lessons. Be safe man.[/QUOTE]Same here, I have definitely been in some pretty lucky situations that could have ended up differently LOL.

[QUOTE=Murfreesboro69;4125010]Same here, I have definitely been in some pretty lucky situations that could have ended up differently LOL.[/QUOTE]Although true. Yes, I will throw that dirty laundry out there. Be sure to have your hazmat gear handy.

I met this woman on SA. I honestly thought I had found "THE diamond in the rough" just a gorgeous woman in her mid thirties. One of the most beautiful and intriguing women I have ever met. Sweet as apple pie. Recently separated. Had a couple of kids. The kids were in the custody of their father. That should of sent some flags flying. Skipping some history for the sake of brevity (believe it or not). No, at this point the little head was firmly in control. She had a bit of a wild side just under the surface of her well played hurt and abused outer shell. I remember her having to go to court for some tickets or other BS because she was so late paying that she told me she was probably going to get put in jail. I could not let that happen so I sent her a couple hundred. While in court with no panties on, she sent me a few pics of her kitty under her dress. She absolutely was in court based on the pics she took. I could go on. She sent me a few super hot videos of her just fucking her pussy in the sexiest of ways with her several toys. I did get some self service mileage out of those. Trust me, several more stories of crazy shit that should of sent me running for the hills but didn't. Our relationship lasted about two months. She played me for about $2500. I fucked her twice. The event that finally woke me up was ridiculous. She had fallen ill and was unable to work. She was so sick that after a few weeks, she was going to get thrown out of her home she was renting. She needed $1 k or she was going to be homeless within 24 hrs. I did not have 1 k at the time. However, I did have 900. I sent it. What I thought was particularly unique was that after I sent her the money, she sent a video of herself to me. The video was a live shot of her flipping me off. God damn, at that moment I felt like the biggest dumb ass alive. Quite certain I was. Spare me the "how fucking stupid must you be comments". I totally agree and hopefully learned. We will see. Trust me, this is not the most egregious of relationships in my monger career. Certainly memorable though.

No matter what site you meet any lady, girl, or whatever on, it is all about the money. Candoforu, unfortunately we have all been down that street you was on. I think I have heard every excuse in the world or sad sob story. I don't care how bad they make you feel, remember it is a game to them.

It never is our pussy, we just rent it. Unless you are around 24/7 you have no idea you else has been balls deep in them. If they just text it could be her fuckboy, playing the game to.

Would any of these girls give you a free visit if you was short one day? A hell to the no.

Keep on posting and I hope the new guys will learn. BTW, CandoForu, takes guts to admit it all. Most just walk in the hall of shame. Unless she is sucking your dick, keep the green in your wallet.

[QUOTE=CanDoForU;4125335]I met this woman on SA. I honestly thought I had found "THE diamond in the rough" just a gorgeous woman in her mid thirties. One of the most beautiful and intriguing women I have ever met. Sweet as apple pie. Recently separated. Had a couple of kids. The kids were in the custody of their father. That should of sent some flags flying. Skipping some history for the sake of brevity (believe it or not). No, at this point the little head was firmly in control. She had a bit of a wild side just under the surface of her well played hurt and abused outer shell. I remember her having to go to court for some tickets or other BS because she was so late paying that she told me she was probably going to get put in jail. I could not let that happen so I sent her a couple hundred. While in court with no panties on, she sent me a few pics of her kitty under her dress. She absolutely was in court based on the pics she took. I could go on. She sent me a few super hot videos of her just fucking her pussy in the sexiest of ways with her several toys. I did get some self service mileage out of those. Trust me, several more stories of crazy shit that should of sent me running for the hills but didn't. Our relationship lasted about two months. She played me for about $2500. I fucked her twice. The event that finally woke me up was ridiculous. She had fallen ill and was unable to work. She was so sick that after a few weeks, she was going to get thrown out of her home she was renting. She needed $1 k or she was going to be homeless within 24 hrs. I did not have 1 k at the time. However, I did have 900. I sent it. What I thought was particularly unique was that after I sent her the money, she sent a video of herself to me. The video was a live shot of her flipping me off. God damn, at that moment I felt like the biggest dumb ass alive. Quite certain I was. Spare me the "how fucking stupid must you be comments". I totally agree and hopefully learned. We will see. Trust me, this is not the most egregious of relationships in my monger career. Certainly memorable though.[/QUOTE]That sucks man. But it seems like you should link us to whomever we need to avoid.

