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Banned
I know you say you're done with the site, and I don't if don't blame you. But that site never bans anyone for long. Before I understood the system I sent my # to a pro before booking a session and they banned me. Like 2 days later they said I was good to go again. I know a girl on there too who's been banned like 4 times for various things and it's always temporary.
[QUOTE=BobTailr1;6732829]Well, it was a good run. I am now banned because I booked several cuddles in one day and cancelled most of them. I thought I was being slick as I was not receiving any textx back from many of them so I thought I'd book several and take the first one that accepted the booking. That is just what I did and I timely went in and cancelled all of the others as they did not respond anyway. That got me banned from the site as they stated "it wasn't fair to the pros". What about me? None were responding back to me. Is it fair that they don't respond to the clients? All they had to do was decline or answer a goddamn text!. It was fun while it lasted and I won't try to go back to the site anyway. There's better ways to get laid and most of them were overweight anyway.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=BobTailr1;6732829]Well, it was a good run. I am now banned because I booked several cuddles in one day and cancelled most of them. I thought I was being slick as I was not receiving any textx back from many of them so I thought I'd book several and take the first one that accepted the booking. That is just what I did and I timely went in and cancelled all of the others as they did not respond anyway. That got me banned from the site as they stated "it wasn't fair to the pros". What about me? None were responding back to me. Is it fair that they don't respond to the clients? All they had to do was decline or answer a goddamn text!. It was fun while it lasted and I won't try to go back to the site anyway. There's better ways to get laid and most of them were overweight anyway.[/QUOTE]With sites like this, I don't bother trying to build any value into the profile. Since they have policies that allow them to unilaterally "ban" me, why bother trying to build any presence of any enduring value? The email I use to register is just a throwaway alias. I don't bother with adding any description, etc. And I try to get conversations off the site as quickly as possible. I treat it like SA.
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[QUOTE=JoeJoesph;6733296]Thanks for the tip. Lmao.
I've noticed that alot of these girls take at least 24 hours to respond even to texts for some reason. And often very flakey.[/QUOTE]My guess is that it's a sellers market. Girls have way more demand than they have supply of time to fill it. So they can pick and choose. $100 an hour to "cuddle"? Of course everyone is actually looking for sex. But we have to dance around pretending we're not. Hilarious.
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Cuddle guest
I don't know if I would ever have someone come over to my home, but I am curious to those who do. Are you just giving them your address or do you do any kind of safety precautions? I might just be paranoid, but I just feel weird about just giving someone my address from that site or any site with similar services.
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Valid point
[QUOTE=JoeBlow25;6740073]I don't know if I would ever have someone come over to my home, but I am curious to those who do. Are you just giving them your address or do you do any kind of safety precautions? I might just be paranoid, but I just feel weird about just giving someone my address from that site or any site with similar services.[/QUOTE]That's the main reason I never host. It's just better to keep it separate. I will usually use day pass or Airbnb I know it sucks but to me privacy is worth $100 ish. I have brought 3 home but that's after a few sessions and they become regulars. Only have one left now but I really have to trust someone before I let them come over. I'd still ask if they can host just in case. You never know and I've had a few tell me that they will even tho their profile said no.
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Cuddle Guest
[QUOTE=JoeBlow25;6740073]I don't know if I would ever have someone come over to my home, but I am curious to those who do. Are you just giving them your address or do you do any kind of safety precautions? I might just be paranoid, but I just feel weird about just giving someone my address from that site or any site with similar services.[/QUOTE]I always meet at hotels. One good thing though about booking through the site, is they have to provide a real name and bank information so they can pay Cuddle comfort their 15%. Makes me feel a bit better that they had to divulge their real names to someone prior to meeting me. Plus most of the girls are not drugged out sex workers. YMMV.
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[QUOTE=Crisler;6733755]My guess is that it's a sellers market. Girls have way more demand than they have supply of time to fill it. So they can pick and choose. $100 an hour to "cuddle"? Of course everyone is actually looking for sex. But we have to dance around pretending we're not. Hilarious.[/QUOTE]I'd guess some aren't looking for sex at all, but I avoid those. If they have a lot of friends, or a lot of Karma, to me that means they really are cuddlers, not looking to horizontal mambo.
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Horizontal mambo LOL
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6740260]I'd guess some aren't looking for sex at all, but I avoid those. If they have a lot of friends, or a lot of Karma, to me that means they really are cuddlers, not looking to horizontal mambo.[/QUOTE]That last part got me LOL.
True tho. For the most part I think girls are looking to cuddle and the heavy pros have a ton of reviews and the dead give away is their profile. I've had some great just cuddle sessions I ain't mad at. Always looking for more but if it doesn't escalate it's ok. The funny part is I've had girls I've seen and didn't give any extras even tho I tried and I've had buddies that have gotten all the goodies. It happened the other way too where people indicate no extras and I go and my experience is totally different with some great sex. It really depends if you vibe with them and they find you appealing. That's why I always take reviews with a grain of salt unless they are just escorts on the site LOL then it's guarantee haha. But not as fun IMO.
