Practice, Practice, Practice
[QUOTE=TiklPkl; 1380082]So after RTFF. I decided to test my new found skills at H8N today. Went in around lunch time for the day shift.
Not too many girls and the pickings were slim. Only about 4 to 6 working. Had a brunette come up with small bees implant suffering from noassatall. Anorexic really. Her name was diamond, we chatted a bit and then she wants a dance and of course I ask what's on the menu. She wanted $$ and like I was taught here I laughed. No way. So I tried to negotiate from. 6 and. 8 and still no bites so she quickly scrammed. Was about to bail when I saw a younger looking blonde walk in so I waited.
Finally the blonde makes it out gets on the stage, find out her name is Heidi. She was the only one I'd probably want to have FS with from the selection. I tip her while she danced to let her know I was interested and she comes over after her set. We chat a little bit and she asks if I want a dance. I ask it depends on what type of dance it is. She says we can talk in VIP so off we went, paid for the wristband and I picked the corner booth. Ordered FS, wanted $$ I countered with. 8 and wanted $.5 I then said $ and she says she doesn't know anyone there doing it for that. So then I ordered BJ for. 4 and she wanted $.2 and countered with. 6 and still no go. So only thing on menu left was HJ and agreed for. 4 which was below average but she BBJ's for a couple times real quick to get something to work with and it does nothing but frustrate me. Like a tease. She goes back to HJ and by this time I'm playing with the bee's, took the kitty for a litte walk and before you know it, time runs out. No HE! I tried to order carryout but she says she doesn't do that.
I'm new to this board but I'm a long time hobbyist of the SW league and although I've dabbled with the SC league I only played with a couple clubs but never to the level that I've come to learn after RTFF. Had I known all of this was available I would've "turned pro" a lot sooner. I'm looking to play even more now.
Thanks guys[/QUOTE]You admit you're new. I was new here, once-heck, I still am, compared to some members. You did your homework and still got burned, but that happens. But the lesson here is that you need to negotiate BEFORE you go to the VIP. Once you're back there, the balance of power shifts to her. You've already paid the entry fee / bouncer fee / etc, she's got your dick in her hand, and you're starting to think with the wrong head. Sorry, but at that point, it's advantage: dancer.
You have to be patient. If she won't negotiate at your table, be polite but firm and refuse to budge. She'll either agree to your terms, leave and then come back and try again, or leave for good. If she leaves for good, you know you dodged a bullet.
This is not foolproof; I still spend more than I want sometimes. But it takes discipline. Think of it (seriously) like negotiating for anything else: a car, a house, etc. You always want to negotiate on your terms.