[QUOTE=CanDoForU;4125335]I met this woman on SA. I honestly thought I had found "THE diamond in the rough" just a gorgeous woman in her mid thirties. One of the most beautiful and intriguing women I have ever met. Sweet as apple pie. Recently separated. Had a couple of kids. The kids were in the custody of their father. That should of sent some flags flying. Skipping some history for the sake of brevity (believe it or not). No, at this point the little head was firmly in control. She had a bit of a wild side just under the surface of her well played hurt and abused outer shell. I remember her having to go to court for some tickets or other BS because she was so late paying that she told me she was probably going to get put in jail. I could not let that happen so I sent her a couple hundred. While in court with no panties on, she sent me a few pics of her kitty under her dress. She absolutely was in court based on the pics she took. I could go on. She sent me a few super hot videos of her just fucking her pussy in the sexiest of ways with her several toys. I did get some self service mileage out of those. Trust me, several more stories of crazy shit that should of sent me running for the hills but didn't. Our relationship lasted about two months. She played me for about $2500. I fucked her twice. The event that finally woke me up was ridiculous. She had fallen ill and was unable to work. She was so sick that after a few weeks, she was going to get thrown out of her home she was renting. She needed $1 k or she was going to be homeless within 24 hrs. I did not have 1 k at the time. However, I did have 900. I sent it. What I thought was particularly unique was that after I sent her the money, she sent a video of herself to me. The video was a live shot of her flipping me off. God damn, at that moment I felt like the biggest dumb ass alive. Quite certain I was. Spare me the "how fucking stupid must you be comments". I totally agree and hopefully learned. We will see. Trust me, this is not the most egregious of relationships in my monger career. Certainly memorable though.[/QUOTE]You should post her pics and video here so we know who she is and to avoid, send them to me.

[QUOTE=Elduderino123;4125475]That sucks man. But it seems like you should link us to whomever we need to avoid.[/QUOTE]I'm with Eldude on this one. Send up the flare because this is one case of getting taken where Liam Neeson won't come to save you.

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[QUOTE=Elduderino123;4125475]That sucks man. But it seems like you should link us to whomever we need to avoid.[/QUOTE]LOL this guy just wants pics.

[QUOTE=Murfreesboro69;4126407]LOL this guy just wants pics.[/QUOTE]LOL to the no, after a thing like what CanDo went through (which many of us have experienced in some version) pics or a link are wanted in order to avoid. Listen and learn newb, also, "LOL" is for 12 year old girls.

[QUOTE=Murfreesboro69;4126407]LOL this guy just wants pics.[/QUOTE]LOL this guy just needs to listen and learn. Also, shut the hell up.

Listen guys, you are missing the point. What I did below was write a short summary of just one of several bad experiences that I have had. An excerpt from my soon not to be published book, "Dating a Provider for Idiots" where I play the roll of the idiot.

Let me try something else and I realize this may be a stretch. Remember back to a time not so long ago. Just before your balls dropped and you were not so self-centered. Someone probably read you the Story of Snow White. If you don't remember, let me recount as I remember.

Snow White was a story about an unscrupulous provider aka Snow White and the seven dirty old men who wanted to fuck her. Snow White unfortunately displayed piss poor behavior. MS White use to make dates with each of the dirty old men and then not show up. Sometimes she would actually meet them for a date, take their money, but have such a shitty attitude that their dicks would go soft and they were no longer capable of fucking, she did not do BBBJ and the money would not be refunded. Then one of the worst things she would do is meet them for a date, take their money and then bolt out the door to where her handler was patiently waiting with the get away car. Here is the part where you really need to focus: The moral of the story is not the name of the ***** leading lady, Snow White. The moral of the story is that any new or even familiar provider you meet could be Snow White or display similar piss poor behavior. Then, you could be blind sided and experience all the terrible things that Dopey did.

The event below happened a few years ago. Because I knew the woman a couple months, I developed a false sense of security with her (it happens) and shared some personal info with her (yep, stupid) as she did with me. Then she turns batshit psycho, or probably was all along just hid it well.

