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[QUOTE=Richmond Mas; 1680057]Damn, I feel like a sucker. With escort it is easy. You pay and you get lay most of the time. With this UTR, in my case, didn't get any and paid for the stuff.

You are right, have to be firm. Do for me now and you get the $$ is the new me. You know 3 to 4 bills is no big deal to me, but being a sucker is. Now the fool said don't txt or call her because her BF might find out.

Moving on to the new girl who might be willing to meet or may be I should stay with the escort game. At least you know you get what you pay for. Sshit for 3. 75, I could have got a nice looking spinner for the matter. These UTR girls seems to develop skills to take you out fast.[/QUOTE]I don't understand this at all. She blew you off for 5 days and you STILL paid for her car AND let her have it before she gave up anything to you at all? I would have got 2 visits with her at least over this time frame. Don't blame the ladies. If you let them take you. They will take you! You should have told her that her car was ready but you were not paying the bill until she gave you what you wanted. And if she didn't just walk away from the situation. You should have had her pick you up in your car and then if she didn't give it up just drive her to the repair shop and drop her ass off.

This is the same as paying an escort up front. Sure some of the well reviewed ones are probably safe to give the money up front too, but most of them won't take it up front. Like anyone I got burned by a lady (luckily it was only 50) , but as I watched her tear ass across the hotel parking lot like a junk yard dog was chasing her I vowed never again. Don't ever, EVER give any type lady the $ upfront.

I just returned from a trip to Vegas and a beautiful young 21 year old coed came to see me and she wanted the $ upfront even after I told her 3 times prior to her coming to see me. I told her that wasn't going to happen and she left. She changed her mind and came back and we had an awesome time but I am sure if I had give her the $ upfront she would have at the very least changed the parameters that we agreed on or might have just left.

[QUOTE=Vbgent4u2c; 1680257]I too have had much success in Wallyworld.

First, she obviously didn't give you her number because she is attracted to you or wants to go on a date. She figures that you might be willing to help her out.

So, what I would do is text her and just ask her how she is doing. She will then tell you what her problems (most likely financial) are and then you can offer your help. I would NOT do anything at her trailer. Could be subject to a scam and just way too many prying eyes in trailer parks. Once she accepts your offer to help her I would just straight out ask her what she will do for you. She might very well tell you to f-off at that point. But then again she might not. If she is down, I would then suggest she get a babysitter that you will pay for then pick her up and take her to a notel or other private place. That way you control the time.[/QUOTE]I like this approach. Thanks

I met a young girl off CL about a month ago. She said she was needing some help so what could I do. I have seen this girl 4 times and it gets better ever time. She is Black 23yrs. 5'7" 130 A cup. So if you like a lot of meat she is not for you but I love them this way. So starting off she just needed help, but now she is asking for other kinds of help. She is looking for a teacher to teach her things to use with her boyfriend etc. Each time I see her its. 6 no big deal there but she is wanting to explore sexually. She is into forced oral and me taking control in the bedroom. She loves to put on mascara and then wants to tear up so she can see it run all down her face. She also loves to stuff her throat. She loves her head forced down until she can't breath. I love it, I guess my question to all of you is. Have you experienced this type of behavior before from a girl like this. She told me she has a boyfriend and would like for him to do this stuff to her but he won't do it, (glad I can help her out).

I will see if I can get some photos. And also I am moving in 4 months she might need a teacher after I move if she is looking still I will post again if your interested in teaching PM me and we can try to set something up.

I have a baby here that needs some help. If you like her photos let me know I will pm you her email.

[QUOTE=Vbgent4u2c; 1680257]I too have had much success in Wallyworld.

First, she obviously didn't give you her number because she is attracted to you or wants to go on a date. She figures that you might be willing to help her out.

So, what I would do is text her and just ask her how she is doing. She will then tell you what her problems (most likely financial) are and then you can offer your help. I would NOT do anything at her trailer. Could be subject to a scam and just way too many prying eyes in trailer parks. Once she accepts your offer to help her I would just straight out ask her what she will do for you. She might very well tell you to f-off at that point. But then again she might not. If she is down, I would then suggest she get a babysitter that you will pay for then pick her up and take her to a notel or other private place. That way you control the time.[/QUOTE]Strange thing is that, she will txt back and ask how I am doing so on and so forth. I told her thinking about her, and ask if she needs anything since she is not working now. She said "O no thank you" That's it. This happened twice. I am still txting, but is not going anywhere. Basically, I am running out of things to say.