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[QUOTE=SteelyDan33;6740125]That's the main reason I never host. It's just better to keep it separate. I will usually use day pass or Airbnb I know it sucks but to me privacy is worth $100 ish. I have brought 3 home but that's after a few sessions and they become regulars. Only have one left now but I really have to trust someone before I let them come over. I'd still ask if they can host just in case. You never know and I've had a few tell me that they will even tho their profile said no.[/QUOTE]I think the cuddle scene in SD is bigger than it is in my area, OC. However, I need to read something, hence.
Do you have girls who charge extra because they host? I am messaging w / one now, she said:
Price is different from the website because of where I host I have to pay them as well.
I cannot ever host, but I have messaged girls who only have guest or public on their CuddleComfort profile, and asked if they would get a room (that I would cover). I want them to get it so there is no paper trail for me. I allegedly have a session tomorrow morning w / a girl who is getting us a room, but she is skittish, she cancelled on me today.
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Room upcharge
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6740485]I think the cuddle scene in SD is bigger than it is in my area, OC. However, I need to read something, hence.
Do you have girls who charge extra because they host? I am messaging w / one now, she said:
Price is different from the website because of where I host I have to pay them as well.
I cannot ever host, but I have messaged girls who only have guest or public on their CuddleComfort profile, and asked if they would get a room (that I would cover). I want them to get it so there is no paper trail for me. I allegedly have a session tomorrow morning w / a girl who is getting us a room, but she is skittish, she cancelled on me today.[/QUOTE]I think some girls rent out and share like little studios so hence they have to pay so that makes sense. Gives me weird vibes so I've never had a visit with one but as long as it's not insane no it's not unheard of. I forgot the girl or two that told me that but I've for sure seen it.
That sucks she bailed. Hopefully you can reschedule. I'm the one usually getting.
The room. I've never asked a girl but that's not a bad idea haha.
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[QUOTE=SteelyDan33;6740590]I think some girls rent out and share like little studios so hence they have to pay so that makes sense. Gives me weird vibes so I've never had a visit with one but as long as it's not insane no it's not unheard of. I forgot the girl or two that told me that but I've for sure seen it.
That sucks she bailed. Hopefully you can reschedule. I'm the one usually getting.
The room. I've never asked a girl but that's not a bad idea haha.[/QUOTE]Met up w / the girl today. She got the room. She is a thick mixed girl, 27; came to learn she has a bunch of kids. I entered, she was in lingerie (panties / camisole). She suggested I take off my shirt. We cuddled for an hour on the couch, I got my hands on her tits and ass, but that is all. We had a nice conversation, she was relatively intelligent. Fine for a first experience, definitely unlikely to see her again, not sure what I would try w / others. I think that sometimes you may just have chemistry w / a person that makes the difference.
I asked her about the website. We met on CuddleComfort, she likes it OK, they take 15% of bookings through the site. She cancelled ours once we had done a M&G so she kept it all. She says CuddleCompanions takes 40% of the fee. So that amount they require to allow you to communicate to the girl, it goes all to them. I also don't know why they are a. Org.
Several months back I met up w / a POT sugar baby, she also was a little thick, but wow, the chemistry we had face to face was not like many experiences I have had in several years on SA. After we downed our coffee I said let's head to my car (in the parking structure) and we had an impromptu makeout session. I would never have guessed our chemistry was that great from texting and phoning her. If she had been my cuddle girl, obviously there is no way we would have stopped short of banging.
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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6741825] I also don't know why they are a. Org.[/QUOTE]Anyone can sign up for a. Org URL for any website. 4 chan is also. Org LOL.
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Emma143
Set up a session with her a while ago. She's strictly cuddling only and her hosting site isn't the cleanest. She talks a lot and would have been better off staying at home. Her space smelled pretty bad but she is really pretty.
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Anyone of you guys have seen this cute girl? She has 124 karmas, all 5 stars but never find anything about her, eventually she upload pics wearing bikini. Any intel? Feel free to pm me.
[URL]https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/Oxytocin2020[/URL]
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[QUOTE=Brazuca1979;6744310]Anyone of you guys have seen this cute girl? She has 124 karmas, all 5 stars but never find anything about her, eventually she upload pics wearing bikini. Any intel? Feel free to pm me.
[URL]https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/Oxytocin2020[/URL][/QUOTE]The profile makes clear she tours around the country cuddling w / people. To me it seems very very unlikely someone w / this sort of profile does any extras, unless it just happens to be a young guy she is attracted to. Most of us aren't that.