I have shared plenty of info on this site to help others. Check the record, it's not hard. However, I will only share info I deem prudent. I could be married, have a professional career or vulnerable in other ways. Maybe the woman is part of our community and her name is Hardcock7. Why would I put info out there that could piss off someone who owns the upper hand? Slow down, think, try to understand the whole story.

If none of what I have said makes sense to you and your head still seems thick, the last suggestion I can offer is for all affected to please get together and collectively kiss my ass. BTW, thank you Mike 1701.

Damn guys it was a joke. I obviously know why you wanted the link. And yeah I'm a newb but you all were at one point too.

[QUOTE=CanDoForU;4126618]

If none of what I have said makes sense to you and your head still seems thick, the last suggestion I can offer is for all affected to please get together and collectively kiss my ass. BTW, thank you Mike 1701.[/QUOTE]I was sort of with you until that last paragraph. While Tips &Tricks are appreciated, especially for the new guys just learning the ropes, review like stories need a villain to make it worth it.

[QUOTE=Murfreesboro69;4127483]Damn guys it was a joke. I obviously know why you wanted the link. And yeah I'm a newb but you all were at one point too.[/QUOTE]I know sometimes the Seniors seem a little gruff, I include myself in that statement. It gets better. Newbs who take the time to learn will be noticed for their efforts. Unfortunately, this hobby can be dangerous and extremely harsh. The more one learns, the better off they will be. Understanding history and how everything works is easy if you take the time to read back a little bit. No senior on this site wants any newb to think it's easy and all fun. It can be a lot of fun but it will certainly require personal sacrifice in one form or another. The more you learn from what others have posted, the better off you will be. Maybe.

As a risk-averse newb, I'm sharing my decision-making principle. If I think something really bad but unlikely could happen, I will avoid it because I can't stand the consequence from the possible but rare bad event.

For example, I've read stories about Hayden in the main thread that resemble CanDoForU's tale of Snow White. I did personally have a good experience with her. On average, it'd make sense for me to see her again, because if one were to tally up the good vs the bad reports about her, the pros would come on top.

This is where the Black Swan Theory kicks in. In theory, I understand that providers hooked on drugs can cause a lot of grief for hobbyists, and according to many reports, the provider in question fits the profile. According to reports after my visit, some of the theoretical problems did happen in practice. Thus my prerogative is to avoid the absolute worst cases, which could give me between a really bad day and a really bad life. This is extremely unlikely, but I must avoid it all the same.

This approach is really nothing special. Just taking all reports seriously. The goal is to survive in this hobby without always needing luck. Read more about the Black Swan Theory ([URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_swan_theory[/URL]).

P.S. Disclaimer: no particular hate for Hayden. Just an anecdotal example. I try my best to let my big head make the decisions.

[QUOTE=CanDoForU;4125335]I met this woman on SA. I honestly thought I had found "THE diamond in the rough" just a gorgeous woman in her mid thirties. One of the most beautiful and intriguing women I have ever met. Sweet as apple pie. Recently separated. Had a couple of kids. The kids were in the custody of their father. That should of sent some flags flying. Skipping some history for the sake of brevity (believe it or not). No, at this point the little head was firmly in control. She had a bit of a wild side just under the surface of her well played hurt and abused outer shell. I remember her having to go to court for some tickets or other BS because she was so late paying that she told me she was probably going to get put in jail. I could not let that happen so I sent her a couple hundred. While in court with no panties on, she sent me a few pics of her kitty under her dress. She absolutely was in court based on the pics she took. I could go on. She sent me a few super hot videos of her just fucking her pussy in the sexiest of ways with her several toys. I did get some self service mileage out of those. Trust me, several more stories of crazy shit that should of sent me running for the hills but didn't. Our relationship lasted about two months. She played me for about $2500. I fucked her twice. The event that finally woke me up was ridiculous. She had fallen ill and was unable to work. She was so sick that after a few weeks, she was going to get thrown out of her home she was renting. She needed $1 k or she was going to be homeless within 24 hrs. I did not have 1 k at the time. However, I did have 900. I sent it. What I thought was particularly unique was that after I sent her the money, she sent a video of herself to me. The video was a live shot of her flipping me off. God damn, at that moment I felt like the biggest dumb ass alive. Quite certain I was. Spare me the "how fucking stupid must you be comments". I totally agree and hopefully learned. We will see. Trust me, this is not the most egregious of relationships in my monger career. Certainly memorable though.[/QUOTE]This is my philosophy when it comes to the providers. I keep it strictly business at all times when dealing with them. No more no less. Of course, I'm not a jerk. I keep the report on a cordial tip but that's its. These women be on one with all the big favors like,"I need money to stay out of jail"can you let me borrow 200?etc. I'm like miss me with that ish. If this is how you make your money, then work for it. Most times, they make up the lie to support their drug addiction and then try to ask for more, more, more, more and more. And some are that stupid to let the mongers close into their personal lifes and know their real names and all, that the way they move could be potentially dangerous. Because what if they come across the wrong man and that dude makes an example out of them? Especially if they let them know where they stay and all of their moves? I know. Kinda dumb on their end but hey, if they think its cute to play games and do that type of stuff, they should know that karma is something. But then again, karma probably caught up to them, they just want people to be miserable with them. I don't believe nothing to be free, I believe it to be even. So if it aint even, it aint nothing. I have had my run over the years with this game. So I treat them as a option, not priority.