She got to know what I wanted and she respond indicated she is still interested somewhat. Any psychologist out there can figure this out?

[QUOTE=Richmond Mas; 1682072]Strange thing is that, she will txt back and ask how I am doing so on and so forth. I told her thinking about her, and ask if she needs anything since she is not working now. She said "O no thank you" That's it. This happened twice. I am still txting, but is not going anywhere. Basically, I am running out of things to say.

She got to know what I wanted and she respond indicated she is still interested somewhat. Any psychologist out there can figure this out?[/QUOTE]Don't ask her if she needs help, you're putting her on the spot and she chickens out. Pick her up, make the normal moves as if she is any other girl and help her out in return without her asking. I believe she wants to do the deed but is scared to say the words out of some moral dilemma telling her it isn't right. Some girls will come out and say they need the cash, others are looking to earn it without asking. You must remember different people act differently. Start with just asking when she is coming out to play. And don't mention you're thinking of her all the time, makes you seem clingy, attached, and possibly crazy psycho be / f type. Keep it like you're interested but not infatuated.

[QUOTE=OdedIsHere;1682442]Don't ask her if she needs help, you're putting her on the spot and she chickens out. Pick her up, make the normal moves as if she is any other girl and help her out in return without her asking. I believe she wants to do the deed but is scared to say the words out of some moral dilemma telling her it isn't right. Some girls will come out and say they need the cash, others are looking to earn it without asking. You must remember different people act differently. Start with just asking when she is coming out to play. And don't mention you're thinking of her all the time, makes you seem clingy, attached, and possibly crazy psycho be / f type. Keep it like you're interested but not infatuated.[/QUOTE]I respect Oded's opinion on this but I disagree with his suggestion. Again she gave you her number for a reason and I still say that reason is she needs $ help. I do agree with Oded that she obviously is not ready yet, but she is keeping in touch with you until she is ready or gets in a real jam.

Oded is probably a lot more patient then I am but I would ask her straight up what she needs then tell her I can help her out. If it does scare her away then you probably saved alot of time as she would probably chicken out at some point down the road anyway. This way you cut her loose and find another one ready to go. Be nice to her when you move on as she will still have your number and you might get a text from her in a few days, weeks or even months later when she is ready.

Picking her up and spending more money on her when she hasn't committed to anything will be a good waste of time, $ and fuel.

[QUOTE=Vbgent4u2c; 1682945]I respect Oded's opinion on this but I disagree with his suggestion. Again she gave you her number for a reason and I still say that reason is she needs $ help. I do agree with Oded that she obviously is not ready yet, but she is keeping in touch with you until she is ready or gets in a real jam.

Oded is probably a lot more patient then I am but I would ask her straight up what she needs then tell her I can help her out. If it does scare her away then you probably saved alot of time as she would probably chicken out at some point down the road anyway. This way you cut her loose and find another one ready to go. Be nice to her when you move on as she will still have your number and you might get a text from her in a few days, weeks or even months later when she is ready.

Picking her up and spending more money on her when she hasn't committed to anything will be a good waste of time, $ and fuel.[/QUOTE]Dr phil you could make millions, utr specialist we both know you are my friend enjoy, just sayin Roush

[QUOTE=Vbgent4u2c; 1682945]I respect Oded's opinion on this but I disagree with his suggestion. Again she gave you her number for a reason and I still say that reason is she needs $ help. I do agree with Oded that she obviously is not ready yet, but she is keeping in touch with you until she is ready or gets in a real jam.

Oded is probably a lot more patient then I am but I would ask her straight up what she needs then tell her I can help her out. If it does scare her away then you probably saved alot of time as she would probably chicken out at some point down the road anyway. This way you cut her loose and find another one ready to go. Be nice to her when you move on as she will still have your number and you might get a text from her in a few days, weeks or even months later when she is ready.

Picking her up and spending more money on her when she hasn't committed to anything will be a good waste of time, $ and fuel.[/QUOTE]I have to agree with your advice. I think she wants to, but doesn't know how to approach. Just like I am. When I txted her, if she is not interested, she wouldn't have txted back. I have asked her 3 times from different occasions if she needs anything. Her answers were always no.