[QUOTE=TonyTheTiger;4152879]Everyone must make up their own mind and this board helps with that. I mean the following comment with no disrespect: if you advance or loan money to a Provider, don't expect to get it back in any form. We have all learned that the hard way and I still need a refresher course occasionally. LOL. But as far as GFE, body, personality, value, and services, IMHO she can't be beat. Again, just one man's opinion. I have a weakness for ladies who don't fake it and truly O very hard from oral. She is my ATF in this area. Her ab muscles spasm, her legs and hips quiver, and the good stuff flows. When she reaches behind her and grabs the headboard, arches the back, and begins to utter oh fk, I know the porn show is about to happen and I love the front row seat. LOL. I can only say that while she's available, I don't need anyone else. Sure, I see a variety, but I could live off of a steady diet of Hayden. I'm no white knight and definitely receive no free benefits, so do with my reviews as you please. But I advance or loan her nothing and we get along great. Just food for thought.[/QUOTE]No other way to say this. 10 out of 10 of the ladies fake orgasms. Maybe to boost our ego or to move us quickly along. They have dick all day everyday and we believe our golden cocks and amazing tongues make them cum. Some are better actors than others for sure, but let's not fool ourselves into thinking anything other than that.

My. 02.

[QUOTE=ManyInches8;4153727]No other way to say this. 10 out of 10 of the ladies fake orgasms. Maybe to boost our ego or to move us quickly along. They have dick all day everyday and we believe our golden cocks and amazing tongues make them cum. Some are better actors than others for sure, but let's not fool ourselves into thinking anything other than that.

My. 02.[/QUOTE]LOL your exactly right, LOL, but some of these capt. Save a hoe guys think there getting in good with the girl, she is only using you and its working, she gets money, you get earful of orgasms, that don't happen.

[QUOTE=MaximV;4153974]LOL your exactly right, LOL, but some of these capt. Save a hoe guys think there getting in good with the girl, she is only using you and its working, she gets money, you get earful of orgasms, that don't happen.[/QUOTE]You get to DATY from al the left over treats left by others.

[QUOTE=ManyInches8;4153727]No other way to say this. 10 out of 10 of the ladies fake orgasms. Maybe to boost our ego or to move us quickly along. They have dick all day everyday and we believe our golden cocks and amazing tongues make them cum. Some are better actors than others for sure, but let's not fool ourselves into thinking anything other than that.

My. 02.[/QUOTE]Because you can't make a chick cum doesn't mean nobody can. Hookers are people to. I know this one sweet little latin chick who was never happier than the day she found out she could make money doing her favorite thing in the world.

10 out of 10 may fake it with you but don't assume your shit responses are the same for everybody.

[QUOTE=Admin2;4154452]Because you can't make a chick cum doesn't mean nobody can. Hookers are people to. I know this one sweet little latin chick who was never happier than the day she found out she could make money doing her favorite thing in the world.

10 out of 10 may fake it with you but don't assume your shit responses are the same for everybody.[/QUOTE]I wanted to reply to that but didn't want to get on your bad side.

Chemistry plays a big part in who I see or don't see a second time. Some guys never make the connection so faking is a girls only way.

[QUOTE=JustLookn;4154616]I wanted to reply to that but didn't want to get on your bad side.

Chemistry plays a big part in who I see or don't see a second time. Some guys never make the connection so faking is a girls only way.[/QUOTE]Has there own opinion!

Ok, so she fakes an orgasm. So what? I'm there to experience a nice sexual encounter, as long as she makes it seem somewhat realistic, I'm ok with it. I'd much rather have her try and make a show of it, instead of acting like a dead fish. Shit, real girlfriends probably do the same thing for us.

I just read a post with the opinion that Nashville is losing or could be losing some quality providers traveling through due to poor experiences with Nashville guys.

It got me thinking. Chicken or the egg? I know for a fact it's tough for guys to find quality regulars and this WAS NOT the case a few short years ago. So, which side went downhill first causing the others to seek alternative means to an end? Who knows.

I know I've never seen more bitching about providers than on this board the last 12 months or so. No shows, robberies, you name it. You're better off seeking another means to an end in my opinion. I believe the quality is down on both sides or believe it very well could be.

[QUOTE=Dogs22;4175685]I just read a post with the opinion that Nashville is losing or could be losing some quality providers traveling through due to poor experiences with Nashville guys.

It got me thinking. Chicken or the egg? I know for a fact it's tough for guys to find quality regulars and this WAS NOT the case a few short years ago. So, which side went downhill first causing the others to seek alternative means to an end? Who knows.

I know I've never seen more bitching about providers than on this board the last 12 months or so. No shows, robberies, you name it. You're better off seeking another means to an end in my opinion. I believe the quality is down on both sides or believe it very well could be.[/QUOTE]I recently posted a comment in this section and received PMs telling me to back off, informing me my opinion wasn't welcomed. Several of the ladies I have seen talk about being intimidated by mongers, some stalked and one was assaulted after a monger stalked her and got her address. Can't say I blame them for never coming back if that is what they experienced. A while back a monger was bragging how "his friend" robbed a girl of all her money and belongings simply because she feel asleep after completing their session. It was posted she deserved it just because.

I also know some of these ladies will rip you off or rob you or try to blackmail you if given the chance. Either I'm more particular than I realize or real lucky but treating them like I want to be treated seems to get me better service than intimidating them.

I see a change in the post of some mongers and over the years they will harden and start trashing these girls for no obvious reason. Maybe everyone needs a periodic brake to refresh their attitude.

Until then, whoever you are be careful and play safe.

Well I'm sure she is overwhelmed with calls and text. Sounds fun but I see a burn out coming. A couple of RED Flags and pricey for a new chick. IMHO. There is plenty of back channel concerns. Shows how bad the selection is in town. For her price point I'm use to more reputable provider. I like a freak in the sheets as much as anyone. However when a high volume provider isn't using safe sex practices. I get concerned that we're thinking with our little heads and not the big one in our shoulders. IMHO.

The old saying about the crazy chicks, they're are the best Fk $ is true in my experience. However that shit can turn around and bite ya! Enjoy and think before you dive into the PINK.

I've been lucky to never have a STD or get stopped by the Police. Had beautiful woman coast to coast and border to border and overseas.

I've had a few mottos keep me safe over 20 years in and out of the hobby.

1. Better safe than sorry.

2. Go with your gut.

3. When in doubt, don't whip it out.

I'm an old fart in the hobby now. Was addicted to this hobby once seeing up to 5 providers in a week. I was able to pull away before I took over my life. Made some great and long lasting friends. Saw some beauties go down the rabbit hole and never come out. Saw others retire and move on to better and greater life.

Bottom line is treat others the way you want to be treated. However, we all know the risk, so play the long game like myself and s few others. Don't think if a chick is BB you she's not doing it with others who have s 70% risk factor.

Getting off my soap box. Hoping we find a way to get back to the old days of numerous great providers.