She told me she just got a mattress and she just put it on the floor. I told her I can get her a new bed to go along with it. She siad,"oh no, thank you." I didn't know what to say. Hell I can pay $$ and pop a fairly decent hooker, but this utr girls are just tough to deal with.

Told me all these sad story, but when you offer to help she said no. Figure that. I just stay in touch, and hopefully one day she will come around.

[QUOTE=Roush 427;1684116]Dr phil you could make millions, utr specialist we both know you are my friend enjoy, just sayin Roush[/QUOTE]Well, I do have a degree in Sociology! LOL!

How have the MB Adult Video stores been treating you these days Mr. Balls of Steel?

[QUOTE=Richmond Mas; 1684140]I have to agree with your advice. I think she wants to, but doesn't know how to approach. Just like I am. When I txted her, if she is not interested, she wouldn't have txted back. I have asked her 3 times from different occasions if she needs anything. Her answers were always no.

She told me she just got a mattress and she just put it on the floor. I told her I can get her a new bed to go along with it. She siad,"oh no, thank you." I didn't know what to say. Hell I can pay $$ and pop a fairly decent hooker, but this utr girls are just tough to deal with.

Told me all these sad story, but when you offer to help she said no. Figure that. I just stay in touch, and hopefully one day she will come around.[/QUOTE]Move on, but keep in touch with her. Most are not that difficult. She just isn't completely motivated yet. My guess is she will be in touch one day. Until then there are plenty more out there that are much more motivated!

[QUOTE=Vbgent4u2c; 1684210]Well, I do have a degree in Sociology! LOL!

How have the MB Adult Video stores been treating you these days Mr. Balls of Steel?[/QUOTE]It was a degree in pussy hound, LOL the video stores are waiting on you the gals are ready come on down, just sayin Roush

[QUOTE=Vbgent4u2c;1684215]Move on, but keep in touch with her. Most are not that difficult. She just isn't completely motivated yet. My guess is she will be in touch one day. Until then there are plenty more out there that are much more motivated![/QUOTE]I agree. I had this UTR that moved out of the neighborhood months back and I used to ask her if she needed anything. The answer was no. Every now and again she would stop by to pick out a movie for her kids or ask a question. Not too much more. I asked her if she needed anything for her apartment back in December when she moved. She said no so I pretty much moved on but the last thing I said to her was "if you need anything just give me a ring" and left it at that. Low and behold last week she called and asked for $ so she could pay her light bill. I reminded her what I told her a month or so back. She was so happy. I told her I will bring it by when the kids were in school. She didn't mind. I went over early in the AM and waited for the kids to hop the bus. I knocked on the door and she still in the robe. Nipples, nipples, nipples. I gave her the $ but put an extra .5 on top as icing on the cake. She got so excited and gave me hug. I instantly "accidentally" rubbed down and slid my hand across the butt to get a reaction and she started kissing. I was in and had her pretty much all morning. I even called in and said I was handling a family matter. After that day I haven't heard from her since, but before I left I said,"if you need anything just give me a shout".

[QUOTE=OldPapa;1684402]I agree. I had this UTR that moved out of the neighborhood months back and I used to ask her if she needed anything. The answer was no. Every now and again she would stop by to pick out a movie for her kids or ask a question. Not too much more. I asked her if she needed anything for her apartment back in December when she moved. She said no so I pretty much moved on but the last thing I said to her was "if you need anything just give me a ring" and left it at that. Low and behold last week she called and asked for $ so she could pay her light bill. I reminded her what I told her a month or so back. She was so happy. I told her I will bring it by when the kids were in school. She didn't mind. I went over early in the AM and waited for the kids to hop the bus. I knocked on the door and she still in the robe. Nipples, nipples, nipples. I gave her the $ but put an extra .5 on top as icing on the cake. She got so excited and gave me hug. I instantly "accidentally" rubbed down and slid my hand across the butt to get a reaction and she started kissing. I was in and had her pretty much all morning. I even called in and said I was handling a family matter. After that day I haven't heard from her since, but before I left I said,"if you need anything just give me a shout".[/QUOTE]This seems like what I am experiencing. I will txt her tomorrow and leave it at that. Got to move on.

I have another one looking for a daddy or two. Here is a photo if you want contact info pm me.