So. Need the valued opinions of some more seasoned mongers here- although I'm not a newbie. I've other than an opinion or so here and there never so outwardly recommended anyone as I did Anna the Gem a few weeks ago. And absolutely everything initially said was spot on. Lot of fun- cool to be with- nice, funny, etc. As the days went on I noticed things which were not so cool- some I even brought to the forefront. So- here's my question- having been on this site for a while and provided input when relevant, I'm sorta at a loss with Anna. As you all can see there is a different dynamic now- now that I have seen more behavoirs, let's say things, received messages from you all as well, and been asked questions- I of course feel compelled to share this info as my primary responsibility is to you all and the integrity of the info here. What is your all's opinion on to what extent I share? She is under the impression that "I owe her" and wants me to refrain from sharing any additional info about her- even tho what I share is fact- and what we all have a right to know. I have nothing against her personally- and don't want it to appear as such. She is reaching out to those she has seen implying things here are not factual. Which indeed they are 100%. So, if you were me how would you handle this? Post what I know or just cease all together? All opinions are appreciated. Sorry for the dissertation!

[QUOTE=Traveler4321;4274623]So. Need the valued opinions of some more seasoned mongers here- although I'm not a newbie. I've other than an opinion or so here and there never so outwardly recommended anyone as I did Anna the Gem a few weeks ago. [/QUOTE]I for one appreciate your sharing and don't find fault with you if any girl changes for better or worse. I'm a big boy and take responsibility for my decisions good or bad. I try to make my choices on my likes and not solely on any recommendation. You do what your conscious dictates.

Just my 2 cents.

[QUOTE=Traveler4321;4274623]So. Need the valued opinions of some more seasoned mongers here- although I'm not a newbie. I've other than an opinion or so here and there never so outwardly recommended anyone as I did Anna the Gem a few weeks ago. And absolutely everything initially said was spot on. Lot of fun- cool to be with- nice, funny, etc. As the days went on I noticed things which were not so cool- some I even brought to the forefront. So- here's my question- having been on this site for a while and provided input when relevant, I'm sorta at a loss with Anna. As you all can see there is a different dynamic now- now that I have seen more behavoirs, let's say things, received messages from you all as well, and been asked questions- I of course feel compelled to share this info as my primary responsibility is to you all and the integrity of the info here. What is your all's opinion on to what extent I share? She is under the impression that "I owe her" and wants me to refrain from sharing any additional info about her- even tho what I share is fact- and what we all have a right to know. I have nothing against her personally- and don't want it to appear as such. She is reaching out to those she has seen implying things here are not factual. Which indeed they are 100%. So, if you were me how would you handle this? Post what I know or just cease all together? All opinions are appreciated. Sorry for the dissertation![/QUOTE]Traveler, what does you conscious tell you? If it were me and I had highly recommended someone and then found out things that weren't so pleasant (or in the mongering sense, made it unsafe for the guys on this forum) I would definitely post what I knew. Like I said, Anna was great when I communicated with her, but other things kept me from seeing her. I thank you for your honesty.

[QUOTE=BoroGuy54;4275089]Traveler, what does you conscious tell you?[/QUOTE]UGH, I meant conscience, sorry.

[QUOTE=Traveler4321;4274623]So. Need the valued opinions of some more seasoned mongers here- although I'm not a newbie. I've other than an opinion or so here and there never so outwardly recommended anyone as I did Anna the Gem a few weeks ago. And absolutely everything initially said was spot on. Lot of fun- cool to be with- nice, funny, etc. As the days went on I noticed things which were not so cool- some I even brought to the forefront. So- here's my question- having been on this site for a while and provided input when relevant, I'm sorta at a loss with Anna. As you all can see there is a different dynamic now- now that I have seen more behavoirs, let's say things, received messages from you all as well, and been asked questions- I of course feel compelled to share this info as my primary responsibility is to you all and the integrity of the info here. What is your all's opinion on to what extent I share? She is under the impression that "I owe her" and wants me to refrain from sharing any additional info about her- even tho what I share is fact- and what we all have a right to know. I have nothing against her personally- and don't want it to appear as such. She is reaching out to those she has seen implying things here are not factual. Which indeed they are 100%. So, if you were me how would you handle this? Post what I know or just cease all together? All opinions are appreciated. Sorry for the dissertation![/QUOTE]As you said on this board your first responsibility is to the members. If there is a piece of information that we should or need to know then tell us and do not lose any sleep over any of these girls thinking you owe them something. None of us at any point in time ever owe them anything. We are the customer which means we control this market not the retailer.